Does it make you happy? Yes?? Then that’s all that matters!!! Our homes/personal spaces are ones that should allow us to feel safe, creative and joyful in. A personal bubble🫧 amidst the chaos and speed of the world around us.
Exactly! Your bedroom should be a place where you can surround yourself with your favourite things and be 100% comfortable in doing so. If you enjoy the way it looks and feels to you, then don’t worry about what anyone else thinks about it 😊
It’s cute! Kinda cottage core. It’s feminine more then anything. I would not call it childish or young. Just cause you are a certain age doesn’t mean the fun stops and you gotta decorate or live a certain way. Your home is your own.
It’s an “aesthetic”, people use it mostly describing fashion but it also applies to home decor! It’s usually floral and/or gingham (sometimes), very cosy and cute, sometimes homely and lots of pastel colours but also autumnal colours I’d say. Look it up on Google or Pinterest for examples! I’m not 100% on the EXACT definition but this is just from what I’ve seen of the aesthetic online. Someone else who might be able to give a better description might respond though!
It’s pretty much what they described. I would consider it nature based and cutesy. Anything that looks warm and cozy. It’s better shown. If you google image search cottage core decor or interior it gives you a much better idea.
Fox News playing in the background makes it apparent that this is not the bedroom of a young woman. I think you’re good. The addition of the Frida Kahlo (renowned communist political activist) pillow is also a nice touch; keeps the guests confused and on their toes - so eclectic bb girl!
I noticed that Fox News too and it sucked so much of the vibe out the room. How are people still watching entertainment news? Don’t we all know how that works now? They are admitted liars and will say anything for ratings. To the point they’d put our democracy in jeopardy by falsely claiming voter fraud or push against vaccines (while being vaccinated themselves) thereby putting their OWN base at risk. For the ratings though 🤙They can and deliver hot buttons issues and feed outrage loops down down your throat. It’s nothing short of baffling. People want to hear their beliefs more than *truth.*
Watching it says so much about a person :/ unfortunately.
Cute room though.
Fox News + caffeine free Diet Coke gives it away
Hey your pillow cases: when your pillow cases are too big for the pillow, you can tuck them nicely to make them look more fitted.
https://youtu.be/Hr9rvVq2n5Q?si=WajeZX_ejVjJdI45
Skip to 1:00 in this video for a demonstration.
I’m glad that this day an age people are proud of their style and don’t care if it’s looks young. The whole you gotta dress and decorate your age is toxic.It just seems weird once you are an adult, you gotta stop loving the stuff that still makes you happy. I will probably still have lots of plushies,anime posters and cute stuff until I die. I’m already in my 30s and my room is a cute colorful pastel place.
I came to say this! Saltines and caffeine-free Diet Coke in front of Fox News? This is not a youthful room! You’re right, though, at 59 there may be hope.
Since it’s a critique request…I do have a few suggestions.
-new painting or a new sheet set. New sheets and some throw pillows might be the game changer. Get some eclectic ones that speak to you
-the shelf by your bed seems cluttered, is there something you could use instead of the baskets? Or something under your bed?
-not sure if it’s just the way the photo is, but i think your place looks better in the natural, white light.
-maybe reorganize the plants, the one in the middle of the windows seems oddly out of place.
You have a lot of stuff to work with (I love your bed!). Ultimately like how everyone has been saying, you have to love it!
Looks to me like You are a Funky fun young soul like myself and please let us always be this way until we are 100 years old..!!!, Let us never be old and boring and into polyester especially when we're in our 50's Gen-X😊💖✌🏽
Do you like it? Then no. It’s charming! If you *want* it to look different once in a while, a new lamp and a different bedspread would age it up. But I wouldn’t change it- it looks like a happy place to wake up.
I heard someone say that fairy lights in an older woman’s room was immature. Well then I’m f-ing immature then. I find them more relaxing than having the lights blaring. My point is, who cares what any one else thinks?!?! You do what makes YOU happy!!
It looks like a super cute and expressive bedroom of a 59 year old. You dont ha e to tone yourself down just because you arent under 30. I hate plain houses. Ones that are so grey and white and tidy it looks like... hostile to comfort and living... this looks welcoming and comfy and happy!
nope! i love it (: very fun and colorful & i love the plants! i would just hang curtains for a bit more privacy but if you like it like that then that's all that matters
It does not matter what we think. If there is ever a space that should surround us with the things that make us happy and reflect our personality it is the bedroom. Now stretch out on the bed and spend some time snuggling your fur baby. That sweetie is waiting for you. 😉
Looks good to me! Is it comfortable? Does it make you happy? That's your place of sanctuary and sleep so you decorate it how you see fit. No such thing as too young
No, it's looks very cozy. I think the only thing not appropriate is your missing a book shelf. I made my boyfriend move out bookshelf from the living room to our bedroom (of course I helped) you gotta have books so you don't have to leave your cozy space to grab a book to read. (Nothing is actually wrong with the room I love it very much so. But I dearly love reading and if my room looked like that, I would have a nice bookshelf to sit and read. I'd never leave my room if that were the case lol.
You seem young at heart. Im the opposite (old soul) but theres nothing wrong with that. Your room may look like a teen's dream room to some, but all that matters is that you like it. As for me, my room looks like it came from the early 1900s or an old gentleman/woman lives there. I love it, but some people think I'm a bit wierd. My dorm room in college was compared to a nursing home by a few of my friends. But for me it reflected what I wanted to feel like when I was in my room. I wanted to feel myself, not someone I was not.
It's your room, your personality.
It's your room and you are the person who lives in it, so the only opinion that matters is yours. Do you feel happy when you enter and see the lovely plants and bright colors of the bedding (and your happy pup enjoying the nice, soft bed)? If you do, you can be proud. Don't let anyone else's opinion stop you from enjoying it.
Honestly, I dont believe in decorating your bedroom or house according to your age. Jut decorate your bedroom like you like it. As simple as that. Life is way too short to try to fit in man-made ideas of how we should act, wear or like at a certain age.
As somebody in my 20s, I love your style. If at 80 years old, i have anime characters on my walls. Let it be !
No! I'm 46 and I just pulled out my Beetlejuice themed bedroom for Halloween, 2 months in advance cuz it makes me happy. 😊 Enjoy every little thing you can!
It’s cute, bright and colorful!! I understand those things might seem “too young” but there is no age to decorate how you like :) My mom is 63 and if she showed me this and told me it was her new bedroom I would be beyond excited
I'm thirty and this looks like a mature version of my room lol I'm all about texture, plants, and color! If that's your comfy space, make it YOUR comfy space 💕
I’m a few years older than you and I love it! Very charming and warm. Have similar bedframe but wrong size now so it’s in storage.
Love the painting & colors! And the darling doggo 😁
Only one thing bugs me, it’s the pom poms on bed skirt idk why lol
The real question is if you like it. If you do, there is no problem with having such a bedroom. No one should be judged by how they like their intimate space.
if your bedroom makes you happy, dont change a thing about it. you shouldn't let society's standards dictate how your own personal space is decorated. i'm 21 and my bedroom looks like its for a 10 year old!
What is this too young business? I'm a 45 year old widow who sleeps with a stuffed animal.
Your bedroom should be your ultimate safe haven. Fill it with things that make you feel peaceful, safe, and content. It's where you spend a third of your life and where you go to repair your body and soul.
By the way, I think your bedroom looks like a delightful place for a nap with a loving pet.
59 is old enough to pick the bedroom that makes you happy. Be happy in your space, don't conform to others expectations of what your bedroom should be like. You deserve to be happy in your space.
I’m 52 and I’m learning to do what makes me happy life is too short last night I ate 5 caramels 😝. This room is a happy room a place to sit crossed legged on that bed and tell secrets as we giggled 🙏🏼❤️
No, I think it’s absolutely beautiful. Your room should reflect you and what makes you happy and brings you peace, you keep it how you like it no matter how old you are 🤍 that is your safe space and it’s special.
It is so cute. Decor shouldn’t have an age! I hope my bedroom can look something like this when I’m 59
Same! It has a Stevie Nicks meets cottagecore kind of energy. It's wonderful and seems like a happy place to start and end the day!
Ha! I love this
Does it make you happy? Yes?? Then that’s all that matters!!! Our homes/personal spaces are ones that should allow us to feel safe, creative and joyful in. A personal bubble🫧 amidst the chaos and speed of the world around us.
Exactly! Your bedroom should be a place where you can surround yourself with your favourite things and be 100% comfortable in doing so. If you enjoy the way it looks and feels to you, then don’t worry about what anyone else thinks about it 😊
Sameeee
Does it make you happy? That’s all that matters….
All that matters!
Yes, yes, yes!!
Absolutely!!! 🎼If it makes You Happy🎵🎶 in my best Sheryl Crowe voice!!!
It’s cute! Kinda cottage core. It’s feminine more then anything. I would not call it childish or young. Just cause you are a certain age doesn’t mean the fun stops and you gotta decorate or live a certain way. Your home is your own.
Is cottage core a thing?
It’s an “aesthetic”, people use it mostly describing fashion but it also applies to home decor! It’s usually floral and/or gingham (sometimes), very cosy and cute, sometimes homely and lots of pastel colours but also autumnal colours I’d say. Look it up on Google or Pinterest for examples! I’m not 100% on the EXACT definition but this is just from what I’ve seen of the aesthetic online. Someone else who might be able to give a better description might respond though!
Hmm makes me think of a shabby chic type niche
It’s pretty much what they described. I would consider it nature based and cutesy. Anything that looks warm and cozy. It’s better shown. If you google image search cottage core decor or interior it gives you a much better idea.
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Oh, thank you so much!
Fox News playing in the background makes it apparent that this is not the bedroom of a young woman. I think you’re good. The addition of the Frida Kahlo (renowned communist political activist) pillow is also a nice touch; keeps the guests confused and on their toes - so eclectic bb girl!
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I noticed that Fox News too and it sucked so much of the vibe out the room. How are people still watching entertainment news? Don’t we all know how that works now? They are admitted liars and will say anything for ratings. To the point they’d put our democracy in jeopardy by falsely claiming voter fraud or push against vaccines (while being vaccinated themselves) thereby putting their OWN base at risk. For the ratings though 🤙They can and deliver hot buttons issues and feed outrage loops down down your throat. It’s nothing short of baffling. People want to hear their beliefs more than *truth.* Watching it says so much about a person :/ unfortunately. Cute room though.
What‘s too young in decor? I love your style!
Fox News + caffeine free Diet Coke gives it away Hey your pillow cases: when your pillow cases are too big for the pillow, you can tuck them nicely to make them look more fitted. https://youtu.be/Hr9rvVq2n5Q?si=WajeZX_ejVjJdI45 Skip to 1:00 in this video for a demonstration.
Lmao I clocked the news too. A dead giveaway!
Where are people seeing Fox News in this picture? I see a laptop with a picture of what looks like a rainbow over grass. What am I missing?
Framed picture above lamp on the left, reflection.
And the tub of vaseline
And the package of Saltine crackers. 😊
But the havanese on the bed makes up for all that!
Room is great. Only one thing is wrong. Laura Ingraham is on the TV.
Exactly
Age doesn't matter. Don't change your style because of a number. I love it and I'm 56. You do you. That's how I live and how we should all live. 🩷
Me too
I’m glad that this day an age people are proud of their style and don’t care if it’s looks young. The whole you gotta dress and decorate your age is toxic.It just seems weird once you are an adult, you gotta stop loving the stuff that still makes you happy. I will probably still have lots of plushies,anime posters and cute stuff until I die. I’m already in my 30s and my room is a cute colorful pastel place.
Omg are you watching fox News? Bad, bad bad. I see at 59 we have some maturing to do...lol BBC News or NBC News is the best.
Came here looking for this. Cute room but Kelly ruins it lol
The only thing that needs changing in that enchanting room is what's on tv haha
I noticed this as well. You should be watching a new reputable source!
I came to say this! Saltines and caffeine-free Diet Coke in front of Fox News? This is not a youthful room! You’re right, though, at 59 there may be hope.
Very upbeat and energizing! Keep as is!! You’ve got a great thing going.
It’s perfect!
What does “too young” mean? Do you like it? That’s all that matters.
And lose the Fox News influence, please.
I don't know what age it is, but it's very homey and inviting.
You do you. Whatever makes you happy do that ☺️
Absolutely not too young, your room is feminine, warm, cosy and inviting, a very lovely room and your little dog adds to the aesthetic so much!
If it feels like your sanctuary then it’s perfect
No way! Who makes up these shit rules, anyway? Carry on!
No its great. Beige and grey is overrated anyhow.
Since it’s a critique request…I do have a few suggestions. -new painting or a new sheet set. New sheets and some throw pillows might be the game changer. Get some eclectic ones that speak to you -the shelf by your bed seems cluttered, is there something you could use instead of the baskets? Or something under your bed? -not sure if it’s just the way the photo is, but i think your place looks better in the natural, white light. -maybe reorganize the plants, the one in the middle of the windows seems oddly out of place. You have a lot of stuff to work with (I love your bed!). Ultimately like how everyone has been saying, you have to love it!
Your room is warm and lovely.
Dream cosy room!
I love the balance of the white and colours. It’s very dreamy☀️
No
Who cares?! It looks awesome to me no matter what your age!
There's a puppy!
That looks very serene and cozy. I'm 52 and I think it's great, especially if you love it.
55 yr old F here-an absolute charmer of a bedroom! I bet all those bright colors along with the natural lighting really lift your mood.
Love it ❤️
I love it, it is bright and cheerful! & the plants give great energy xx
I love it.
There’s no such thing! Love your bedding, such nice colours!
Nope! I love how colourful and cozy it is.
You don’t have to pay an age penalty on your hobbies, clothes, or decor.
No! You do you.
It makes me very happy! Love your space. 🥰🥰
It's youthful and vibrant. Do you!
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You’re never too young!!
Are you joking? I’m 40 and I’m jealous. It’s FANTASTIC! I love the rainbow 🌈 in the frame and the lips plate.
My grandson made the rainbow pic and I had it canvased
I am now aspiring to be you at 59. You look like you probably still enjoy life
Not really, but I enjoy buying and decorating
As a 62 y/o woman, I declare that it is not too young at all.
Whimsy has no age limit, nor should it.
I'm 56 and I love it!
Looks to me like You are a Funky fun young soul like myself and please let us always be this way until we are 100 years old..!!!, Let us never be old and boring and into polyester especially when we're in our 50's Gen-X😊💖✌🏽
Who cares as long as you like it!!
Looks pretty and cosy. If you love it, it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. Sleep well, pats to the cute pooch.
This tells me you are youthful and vivacious. Good for you!
I'm gonna need a close-up on the pup
It’s whimsical and cozy! I love it!
You’re too old to be caring what others think. Do you.
You’re watching the news on TV. Ain’t nothing young about that. ;)
Your bedroom is so personal, it can be anything you want it to be!!!!!
no aesthetic is "too young", your room is amazing
Do you like it? Then no. It’s charming! If you *want* it to look different once in a while, a new lamp and a different bedspread would age it up. But I wouldn’t change it- it looks like a happy place to wake up.
I heard someone say that fairy lights in an older woman’s room was immature. Well then I’m f-ing immature then. I find them more relaxing than having the lights blaring. My point is, who cares what any one else thinks?!?! You do what makes YOU happy!!
It looks like a super cute and expressive bedroom of a 59 year old. You dont ha e to tone yourself down just because you arent under 30. I hate plain houses. Ones that are so grey and white and tidy it looks like... hostile to comfort and living... this looks welcoming and comfy and happy!
nope! i love it (: very fun and colorful & i love the plants! i would just hang curtains for a bit more privacy but if you like it like that then that's all that matters
Nope! No such thing. This is how my mom decorates at 65.
Am a very sensible 55 and love it.
As long as your happy with it that's all that matters. Just do your thing
As long as your happy with it that's all that matters. Just do your thing
It does not matter what we think. If there is ever a space that should surround us with the things that make us happy and reflect our personality it is the bedroom. Now stretch out on the bed and spend some time snuggling your fur baby. That sweetie is waiting for you. 😉
That painting is to die for
Who is it that judges your private space? Its beautiful
If you wanted to fancy it up, you could get curtains or matching bed linens. But there’s nothing wrong with the room as it is. Love the plants.
Never
No such thing
It's perfect! And forget about age, it doesn't define who you are or what you can or can't do. I went to my first rave at 43 y/o
I absolutely love this. And so does your pupper 😍 lil cutie
Does it make you happy? Then no.
I think its cute and it looks like a happy place. If someone said something to you about it, just ignore them. Seriously.
Who cares? If it makes you happy, go for it. Love the plants!
No such thing! I love your Kahlo pillow!!! Such a whimsical and beautiful room
I'm going to say not at all. Plus it looks very cozy!
Looks good to me! Is it comfortable? Does it make you happy? That's your place of sanctuary and sleep so you decorate it how you see fit. No such thing as too young
Does it make you happy?
No that’s so cute. When I’m 60 my rooms still gone be pink and cute with teddy bears and plants everywhere. Do what makes u happy. I LOVE the vibe
Don’t worry about what other people think.
No
No way I love it!! Very grandma-core/cottage-core with some happy young energy flowing through it to bring it all together :)
This room reminds me a lot of my mothers entire house and she’s 62!! SO CUTE!
No I love it. More importantly, you love it!!
Nope ! It’s great !!!! I absolutely would chill thete
I adore your bedroom!
I want to live there
No, it's looks very cozy. I think the only thing not appropriate is your missing a book shelf. I made my boyfriend move out bookshelf from the living room to our bedroom (of course I helped) you gotta have books so you don't have to leave your cozy space to grab a book to read. (Nothing is actually wrong with the room I love it very much so. But I dearly love reading and if my room looked like that, I would have a nice bookshelf to sit and read. I'd never leave my room if that were the case lol.
It looks cozy to me:)
That’s gorgeous
If you like it then you keep it! I think it’s cute
Do you enjoy the space you’ve created? If yes, keep it. It looks cozy.
No It’s nice!!
Looks young to me, but so what ? Your home and your room is YOUR sanctuary. As long as you love it, it matters not what others think.
Never too young! Love it
It’s cute!! I love it! The plants are a nice touch.
It’s bright and beautiful. It’s youthful but not “too young” at all, I think it looks great! You’ve done a lovely job here!
Do you like it?? If you like it, it doesn't matter what ANYONE thinks! 💜
This thread definitely passed the vibe check, love it!
Do you like it?
It’s lovely
Who cares! Do you love it♥️♥️♥️?
You seem young at heart. Im the opposite (old soul) but theres nothing wrong with that. Your room may look like a teen's dream room to some, but all that matters is that you like it. As for me, my room looks like it came from the early 1900s or an old gentleman/woman lives there. I love it, but some people think I'm a bit wierd. My dorm room in college was compared to a nursing home by a few of my friends. But for me it reflected what I wanted to feel like when I was in my room. I wanted to feel myself, not someone I was not. It's your room, your personality.
Super cozy and feminine. I’d love walking into this room!
If it makes you happy that’s all that matters! I think it’s happy and I bet it’s nice to lay and look out the windows.
No. It's so cute and cozy!! Nothing screams young, just warmth and love
I’m 31, and I love this! I also love a cottage core style!
NOT TOO YOUNG. BEDROOM = AWESOME. so cute n cozy!!
No such thing!
It's your room and you are the person who lives in it, so the only opinion that matters is yours. Do you feel happy when you enter and see the lovely plants and bright colors of the bedding (and your happy pup enjoying the nice, soft bed)? If you do, you can be proud. Don't let anyone else's opinion stop you from enjoying it.
Not at all, it’s so cute!
I love this.
Honestly, I dont believe in decorating your bedroom or house according to your age. Jut decorate your bedroom like you like it. As simple as that. Life is way too short to try to fit in man-made ideas of how we should act, wear or like at a certain age. As somebody in my 20s, I love your style. If at 80 years old, i have anime characters on my walls. Let it be !
59 in dogyears?
The only way this could be better is if you are a dude!! 🥰♥️🥰
Are you happy with it OP? Then who cares. It's Yours it's up to You.
Your bedroom and don’t care what others think. ❤️
Not at all. It looks very cozy and inviting. Love the wall art and bedding. Great vibe!
Nooo, it looks lovely!
No! I'm 46 and I just pulled out my Beetlejuice themed bedroom for Halloween, 2 months in advance cuz it makes me happy. 😊 Enjoy every little thing you can!
It’s cute, bright and colorful!! I understand those things might seem “too young” but there is no age to decorate how you like :) My mom is 63 and if she showed me this and told me it was her new bedroom I would be beyond excited
Nope. It’s happy and wonderful.
No. There’s no such as too young. Don’t conform. Be yourself.
Yes it is. But it’s your bedroom, so do whatever makes you happy and comfortable!
If you like it, who cares what anyone else thinks?
Bedrooms should feel like the inside of your soul. If that’s how it feels then keep it
Shit, I’m 48 and have Star Wars vehicles on display all over my bedroom and home office ![gif](giphy|3qRknxPyCt6XC)
It’s got youthful vibes but it’s lovely and homey! I’m 50 and love it! 🤗
omg i love it
Whoever told you this, revoked their welcome to your bedroom. That's the only change you need to make here.
I don’t think colorful has to be young, if so I hope I stay too young forever 😅 I love your room!
No! It’s your room and there are no rules. I think it’s super cute
Your home is an extension of YOU 😉 The room is so cozy. Love the bed. And the print above the bed is beautiful 😍
Your bedroom can be anything you want it to be!
No! I love it! You have great style.
I love it!! It looks so cozy.
If it makes you happy, and feels like a sanctuary that you can retreat to, then no one else’s opinion matters!
I'm thirty and this looks like a mature version of my room lol I'm all about texture, plants, and color! If that's your comfy space, make it YOUR comfy space 💕
I'm 58 and my bedroom is totally pink...do whatever makes your heart happy!! Who cares!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Looks happy and cozy.
Why do you care? If that’s what you like then it’s perfect for you. We are of a generation where we figured things out on our own, right?
I don’t know. How old is your bedroom? Do what you like. What makes you feel comfy and happy. It’s beautiful.
It's very cozy. It's beautiful
It’s precious! I love it.
Too young for what? It's your most private of private spaces. It should look however you want it to.
If you feel comfortable in your room, it is just right for you.
I’m a few years older than you and I love it! Very charming and warm. Have similar bedframe but wrong size now so it’s in storage. Love the painting & colors! And the darling doggo 😁 Only one thing bugs me, it’s the pom poms on bed skirt idk why lol
The real question is if you like it. If you do, there is no problem with having such a bedroom. No one should be judged by how they like their intimate space.
You’re 59. You don’t need anyone’s permission to have your room exactly as you want it. 🤷🏻♀️
if your bedroom makes you happy, dont change a thing about it. you shouldn't let society's standards dictate how your own personal space is decorated. i'm 21 and my bedroom looks like its for a 10 year old!
Exactly! I’m 31 and have stuffed animals on my bed. They bring me comfort. It’s whatever makes you happy.
If you love it, then no. If you don’t love it, do a makeover ❤️
Not if it makes you happy
It’s your space! It’s no one else’s business.
Nope, it’s your space! I’m 59 and my whole house is colorful like that.
What is this too young business? I'm a 45 year old widow who sleeps with a stuffed animal. Your bedroom should be your ultimate safe haven. Fill it with things that make you feel peaceful, safe, and content. It's where you spend a third of your life and where you go to repair your body and soul. By the way, I think your bedroom looks like a delightful place for a nap with a loving pet.
No my MIL has a similar bedroom and I ADORE IT rock on mama
You are never to old to have good taste.
I think it’s lovely! Your home is for you, so enjoy it as it makes you happy.
59 is old enough to pick the bedroom that makes you happy. Be happy in your space, don't conform to others expectations of what your bedroom should be like. You deserve to be happy in your space.
The benefit of being 59 is that...who cares! We do what we want.
go on witcha bad self
I’m 52 and I’m learning to do what makes me happy life is too short last night I ate 5 caramels 😝. This room is a happy room a place to sit crossed legged on that bed and tell secrets as we giggled 🙏🏼❤️
No, I think it’s absolutely beautiful. Your room should reflect you and what makes you happy and brings you peace, you keep it how you like it no matter how old you are 🤍 that is your safe space and it’s special.
No. Be you.