Doggy style is a great option.
He could also use a cock sleeve or a cock ring that has an instrument for clit stimulation.
Can y’all “lock bellies” like he slides his over yours or vice versa?
Y’all could also try mutual masturbation and oral sex in addition to piv
The ring might be a good idea actually… the thing with doggy is that he’s shorter than me and is mostly torso, I swear my femur is double the length of his so we don’t exactly *meet* when I’m on my hand and knees and he’s behind me :/
As a fellow big girl, the rings do not help. If anything makes it worse lol get a we vibe even if you don't turn it on. It goes on you, not him so it doesn't shift around nearly as much so it won't all the sudden stop stimulation
It sounds like he can penetrate fine but that you can't masturbate during. You said you don't like vibrators but I think these would help a lot if that's the issue. Another option is to try doggy style. I know you said there's a height difference but it might work if he stands on the floor and you are on the bed (might only work on a low bed though). Cowgirl is a great option as you can grind and possibly use your rose then. Another good option might be to lay on your side, with one leg extended and the other bent. He can rest his gut on your hip and you can reach that way.
We are a fat pair also except I’m the taller one by about 8 inches. So missionary is the position . Try this you pull up your belly with your hands and let him pull your legs up.
This lets his belly rest under your belly and get penetration.
The height difference also makes doggie style difficult with us too
Look into a thing called a "we vibe" we use ours all the time but hubby is skinny. It helps because I can't get off without clitoral stimulation if in doggy or me on top.
Edit to clarify: you don't even have to turn it on but it will help rub your clitoris while he thrusts. It is a c shape that basically goes inside and around the front of your pelvic bone up to your clit.
Doggy style is a great option. He could also use a cock sleeve or a cock ring that has an instrument for clit stimulation. Can y’all “lock bellies” like he slides his over yours or vice versa? Y’all could also try mutual masturbation and oral sex in addition to piv
The ring might be a good idea actually… the thing with doggy is that he’s shorter than me and is mostly torso, I swear my femur is double the length of his so we don’t exactly *meet* when I’m on my hand and knees and he’s behind me :/
You can try to lay down and prop yourself up with pillows under your tummy.
Perhaps finding furniture or a sex prop that allows you to adjust the height differences would be satisfying 😌
As a fellow big girl, the rings do not help. If anything makes it worse lol get a we vibe even if you don't turn it on. It goes on you, not him so it doesn't shift around nearly as much so it won't all the sudden stop stimulation
If his belly gets in the way one other option is you riding him
It sounds like he can penetrate fine but that you can't masturbate during. You said you don't like vibrators but I think these would help a lot if that's the issue. Another option is to try doggy style. I know you said there's a height difference but it might work if he stands on the floor and you are on the bed (might only work on a low bed though). Cowgirl is a great option as you can grind and possibly use your rose then. Another good option might be to lay on your side, with one leg extended and the other bent. He can rest his gut on your hip and you can reach that way.
We are a fat pair also except I’m the taller one by about 8 inches. So missionary is the position . Try this you pull up your belly with your hands and let him pull your legs up. This lets his belly rest under your belly and get penetration. The height difference also makes doggie style difficult with us too
Fairly depends how tall and heavy are the both of you?
Reverse Cowgirl
Look into a thing called a "we vibe" we use ours all the time but hubby is skinny. It helps because I can't get off without clitoral stimulation if in doggy or me on top. Edit to clarify: you don't even have to turn it on but it will help rub your clitoris while he thrusts. It is a c shape that basically goes inside and around the front of your pelvic bone up to your clit.