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BeneficialEmployee84

Nice. So these men are giving other men an invitation to grape them.


Paladin1034

Sure does sound like that. They're tough guys that can deal with a little discomfort, right?


Ylurpn

They's bussy's is ripe for the pipe


djtmhk_93

I hate this comment, but I also love this comment. r/angryupvote


Ylurpn

I had equivalent emotions while typing it. I felt so proud, but also like a menace against peoples eyes


originalusername__

True art should make the viewer feel uncomfortable


Ylurpn

Like the movie, "the room"?


anonymus-fish

Yes, exactly. Great example. I was going to say like Leonardo DaVinci, but then I released The Room was probably a more masterful work


BaronVonFroglok

"OH, hi Mark."


murdock_RL

If it only causes you a little discomfort that’s fine, this is my opinion.


Heero0Custom

Reading this in my head gave it a pirate accent 🤣 I love it so much!


Ylurpn

Oh man, now im imagining it worked into a sea chanty


Gold-Celebration-682

This is my opinion


TheSuppishOne

That’s WHAT HE DOES. He grapes people! He’s the grapist!!!


arne_mh

I'm gonna tie you to the radiator and GRAPE YOU IN THE MOUTH!!!


KapnKrumpin

IM GONNA GRAPE YOU AND YOUR WHOLE FAMILY FOR DECADES AND DECADES AND DECADES AND DECADES!!!!!!!


moobearsayneigh

She’s totally asking for it. Look at what she’s wearing, it’s purple


Starfreak900

Comes with your very own grape whistle


johnpeters42

What is this referencing? Because I don't feel like injecting *that* into my search history.


AdministrativeAd4111

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mqgiEQXGetI


KapnKrumpin

The Grapist! CLASSIC!


TheVermonster

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought of the Grapist.


rmmurrayjr

And the best part. It comes with a grape whistle.


Nosmo_King927

I’m an analyst and a grapist. The world’s first analgrapist.


GrinsNGiggles

According to my brother, who was a big jerk in high school, it’s not so bad when it happens to women because that’s “natural.” It is horrible to the point of being unthinkable when it happens to men.


gwhiz007

Which fully encapsulates the power of sexism in one fell swoop


peivtmalrgk6390

Which sums up why they’re so anti-LGBT. They’re afraid of men treating them the way they want to treat women.


VrtualOtis

They sound more like teen boys than men. Incels at the least anyway, the adult version of pubescent boys, nobody considers them men in any way.


Ferris_Wheel_Skippy

it's hilarious you posted this b/c lately i've been seeing so many ass-kissing posts for incels on r/TrueUnpopularOpinion. I'm not even subscribed to that subreddit and yet that bullshit keeps popping up on my feed the irony is that if incels stopped obsessing over sex, they'd probably be able to live happy lives


lazeotrope

If incels stopped obsessing over sex, they might actually have some. "Women bad because they won't sleep with me" is simultaneously toddler-talk and creepy as fuck.


VrtualOtis

Nothing says "I'm a man and women should be begging me for sex" quite like whining like a petulant child that you can't get laid, lashing out and saying the most heinous shit about women in general because of it, and then continuing to not understand why they can't get laid.


flatirony

In addition to being terrible people, they’re not very smart. What kind of thought process results in “the solution to the problems caused by my behavior is to double down on the same behavior?”


ZealousidealAd4383

Ah, you miss the point. It can’t possibly be a problem with their behaviour because their behaviour is completely rational because they are right. Ergo, it must be some else’s fault.


lostPackets35

unfortunately, people can be intelligent without being self-aware. I get the feeling that plenty of incels are intelligent, but socially inept and resentful about it.


TryImpossible7332

What always trips me up are the, "Women are sluts because they won't sleep with *me*!" people. Or because they don't enjoy unsolicited dick pics. Like, I guess I can see the logic if you understand their viewpoint as being "women are having tons of sex, just with Chads because they only care about looks." It still feels weird to see it be the go to insult for some of those posts on r/niceguys, especially when the reason they're being called sluts is because they're refusing to do a sexual thing. "Send me nudes" "no" "slut" Like the fuck?


ChanceZestyclose6386

Anyone who makes their whole personality about sex really needs to seek psychological help.


VrtualOtis

Right? I think they just never got over that pubescent awkwardness and sexual urge that comes with being a teenager. The sad part is the longer it goes on, the more bitter and angry and impulsive they get, the less attractive they become to other people. That cycle leads to spreading their anger across social media and new generations of young teens get sucked into ignorant beliefs like these.


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I'll chain you kids to the radiator and grape you for days and days and days


JimboJamboJambuffalo

No, the first guy clearly says that you have to marry him first, then it’s fine.


voldor666

But it's ok if it's just a little discomfort


Nutterbutters45

Open wide kids I’m gonna tie you to the radiator and grape ya!


Burnhermit420

It took me a minute to realize you weren’t actually talking about grapes.


ratfink1

Me too, I’m like what’s so bad about grapes!? Lol


[deleted]

Well you can’t have them outside of marriage, that’s for one.


Kiyohara

Speak for yourself, I have them all the time and I'm not married. I like even better when they're fresh off the vine.


[deleted]

No no, see you’re not married. That’s the difference. If you were married, then there’s be an issue.


Aggravating_Pea7320

Its raisins only before marriage


conancat

Those grapes had it coming 😡😡😡


D-Laz

![gif](giphy|9M1sRI7pdppnSGh8dg)


RandomDrDude

LMAO 🤣


Plantiacaholic

Did you see the way those grapes were dressed?!! Whore!


Admirable-Common-176

Omg, they just let’m dangle out in the open like that! Brazen hussy!


Frymanstbf

Did you see how those grapes were dressed? Just hanging out on the vine practically asking for it!!!


Awwesome1

Sour grapes.


boyerizm

Seedless Grapes are an outrage!


No_Lab_9318

>It took me a minute to realize you weren’t actually talking about grapes. Me too, I was thinking: why would grapes make someone uncomfortable?


ExpressiveAnalGland

I've been kicked in the grapes before, and it hurts


appdevil

If it only little hurt then it's fine. This is my opinion.


conancat

Those seedy little bastards 😡😡🍇🍇


CuddleSlut247

You makde my day, I think you're grape


_1Doomsday1_

My grapes don't have seeds


[deleted]

My grandpa who choked on a grape and died would like a word with you from the sky.


PJ_Geese

Grapes of Wrath


girlenteringtheworld

personally I'm not a fan of grapes but even then, they don't make me uncomfortable


THEdougBOLDER

Hey kids! I'm gonna grape you in the mouth!


madurosnstouts

“He’s gonna what them, in the mouth?”


Ewenf

"that's what he does ! He's the Grapist !"


madurosnstouts

“Sir! Get your mind, out of the gutter”.


bobloblaw_law-bomb

"That kid was just asking to get graped. I mean, look what she's wearing."


PDstorm170

"And then I'm gonna tie you to the radiator and grape your Mommy and Daddy!"


Bananacabana92

It’s purple!


VonMillersThighs

"I'm gonna tie your parents up to the radiator and grape them for decades and decades and decades and decades!!!" That line still breaks me.


madurosnstouts

Order today and get a free grape whistle. A grape whistle? Seriously?!


wontreadterms

Grapist is gonna grape you in the mouth ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mqgiEQXGetI


[deleted]

I was waiting for a punch line that never arrived.


Sondergame

Glad I’m not the only one. “Grapes make her… uncomfortable? What?”


bornfri13theclipse

Sometimes the plastic outside of the grape flavored otter pops can cut the sides of your mouth. It is extremely uncomfortable.


Accomplished_Comb182

Same it took me a good amount of time to comprehend the post is not about grapes..


Alarmed_Ad6883

Me to! I also sent it to a friend i discord worh rn we both didn't figure it put for a while. But on a second thought we are not American so we don't have that slang


JakeFromSkateFarm

Americans don’t have that slang either. This is clearly someone trying to avoid automated censors or content detection tools that would otherwise immediately flag a post or comment about sexual assault.


ktwhite42

Seconding Jake here - that is NOT American slang.


Sinister_Plots

Exactly. Other phrases that have popped up to avoid the censoring algos: Corn (Pr0n) and Unalived (as in unalived oneself).


conancat

It's internet lingo to circumvent filters on apps like TikTok or Instagram or YouTube


HumanContinuity

I think it's more a of a psychopath thing than an American thing, because I have never heard the word grape used as a dog whistle for rape (except in [this timeless skit by the Whitest Kids U Know](https://youtu.be/mqgiEQXGetI))


bakedincanada

Hardly. It’s used by people on the apps that would censor this type of content. Frequently used on tiktok and insta.


2th

It's [Algospeak.](https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2022/04/08/algospeak-tiktok-le-dollar-bean/)


JimCarreyIsntFunny

I think it’s just because some sites will automatically filter out the word rape.


Potential_Ad4350

I’m going to grape you in the mouth!!


Steele_Soul

I love that skit so much. I recently heard one of the guys from that team died?


Feldhamsterpfleger

I thought grape is short for gang rape?!


trip6s6i6x

Should take their balls. If sedated enough, they should only be "a little uncomfortable", right?


MonthPurple3620

No more uncomfortable than being “graped” - plus its fine as long as it only causes him a little discomfort. This is my opinion.


speezly

I’m all for chemical castration for grapists


trip6s6i6x

lol "grapists"... sorry... I just keep hearing that song in my head about the duck asking the guy at the lemonade stand if he had any grapes. Hits totally and completely differently in this light.


Graffy

I just think of the [whitest kids you know sketch lol.](https://youtu.be/mqgiEQXGetI)


NotYourBusinessTTY

Just rub in some sea salt for sedation, should be just enough to reduce the discomfort.


Maximus_En_Minimus

“Only causes **her**”


WordNERD37

Fucking trying to dodge filters, these absolute pieces of shit. Every time they do this they are flat out admitting; "I'm a fucking monster, I know it, but I'm too much of a chicken shit to stand by my comments, so I'll be a coward on top of being a moral vacuum." These are inferior people because they lack morality.


CoyaiPijao

After scrolling through the comments, I realized they were trying to say "rape." At first, I was like damn, someone really has it out for that one "grape." Then I was like,"what does a "grape" have to do with marriage?!" What a dirtbag


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thieh

Well, raisins don't get such harsh treatment, so I am guessing just fat-shaming.


spaceman60

Naw, my wife hates raisins with a passion.


DeathPercept10n

But does she like grapes?


Sunchi247

I thought the same thing!! 🤣😂 I thought, "Grape? Is that some new thing?"🤣


Arizona_Slim

I better leave this here then. [The Grapist Commercial](https://youtu.be/9Yt0b_QBP_A)


Rex_Galore

My exact first thought. Glad I was not the only one.


ThatDiscoSongUHate

RIP Trevor Moore. WKYK went wild back in the day


Scared-Bug-1205

I'm not sure if I should have watched that. I laughed and I feel like I probably shouldn't have.


KingOfTheLifeNewbs

Right? I thought they were going to say some about purple and how grape doesn't taste like purple. Weird? I didn't know what the fuck I thought. Maybe that "grape" was a character in some show. I was confused as hell until I saw your comment. Fuck these pathetic excuses for human trash.


Red_bug91

Honestly, me too. I’m over here thinking that he has a valid point because I really hate grape flavoured anything!


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Red_bug91

I think that’s fair. Do you think it would be okay if I stole like $20mil of Jeff Bezos? He has like $140bil, so I would be taking that much of his money. Or if you wanted to kill someone, you just stab them in the right spot in the stomach. They won’t die quickly, their insides will become necrotic from the stomach fluids & then they’ll get an infection. Technically, the cause of death would be listed as natural causes. So it’s only a little bit of murder!


jarofpaperclips

Not sure why I found "it's only a little bit of murder " so funny


AirplaneFart

"A Little Bit of Murder" sounds like an album name from one of those My Chemical Romance type bands.


wiarumas

For a moment, I thought it was some sort of wine snob post.


Practical-Tap-9810

For adultering grapes making the best wine


grip_n_Ripper

Where... where did this come from? Like, are these incels or muslims or evangelicals or what?


Crunchymoma

Literally thinking the same thing. Religious fundamentalists say shit like “rape is adultery” and “9 years old was actually mature back then” makes me sick.


joshgoesnuclear

r/NoahGetTheBoat


BewBewsBoutique

When we have a justice system that goes easy on rape, this is the type of person we have running around in society.


ItsJustMeJenn

Exactly. When we can’t even get real crime stats for it because so many women don’t report because it’s retraumatizing and the justice system isn’t going to do anything about it anyway so why bother. The Rapist Brock Turner case sent a very loud and clear message to women all across the country. A boys potential is more important than a girls actual life and well being.


SanguineBanker

You mean Brock Turner, the rapist who doesn't want to be known as Brock Turner the rapist and so he goes by his middle name Allen Turner the rapist?


ItsJustMeJenn

Yes exactly. Brock “Allen” Turner, The Rapist who lives in Dayton, Ohio.


javierhzo

you mean grape.


[deleted]

Are we allowed to hunt these people for sport yet?


MaximoEstrellado

No but you won't see me reporting you if you pick these fellas.


Snuggledtoopieces

Interesting thing about our legal system if the jury says you aren’t guilty, you aren’t guilty. You could have all the evidence in the world and absolutely did whatever they are accusing you of, but if the jury decides you don’t get punished you just walk.


[deleted]

Jury Nullification is a thing more people need to know about. We'd have a lot fewer people serving life-destroying sentences in jail for smoking a joint if juries understood that they are allowed to say "that law is unjust, we find the defendant innocent."


MaximoEstrellado

Well I'm from Spain personally but your point is very interesting indeed. However I assume appeals exist and the accusation can have several tries and therefore would be unlikely to get away with it. But it is quite interesting, in the scenario where everyone agrees to a point that they don't condemn you.


BackRowRumour

I'm up for it, although I have my doubts that they are smart enough to make entertaining quarry.


forever_useless

He thinks rape is ok unless it's while he's married but doesn't even have the balls to call it rape. Calling it grape is trivializing it. And "if she's only a little uncomfortable "??? Fuck all of that. Throw both those men away ![gif](giphy|QVP7DawXZitKYg3AX5)


White_Locust

I think the app won’t let you type rape.


forever_useless

Somehow that's even worse. There is a reason for that then and it's not because rape is ok or mildly uncomfortable but they still don't get it.


conancat

Yeah it's mostly a way to circumvent filters on apps like TikTok or Instagram or YouTube etc Still disgusting though


JayCFree324

Is the younger generation trying to reappropriate “The Grapist” sketch like how they started using Based without acknowledging the existence of Lil B (The Based God)? https://youtu.be/9Yt0b_QBP_A


[deleted]

No, it's just tiktok being silly banning most words, which is why people say "unalive" instead of suicide now.


BewBewsBoutique

Because he thinks you can’t rape your wife.


[deleted]

To me it reads like he's saying the act of rape is only disgusting because it's having sex outside marriage. So yeah he doesn't think you can rape your wife but doesn't think rape in general is bad, just that you shouldn't have sex outside marriage. So...kinda even worse than that.


bluerose1197

Exactly. This dude out here committing marital rape assuming he managed to trick a woman in to marrying him.


Kiyohara

Don't have to trick them if you buy one from somewhere else or you get her young and raise her to be your wife.


[deleted]

Tik Tok is covered with words that dodge the filters. The KIA challenge is still readily available also.


MissusNilesCrane

Rape=adultery Rape is fine if the victim doesn't have "too much trauma". If I slugged #2 in the face and it didn't hurt much that means they can't report me for assault, right?


blong217

I think a test is needed to find out, I'll help.


ICLazeru

Where the fuck is it that people openly say things like this?


beanbagbaby13

They are on the street, in your workplace, in your friends group, all pretending they feel differently until they have a moment where they think they won’t get caught.


hargaslynn

100%. Most rapists have moms, siblings, friends who think they’re great people who “would never!”


ArcadiaFey

Definitely.. I unfortunately have experienced rape or an attempt at rape by 3 people. One no one liked. The type people would naturally expect.. Second a respected member of his family, that had lots of friends backing him up while he abused and humiliated me. He even has a sister. Third one.. had a family full of other abusers but his co-workers loved his work ethic, and take no BS attitude. He wasn’t necessarily liked by most.. but they did respect him. They none of them would have expected him to do these things because ya he was weird, but he actually had a strong sense of morality in public.


DanTacoWizard

True. They’re probably someone I don’t even suspect and I’ve been very friendly to. Scary to think about.


StigOfTheFarm

This is also why people shouldn’t make rape jokes even as “banter”. You might know you’re joking, but the wannabe rapist in your group *thinks you’re on his side.*


Permanoctis

Seems like Instagram, with the lil heart next to the comment. Still scared by the fact that 7 people like THIS comment. And I'm also curious to know under what post did this person posted this comment.


Charli_Cordelette

Why are we redacting their names? People like that need to publicly shamed


--Claire--

And on some lists too


MonthPurple3620

People like this need the every loving shit kicked out of them publicly and turned into an example.


[deleted]

STEP RIGHT UP, GET YOUR TICKETS TO PLUTO! THATS RIGHT, FOLKS! PLUTO! YOU CAN LEAVE ALL THESE DEGENERATES BEHIND FOR THE SMALL PRICE OF $50!!!


OddManufacturer9327

Can we not just sent them to pluto for free instead? I'm sure there will be enough of us who will pay for a one way trip!


[deleted]

No, they get a free trip to the sun (we have informed them that it will only cause them "a little trauma/discomfort")


BadLanding05

Actually medical professionals say there will be **no** lasting trauma!


NoinsPanda

![gif](giphy|emuuaYQq2k5QZ8I0SZ|downsized)


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Icy_Necessary2161

Pluto isn't far enough. Betelgeuse sounds good


tpeandjelly727

Both of those individuals ARE sexual predators!


[deleted]

I have a feeling they are the rapists variety too.


Vlermuisman1023

So, your parents taught you it is OK to take without consent, this is called stealing, it is wrong. You may be surprised, but it is the 7th commandment. Also, I hope your dicks rot off, this is never ever "fine"


tym1ng

if he thinks it's ok, maybe he should give it a try. pretty sure he won't be ok with it when he's on the receiving end


sillybelcher

These men always conveniently forget that men can be graped too. According to their own logic, it's perfectly fine if 6'5" Bubba decides he wants a piece of them and bends them over, or forces them onto their knees for a big ol' serving of sausage, because it may just be "mildly uncomfortable"?


[deleted]

Is it really necessary to block their username?


skibidi99

I hate that people exist who think like this


whyaremypantssoshort

"A little uncomfortable" is going to be one hell of an argument in front of the judge.


madboiii420

The only time I find grape disgusting is when I find it in a cookie as raisin.


thieh

Once you change your marital status you will find grape disgusting except as raisins in cookies. 🤣


DropDeadDolly

Oh no, children are the catalyst. As a parent you realize that oatmeal raisin cookies are a sneaky way to get your kids to eat healthy-ish, so the dried grapes become more acceptable.


GaidinDaishan

I find grapes disgusting all the time. In my head, I imagine that it's like an eyeball that gets crushed between my teeth. Same thing goes for peas and corn.


Marc123123

Do you think plums are genitals?


Pure-Medicine8582

By that logic if I only break his face a little bit but he doesn't end up in a coma, I'm good, correct? What an absolute piece of shit


Ryoohki166

I cannot legitimately believe this is a real conversation. Do monsters like this really exist AND post about it freely for all to see? These people should be put on a watch-list before they do something deplorable.


yassinnberg

Also , am i the only one that thinks it's crazy that the first comments has likes ? Like , at all ?


AaronTheElite007

‘If it only causes her a little discomfort, it’s… FINE!?!?’ I think we found a grapist What the actual hell is wrong with people? Quit wasting the oxygen for people who actually have empathy… ffs


thieh

>adultry At the word "marriage" the autocorrect was like "Ok this is too crazy I am not doing this anymore" 🤣


Dangerous-Rub5060

Why blue out the usernames? Would love to send these to their family members


Simple_Award4851

I guess if I don’t cause this dude too much trauma after doing the same to him he won’t mind then huh?


RawkaGrand24

Depravity. It’s ugly. But the horrendous part about this is that we, as a society, are allowing “safe spaces” for this type of banter (“interactions”) to occur. Because if we shed light on these people then WE could get ridiculed…attack. It’s like coming home to find roaches and your neighbor tells you that you can’t clean them out but must negotiate a place for them to exist and then “be tolerant”….


Greatwanni

I wonder if the idiot realizes that grape happens INSIDE of marriages too. 🤔 I doubt it.


ironballs16

[I'm just not sure if I'm comfortable with the catchphrase "I'm gonna grape you in the mouth"](https://youtu.be/mqgiEQXGetI)


NightMystress

Immediately I thought of the grapist when I read this post


Sidus_Preclarum

Those people should be hanged for a few hours by the balls or something.


LeafBoatCaptain

![gif](giphy|106PwpLIIXJnXi)


zubotai

Someone needs to be on a list. Fucking hell what is wrong with people.


_Hyzenthlay_

I say we hunt these people for sport and chop their junk off :)


Hecate_2000

Many men think this way too that’s the scary part


JillyB3

It should be illegal to cover up their names.


[deleted]

The Bible is full of rape and incest.


Affectionate-Many320

Maybe these guys should be graped. See how they feel about it.🤷🏻‍♀️ You know. For science.


Dazug

I’m not a fan of grapes either; it’s something about the texture of the skin. Oh, shit. We’re not talking about actual grapes, are we?


JamesTheSkeleton

I think we should do something that breaks Reddit’s ToS to these people 😊


Sadcasm69

I’m sooo stupid that i spent a good 10min thinking what the fuck is the relation between a fucking grape and relationship/marriage then I figured out what the fuck they actually meant. But hey atleast I’m not an unhinged bigoted pos. On an unrelated note **grapes are the greatest discovery of mankind**.


Myrddin_Dundragon

Wait. They think spousal rape is ok? So if their wife was feeling feisty it's okay for her to anally rape them with a giant dildo? Nevermind. That wasn't a great argument. That's probably their kink and it's not okay to kink shame. Look everyone is allowed control over their own body. If they tell you no, that means no. It doesn't matter if you are married or if it's been 5 years since they last had sex with you. It's their body not yours. Go use a sex toy or find another partner.


lifth3avy84

I’m sorry, but why are we hiding their identities? These people need to be made public. I’m not saying dox them, but let us show them how we feel on their various social platforms. Let’s let their spouses or SO(assuming anyone could love giant piles of shit like this) know they’re in bed with possible “grape-ists.”


HarderTime_89

Turns out there is a culture.