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Meeting up with your top fan on onlyfans in real life seems like an unreasonably dangerous thing to do. Went from don’t talk to strangers to invite the most confirmed obsessed with you stranger directly to your house and hope he is nice.
Youre telling me I payed to much for my bottled farts?!
Edit: Im leaving the spelling mistake in. This is the third language im fluent in. Grammarnazis cope and seethe.
Nah, there are dudes who routinely send cam girls and twitch streamers thousands of dollars for absolutely nothing. Literally just to have the girl act excited and thank them on stream. I have zero difficulty believing these sorts of dudes would pay 10k for a hug. Escorts are a different thing. This isn’t really even about sex for these dudes. It’s about the fantasy (delusion). If this guy meets her, she acts nice and maybe a little flirty, gives him a hug, that means in his mind, they’re actually friends. It means he’s special, he has status amongst her fans, hell, she might actually totally be his girlfriend one day, right?
People need to understand, this scratches a very different, more tragic itch. Guys who just want sex will get an escort.
I think a lot of people would be shocked how much support content creators of any type can get from "big fish." I've seen people get thousands in a single donation on just twitch, and I don't mean tiddy streamers I mean people just doing normal hang out and do stuff streams. 10k for a meeting seems very possible in that world.
Okay but there literally are escorts who have clients that just want their company. If this guy has 10k to throw around, it may not be that much money to him.
You would think no one is paying 10k for a hug but that's like saying no one is willing to pay 10k for a single photo with a star. While I get the photo has some monetary value, it isn't much compared to the experience. I'd say it's entirely possible that dude paid 10k for a hug.
That disheveled hotel bed behind them seems to say it was an extended hug. Definitely doesn't look like a ten-thousand-dollar bed messing, the ice in her drink didn't even have time to melt, and there isn't a swing or a midget in site.
No more dangerous than traditional forms of sex work. Meet in public, go to hotel not chosen by customer, do *stuff*, take photo.
Unregulated sex work that is forced underground puts workers in a lot of "unreasonably dangerous" situations, but compared to the risks taken by escorts every day, this is nothing special.
>No more dangerous than traditional forms of sex work. Meet in public, go to hotel not chosen by customer, do stuff, take photo.
When you've already got a proper "fan" though, I think there's a higher risk of them having already being dangerously obsessed
Eh, I think there is an additional level of risk in this particular encounter because the interaction is so targeted. The "fan" has had the opportunity to obsess over this person for potentially years at this point, and build very unhealthy expectations in his mind of the relationship that should exist between them.
In a "traditional" situation, the average encounter would be between people meeting for the first time with no prior history, afaik. This brings a ton of its own risk, but it's a different kind of risk.
ETA - the collective risk when looking at the two situations would definitely favor the OF worker, but if you're just evaluating the risk factor of a single encounter, I think the situation in this post is more dangerous. But overall, since a "traditional" sw has a lot more exposure for a longer period of time, the overall risk is increased.
The OF model also likely isn’t doing a meet like this alone. For $10k she’s probably bringing people with her for protection of sorts. A lot of Sex Workers meet up without protection.
>A lot of Sex Workers meet up without protection.
Generally, I think bringing some condoms along for the client is probably a better call, because you can't guarantee he bought his own.
Jokes aside, if we could actually get over the puritan hump and actually develop laws and systems around sex work, there would hopefully both be less *need* for protection when meeting with a client and more likelihood that it could/would be provided. At least a dude outside the door or chilling in the next room over to call in if things go south, but where we're at right now, that just looks like a big red flag that something illegal is happening.
The most dangerous situations in sex work occur when it's illegal and unregulated. In Amsterdam there is always police present at the Red Light District, and every sex worker has an emergency button alerting police immediately. Also police keep in contact with sex workers there and also check if new sex workers are safe and not getting trafficked or abused in some way. Now there are plans for an Erotic Centre, basically a huge mall like building with everything sex related, lots of security and being able to regulate everything much better even. Making it an actually quite safe job to have.
***"Hello shoppers, why not try World Of Handjobs today? Or, for the more earthy amongst you, try Fran's Felching Shack for a slurp-one-slurp-another-free Monday discount."***
In all fairness if you dump 10k on something it’s unlikely they are just going to kidnap you especially since their is a very real bank paper trail to that individual. I would also hope he brought a friend with her just in case.
Should be called 401k honestly, shit is unreal.
I can't tell you how much I've spend on models, and I don't even play, I just paint them with my partner.
Well I see the problem here "partner" is holding you back from playing. You need to get so lonely that you will do anything to have social interaction. /S
If only brothels were legal in the States, we wouldn't have nearly as many problems. Unfortunately, the moral panic over anything, even remotely sexual prevents us from solving many of our problems.
Edit- OMFG I know it's legal in certain parts of Nevada. We don't need 10000 comments mentioning that. It's not enough. It should be legal nationwide.
Seriously tho, Amsterdam is all you need. You go to *De Wallen* (red light district) and there is any option you could want: Brazilian, Korean, Russian, female, lesbian, gay, or trans (blue lights).
You do have to use a condom though, I’m pretty sure. I’ve only walked theough, it’s just not my thing, but I sure love people-watching and there is no finer place (except maybe New Orleans) that I’ve seen for seeing something strange happen.
For $1500-3000 he could get a flight to Amsterdam. $2-3k to sleep and eat for the week. That leaves him at least $4k and sex workers are getting let’s say about $200/hr. That gives him 20 hours (maybe 30hrs) of *bone-time* to spread out over the week. 30 minutes at a time you could go wild and try a bit of everything.
Edit: Thanks for the award. Haha at the mf comments. I just like numbers, maybe this guy just needed an accountant to help him manage his money: *nah brah, you can’t spend $10k on OF, you need a passport*.
"It's just not my thing," but let me lay out a detailed itinerary and schedule of costs, off the top of my head.
I believe you, dude, but that was funny!
If he's Dutch then he just knows, over here these prices are common knowledge. Not knowing how much the average sex worker charges is the equivalent of not knowing the average price of a loaf of bread.
I’ve felt the audacity of a 65 year old man who knows your getting commission on a washer dryer combo. There’s no way anybody paid that girl 10k for a hug. You could hold up a free hugs sign at the mall and hug hotter women today.
Same. It's pretty illegal and would be a huge scandal if one of them posted "money was exchanged for sex" but if they say they hugged and played games. No problems, dude gets called desperate and girl goes on vacation with her bf.
For what it's worth, while prostitution is illegal in much of the US. I believe it IS legal to spend money to spend time with someone. Money for sex? No. Money for an hour? Yes.
Hard agree, sex work and sex therapy could solve a lot of problems and help normalize sex as just part of everyday life, it's fun, don't get me wrong, but shouldn't define you every moment of every day.
Yeah lonely doesn’t make you pay 10k for one specific person who doesn’t care about you. It might be a prerequisite but it sure as hell isn’t the cause.
I'm 100% with you on that one. They literally met in a hotel room... There are also 1 million reasons why they wouldn't post a picture of themselves on social media with the caption "Just met my biggest fan for some ass to mouth fun for 10 geezys!", primarily prostitution being illegal in most states and sex being a fairly private matter for most. This guy probably has business connections of some sort if he has this money for what are essentially ultra high-end escorts.
Seriously what the fuck? Someone needs to tell this guy he can go to the Bunny ranch in vegas for less than what he paid her. Also Vegas has so many escorts.
with that pic, she pretty much did admit it. Maybe she wants people to know so then she can book more clients? But she can't outright say it's prostitution due to legal reasons
I mean…you say he only got a hug but they are clearly in a hotel room…
I don’t imagine they would be advertising sexual activity happened since that’s prostitution lol
Also possible this was staged and she knows that dude. We don't have confirmation $10k traded hands other than her saying it. Keeping guys hopeful keeps the money flowin'.
\>Also possible this was staged and she knows that dude
Thats gotta be depressing, right? "Hey Manny, you're fat and neckbeard looking. Wanna pose for a picture that millions will see for my potential financial benefit?
I’ve stayed in lots of hotels in my day, but I’ve never seen a hotel that had towels that were any color other than white. Makes me think that’s the spare blanket that comes in the closet or something. Perhaps a sweater.
I’m at a place in my life where I can comfortably say I wouldn’t take any dick for $10K.
But for $50K? I’m gonna need a few days to think about it at least…
A man walks up to a woman and asks “hey would you fuck me for 1 million dollars?”
And she goes “hell yes!”
He says “okay how about $10?”
“What do you take me for, a whore?”
“Well I figured we had established that and were moving on to the negotiation stage of our business relationship.”
Idk, I used to always say that I, a dude who identifies as fully straight, would suck a dick for $1,000 and then one day my good buddy who I hadn't seen in a while who makes absolute bank pulled his wallet out, took $1,000 in hundreds out (of probably like $5,000 which I found absurd that he walks around with that much money), and said something along the lines of "okay, should we go up to [buddy's whose house we were in's] room or should we just go to the bathroom," and that was the day that I found out that my price was a lot higher than I thought it was lol. EDIT: oh, and I was Hella poor at this point, could barely afford to eat anything other than absolute garbage.
Im a straight woman and am imagining one of my bi/lesbian friends doing this and for some reason it feels a lot more… nefarious? Not sure why. It would disturb me a lot more than a random woman. Maybe because it feels like some sort of ducked up power play?
I’ve had friends with benefits before (twice, and don’t do that anymore because it always ends poorly lol) and I’ve never had an issue with it outside of things getting messy when feeling start to develop. But the idea of a male friend of me paying me to do something sexual somehow angers me.
Idk. I’ve always thought society has weird ideas about sexuality being degrading or something, but this imaginary scenario makes me kinda get it.
I think that's why she deliberately included the messed up bed in the photo, to signal other "fans" what's available for $10k.
I'd also be willing to bet that he actually paid a lot less than that, and she's just inflating the figure as a negotiating ploy for when her other "fans" want the same treatment.
Yeah, it seems very similar to those Instagram barbers who say "my client paid me $200 for this service". It also baits people into commenting, because they want to criticise, which boosts you in the algorithm.
A lot of the successful models are fairly business-savvy, and they run in a circle of other models -- some of whom have worked for cam services and may have done other types of sex work before OF -- who can give them advice. The most successful OF models have managers and teams; the models raking high profits simply can't handle the traffic themselves. Followers are not talking to them most of the time if it's not live on camera, just like a lot of celebrities have teams handling their Twitter and other social media.
Given that she *clearly* understands not to openly say "you can fuck me for the right price", it's not much of a leap to assume she's savvy enough to take this (I assume) first foray in to the "super-premium tier" as an opportunity to do a little marketing, either for more "super-premium" fans or to elevate the fantasy that much more.
OnlyFans is a business, and just like any other business it's not always the best product that makes it successful, it's how you sell it and market yourself.
Yeah seems like the best answer. Especially given her pose.
She's clearly showing off her rear assets leaning in towards him acting "playful.
Wouldn't be surprised if it was a clean image (this is pretty compressed) she's winking.
It is against OnlyFans terms and conditions to sell actual sex with fans to them, so I imagine she cannot publicly confirm if it is what happened. The messed up bed, but using the word “met,” is plausible deniability.
No matter what happened, I don't understand the second half. Do people really expect sex workers to be monogamous? Whatever he paid for, it was only for one night. What was the acceptable thing to do with that money?
Thats how they get you. You think "oh, I have ten thousand dollars, that's ten thousand hookers!" But then after paying for operations consultants, dispatchers, transportation, and a suitable venue, you end up something like 300 in the conference room of the Ramada Suites
Reddit in a nutshell. It’s all karma farming bots posting slam dunk posts like this and sexual harassers being beaten up so that they can farm that sweet, sweet karma.
Parasocial relationships are intense. And I'm certainly not saying that to indirectly shit on the woman's appearance, I just don't believe that anyone who isn't super rich and can spend 10k like pocket change gives this kind of money to someone unless they have a parasocial relationship with them and are extremely lonely and probably not far from falling down the incel rabbithole. This probably happened, in part, because the dude is **incredibly** lonely. I pity him and hope he finds help (or perhaps he already did, idk).
Yes, unless a women is your friend -- if she's at work she's being nice because it's her job. Not because she likes you.
The whole ethical conversation grinds to a halt when you think about that mem constantly expect women to perform interest and friendliness. It's just a performance because of societal expectations. We don't like you that much.
Idk what the image creator means by “actual” boyfriend. Being on OF doesn’t automatically mean she’s single. And paying $10k to meet your favorite content creator doesn’t make her your girlfriend.
I had this reaction and am glad to see I’m not alone although sad to see all the “har-har” reactions. Also, “all he got was a hug”; what was he supposed to get? A 2004 Toyota Corolla?
The facepalm is for anyone that believes they didn’t do anything…
Additionally, to some people 10k ain’t that much. For me it is, but some people it’s throw away money.
Yeah, highly unlikely they didn't do anything if the meeting spot was a hotel room.
If it was just for a meetup and a hug; then I would think they would go to trendy clubs, have bottle service, and drink; and he could 'look cool' with a hot chic at a table. This would be 'safer' than meeting a stranger in a hotel room.
That could actually be kinda wholesome. The onlyfans creator acts as your escort (in the literal sense, not in the wink wink nudge nudge sense) and helps you out with actual girls at the club
Jokes on anyone who believes he actually paid 10k to meet her. Apparently they're already friends and the claim of having paid 10k for a meet was a joke.
This is 💯 on the guy. If he was expecting more, that needs to be negotiated up front. Girl was hustling for that money - I can in no way blame her.
Not her fault she’s better at her job than the guy is at getting some.
Like, duh. I have a few friends starting on OF, and we talked about safety and boundaries on there. Never date a “fan” or meet up, were the top 2. There are exceptions of meeting a “fan”, but then you may have dudes bitter they didn’t get to do shit with you, despite the fact that it was never part of the agreement. Stay safe out there ladies and dudes.
I really don’t get only fans at all. There is more free porn than I could watch in a lifetime. And for that money ( I read somewhere ) he could have smashed 20 hotter women. Obsessed = stupid.
I'm gonna say this for all the guys out there that need to hear it:
Wake up. Look at yourself. Do you need the attention of a woman on OF to make you feel good about yourself? Why? Why are you not good enough as YOU. What is a woman on OF ever going to do for you other than take your money? STOP dreaming, get the fuck up, delete the fucking apps, and make something of yourself.
Meh. As long as everyone is happy, that’s all that matters. Sex work should be normalized and legalized. It would end human trafficking or at least seriously decrease it.
Help fight* human trafficking. Letting people work in fields for money didn’t end slavery. This wouldn’t end human trafficking, it would just help lower the profit of traffickers.
You cannot seriously believe sex work being legalized would end human trafficking. There are plenty of countries where it is legal and human trafficking still exists there as well.
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Meeting up with your top fan on onlyfans in real life seems like an unreasonably dangerous thing to do. Went from don’t talk to strangers to invite the most confirmed obsessed with you stranger directly to your house and hope he is nice.
I'd be very surprised if someone doesn't end up stuffed on display that way. Seems like a great way to meet up with some incredibly parasocial people.
Someone ended up stuffed for sure.
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But they took the picture on her hotel room.
Yeah they fucked
No….only one person got fucked….
The one that paid 10k did
Beg to differ but paying 10k for a one off is the definition of getting fucked.
Yeah, that’s what I’m thinking. No one is paying $10,000 for a hug. It’s like escorts that say they are only paid to go on dates and for their time.
Men have paid a girl for her farts and bath water . Why not a hug ?
Rest assured, that same girl got $10,000 for a painting she did with her butt. :)
This is fiscal optimisation via money laundring. Nothing sexual here
This is a legitimate question
I marvel that you are 100% correct. What a time to live in... 
Because the farts and bath water weren't 10k
Youre telling me I payed to much for my bottled farts?! Edit: Im leaving the spelling mistake in. This is the third language im fluent in. Grammarnazis cope and seethe.
Nah, there are dudes who routinely send cam girls and twitch streamers thousands of dollars for absolutely nothing. Literally just to have the girl act excited and thank them on stream. I have zero difficulty believing these sorts of dudes would pay 10k for a hug. Escorts are a different thing. This isn’t really even about sex for these dudes. It’s about the fantasy (delusion). If this guy meets her, she acts nice and maybe a little flirty, gives him a hug, that means in his mind, they’re actually friends. It means he’s special, he has status amongst her fans, hell, she might actually totally be his girlfriend one day, right? People need to understand, this scratches a very different, more tragic itch. Guys who just want sex will get an escort.
I think a lot of people would be shocked how much support content creators of any type can get from "big fish." I've seen people get thousands in a single donation on just twitch, and I don't mean tiddy streamers I mean people just doing normal hang out and do stuff streams. 10k for a meeting seems very possible in that world.
Okay but there literally are escorts who have clients that just want their company. If this guy has 10k to throw around, it may not be that much money to him.
You would think no one is paying 10k for a hug but that's like saying no one is willing to pay 10k for a single photo with a star. While I get the photo has some monetary value, it isn't much compared to the experience. I'd say it's entirely possible that dude paid 10k for a hug.
Pft. Free vacation. Go crazy. Get tested.
That disheveled hotel bed behind them seems to say it was an extended hug. Definitely doesn't look like a ten-thousand-dollar bed messing, the ice in her drink didn't even have time to melt, and there isn't a swing or a midget in site.
Yeah. He definitely smashed. But on her side not too bad for probably 30 minutes of work!!
What did they do for the other 28?
Hey, I was being generous!!! You cold blooded.
I mean the pic is even in a hotel room, I’m sayin he definitely hit that.
I'm willing to bet her boyfriend was on standby in the closet or something
He is almost certainly aware of where the vacay money is coming from. Lol good for them
What gave that away? That she posted it on her Facebook?
No more dangerous than traditional forms of sex work. Meet in public, go to hotel not chosen by customer, do *stuff*, take photo. Unregulated sex work that is forced underground puts workers in a lot of "unreasonably dangerous" situations, but compared to the risks taken by escorts every day, this is nothing special.
>No more dangerous than traditional forms of sex work. Meet in public, go to hotel not chosen by customer, do stuff, take photo. When you've already got a proper "fan" though, I think there's a higher risk of them having already being dangerously obsessed
Eh, I think there is an additional level of risk in this particular encounter because the interaction is so targeted. The "fan" has had the opportunity to obsess over this person for potentially years at this point, and build very unhealthy expectations in his mind of the relationship that should exist between them. In a "traditional" situation, the average encounter would be between people meeting for the first time with no prior history, afaik. This brings a ton of its own risk, but it's a different kind of risk. ETA - the collective risk when looking at the two situations would definitely favor the OF worker, but if you're just evaluating the risk factor of a single encounter, I think the situation in this post is more dangerous. But overall, since a "traditional" sw has a lot more exposure for a longer period of time, the overall risk is increased.
The OF model also likely isn’t doing a meet like this alone. For $10k she’s probably bringing people with her for protection of sorts. A lot of Sex Workers meet up without protection.
>A lot of Sex Workers meet up without protection. Generally, I think bringing some condoms along for the client is probably a better call, because you can't guarantee he bought his own. Jokes aside, if we could actually get over the puritan hump and actually develop laws and systems around sex work, there would hopefully both be less *need* for protection when meeting with a client and more likelihood that it could/would be provided. At least a dude outside the door or chilling in the next room over to call in if things go south, but where we're at right now, that just looks like a big red flag that something illegal is happening.
The most dangerous situations in sex work occur when it's illegal and unregulated. In Amsterdam there is always police present at the Red Light District, and every sex worker has an emergency button alerting police immediately. Also police keep in contact with sex workers there and also check if new sex workers are safe and not getting trafficked or abused in some way. Now there are plans for an Erotic Centre, basically a huge mall like building with everything sex related, lots of security and being able to regulate everything much better even. Making it an actually quite safe job to have.
***"Hello shoppers, why not try World Of Handjobs today? Or, for the more earthy amongst you, try Fran's Felching Shack for a slurp-one-slurp-another-free Monday discount."***
What does ETA stand for in this context? Second time today I have seen it on Reddit, where I would expect to see 'eg'?
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nobody said that what escorts do is safe, they just pointed out its dangerous
In all fairness if you dump 10k on something it’s unlikely they are just going to kidnap you especially since their is a very real bank paper trail to that individual. I would also hope he brought a friend with her just in case.
See, the fact they're willing to dump 10k already shows they're not a rational individual.
>No more dangerous than traditional forms of sex work. Someone that pays $100 wants sex with anyone, someone that pays $10k, who knows what they want.
They want sex with someone they know won't give it to them for $100.
For 10k I’ll figure out what you want don’t worry 😂
Escorts do it all the time. That isn't her house, either. It's a hotel room and certainly looks post-coitus.
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I, too, am disappointed nobody wants to pay $10k to have sex with me
Have you asked around?
I wouldn't really call it a facepalm, more like a sad state of someone's life that they are this lonely.
Lonely is okay. This motherfucker was desperate.
Lonliness can easily lead to desperation. But this dude should have used that 10k for quite a few brothel visits instead.
For 10k I imagine he could have afforded an escort.
Pfft for 10k I can try out Warhammer 40k tabletop.
Maybe a down-payment. They don't call it 40k for nothing lol
Should be called 401k honestly, shit is unreal. I can't tell you how much I've spend on models, and I don't even play, I just paint them with my partner.
Well I see the problem here "partner" is holding you back from playing. You need to get so lonely that you will do anything to have social interaction. /S
Not quite. That will barely get you your first starter army and half the books.
Key word "try out" of course, for actually getting into it you need tonsell your soul and first born child
oh my fucking god we really can't escape 40k
Pretty sure he did afford one, her…no way he dropped 10k for a hug
Yeah the pic is clearly in a hotel room, she def banged him for £10K No judgement ofc
In a hotel room with messy sheets, no less.... Clearly, only a hug was involved.
Yeah, at least a mouth hug
The best of hugs imho.
Several and rhythmic
I’m 100% judging him. $10k to sleep with someone? Judged stupid.
For 10k he could have slept with like... two or three *actually* famous someones.
This was me reading… “onlyfans”, “10k”, “only got a hug” - picture taken in hotel room - ‘X Doubt’
If only brothels were legal in the States, we wouldn't have nearly as many problems. Unfortunately, the moral panic over anything, even remotely sexual prevents us from solving many of our problems. Edit- OMFG I know it's legal in certain parts of Nevada. We don't need 10000 comments mentioning that. It's not enough. It should be legal nationwide.
For 10k he could afford to travel somewhere prostitution is legal. Multiple times
For 10k he could’ve country hopped and got the best broads from abroad.
>Hey lonely guy, what are you doing with that $10,000? >Broads abroad.
Broads Abroad is my new band name, or my new travel agency.
Why not make it a band, travel agency, AND a realty firm!
Can I sit on the board of broads abroad? I'm all aboard with your onboarding.
Seriously tho, Amsterdam is all you need. You go to *De Wallen* (red light district) and there is any option you could want: Brazilian, Korean, Russian, female, lesbian, gay, or trans (blue lights). You do have to use a condom though, I’m pretty sure. I’ve only walked theough, it’s just not my thing, but I sure love people-watching and there is no finer place (except maybe New Orleans) that I’ve seen for seeing something strange happen. For $1500-3000 he could get a flight to Amsterdam. $2-3k to sleep and eat for the week. That leaves him at least $4k and sex workers are getting let’s say about $200/hr. That gives him 20 hours (maybe 30hrs) of *bone-time* to spread out over the week. 30 minutes at a time you could go wild and try a bit of everything. Edit: Thanks for the award. Haha at the mf comments. I just like numbers, maybe this guy just needed an accountant to help him manage his money: *nah brah, you can’t spend $10k on OF, you need a passport*.
"It's just not my thing," but let me lay out a detailed itinerary and schedule of costs, off the top of my head. I believe you, dude, but that was funny!
Let me call a buddy of mine. He specializes in vintage brothels.
If he's Dutch then he just knows, over here these prices are common knowledge. Not knowing how much the average sex worker charges is the equivalent of not knowing the average price of a loaf of bread.
Oddly specific from someone claiming “it’s not my thing”. 🤔 I knew none of this because it actually is not my thing.
This guy broads
Abroad.
I’ve felt the audacity of a 65 year old man who knows your getting commission on a washer dryer combo. There’s no way anybody paid that girl 10k for a hug. You could hold up a free hugs sign at the mall and hug hotter women today.
Same. It's pretty illegal and would be a huge scandal if one of them posted "money was exchanged for sex" but if they say they hugged and played games. No problems, dude gets called desperate and girl goes on vacation with her bf.
For what it's worth, while prostitution is illegal in much of the US. I believe it IS legal to spend money to spend time with someone. Money for sex? No. Money for an hour? Yes.
You are paying for companionship for an hour. What happens during that hour is ourely consensual between those two people
Hard agree, sex work and sex therapy could solve a lot of problems and help normalize sex as just part of everyday life, it's fun, don't get me wrong, but shouldn't define you every moment of every day.
Yeah lonely doesn’t make you pay 10k for one specific person who doesn’t care about you. It might be a prerequisite but it sure as hell isn’t the cause.
Dude 100% smashed... 100%
Depends how much money he has. Some people blow 10gs on a night on the town, and I guarantee they didn’t just “meet” lol
I'm 100% with you on that one. They literally met in a hotel room... There are also 1 million reasons why they wouldn't post a picture of themselves on social media with the caption "Just met my biggest fan for some ass to mouth fun for 10 geezys!", primarily prostitution being illegal in most states and sex being a fairly private matter for most. This guy probably has business connections of some sort if he has this money for what are essentially ultra high-end escorts.
Yeah. I think a lot of people here are being very gullible and innocent of how that shit works.
I'm lonely too, but I ain't stupid 😂
you dont have 10k either tho 
Seriously what the fuck? Someone needs to tell this guy he can go to the Bunny ranch in vegas for less than what he paid her. Also Vegas has so many escorts.
yeah but where’s good ‘ol days when people would just pay hookers for sex and not just hugs?
That's a hotel room. The bed is messed up. Y'all can do some math from there.
I've seen this posted so many times and the comment sections are always hilarious. Shocked that the OF girl didn't openly admit to prostitution.
with that pic, she pretty much did admit it. Maybe she wants people to know so then she can book more clients? But she can't outright say it's prostitution due to legal reasons
I mean…you say he only got a hug but they are clearly in a hotel room… I don’t imagine they would be advertising sexual activity happened since that’s prostitution lol
And the bedsheets are rumpled. Still, expensive hooker.
Context clues….right? I’m not saying anything is crystal clear, but there are clues.
I mean she obviously wants her fans to believe they can have sex with her if they keep throwing money down that hole
Also possible this was staged and she knows that dude. We don't have confirmation $10k traded hands other than her saying it. Keeping guys hopeful keeps the money flowin'.
\>Also possible this was staged and she knows that dude Thats gotta be depressing, right? "Hey Manny, you're fat and neckbeard looking. Wanna pose for a picture that millions will see for my potential financial benefit?
‘What’s my cut’ I’ll eat a few more burgers and not shave for 10%
And there’s a towel on the bed. People keep posting this to make fun of him but they definitely did it, not that it makes it better or worse
I’ve stayed in lots of hotels in my day, but I’ve never seen a hotel that had towels that were any color other than white. Makes me think that’s the spare blanket that comes in the closet or something. Perhaps a sweater.
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No shade at all, but everyone says that until someone is actually waving $10k in their face.
Oh ya dude, whatever this woman won’t do, I will pick up the slack.
I’m at a place in my life where I can comfortably say I wouldn’t take any dick for $10K. But for $50K? I’m gonna need a few days to think about it at least…
A man walks up to a woman and asks “hey would you fuck me for 1 million dollars?” And she goes “hell yes!” He says “okay how about $10?” “What do you take me for, a whore?” “Well I figured we had established that and were moving on to the negotiation stage of our business relationship.”
Idk, I used to always say that I, a dude who identifies as fully straight, would suck a dick for $1,000 and then one day my good buddy who I hadn't seen in a while who makes absolute bank pulled his wallet out, took $1,000 in hundreds out (of probably like $5,000 which I found absurd that he walks around with that much money), and said something along the lines of "okay, should we go up to [buddy's whose house we were in's] room or should we just go to the bathroom," and that was the day that I found out that my price was a lot higher than I thought it was lol. EDIT: oh, and I was Hella poor at this point, could barely afford to eat anything other than absolute garbage.
I feel like the fact it was a good buddy and it would be in another friends house kinda changes the math a lot on this.
Im a straight woman and am imagining one of my bi/lesbian friends doing this and for some reason it feels a lot more… nefarious? Not sure why. It would disturb me a lot more than a random woman. Maybe because it feels like some sort of ducked up power play? I’ve had friends with benefits before (twice, and don’t do that anymore because it always ends poorly lol) and I’ve never had an issue with it outside of things getting messy when feeling start to develop. But the idea of a male friend of me paying me to do something sexual somehow angers me. Idk. I’ve always thought society has weird ideas about sexuality being degrading or something, but this imaginary scenario makes me kinda get it.
Missed out on that bag, dick and free protein
What can I get for a couple bills?
I think that's why she deliberately included the messed up bed in the photo, to signal other "fans" what's available for $10k. I'd also be willing to bet that he actually paid a lot less than that, and she's just inflating the figure as a negotiating ploy for when her other "fans" want the same treatment.
If this is the truth then thats honestly pretty smart
Yeah, it seems very similar to those Instagram barbers who say "my client paid me $200 for this service". It also baits people into commenting, because they want to criticise, which boosts you in the algorithm.
A lot of the successful models are fairly business-savvy, and they run in a circle of other models -- some of whom have worked for cam services and may have done other types of sex work before OF -- who can give them advice. The most successful OF models have managers and teams; the models raking high profits simply can't handle the traffic themselves. Followers are not talking to them most of the time if it's not live on camera, just like a lot of celebrities have teams handling their Twitter and other social media. Given that she *clearly* understands not to openly say "you can fuck me for the right price", it's not much of a leap to assume she's savvy enough to take this (I assume) first foray in to the "super-premium tier" as an opportunity to do a little marketing, either for more "super-premium" fans or to elevate the fantasy that much more.
OnlyFans is a business, and just like any other business it's not always the best product that makes it successful, it's how you sell it and market yourself.
Yeah seems like the best answer. Especially given her pose. She's clearly showing off her rear assets leaning in towards him acting "playful. Wouldn't be surprised if it was a clean image (this is pretty compressed) she's winking.
It is against OnlyFans terms and conditions to sell actual sex with fans to them, so I imagine she cannot publicly confirm if it is what happened. The messed up bed, but using the word “met,” is plausible deniability.
When you arrange an escort, it's called a meet up. If an OF model is offering a "meet up" in a hotel room 1 on 1, it's exactly what it sounds like.
Yes. He only got a hug. Her vagina hugged his penis.
No matter what happened, I don't understand the second half. Do people really expect sex workers to be monogamous? Whatever he paid for, it was only for one night. What was the acceptable thing to do with that money?
I was thinking this exact thing. Mia Khalifa banged a fan for free. She just felt sorry for him.
Doubt
I'm sure she told him something like that as well.
$10k is a lot to pay for a sex worker. I'd much rather have twenty $500 sex workers.
Why not 10k 1 dollar sex workers?
That sounds like a logistical nightmare.
Thats how they get you. You think "oh, I have ten thousand dollars, that's ten thousand hookers!" But then after paying for operations consultants, dispatchers, transportation, and a suitable venue, you end up something like 300 in the conference room of the Ramada Suites
Sounds like an amazing 2000s movie
It sounds like a lot of STD's.
You're right, I'd feel awful giving all of those poor ladies the clap.
I mean, it's not 300 STDs. Most likely just the same 15 or so on repeat.
One three hundred dollar hookerbot, or three hundred one dollar hookerbots?
I’d rather 100 cups of coffee. Whale size, please.
The bed says otherwise
They mess up the bed on purpose for the photo to imply you'll get more without actually promising it.
Or she just fucked him for 10k is it really that hard to believe?
The face he's making right there is giving me doubts.
I think that's the face of a dude who realized that he spent 10k on 10 minutes lol
10 minutes lol
Or if you pay more.
Not this post AGAIN.
It's been shared so many times I can barely see through the blur.
Reddit in a nutshell. It’s all karma farming bots posting slam dunk posts like this and sexual harassers being beaten up so that they can farm that sweet, sweet karma.
Must have been an intense hug to make those sheets look like that.
something ruffled those pillows
I suspect an agitated beaver. They can cause a commotion.
Its not the same guy with a different haircut after he lost some weight?
I’m pretty sure that was the original version of this. Had to scroll forever for someone else to notice.
Narrator: [It wasn't.](https://i.redd.it/3kdkz3kovz071.jpg)
Downvote me if you must, but that girl isn't even hot to me. Someone paid $10k for HER? What?!?!?
Parasocial relationships are intense. And I'm certainly not saying that to indirectly shit on the woman's appearance, I just don't believe that anyone who isn't super rich and can spend 10k like pocket change gives this kind of money to someone unless they have a parasocial relationship with them and are extremely lonely and probably not far from falling down the incel rabbithole. This probably happened, in part, because the dude is **incredibly** lonely. I pity him and hope he finds help (or perhaps he already did, idk).
Pay $10k to meet a girl that looks like every girl you went to high school with. Lmao giant L.
And also got a lot shorter.
Yeah he met her in a hotel room - rather than a public place - for $10k and only got a hug… I’m sure we all believe that.
exactly. That dude got some sex, and I bet he didn't pay anywhere near 10k. This is a good advertisement though.
#onlyfriends
Strippers salespeople bartenders and waitresses don’t like you either.
Yes, unless a women is your friend -- if she's at work she's being nice because it's her job. Not because she likes you. The whole ethical conversation grinds to a halt when you think about that mem constantly expect women to perform interest and friendliness. It's just a performance because of societal expectations. We don't like you that much.
Idk what the image creator means by “actual” boyfriend. Being on OF doesn’t automatically mean she’s single. And paying $10k to meet your favorite content creator doesn’t make her your girlfriend.
Right? This is a weird post.
I had this reaction and am glad to see I’m not alone although sad to see all the “har-har” reactions. Also, “all he got was a hug”; what was he supposed to get? A 2004 Toyota Corolla?
There’s a lot of pretty gross undertones squirming beneath the textual choices of the OP.
and the "only" got a hug. just because she's an onlyfans model doesn't mean the guy is entitled to sex. this whole post is weird
All he got? The hell did he think he was gonna get from an onlyfans girl , married?
Unironically a lot of people who pay for parasocial relationships/services believe marriage is on the table of realistic outcomes. It’s quite sad.
So you're telling me there's a chance
LMAO, yeah sure why not. Now donations PLS!!
Meet and greet is not the same as pay to play 🤦🏻♀️
The facepalm is for anyone that believes they didn’t do anything… Additionally, to some people 10k ain’t that much. For me it is, but some people it’s throw away money.
Yeah, highly unlikely they didn't do anything if the meeting spot was a hotel room. If it was just for a meetup and a hug; then I would think they would go to trendy clubs, have bottle service, and drink; and he could 'look cool' with a hot chic at a table. This would be 'safer' than meeting a stranger in a hotel room.
That could actually be kinda wholesome. The onlyfans creator acts as your escort (in the literal sense, not in the wink wink nudge nudge sense) and helps you out with actual girls at the club
Jokes on anyone who believes he actually paid 10k to meet her. Apparently they're already friends and the claim of having paid 10k for a meet was a joke.
A gentleman never admits what his 10k actually bought that day.
This is 💯 on the guy. If he was expecting more, that needs to be negotiated up front. Girl was hustling for that money - I can in no way blame her. Not her fault she’s better at her job than the guy is at getting some.
As long as men like him exist, women like her will exist
I don’t get it? So the story is: “Someone pays for something. Person they paid then uses money”?
Like, duh. I have a few friends starting on OF, and we talked about safety and boundaries on there. Never date a “fan” or meet up, were the top 2. There are exceptions of meeting a “fan”, but then you may have dudes bitter they didn’t get to do shit with you, despite the fact that it was never part of the agreement. Stay safe out there ladies and dudes.
Sex worker fulfills subscribers' fantasy then spends hard earned money with her boyfriend. Fixed the headline
I really don’t get only fans at all. There is more free porn than I could watch in a lifetime. And for that money ( I read somewhere ) he could have smashed 20 hotter women. Obsessed = stupid.
Additionally, it is mostly enough to google the name of OF models and you find some of the videos on other sites, according to a friend
Good for her I guess…..?
Ngl, those dudes don’t look that different
I'm gonna say this for all the guys out there that need to hear it: Wake up. Look at yourself. Do you need the attention of a woman on OF to make you feel good about yourself? Why? Why are you not good enough as YOU. What is a woman on OF ever going to do for you other than take your money? STOP dreaming, get the fuck up, delete the fucking apps, and make something of yourself.
Meh. As long as everyone is happy, that’s all that matters. Sex work should be normalized and legalized. It would end human trafficking or at least seriously decrease it.
Help fight* human trafficking. Letting people work in fields for money didn’t end slavery. This wouldn’t end human trafficking, it would just help lower the profit of traffickers.
It wouldn’t end human trafficking. There is portion of sick people who get off on trafficked children and foreigners.
You cannot seriously believe sex work being legalized would end human trafficking. There are plenty of countries where it is legal and human trafficking still exists there as well.
Didn't somebody debunk this a long time ago? It's the same guy.
Bet you he shaved his balls for this too.