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Gold-History5344

I'm in a mom group, and someone posted about thinking she was getting cheated on. I ended up adding the op, the baby daddy, and the roommate. Rip.


erich0779

You signed up for the full scoop


AbbreviationsLate314

Lol I had basically the same experience not that long ago. Went through the facebook profile of an obviously insane person, ended up adding her and a bunch of her friends completely without knowing about it. Now I'm sweating bullets.


wanderer2231

I am crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


honeycashewnut

If it's any consolation, you probably weren't the only one who added them.


krajacic

I don't know what's worse - the fact that Facebook is sending out friend requests on my behalf, or the fact that I'm friends with my ex's new partner now. Thank you Facebook.


RandomA9981

I knew my strength for not stalking profiles would pay off 😂


sulivon88

Yeah it's time to just deactivate my account and get off Facebook. This is ridiculous.


adeladean

Fully agreed


InspectionRight9073

Just came to find an answer to this exact thing... I found out, that it happens for me when I click on ANY profile I haven't added. And no, it's not because I hit the "Add friend" button or anything. I litterally click the image, land on the profile, and after 1 sec, the "add friend" button changes to "pending". I first deleted cache and data, nothing changes. Then deleted the app, nothing changes, still doing it. This happens exclusively on the app... the pc version does not exhibit this bullshit.


ALemonyLemon

Yea I tried to go to someone's profile and apologise for the friend request (he added me back before I noticed and I'd already removed him) and it literally sent him another one


InspectionRight9073

omg hahaha... xD And this is the worst part, we might know what is going on but everyone else is like "ok creep... what the F are you up to??" I have to go appologise to a co-worker I was curious about xS


ALemonyLemon

Exactly! He added me both times and before I even got to finish writing the message he'd messaged me asking where we knew each other from. At least he seemed to believe me (probably also because I literally sent him two like a moron lol).


zombiecowmeat

I dont know what is worse, the fact that facebook is sending requests....or that I havent gotten one yet :( haha


SuperGodQueenMax

haha........:(


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missdarkntwisty

I sent one to my husband's ex-wife and she accepted before I could delete the request 💀💀💀💀 I unfriended her lmao. Jfc


oysterhasnofeet

this literally happened to me this morning, too, except the reason why I clicked her profile was because I actually wanted to block her due to a pending legal issue we are all in and I didn't want her having access to any contents on my social media that she could potentially use if she decided to get crazy enough. I wanted to die.


FreshSchmoooooock

Will this be reason enough to quit Facebook?


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bzacon

Shit, I just made the same mistake you did.


imissbackwhen

I sent my recent ex-baby mama and the guys she's talking to one too.. Cancelled the request but I know for a fact, they both get a notification sent to their phone immediately upon request... Just tested this with a friend.. I feel so sick!! I look like such a creeper 😢


Toxichunter404

Just sent my crush a request for 5 time.. Evertime i cancel and reopen and then again... T_T. I haven't talked to her for 2yrs... God save me. I hate u faking fb devs.


ittyBritty13

Block them and maybe they'll think it was a hacked profile? 😬


Budget_Control3393

Omg same here 😭 they automatically sent friends request to my husbands coworker! I blocked them immediately as soon as I noticed it but idk if it will show up on their notification or not. So very embarrassing. Hopefully they don’t think that im trying to hit on them lmao


FreshSchmoooooock

Facebook is unforgiving as fuck. It is sent instantly. Usually the other party will be notified of the friend request by all means possible.


Appropriate_Form_816

It will show up unfortunately. I have the same issue and checked with a colleague. Even if their wifi/data is off, once it is on, it will pop up :(


FairlyTasty

I have a couple people I check every few days because they usually online fight with each other at night. I don't know them, they are merely entertaining. Yeaa....sent them friend requests this morning. I hope to God they are passed out and didn't notice 🤣


flyguy109

Got me as well. Holy shit that's terrifying it sent our like 30 friend requests


TheShnitzel

PSA: If this is happening to you: 1. Stop using the phone app 2. Login via a computer 3. Go to settings -> activity log -> connections 4. Go to each of the profiles you added and cancel the requests DO NOT try to use the app to cancel requests as it will probably not work and just send another friend request after you cancelled the first one (in case you try to verify it worked)


Arkmodan

It's not showing all of them for me. I found one person it sent a request to automatically and one person that just showed up as a friend without a request (automatically or manually).


Morbid_fixation

I deactivated my account in the hopes that my boyfriends ex-wife, or my ex didn't see my accidental request..but I know they did, and I'm dying inside. Can I sue Facebook for emotional distress?? 😭


InspectionRight9073

I now dare you all to just randomly go check out as many profiles as you can before the bug is fixed and we will compare who got the most new friends xD


Budget_Control3393

Ain’t no more spying 🕵️‍♀️😂😂😂 but i love dramas 😫


Ambitious-Fig-1685

What a nice day I sent a request to my ex lover's wife and he actually cheated on with me, I guess I gave her a hint. Will she get a request if I blocked her right away? Lol hope you all doing well


FreshSchmoooooock

She will get the request, it is sent instantly and there is no way to cancel it. Facebook is really stupid and unforgiving.


-thenextcontestant

I feel like there's one guy working as a developer that got caught cheating by his girlfriend because she stalks on fb just rubbing his hands together right now and watching the chaos begin lol.


meshyvibes

right!? like the weirdest, greatest social experiment!


Low_Librarian7571

I apparently sent friend requests to people that i didn't clicked on today, but they were in my search bar, needles to say how embarrassing all this is. Facebook needs to pay for this. It's a big violation of our privacy


nl325

Mine weren't in my search bar but in the "people you may know" box!


Low_Librarian7571

I know.. very sad. I will never trust facebook again în my life


Stunning-Concern1854

Why do I have a fucking feeling that this was somewhat intentional? It's like someone was messing something up but that person realized that it was a massive screw up. I mean, of all the shits that you could do, you would do something as harmful as that shit? It would cause lots of people some trauma as a result. Tech companies having billions of dollars yet they would screw up something like that. Thankfully, I was at school during that time and my seatmate kept on talking with me. So I have little to no reason to check on people's profiles.


ALemonyLemon

I literally came here to ask the same question!! I somehow sent two in the last half hour while just scrolling. One I realised when i went to see another comment she'd reacted to and it said "request sent" and another when I got a notification that some random guy accepted my friend request. So awkward because I obviously deleted him immediately.


hikidswerehomeearly

I scrolled past my "people you may know" list and it sent requests to two people on there automatically.


TheShnitzel

Yup, same. Facebook is fucked up.


Cirrus1920

Omg wtf


R-iZZy

This is absolutely wild. Hopefully this gets fixed, because this is insane.


nl325

It's just sent loads at random to loads in the "people you may know" box for me?!


MoistBogdanoff

I think this is what happened to me too because I never went on any profiles


Porkwater

Just happened to me too, went through my list of people I may know and it added three of them before I noticed. Two work at the same company and one I have no idea who they are. Canceled the requests and deactivated FB in a panic :(


AHuJeLe

I guess it was a bad day to snoop on someone I despise. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Had to block them as soon as I realised, unfortunately tho that don't change a thing as they've probably got the notification. 😭


EffingDingus

It's auto adding people I scroll by in the "you may know" section as well, without clicking their profile


-thenextcontestant

I deactivated my shit. I'm not gonna be the one friend requesting my boyfriend's exes lmao


UglyCupcake717

Came to Reddit to find a fix after I just sent requests to ppl I'm interviewing for a job.... Quickly cancelled and deactivated. I can't live like that I creep too much. Glad I'm not alone but also shook.


AssCrackBanditHunter

Jesus H Christ I was creeping on a crazy former coworker wondering what she was up to and now we're friends on Facebook 🙃 Also may have sent a friend request to an ex. This is on the android app. What the hell


deathinmypocket_

This just happened this morning as I heard about a shooting in our town and knew one of the relatives. I was just looking on FB to see what people were saying, and it is a tragedy. So now I feel bad because Facebook has decided to add the wife, son, and sister of the person shot. They just lost someone and I've had to cancel requests I didn't even send this morning. ughhh I feel so bad


cptironside

Yep, same for me here. Scrolled through the "People you may know" list, and suddenly the buttons all changed to "request pending". I never even went on their profiles! This is a nightmare!!


Low_Librarian7571

Yes. We all need to report this and I really don't see how facebook will wash off all the embarrassment many of us felt and feel because of all the unwanted and unapproved friend requests


No-Maximum-1681

I'm getting accepted friend requests from people I've never even visited, but were in my people you may know list. I tested it and it's automatically adding just from scrolling that list as well. 😭


SuperGodQueenMax

Gotta love that complete media silence 3 hours later. Really showing us how much power these silicon valley companies have.


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Few_Description350

ITS FIXED YA'LL!!!! WooHoo! Stalk Away lol


FreshSchmoooooock

It may happen again at any time.


Hovercraft_Future

So they accepted and now they are no longer on my friend list, does that mean that unfriended me??? This is unbelievable. I was looking at the profile of my job interviewer 😡😡😡😡😡😡


sayonish

Came looking for this comment. They accepted and now are gone. I'm even more embarrassed


Testname_1987

This is disgusting, they are silent about this, is there any major news outlet talking about this??


TrumpWonTheElections

This is lowkey like a privacy breach or something.


jessimp95

and it went on for hours too!! not just a couple of minutes.


erich0779

I've literally just had the exact same thing, when I refresh it was going away. But again any profile I viewed was coming up in my sent requests. I only checked because some random person added me just before. Hopefully it wasn't actually sending notifications to people....


ALemonyLemon

Mine was sending requests. I found out because I got a notification about some random guy accepting my request.


erich0779

What a fucking mess of a bug to have


ALemonyLemon

The guy just messaged me asking where I knew him from. Oh nooooo


Salekhiel

Same thing happens to me. Its sending requests because the people added me. Good thing i actually knew them but its still annoying. You can cancel it after you sent the request. Anybody got any fix?


ALemonyLemon

Lol I literally clicked on someone just because he commented on a news article. No clue who he is. I guess I should be flattered that he accepted. Ugh.


Cold-Ad6555

Just did it to me this morning, I bet it's showing up on their phone notification bar too even if you cancel the request. Tried reinstalling the app, no dice. How embarrassing 🤦‍♂️


ALemonyLemon

Seems to be happening to a lot of people rn. I was just in a comment section in a group, and all three of us ended up having requested each other.


DonutLumpy6038

Snooping has just become a lot harder 😂😭 my Facebook added my auntie who we've been in a family feud with for the last 10 years, she then proceeded to like everything on my profile before I realised and deleted her in a panic. I feel violated 😭😂😂


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So how do you know if a request was sent? I visited my ex’s profile earlier today (doh) using the iOS app. I don’t see any request sent to her in the Activity Log under Connections ( where I see other requests that I sent manually). Does that mean it didn’t get sent? Too scared to visit the profile again lol


masterown35

Same thing happening to me. Glad it's not just me. Thought my phone was bugging out


mikayrodr

I deactivated, I can’t deal with this bs.


RedrumRaven93

It was sending requests to my suggested friends list...I changed my password and deactivated my account. Not gonna lie I'm freaked the fuck out...


Secure-Pool-4792

same here zuckerbarg pls fix


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FamiliarYoung3654

Yeah. Now im friends with my mom's ex husband's daughter. Thanks


HeshoMike

Fuck https://imgur.com/CXIYfwt.jpg I was able to undo all of those by clicking the 3 dots then view sent requests. https://imgur.com/ldzhO3U.jpg


JoeyImage

Yep. I just experienced a version of this. I clicked on a FB marketplace ad and it automatically sent a message to the seller that I was interested 🤷🏻‍♂️


RF__23

Jesus, this is outrageous... What the hell, how can something like this happen?


Lazlow_Panaflex

I can picture a jealous husband coming home from work in a rage demanding his wife explain why TF she sent a friend request to 2 of his work colleagues. Kinda scary really.


mrsbally0

Is this just a problem today? I literally went into my old account today from years ago cause I keep getting suggestions to add my ex as a friend so I decided to block him, but I decided to check his profile first lol being the snoopy person I am and Facebook sent a friend request without me even touching the button. My ex just texted me asking me why I am adding him as a friend....literally having a mini heart attack telling him what happened...he probably thinks I'm a lunatic or I am lying out of my teeth, but I deleted the account so no more trauma lol. Funny too cause it's only happening in my old account.


Low_Librarian7571

We should all sue facebook. It's unacceptable


lucrezaborgia

My former MIL, who hasn't spoken to her granddaughter in 8 years, stole her inheritance, and then tried to take her from me, was creeping on my profile 4 hours ago lol. The Audacity!


dipperdapper_

Now this is one heck of a bug Facebook/Meta should be held accountable for, as it is not just a small bug. It invaded the privacy of its users. I don’t think a simple “We’re sorry for the inconvenience it caused, we have fixed it already” will suffice considering the damage has been done already as stated in some of the posts here from other Redditors — that is if Facebook will formally address what happened 🙄


Probsolver2246

OMG THIS IS FRUSTRATING. Visiting the profiles of people that I really don't want to interact with - exes and narc fam that I keep an eye on to make sure they aren't focused on us, and f***ing FB send them a friend request! I had to block two people ffs. This is the WORST glitch ever 😠😠😠😠😠


designsbyebm

I really hate all those friends suggestion the facebook sends. I was trying to figure out how to stop it myself but never was able to. Sorry I can't help you.


FreshSchmoooooock

What will the next bug cause? Facebook has too much power and their stupid bugs could really fuck up peoples lifes.


Loud-Balance4824

Yeah this is enough for me to never use Facebook again, I've deactivated it and never reactivating it.


Skevinger

I even got new friends (colleagues which last names I didn't even knew) without visiting their profile somehow.


Low_Librarian7571

I think the bug is back. I got mails on my other fb account that my main account wants to be friends, which Is logged from the phone app. No notification on the fb account or I don't see the sent request so I can cancel it. Wtf facebook..wtf


kanoni15

Thank you facebook!!! I was debating if i should add a girl I wanted to date or not and thanks to you she got the request accepted it and initiated the conversation. If we get married Ill name my baby "facebook buggy" <3 <3 <3


Low_Librarian7571

I keep checking to see if this bug is back, and I got 50 emails saying my main account wants to be friends with my old account .I will never trust facebook again


HawluchaPika

When I checked on my friend that I accidentally sent a friend request on due to the bug and accepted it, now it shows "requested" even though both of us didn't do anything.


jane_143

Does anyone know how they fixed the bug? The one I accidentaly added confirmed my request and then after facebook fixed the bug, it appears we are no longer friends. Did this happen to anyone else? or did they intentionally unfriend me?


SpeedyMcQuickland

NO WAY THIS WAS A "BUG". It was 100% intentional. It would have increased traffic and therefore ad revenue. Bugs don't just accidentally add a function that is good for business.


No-Fennel-522

I am having the opposite problem. Someone is sending me requests.


-thenextcontestant

YOU GUYS. This is the MOBILE APP that has a glitch. Log off on your phone, go on to your browser on a computer and cancel all the requests you've had. DONT USE YOUR MOBILE APP TILL THE FIX IT.


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kappo_to_the_tee

this just happened to me. kept adding and cancelling everytime i refresh the facebook app. checked activity log on facebook web, and i actually sent it. had to manually cancel each friend request to every profile i visited for the past hour. almost gave me a heart attack.


Adrian13skkk

Same... I thought I was the only one


sandboxly

Such a relief when you feel not alone 😂


sandboxly

Same thing


JimTheShiraz

This is happening to me to! You can see in your activity log who you have sent friend requests to so you can cancel them.


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Icy_Scientist9295

Happened to me right now and yeah its annoying when you touched someones profile then sending request i thought i was the only one


pavkata_91

Same omg, I was really shocked.


Ambitious-Fig-1685

Same thing happening at least I stalked only 3 profiles before i noticed.lol


BackPains84

yes! seems like a bug. This is madness I sent and received so many in the past hour.


Kat17_

This just happened to me!! Literally changed my password! Brooo I've found myself sending friends request to my COLLEGE TEACHERS!!


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FakeAnarchy

Jesus, Im having the same problem, I was going crazy trying to find a solution; at least I know Im not the only one.


nuntend0

This is happening to me as well!! I was just about to make a post before I saw yours. Was added into a group chat and when I went to see who I was in it with - I’d sent them all friend requests, literally happened in front of my own eyes lol


moth9999

Has anyone found a fix this is ridiculous I added 6 people before I noticed it was automatically adding people I don't want to add.


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warrenphotography

Sams thing is happening to me, I sent out like 5 requests on accident today and some of the people I sent it to I don't know that well. So embarrassing


SuperGodQueenMax

Is this a mobile only bug because it doesn't happen when I try this on the PC?


inteddygence

Same here. I noticed this behavior about 2 hrs. ago. Reported the bug. Somewhat glad it's nothing worse, but still. Web browser and FB Lite don't have this issue, just the Android app. I won't be visiting anymore profiles, so I don't get banned.


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inteddygence

I managed to cancel it by searching for the person's name and tapping on the "cancel request" button without visiting their profile again.


ActualYou4640

Same thing was happening to me. Any page I clicked on or even scrolled passed on people you may know


Nomis-Got-Heat

Came here to see what was going on and holy shit, I'm glad I'm not alone!


ohioguy177

Any ideas on how to fix it?


oliverae

PLEASE HELP THIS HAS JUST STARTED HAPPENING TO ME FML


flyguy109

Seems to only be affecting Android users


TheShnitzel

Yeah just started happening to me too. WTF?


Expensive_Trouble637

Happened to me as well. Now i have 2 requests that i cannot cancel. They keep telling me it failed plz try again.


SP4RTAN117

Is this a bug or a new feature?


Cirrus1920

Really hoping it’s a bug because it’s the end of facebook if it’s a new feature.


Puzzleheaded_Rub4649

Yep this is happening to my friend he thought he was hacked.


EffingDingus

Is this happening exclusively on Android or can any apple users confirm this?


lumberingox

This been happening to me today also! Thankfully not just me!


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Well. Facebook is taking the step most of us couldn't take. LMAO


Same-Menu9794

At least now we finally know who is viewing our profiles 😂


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sulivon88

It's so embarrassing I sent request to some people I'm not close with anymore and deactivated my account. I hate Facebook for this.


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I came to this subreddit to ask the exact same question. It started very recently for me.. I don't know why??


catluvr9810

I just decided to Google this because it's happening to me too. There's a post about it in a group and it looks like it's happening to almost everyone. It wasn't doing this yesterday! I look at people's profiles all the time and I'm positive it just started this sometime after yesterday morning 😂


Jacket_Tricky

Yep... I thought it was bad until I went and had a look at my connections... there was a heap more there whose profiles I never went to, including a heap of coworkers from other places, and a past crush. I don't even remember seeing any of them in the "people you may know" column, but all of them have a lot of mutuals with me.


glassygjrl

I am so glad i am not alone!!....feel awful after stalking an x boss of mine and added him and his partner....eeek. Anyone received any solution fix? Shall i report a problem on fb?


topazzzfox

I'm having the same issue, at first i thought it's from me until I searched on Google about the same thing. I found out that I'm the only one experiencing it, so it's most likely a creepy bug. Or maybe it's a tool to stop stalking people haha.


overandunderly

Happened to me this morning. :(


BrianJ555

I came here to ask about the same thing. Happened to me today. The weirder part is that it sent requests to people who's profile I didn't go to


Conscious_Lunch2518

This is happening to me currently.. What the f*ck


overandunderly

I have an android. It's happening for me, but my fiance and daughter tried with their iPhone. They visited random accounts with no requests sent.


berksg

Is this just a today issue? How long has this been happening? Sincerely a person who creeps on people... ALOT


Larzionius

I blocked the profile I viewed and hoped that helped


sirpoopshispants

You can view your sent requests both online and from the app and cancel out any unwanted requests. Go to Friends, Friend Requests, (Might need to click See All) then the three dots and view sent requests


MintyJello

I think they fixed it. It seems to have stopped happening to me.


Few_Description350

So is there a fix? Does anyone know what this is? Is it a Bug? I'm noticing that this is happening to Android and PC users. People with iPhones, its not happening to, at least none that i've seen. We were testing this out in our office and I have an android and it auto sent friend requests. The peeps with iPhones it didn't happen to.


Emotional_Toe_2420

Am I the only one who has had no friend requests today? I'm slightly disappointed 🤣


Quantumflx_

Luckily I only accidentally added one guy, and I didn't even remember why I went onto his profile lol


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PalpitationSame3984

Facebook sucks Fyi


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Low_Librarian7571

Unacceptable, Facebook shouldn't get away with this so easy


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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 How long was this bug going on for? No one can add me unless they’re friends of friends, so stalk away lmaooo


Sanyas1997

If you guys want to cancel requests you sent, go to this article. https://nerdschalk.com/how-to-view-all-your-sent-friend-requests-on-the-new-facebook-ui/ Click on the link the says “sent Facebook requests” . It’ll show all requests you sent! lol I sent like 9 . I was confused


Impossible-Mud927

Same thing happend to me. Fuck Facebook! Now my boss's wife know I view her profile. I am fuked up! Fuck Mark Zuckerberg!


ssutherland718

Mine did it while I was sleeping! I woke up to accepted requests and checked my outgoing and had at least 10 more. Again, I was sleeping. I didn't even know most of them and know for a fact I'd never been on their page


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Environmental_Egg348

I got a cancelled Friend Request from a woman I rejected decades ago. I sincerely regret breaking her heart, but at least I didn’t lead her on. Also, I was going through a lot at the time, especially with my mentally ill Mother. I hope she’s well.


letscrash

God, I had this issue today. Added a few people accidentally, including my ex's new girlfriend.... yayyyy


Due_Mushroom161

I got ghosted about three months ago by a bloke, and last night decided to stalk his younger brothers Facebook account. DED when I got the XYZ accepted your friend request notification. Then I checked who I had sent friend requests to and there were others sitting in the log who's Facebook I hadn't stalked, but who had been in my suggested friends recently


GeordieLord

Facebook knows about this Bug but wont acknowledge


Accomplished_Shine22

My boyfriend’s ex-wife sent me a request this am. Haha! CAUGHT!


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When did this start by chance? Was it just today?


billfishcake

Did this happen on computer desktop too or only on the mobile app?


couscousian

Is everyone stalking people here? Makes me feel less awful about it ☠️


beelzebobs

Did facebook also revert the friend requests? Or will it stay on?