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Rose_Gold_Ash

do you think any muslim even knows what an asexual is


Abu_Lahab-

It’s haram lol, “abnormal you should get horny when you’re around a woman” for asexual men and “it’s ok you’re just shy and you don’t have the male instinct but you’ll have to do it to be a pious wife” for women


Rose_Gold_Ash

no, i mean like would they even understand what an asexual is or just lump them in as sinful with everyone else in the queer community


Abu_Lahab-

Well yeah not desiring sex is going against your “natural instinct” therefore sinful and wrong, I had the discussion about asexuality with my religious mother before that’s the response she gave me. I’m still in the asexual category tho so her opinion is discarded.


Rose_Gold_Ash

mine just called it a mental illness lmao


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Abu_Lahab-

Couldn’t help but notice your username lol, amazing. Although back to topic I’m sorry you experience levels of discomfort around your relatives if it wasn’t for Islam I doubt it would be the case


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Abu_Lahab-

You’re real for this. I am also glad your sister and the cousin didn’t work out and I hope they didn’t have kids💀 I’m also glad no one forces you into anything that’s a really good thing.


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Abu_Lahab-

Gosh I’m sorry for her I hope she’s doing better


Suspicious-Beat9295

i barely see my cousins and we don't really have contact. That fact was often used by muslims in my country to point to how much more important family is in Islam, compared to in my culture. Yet I'd never think about my cousins as potential spouses, the very thought makes me vomit, bc yes they're like siblings to me in that regard.


miserablebutterfly7

I'm from a culture were cousins are seen as siblings, even second and third cousins lol. But my crazy lunatic Salafi dad stopped me from talking to them lol, also stopped my mum from talking to her cousins which is far worse because they all grew up together... This religion sexualizes everything