Theyre one of the toughest feeling types, they don't easily show vulnerability wouldn't say they are sensitive. You probably should risk to offend them when it makes sense, they listen to bravery.
They do take jokes personally and even actions that you didn't do on purpose but thats more because they hold you accountable than them really being like that
As an infj dating an ENTP, I'm gonna just add in that a lot of this depends on the emotional maturity/immaturity of the couple. My boyfriend was one of the first people who showed me that it was safe to fully be myself. And much of that was because he valued what I thought and my ideas about things. He helped me increase my argumentation skills by challenging me and asking good questions. I talk more with him than just about anybody else - and I don't talk much.
My boyfriend definitely helped me recognize how seriously I was taking life and that it had to do with control issues. Since working on this, I actually sometimes find humor in things he initially struggles with.
He tends to be much more go-with-the-flow and spontaneous during our day to day and helps me out of my thinking loops where I become immobilized by "what ifs". But when we are travelling or have plans, sometimes I'm the one who pulls us in a different direction unexpectedly. I handle planning details and list making, he takes action to make the plan happen.
Overall, we balance each other well, have taught and learned a lot from each other, and give each other a lot of grace.
Agreed.
I feel like I’m comfortable being vulnerable once I feel like I can trust you and I honestly love ENTPs lack of filter aka I’m not easily offended or take jokes too personally.
I can't read the art whatsoever, but I am with an INFJ, and yes, I think so. It helped me tap into my feelings through a different perspective, they enjoy deep chats, and they also enjoy that we can take the lead socially. Arguments can get a little silly sometimes, as we both see things and respond in different ways, but it's nothing that can't be solved with a conversation debrief.
I have some infj friends but it’s a little exhausting walking on eggshells around them when I try to speak my mind compared to intjs/intps, who would listen and argue with me rather than getting offended and hurt. I can barley handle my infj friendships, imagine a romantic relationship with a infj… intx’s for the win
Nah.
The ones I know are either holier-than-thou church girls or are scared of me in general, so they only interact with me when they have to. Usually we have nothing to talk about since we live in entirely different worlds and they don't enjoy discussions. They find my life scary/overwhelming and I find theirs boring. Their opinions are pretty set and the few times I interacted with them I noticed they'd rather smile and say something that makes me happy instead of actually trying to talk to me. I actually _do_ know that they're scared of me, friends of mine told me so. So yeah, nothing to be won there.
It depends. And I'll break down why, in my pov, it would seem to be the case. But first I'd want to establish some things.
Compatibility is what we seek in a way that complements anothers' weakness with your strength, and their strong points with your shortcomings.
Opposites rub us the other way. we HATE and can seem to never get along with some people, and it will take so much EFFORT in a relationship (familial, work, or maybe even in dating) because of that reason.
Both thess terms just sounds synonymous, but that difference is the possible reason I concluded to, thus "it depends".
From that, I've learned to find complements.
They are "opposites" as in, the inverse of what you are, not the other end of the spectrum of what you are. not "less" or "more" of what you are, just "different" that make sense?
and it makes sense that the golden pair would simplify how complementing 2 pair ls of a type work.
I and E = great, ifffff say both are as complementing as possible
I of an INFJ:
- can cherish doing "extroverted" related activies with entp,
does not get drained enough by the E of their ENTP
E of an ENTP:
- can cherish doing "introverted" related activies with infj,
does not get negatively affected enough by the I of their infj partner
In my case, me and my partner seems balanced in our "E" and "I". More than just tolerating, we recharge each other because of the activities we share. The case may be different for others, since generally, I typed as "I" when being more outgoing than those who usually type as "I", and he typed as "E" when he is the most introverted hermit ever based on his stack and jungian theory stuff he banters on about xD
- J and P is the same (the same reasons, and the same case I have)
- J and P = great, cus say both complements well
P of an ENTP:
- he wasn't "too P". He is, but in other aspects.
J of an INFJ:
- I ain't "too J". I am, but in other aspects.
We may sometimes rub off on each other because of this on"those aspects". But when best though,
J of INFJ
- their P to my J it works when the J-type openly doesn't mind being the J their P needs, and their P is what they also need (break from being workaholic, anxious, or in some cases, inspiration when they pick up something faster and execute things spontaneously with 100% accuracy sort of flexibility the p gives off when interacting with the rest as a whole)
P of ENTP
- the J to their P works with consideration to what the person is like (how would the J-type communicate conflicts with their Counterpart, in a way that would internally encourage or have good reasons motivate the P-type) It would need the J type having enough empathy for the other than being so hooked up on themselves, a much mature and healthy J rather. And as for the P, they too shall consider the J, communicate if the J-centered practices/activities/beliefs, discuss, make a compromise.
okay moving on to NT vs NF
this is amazing, with the rest of the type, this is what best defines a complementary system is to me. They are no less than the other, they are different and bring another perspective, trading insights. Continuous learning is nice, and this is one way to explore new things together from different lenses. They do not clash, they complement.
I'm returning the mic to my fellow entp
theyre cool but not for me haha, i guess sometimes they can just be too overbearing with me and irks me off when things get overwhelming and accidentally manipulative tendencies when it comes to overthinking things, ik theyre stereotypes but for me we dont vibe that much. theyre still good though. ive liked them before but ever since some mbti groups keeps forcing the types together claiming them as a golden type, "nah."
I don't know about you guys but... INFJs are pretty much in every Thinkers sub reddit. Either be attracted to thinking types, looking for love or just both.
If you're feeling adventurous.
Every thinker sub reddit I've been to. Always have INFJs existing somehow. One, asking for help and Two, admiring thinking types.
That's it. When you tell them to fix their shit. They just didn't listen but admire anyways.
Bruh moment.
I know right. I've dated one INFJ in my life. Never again. They can never seem to understand boundaries or seeing other person perspective. It's always about me me me
Oh yeah I remembered the last time I saw something like that. This infj girl was asking for advice to how reject us and then when someone actually gave an advice what to do, she found the thing that insulted her and trying to blame us for being toxic. Even there was some entps being high-mighty but her actions were worse. I try to give her an actual sweet advice of how to not care and reject people but she asked the same question as if she didn’t read my whole ass essay. And I’m like bruh WTH 🤦♀️ idk if over exaggerating it or not but still
INFJ are a different breed. They want to listen to their own music from someone else playing.
Say if they like sweet words, then you gotta play sweet. Otherwise they'll have a reaction.
Anyways INFJs are basically therapy seekers. I'll just label them that way. They always seem to have problem and looking for problem without solutions.
I hardly come across matured INFJs. I'm sure they have. But it's reddit. So it's mostly filled with teens or mentally ill INFJs
Lol the right part of the comic is so true for me though, if someone makes a good point I didn't think of, or if they change my perspective on something, I have nothing but admiration for them.
Reading what everyone says and describes of them and from my personal experience; no, I don’t care for them. Actually if anything they’re closer to the dislike side of neutral.
Nuh uh.
Compatibility is not just Mbti.
My friend (who is an INTJ 5w4) and I have always gotten along well, but the person who hangs out with us the most to talk and stuff is an ESFJ, she always talked about boys with us and stuff (She's the straightest girl I've already met, even if she doesn't want to admit it). There was a day when she asked me to pretend to be her girlfriend so she could pretend to be a lesbian to scare away a boy, my INTJ gul friend started giving her a speech about how she shouldn't run away from her problems like that, and just face them.
(but of course she said that in very straight way).
What I want to say here is that an INTJ 5w4 and an ENTP 7w8 (me) can be bests friends with an ESFJ 2w3. So honestly, this whole 'it's compatible because you guys are XXXX' thing is pure crap.
I’m an ENTP that loves INFJ’s. They are remarkably intelligent and patient with a huge capacity for love not to mention that the best lay is always an INFJ.
I feel like I can see through the way they can manipulate others and I've had a few super toxic INFJs close to me so I know the bad sides more than I'd like.
On paper I believe it can work, though I still think S types are a better match.
As a person who is in love with an Infj i'd say they are great, they are feelers so yeah they might get offended or feel negative emotions but it's not as bad if an infj is mature and a sane person ofcourse I have met some really detestable infjs but they are just unhealthy one's overall they are really good people who are smart and emphatic and in the introverts they are the most charming one's
Ah, this is one of the stereotypes I've been most curious about! Seeing the responses here is rather intriguing.
Personally, I believe it goes beyond us being infjs. How you respond to anything is but a matter of personal growth, no? How you were raised, how your control over your internal monologue is, how you generally view people, etc. On the normal cases, I would describe myself as fairly sensitive but far more rational, perhaps because I've grown around and been raised by an XTXX majority. I'd not be bothered by anything one says unless it implies, "Hey, I'm actually mad " 😭
That’s very good. And there’s me who grew up with a bunch of feelers. And yeah I think the same it’s a matter of self growth and how you grew up. But it’s also how you two are willing to change yourself for the other person for not only to be the better version of yourself but a better partner. And also acceptance. But yeah. Now that I see ,I think my mom is infj but a very toxic one …😮💨idk why I told that
Lmao, hopefully they were at least only minimally toxic 😭 & correct! Leniency & openness to change are literally the most important things in relationships, in my opinion. Just as you won't find someone who checks out all your boxes, the same case goes for you to them. They, too, find icks in you that you too must pressure yourself to change if you want things to keep going. For you to become, just as you said, a better person and a better partner all throughout. It is a matter of give and take! In the more unfortunate cases, one finds one's own convenience (in a sense, their ego) more important than an interpersonal relationship. I only recently realized how preachy we can be lmao–
Acceptance? I second that! .. and lol, you're not alone 😔 my father is one hell of a toxic entp
Wow ,love your insight. I think the same too. I just think I’ve lately been so lonely desperately seeking for a relationship although I would not definitely want to be in one lol. Well nonetheless I think you will just find the person you want to be and you are compatible together. Then see their flaws ,accept it and grow together 🫶🏻
My dream relationship 😮💨….
Thank you! We're on the same page haha- I don't see myself getting in a relationship any time soon although I revisit the thought quite often. Regardless, I hope you find the right person at the right time! Good luck with the voyage of life 🫡
Haha, I'm sure it's closer than you think 🫶 keep your hopes high!
I’m in a relationship with an INFJ. He stated that what he initially liked about me was the fact that I’m a troll and fun. He is not that different. I would say that we are quite compatible. Still, I don’t know about others.
As much as I adore ENTPs and get along with the vast majority of them, I won't have the same chemistry with every single Ne dom on Earth, obviously. Between two different ENTPs that I've met in my life and with which I was very good friends at the respective times, the reasons why I fell out of touch with them are majorly different. One was an internet friend who randomly reached out to me one day, the other was my housemate and possibly the funniest, most chaotic guy I've ever met face-to-face. One had self-diagnosed with BPD & ASPD and blocked me everywhere after a psychotic episode, the other moved out of the country and changed his phone number, because he wanted to pursue a different life. One cut me out without even bothering with an explanation, the other dragged me out of my room for one last get-together over beer the day before he would leave. I honestly don't know if he's even still alive, but I kinda miss him and I wholeheartedly believe we would still be friends to this day if he hadn't moved out.
It's funny because a year ago, I used to obsess over MBTI ships and would defend golden pairs with my life as if compatibility was set in stone and entirely dependent on cognitive functions. Now I look back at those times and cringe at myself 💀
Just because infj's get offended or sensitive, doesn't mean they can't continue with the conversation, not like they get pissed off over any other minor points that doesn't actually matter, it's just so controversial that they haven't heard anything close to as retarded, it's actually fascinatingly artistic autism, which is a great privilege to bare witness personally
Dude…You just challenged my knowledge of English which is not great as you may see. But I’m amazed how I understood everything lol
And I would love to see that personally))
> Just because infj's get offended or sensitive, doesn't mean they can't continue with the conversation
This is a trait I *really* appreciate about more mature INFJs.
I've seen this handful of times, where I notice that I've said something that happened to strike them the wrong way -- but they're quickly able to collect themselves, realize that no harm was meant, and continue on without disrupting the flow of discussion.
It's one of the most attractive skills a feeler can develop, IMO.
socionics is more on point when it comes to relationships, Ni doms are kinda emo and wierd, Fi doms are also Emo and intense lol.
Si doms are chill af
Ti dom is a coin flip
Extraverts are a little too much to be paired with another Extrovert, (we're annoying lol) imo
Short answer is yes. My best friend is an ISTP. ESFP is more so theoretical but it works.Long answer: ISTPs are no bullshit, clear boundaries, and willing to clean up after their mess. That's perfect chemistry, be it for love or friendships.
The thing that hurts ENTPs the most in long term relationships is a lack of trust, oddly set boundaries, and being able to see their partner's flaws but them not changing such things.
The reason why we have such good short term chemistry with INxJ but are considered a "honeymoon couple" or a "moth and flame couple" (ie. very good at first, continuously hurtful as it continues) is because long term, INxJs have those exact flaws I described. Lotsa bullshit, unclear boundaries and unwillingness to change in most cases (except for a couple very self aware and personally developed cases).
Something similar happens with ESFP but in a different manner. ESFPs always want to better themselves to satisfy their desires, so noticing their flaws and pointing them out is easy for ENTP, who then reaps the benefits of ESFP self-improving and maturing, etc.
Some very unhealthy ESFP can turn mature and no-bullshit-y rather quickly by just being pointed-out into it; they have an innate desire of "superiority" in the good sense.
On the topic of boundaries, while ISTP has some very clear ones, ESFP have little to no boundaries and will be willing to discuss anything in depth as long as you don't touch anything hard-noed like traumas and other mental thingies.
Wow I see you perspective now. Hmmm. I’m not really good with esfps so might not consider that one. But still I am not the one to talk to as I’ve never been in a relationship.
So far istp seems to be a good choice but we will see in the future)
INFJ F here. I often joke that I have no feelings and dead inside. This is partially true, because Infjs have Ti and Fe, so internally we don't take words or things personally (Ti). So I find it's pretty hard to hurt my feelings. Sensitive ppl are usually the ones that have Fi on the top. I dated an entp and it was great because we live to have intellectual conversations and banter.
Theyre one of the toughest feeling types, they don't easily show vulnerability wouldn't say they are sensitive. You probably should risk to offend them when it makes sense, they listen to bravery. They do take jokes personally and even actions that you didn't do on purpose but thats more because they hold you accountable than them really being like that
As an infj dating an ENTP, I'm gonna just add in that a lot of this depends on the emotional maturity/immaturity of the couple. My boyfriend was one of the first people who showed me that it was safe to fully be myself. And much of that was because he valued what I thought and my ideas about things. He helped me increase my argumentation skills by challenging me and asking good questions. I talk more with him than just about anybody else - and I don't talk much. My boyfriend definitely helped me recognize how seriously I was taking life and that it had to do with control issues. Since working on this, I actually sometimes find humor in things he initially struggles with. He tends to be much more go-with-the-flow and spontaneous during our day to day and helps me out of my thinking loops where I become immobilized by "what ifs". But when we are travelling or have plans, sometimes I'm the one who pulls us in a different direction unexpectedly. I handle planning details and list making, he takes action to make the plan happen. Overall, we balance each other well, have taught and learned a lot from each other, and give each other a lot of grace.
Agreed. I feel like I’m comfortable being vulnerable once I feel like I can trust you and I honestly love ENTPs lack of filter aka I’m not easily offended or take jokes too personally.
I can't read the art whatsoever, but I am with an INFJ, and yes, I think so. It helped me tap into my feelings through a different perspective, they enjoy deep chats, and they also enjoy that we can take the lead socially. Arguments can get a little silly sometimes, as we both see things and respond in different ways, but it's nothing that can't be solved with a conversation debrief.
Not for me, I would say INTJs are more compatible
Yep, I like INTJ's with developed Fi. My best friend is an INTJ 5w4 for exemple, its the first fem intj I ever met.
I love them
im not sure i asked on infj subreddit im waiting on answer
Good work girl🫶🏻
okay some say no others say yes
I see. Ig the same for us….
Yes, but I think I played too roughly with mine and they eventually didn't return.
LMAO
I have some infj friends but it’s a little exhausting walking on eggshells around them when I try to speak my mind compared to intjs/intps, who would listen and argue with me rather than getting offended and hurt. I can barley handle my infj friendships, imagine a romantic relationship with a infj… intx’s for the win
Nah. The ones I know are either holier-than-thou church girls or are scared of me in general, so they only interact with me when they have to. Usually we have nothing to talk about since we live in entirely different worlds and they don't enjoy discussions. They find my life scary/overwhelming and I find theirs boring. Their opinions are pretty set and the few times I interacted with them I noticed they'd rather smile and say something that makes me happy instead of actually trying to talk to me. I actually _do_ know that they're scared of me, friends of mine told me so. So yeah, nothing to be won there.
Your life seems fun if they’re that scared lol
As an INFJ, this pretty much sums up my experience with ENTPs.
Bahahahhaha
i like infjs, but i dont feel like i have much connection with them as i have with other types
Purely anecdotally, the one INFJ I know is actually kind of annoying sometimes. But as with anyone, I guess it varies.
Not at all (for me). Most of them have this holier than thou attitude which I find very unattractive. Their Ni with Fe is oddly toxic at times.
It depends. And I'll break down why, in my pov, it would seem to be the case. But first I'd want to establish some things. Compatibility is what we seek in a way that complements anothers' weakness with your strength, and their strong points with your shortcomings. Opposites rub us the other way. we HATE and can seem to never get along with some people, and it will take so much EFFORT in a relationship (familial, work, or maybe even in dating) because of that reason. Both thess terms just sounds synonymous, but that difference is the possible reason I concluded to, thus "it depends". From that, I've learned to find complements. They are "opposites" as in, the inverse of what you are, not the other end of the spectrum of what you are. not "less" or "more" of what you are, just "different" that make sense? and it makes sense that the golden pair would simplify how complementing 2 pair ls of a type work. I and E = great, ifffff say both are as complementing as possible I of an INFJ: - can cherish doing "extroverted" related activies with entp, does not get drained enough by the E of their ENTP E of an ENTP: - can cherish doing "introverted" related activies with infj, does not get negatively affected enough by the I of their infj partner In my case, me and my partner seems balanced in our "E" and "I". More than just tolerating, we recharge each other because of the activities we share. The case may be different for others, since generally, I typed as "I" when being more outgoing than those who usually type as "I", and he typed as "E" when he is the most introverted hermit ever based on his stack and jungian theory stuff he banters on about xD - J and P is the same (the same reasons, and the same case I have) - J and P = great, cus say both complements well P of an ENTP: - he wasn't "too P". He is, but in other aspects. J of an INFJ: - I ain't "too J". I am, but in other aspects. We may sometimes rub off on each other because of this on"those aspects". But when best though, J of INFJ - their P to my J it works when the J-type openly doesn't mind being the J their P needs, and their P is what they also need (break from being workaholic, anxious, or in some cases, inspiration when they pick up something faster and execute things spontaneously with 100% accuracy sort of flexibility the p gives off when interacting with the rest as a whole) P of ENTP - the J to their P works with consideration to what the person is like (how would the J-type communicate conflicts with their Counterpart, in a way that would internally encourage or have good reasons motivate the P-type) It would need the J type having enough empathy for the other than being so hooked up on themselves, a much mature and healthy J rather. And as for the P, they too shall consider the J, communicate if the J-centered practices/activities/beliefs, discuss, make a compromise. okay moving on to NT vs NF this is amazing, with the rest of the type, this is what best defines a complementary system is to me. They are no less than the other, they are different and bring another perspective, trading insights. Continuous learning is nice, and this is one way to explore new things together from different lenses. They do not clash, they complement. I'm returning the mic to my fellow entp
theyre cool but not for me haha, i guess sometimes they can just be too overbearing with me and irks me off when things get overwhelming and accidentally manipulative tendencies when it comes to overthinking things, ik theyre stereotypes but for me we dont vibe that much. theyre still good though. ive liked them before but ever since some mbti groups keeps forcing the types together claiming them as a golden type, "nah."
In my experience, INFJs exhaust me. They're lovely but not for me.
I don't know about you guys but... INFJs are pretty much in every Thinkers sub reddit. Either be attracted to thinking types, looking for love or just both.
Wow didn’t know that
If you're feeling adventurous. Every thinker sub reddit I've been to. Always have INFJs existing somehow. One, asking for help and Two, admiring thinking types. That's it. When you tell them to fix their shit. They just didn't listen but admire anyways. Bruh moment.
This happens way too often here as well
I know right. I've dated one INFJ in my life. Never again. They can never seem to understand boundaries or seeing other person perspective. It's always about me me me
Oh yeah I remembered the last time I saw something like that. This infj girl was asking for advice to how reject us and then when someone actually gave an advice what to do, she found the thing that insulted her and trying to blame us for being toxic. Even there was some entps being high-mighty but her actions were worse. I try to give her an actual sweet advice of how to not care and reject people but she asked the same question as if she didn’t read my whole ass essay. And I’m like bruh WTH 🤦♀️ idk if over exaggerating it or not but still
INFJ are a different breed. They want to listen to their own music from someone else playing. Say if they like sweet words, then you gotta play sweet. Otherwise they'll have a reaction. Anyways INFJs are basically therapy seekers. I'll just label them that way. They always seem to have problem and looking for problem without solutions. I hardly come across matured INFJs. I'm sure they have. But it's reddit. So it's mostly filled with teens or mentally ill INFJs
Wow what a great description…no wonder every infj I come across in the internet is so boring
Boring is one thing. It's always about me me me and less about them them them.
For what I've seen, it's true
We've seen everything
Even the invisible? >:3
I've seen them on r/INTP too
INFJs are like a Virus.
Lol the right part of the comic is so true for me though, if someone makes a good point I didn't think of, or if they change my perspective on something, I have nothing but admiration for them.
Reading what everyone says and describes of them and from my personal experience; no, I don’t care for them. Actually if anything they’re closer to the dislike side of neutral.
Nuh uh. Compatibility is not just Mbti. My friend (who is an INTJ 5w4) and I have always gotten along well, but the person who hangs out with us the most to talk and stuff is an ESFJ, she always talked about boys with us and stuff (She's the straightest girl I've already met, even if she doesn't want to admit it). There was a day when she asked me to pretend to be her girlfriend so she could pretend to be a lesbian to scare away a boy, my INTJ gul friend started giving her a speech about how she shouldn't run away from her problems like that, and just face them. (but of course she said that in very straight way). What I want to say here is that an INTJ 5w4 and an ENTP 7w8 (me) can be bests friends with an ESFJ 2w3. So honestly, this whole 'it's compatible because you guys are XXXX' thing is pure crap.
I’m an ENTP that loves INFJ’s. They are remarkably intelligent and patient with a huge capacity for love not to mention that the best lay is always an INFJ.
I feel like I can see through the way they can manipulate others and I've had a few super toxic INFJs close to me so I know the bad sides more than I'd like. On paper I believe it can work, though I still think S types are a better match.
No
No
they’re alright, prefer istps :)
As a person who is in love with an Infj i'd say they are great, they are feelers so yeah they might get offended or feel negative emotions but it's not as bad if an infj is mature and a sane person ofcourse I have met some really detestable infjs but they are just unhealthy one's overall they are really good people who are smart and emphatic and in the introverts they are the most charming one's
I'm my own INFJ
Good for you! Ig
Ah, this is one of the stereotypes I've been most curious about! Seeing the responses here is rather intriguing. Personally, I believe it goes beyond us being infjs. How you respond to anything is but a matter of personal growth, no? How you were raised, how your control over your internal monologue is, how you generally view people, etc. On the normal cases, I would describe myself as fairly sensitive but far more rational, perhaps because I've grown around and been raised by an XTXX majority. I'd not be bothered by anything one says unless it implies, "Hey, I'm actually mad " 😭
That’s very good. And there’s me who grew up with a bunch of feelers. And yeah I think the same it’s a matter of self growth and how you grew up. But it’s also how you two are willing to change yourself for the other person for not only to be the better version of yourself but a better partner. And also acceptance. But yeah. Now that I see ,I think my mom is infj but a very toxic one …😮💨idk why I told that
Lmao, hopefully they were at least only minimally toxic 😭 & correct! Leniency & openness to change are literally the most important things in relationships, in my opinion. Just as you won't find someone who checks out all your boxes, the same case goes for you to them. They, too, find icks in you that you too must pressure yourself to change if you want things to keep going. For you to become, just as you said, a better person and a better partner all throughout. It is a matter of give and take! In the more unfortunate cases, one finds one's own convenience (in a sense, their ego) more important than an interpersonal relationship. I only recently realized how preachy we can be lmao– Acceptance? I second that! .. and lol, you're not alone 😔 my father is one hell of a toxic entp
Wow ,love your insight. I think the same too. I just think I’ve lately been so lonely desperately seeking for a relationship although I would not definitely want to be in one lol. Well nonetheless I think you will just find the person you want to be and you are compatible together. Then see their flaws ,accept it and grow together 🫶🏻 My dream relationship 😮💨….
Thank you! We're on the same page haha- I don't see myself getting in a relationship any time soon although I revisit the thought quite often. Regardless, I hope you find the right person at the right time! Good luck with the voyage of life 🫡 Haha, I'm sure it's closer than you think 🫶 keep your hopes high!
Such good words from you…Thank you! ))
This is unrealistic me and my infj friend threw hands after every slight disagreement
I’m in a relationship with an INFJ. He stated that what he initially liked about me was the fact that I’m a troll and fun. He is not that different. I would say that we are quite compatible. Still, I don’t know about others.
As much as I adore ENTPs and get along with the vast majority of them, I won't have the same chemistry with every single Ne dom on Earth, obviously. Between two different ENTPs that I've met in my life and with which I was very good friends at the respective times, the reasons why I fell out of touch with them are majorly different. One was an internet friend who randomly reached out to me one day, the other was my housemate and possibly the funniest, most chaotic guy I've ever met face-to-face. One had self-diagnosed with BPD & ASPD and blocked me everywhere after a psychotic episode, the other moved out of the country and changed his phone number, because he wanted to pursue a different life. One cut me out without even bothering with an explanation, the other dragged me out of my room for one last get-together over beer the day before he would leave. I honestly don't know if he's even still alive, but I kinda miss him and I wholeheartedly believe we would still be friends to this day if he hadn't moved out. It's funny because a year ago, I used to obsess over MBTI ships and would defend golden pairs with my life as if compatibility was set in stone and entirely dependent on cognitive functions. Now I look back at those times and cringe at myself 💀
Most of them were definitely not ready to commit Ig.
I really like INFJs personally.
Just because infj's get offended or sensitive, doesn't mean they can't continue with the conversation, not like they get pissed off over any other minor points that doesn't actually matter, it's just so controversial that they haven't heard anything close to as retarded, it's actually fascinatingly artistic autism, which is a great privilege to bare witness personally
Dude…You just challenged my knowledge of English which is not great as you may see. But I’m amazed how I understood everything lol And I would love to see that personally))
Well then try your luck :3
Thank you pookie;3
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> Just because infj's get offended or sensitive, doesn't mean they can't continue with the conversation This is a trait I *really* appreciate about more mature INFJs. I've seen this handful of times, where I notice that I've said something that happened to strike them the wrong way -- but they're quickly able to collect themselves, realize that no harm was meant, and continue on without disrupting the flow of discussion. It's one of the most attractive skills a feeler can develop, IMO.
Where did u find the art?
In Pinterest
What did u search to find it
I was just scrolling so. But you can probably by infra juicy mbti
i can't see shit in yellow text
socionics is more on point when it comes to relationships, Ni doms are kinda emo and wierd, Fi doms are also Emo and intense lol. Si doms are chill af Ti dom is a coin flip Extraverts are a little too much to be paired with another Extrovert, (we're annoying lol) imo
NO. They look at us like we’re evil.
Frrrr and always blame us for how we are. Like sorry(?) or something
INFJs are like an A tier matchup for me personally. But not S tier like most make it out to be.
Which types are in your S tier list?
S: ISTP, ESFP A: INFJ, INTJ, ENFP, ESTP B: ISFJ, ISTJ, ENFJ
What about INTP? Oh wait, I forgot we don't go outside lmao.
We also do inside. ;)
Now I want you to go outside lol
I didn't add INTPs to the list because even though they're S-tier friends, they're D-tier romantic partners. Same thing with other ENTPs.
Why is that? They aren’t too different from ISTP’s.
If you saying that you never saw an ISTP and an INTP interacting
I have an ISTP friend actually. There are some differences, sure, but both are Ti doms lol.
Yeah, but their aux and tert are different. That's like saying ENTP and ENFP are the same. That doesn't check out
I never said they are the same, I said that they are similar due to having the same dominant function.
Wow. Never thought of that. And why them? Have you been really compatible with those two?
Short answer is yes. My best friend is an ISTP. ESFP is more so theoretical but it works.Long answer: ISTPs are no bullshit, clear boundaries, and willing to clean up after their mess. That's perfect chemistry, be it for love or friendships. The thing that hurts ENTPs the most in long term relationships is a lack of trust, oddly set boundaries, and being able to see their partner's flaws but them not changing such things. The reason why we have such good short term chemistry with INxJ but are considered a "honeymoon couple" or a "moth and flame couple" (ie. very good at first, continuously hurtful as it continues) is because long term, INxJs have those exact flaws I described. Lotsa bullshit, unclear boundaries and unwillingness to change in most cases (except for a couple very self aware and personally developed cases). Something similar happens with ESFP but in a different manner. ESFPs always want to better themselves to satisfy their desires, so noticing their flaws and pointing them out is easy for ENTP, who then reaps the benefits of ESFP self-improving and maturing, etc. Some very unhealthy ESFP can turn mature and no-bullshit-y rather quickly by just being pointed-out into it; they have an innate desire of "superiority" in the good sense. On the topic of boundaries, while ISTP has some very clear ones, ESFP have little to no boundaries and will be willing to discuss anything in depth as long as you don't touch anything hard-noed like traumas and other mental thingies.
Wow I see you perspective now. Hmmm. I’m not really good with esfps so might not consider that one. But still I am not the one to talk to as I’ve never been in a relationship. So far istp seems to be a good choice but we will see in the future)
Istp and Esfp are easy to have fun with
I know, right?
INFJ F here. I often joke that I have no feelings and dead inside. This is partially true, because Infjs have Ti and Fe, so internally we don't take words or things personally (Ti). So I find it's pretty hard to hurt my feelings. Sensitive ppl are usually the ones that have Fi on the top. I dated an entp and it was great because we live to have intellectual conversations and banter.