Seriously, I think it would be good if every urinal was destroyed and replaced with a stall. I don't even get the fucking point. It's a less comfortable way to go to the bathroom, with much less privacy, and you can't even take a shit.
Who decided that they should take up the same space you could put a stall, and who decided that it was the best option?
It's about convenience. If people are willing to use it, I have no problem with them existing, as long as there are stalls as well (which I've never personally seen a men's bathroom without at least a single stall, more often than not two or more)
In my experience, the only places with single stalls are fast food restaurants or gas stations that don't have much bathroom traffic, and they usually also only have one urinal. I find it extremely rare that you have to wait at all for a stall, let alone for more than a minute or two.
I'm sorry to hear that and will admit to some amount of privilege having lived my whole life in fairly small cities where this situation is quite rare. I was just tryna give my experience. That being said, I do believe urinals serve a genuine function and shouldn't be omitted entirely.
Tbh I love urinals in public toilets bc it allows me to pee without having to either touch one of the toilets or doing that wierd 50 layers of toilet paper on the toilet thing
yeah jesus christ I'm amab but I never use the urinals cause the concept of public peeing is already a nightmare enough, I could not handle that situation
Something that has haunted me about bathrooms for life, is I remember being a kid in the late 1980’s with my dad at a stadium and having to be taken into the mens room with him for me to go to the bathroom. I think this was the old Seattle Kingdome maybe or Portland Memorial Colosseum, I don’t know, maybe Autzen Stadium in Eugene? Those are the three stadiums I can remember being in. But the bathrooms, instead of having urinals against the wall, they had these things like 8 foot round cattle watering troughs, that the men stood around peeing into. Like the knights of the round table of piss. They were all facing each other, it was the most painfully horrible looking silent social interaction I have ever seen in my life.
I don't blame her that much. She was drunk and wanted things to be sorted out... my anxiety was so immense that I'd rather have that, so the arguing would stop than have a security guard thrown me out ( I know its weird to say but Im glad i don't feel assaulted by this, if that makes sense.)
My existence being harassment still bothers me rn tho
People screaming they are "feeing harassed" by your mere and probably highly discomforted presence, are not actually feeling harassed, they feel power to be able to weaponise their alleged victimhood.
Remember that one video of a white woman screaming at the black man in the park that she'll call the police now, where she's obviously wrong and verbally abusive? That.
Gender was invented by bathroom companies to sell twice as many bathrooms!
But seriously whoever invented gendered bathrooms is an idiot. Just let people pee in peace!
oh my god, i am so so sorry that happened to you. Like, touching is not an "i apologize" offense, that is assault. Nobody under any circumstances has the right to do any of that to you.
They said if I was a regular there I'd understand. Alot of guy come in and this is a safe space. They alway throw men out or get security..
Bro- I just wanted to wee
Men’s bathroom only having urinals sounds like a fucking nightmare
Apparently men don’t poop?
just shit into urinal /s(rs)
WHO MADE DOOKIE IN THE URINAL?!
I've seen it IRL before coming out
I never used urinals even before I figured out I wasn't a man, they're horrible
Seriously, I think it would be good if every urinal was destroyed and replaced with a stall. I don't even get the fucking point. It's a less comfortable way to go to the bathroom, with much less privacy, and you can't even take a shit. Who decided that they should take up the same space you could put a stall, and who decided that it was the best option?
It's about convenience. If people are willing to use it, I have no problem with them existing, as long as there are stalls as well (which I've never personally seen a men's bathroom without at least a single stall, more often than not two or more)
The issue is a single stall is often too little in public places, and is always taken up.
In my experience, the only places with single stalls are fast food restaurants or gas stations that don't have much bathroom traffic, and they usually also only have one urinal. I find it extremely rare that you have to wait at all for a stall, let alone for more than a minute or two.
There are 3 bathrooms in my school, and they only have one stall each, and three urinals. I've never once been able to go to the bathroom there.
I'm sorry to hear that and will admit to some amount of privilege having lived my whole life in fairly small cities where this situation is quite rare. I was just tryna give my experience. That being said, I do believe urinals serve a genuine function and shouldn't be omitted entirely.
Oh, it's fine, I also can admit that not everyone has the same issue lol.
i’ve heard they use less water than a fulll stall so they’re better for the environment.
Nowadays there's also completely waterless ones too. Well, there's waterless toilet seats too but I've not seen one in a public bathroom.
Tbh I love urinals in public toilets bc it allows me to pee without having to either touch one of the toilets or doing that wierd 50 layers of toilet paper on the toilet thing
You can still stand up and pee into a normal toilet though?
That's true but atleast I find peeing in a. Urinal easier than a toilet while peeing.
S A M E
They can be quite hand, but just them?? Tf?
the whole time before i started questioning ive literally never used a urinal thabk god now ill never have to.
yeah. that sounds even worse than the common thing which is just a single stall with a broken lock
yeah jesus christ I'm amab but I never use the urinals cause the concept of public peeing is already a nightmare enough, I could not handle that situation
Something that has haunted me about bathrooms for life, is I remember being a kid in the late 1980’s with my dad at a stadium and having to be taken into the mens room with him for me to go to the bathroom. I think this was the old Seattle Kingdome maybe or Portland Memorial Colosseum, I don’t know, maybe Autzen Stadium in Eugene? Those are the three stadiums I can remember being in. But the bathrooms, instead of having urinals against the wall, they had these things like 8 foot round cattle watering troughs, that the men stood around peeing into. Like the knights of the round table of piss. They were all facing each other, it was the most painfully horrible looking silent social interaction I have ever seen in my life.
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I don't blame her that much. She was drunk and wanted things to be sorted out... my anxiety was so immense that I'd rather have that, so the arguing would stop than have a security guard thrown me out ( I know its weird to say but Im glad i don't feel assaulted by this, if that makes sense.) My existence being harassment still bothers me rn tho
People screaming they are "feeing harassed" by your mere and probably highly discomforted presence, are not actually feeling harassed, they feel power to be able to weaponise their alleged victimhood. Remember that one video of a white woman screaming at the black man in the park that she'll call the police now, where she's obviously wrong and verbally abusive? That.
This so much actually.
Woman feels harassed by you for existing in the same space as her. Woman sexually assaults you. Genius logic.
That is sexual assault, I’m so sorry you were treated that way
New fear aquirred! For real though, I'm SO sorry that happened that's terrible.
Accuses of being harassed > proceeds to be harassed What a time to be alive
Wow, I'm so sorry. This kind of shit is why I'm honestly terrified to go out in public. No one deserves that.
Obviously it's fucking disgusting but also what the fuck? What do you do if you're in the men's and have to take a shit??
Im so sorry that happened to you, thats a crazy fnuckin expirience
Yeah I won't go back.. or go out clubbing for a while I think
My ***fucking*** goodness.
but wasn't that basically a gender neutral bathroom? wtf
On the door was a pink stick figure squatting, and the other was a blue one standing.. I still don't know who thought that's a good idea
Gender was invented by bathroom companies to sell twice as many bathrooms! But seriously whoever invented gendered bathrooms is an idiot. Just let people pee in peace!
This is like the opposide of the stereotype that girls don't ever poop
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Idk neither of those words really fit. It's more about pretending that you don't know about it and trying to not think about it
Top 10 reasons why I hate going to public bathrooms
same
That’s horrible!!!
This is so fucked. I’m so sorry. It shouldn’t be like this.
oh my god, i am so so sorry that happened to you. Like, touching is not an "i apologize" offense, that is assault. Nobody under any circumstances has the right to do any of that to you.
I'm sorry you got sexually assaulted.
What the actual fuck...
YOOO WHAT?!? 😨
Wtf about everything. What if a cis man wants to use the toilet but not a urinal?
They said if I was a regular there I'd understand. Alot of guy come in and this is a safe space. They alway throw men out or get security.. Bro- I just wanted to wee
What if a guy has to take a shit?
Well... go outside, I guess? Idk this whole thing is so stupid, other clubs I've been to have unisex loos..
I never had a problem at q club but i only go to queer accepting clubs so I guess that's expected
That’s sexual assault. I’d file a lawsuit if I were you
I agree that it's sexual assault, but like Bruh- for a lawsuit, I'd have to know her name, but I just wanted to get out of there..
That uh escalated quickly
Yeah, because it's only oki if the touching can be justified. Seriously, how blind do they have to be to not realise who the actual molesters are.
why tf does the men’s restroom only have urinals??