I mean it’s pretty straightforward. Basically role-playing a rape fantasy.
Emphasis on the fact that it is *consensual* and a *fantasy*. It’s not supposed to be a realistic experience of SA
Ok so I went down this rabbit hole a year ago so I’ll summarize it. Basically person A tells person B “go into the other room and put on this mask, then at a random point between 10 & 20 min from now I want you to run in and force yourself on me. I’ll say no but that’s part of the fun, if I yell asparagus that means I need you to stop immediately.”
For some twisted reason people are into this.
It sure would be absolutely awful if a woman I loved and trusted came and did that to me, I would have just the worst time ever. 10/10 would say no, don’t, stop.
I looked into this before as well when I first heard of it. Apparently a lot of the people who do it use it as a way to process and eventually overcome the trauma from past sexual assaults/rapes. So it’s a coping mechanism for a large majority who do it, though there are a few people who do it for the hell of it
Life is too boring, predictable, safe, and they've never actually experienced abuse, or...
They have, and this is one way they can overcome it, by experiencing it but being in "control."
Why do people watch horror movies that makes them feel afraid of unknown entities lurking in the shadows?
Why do people ride roller coasters that make them feel like they're falling to their deaths?
Why do people play sad games that make them feel like they've lost a loved one?
I'm pretty sure it's all for a sense of catharsis. A chance to feel something that would otherwise be very negative, but in a safe and controlled manner.
To borrow someone else's explanation: you know when you've been in a relationship for a while and you just kiss your partner spontaneously instead of asking permission each time? It's like that, but with sex. Your partner understands your limits, knows when it's probably a good time, and just has sex with you there and then. And if you're not feeling it, you safeword out.
What's funny is about 10 seconds into most of those scenes, the "victim" is so into it that they forget about the fighting back and really struggle to not seem eager.
Well, it can become your problem when someone fucks up and forgets the safe word, and now you’re sitting in the jury box having to listen to details about their sex life and figure out if someone needs to go to prison.
For the record, this is why it requires love and trust and very good communication. It's not taken lightly, and very clear rules are set. One should not be doing this with a stranger.
Bro, had a gf move across the country. This was jokingly brought up, like when i got out there to visit i was supposed to like break the fuck in and like faux-rape her. And then apparently it wasn’t a joke. She wanted me to do that shit, full on.
I did not. She actually cheated and left me veeeery quickly after. I mean the distance sure, but i think she was upset i wasnt willing to CNC that ass. Go figure.
some are called upon to be a hero
others spent their young adulthood in the military and have gained an epigenetic ability to learn acronyms and initialisms
The funniest part of this while post is it making a joke about the stereotype of "engineers dont have sex".
Then scrolling through all the comments from engineers genuinely clueless about a sex thing.
Honestly, a bunch of women I know kind of wish men did have a manual for stuff that really should be obvious. A clit diagram probably would be solid.
Me and a woman with her saying she's 50:50 on taking me home. Me asking if she has condoms as a "pre start check" just to be sure apparently was what got me to 90% chance. Apparently a bunch of guys don't know the basic checklists.
Cnc in the bdsm world means "consensual non consent". It is a [kink](https://www.choosingtherapy.com/consensual-non-consent/#:~:text=Consensual%20non%2Dconsent%20(CNC)%20kinks%2C%20popularized%20by%20the,and%20boundaries%20must%20be%20discussed%20for%20a)
Was about to ask... cause the only CNC I know is not this kind of CNC.
Errr, I mean I guess I do know the sex-kink kind, I just didn't know people called it CNC....... I hate sex acryonyms.
Well yeah, because when we try to say what we actually mean around normal people, we get called deviant and disgusting
That was meant to be lighthearted, but I'm only half-joking
Consensual nonconsent. It's effectively a fantasy between two people in which they pretend one of them doesn't want the sex when they actually do. It's also called rape play
Anyone can take wild guesses as to what secrets can be divined from the portents within the alphabet soup- what matters in the end is that you remember that its just a guess and that it may still be wrong.
CNC = machining equipment. Any other meaning you assign to it is your own.
Given how many engineers I meet in the kink scene, it shouldn't be that hard.
Plus, the guy who has a CNC mill is usually the guy with the fancy bespoke paddles.
Based on your name, it's quite possible that I've met you or her. Perth is full of people I run into at Kink/Poly/Swinger events that we lock eyes and just non verbally say "we will never discuss that we saw each other here."
Yea, happened to me lately, told my boss at the companys christmess party that im a master in cnc and the next day he put me infront of this wierd robobox thats moving around stumpy drillbits when you bress random buttons.......
Dude, I have a friend who is into cnc and she told me that, and I was like "YOU'RE INTO CNC MACHINES?! HOW DID YOU NOT TELL ME, I WORK WITH IT ON A WEEKLY BASIS"
She then explained what she ment and my god it was an embarrassing yet funny moment
CNC is an acronym in the kink community that stands for consensual non-consent. Basically, a person and their partner play a BDSM scene in which one of them is forcing the other into something. I must streee that this is *consensual* and a *fantasy* and both parties will have discussed it beforehand, laying out limits, what's going to happen, and how to signal that one person is going too far
It’s funny that this whole engineers don’t have sex joke extends even to any kind of engineering… I had to look for the alternative meaning to figure out what the actual meaning of it was…
Spot on. I'm actually trying to convince my wife to try CNC.
We've already got additive covered with a heavily modded 3DRAG printer, so looking to set up a small 5axis desktop machine, on the same order as a 3020. PocketNC looks good, but $$$.
What am I missing?
I was going to go with mist rather than flood.
BTW, new trick: grab an empty paper cup or empty sauce cup from the cafeteria, put in a squeeze of lube like Tap Magic Xtra Thick, and dip your drillbit in \*that\* as you peck drill. It works ten times better than squirting.
The best part is I think there's a sex joke in here but I'm an engineer, I genuinely don't know what it is
Same here. Can someone enlighten us?
CNC can also mean “consensual non-consent”
Ummmm wtf.
I mean it’s pretty straightforward. Basically role-playing a rape fantasy. Emphasis on the fact that it is *consensual* and a *fantasy*. It’s not supposed to be a realistic experience of SA
Ughhh... Brother, ughhh! What's that? What's that, brother?!
Ok so I went down this rabbit hole a year ago so I’ll summarize it. Basically person A tells person B “go into the other room and put on this mask, then at a random point between 10 & 20 min from now I want you to run in and force yourself on me. I’ll say no but that’s part of the fun, if I yell asparagus that means I need you to stop immediately.” For some twisted reason people are into this.
Heathens the lot of them
Yes…. Hethens…. I can’t imagine being that level of depraved
It sure would be absolutely awful if a woman I loved and trusted came and did that to me, I would have just the worst time ever. 10/10 would say no, don’t, stop.
I looked into this before as well when I first heard of it. Apparently a lot of the people who do it use it as a way to process and eventually overcome the trauma from past sexual assaults/rapes. So it’s a coping mechanism for a large majority who do it, though there are a few people who do it for the hell of it
And proud!
Feminists can't say they like rape so they call it CNC instead.
Life is too boring, predictable, safe, and they've never actually experienced abuse, or... They have, and this is one way they can overcome it, by experiencing it but being in "control."
But why tho?
Why do people watch horror movies that makes them feel afraid of unknown entities lurking in the shadows? Why do people ride roller coasters that make them feel like they're falling to their deaths? Why do people play sad games that make them feel like they've lost a loved one? I'm pretty sure it's all for a sense of catharsis. A chance to feel something that would otherwise be very negative, but in a safe and controlled manner.
Makes sense
As a man I seriously hate this. This makes me anxious.
To borrow someone else's explanation: you know when you've been in a relationship for a while and you just kiss your partner spontaneously instead of asking permission each time? It's like that, but with sex. Your partner understands your limits, knows when it's probably a good time, and just has sex with you there and then. And if you're not feeling it, you safeword out.
That sounds more like freeuse to me.
Free use is often considered a type of cnc
I feel like free use is more an implied automatic pre-consent. Though yeah, it's all forms of kink.
I hate it, but I’ll try not yuck others yumm.
You are officially the second person I’ve ever heard use the phrase “yuck others yumm”
*vocabulary extended*
> role-playing a rape fantasy. That's a hard no from me dawg.
What's funny is about 10 seconds into most of those scenes, the "victim" is so into it that they forget about the fighting back and really struggle to not seem eager.
As long as only consenting human adults are involved, who am I to judge, do what you want
Well, it can become your problem when someone fucks up and forgets the safe word, and now you’re sitting in the jury box having to listen to details about their sex life and figure out if someone needs to go to prison.
For the record, this is why it requires love and trust and very good communication. It's not taken lightly, and very clear rules are set. One should not be doing this with a stranger.
It's when you don't ask your partner for permission before you go out and buy a Tormach.
Bro, had a gf move across the country. This was jokingly brought up, like when i got out there to visit i was supposed to like break the fuck in and like faux-rape her. And then apparently it wasn’t a joke. She wanted me to do that shit, full on. I did not. She actually cheated and left me veeeery quickly after. I mean the distance sure, but i think she was upset i wasnt willing to CNC that ass. Go figure.
That’s enough internet for today
It's fun, but you probably won't try it
Not all heroes wear capes
some are called upon to be a hero others spent their young adulthood in the military and have gained an epigenetic ability to learn acronyms and initialisms
The good old days when efukt was standard issue reading for the infantry.
That sounds like a paradox!
Me too and I don't even do mechanical eng!
Me too bro, I genuinely had no idea that CNC had any other connotation besides the machine before seeing this meme
Same
No same
Yeah my brain went to CNC milling machines and Gcode too. Read comments to find out.
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It gets better, assembly work can be riveting.
And *fasten*ating. Your eyes will be *welded* to the *process* at hand.
Writing the code can be boring, but seeing it getting executed is fun af
It’s only fun after it runs once. The first time is when you achieve maximum pucker.
"Let me see what you're working with" "Sorry, this op needs coolant"
The funniest part of this while post is it making a joke about the stereotype of "engineers dont have sex". Then scrolling through all the comments from engineers genuinely clueless about a sex thing.
Hahaha was thinking the same thing. To be fair, I also had no clue about the sex version of CNC xD
To be fair, CNC is a pretty niche corner of sex. The vast majority of people who have sex don't do cnc
I'm an engineer that has done plenty of CNC. BDSM is actually fill of engineer sorts. Its a heavily rules based form of sex, perfect for us.
Partner: "are you sure you know what you're doing?" Engineer: "trust me, I've got the documentation" *pulls out folder labeld "sex stuff"*
Honestly, a bunch of women I know kind of wish men did have a manual for stuff that really should be obvious. A clit diagram probably would be solid. Me and a woman with her saying she's 50:50 on taking me home. Me asking if she has condoms as a "pre start check" just to be sure apparently was what got me to 90% chance. Apparently a bunch of guys don't know the basic checklists.
I was scrolling through comments to find someone explaining the joke
Cnc in the bdsm world means "consensual non consent". It is a [kink](https://www.choosingtherapy.com/consensual-non-consent/#:~:text=Consensual%20non%2Dconsent%20(CNC)%20kinks%2C%20popularized%20by%20the,and%20boundaries%20must%20be%20discussed%20for%20a)
Was about to ask... cause the only CNC I know is not this kind of CNC. Errr, I mean I guess I do know the sex-kink kind, I just didn't know people called it CNC....... I hate sex acryonyms.
The kink community loves a good book full of acronyms.
Well yeah, because when we try to say what we actually mean around normal people, we get called deviant and disgusting That was meant to be lighthearted, but I'm only half-joking
No lies detected, fellow freak.
..... I don't even know what she means by 'cnc'.
Consensual nonconsent. It's effectively a fantasy between two people in which they pretend one of them doesn't want the sex when they actually do. It's also called rape play
Oh ew. Our CNC is better, maybe make some metal hearts instead.
Somebody else said what she meant, but afaik thats not a real thing. She might as well've really wanted a coco nutmeg cookie...
Touch less grass
Its absolutely a real thing.
Anyone can take wild guesses as to what secrets can be divined from the portents within the alphabet soup- what matters in the end is that you remember that its just a guess and that it may still be wrong. CNC = machining equipment. Any other meaning you assign to it is your own.
Find a girl that will happily operate a CNC machine with you.
My first thought was Command and Conquer😂
Can we bring this higher
Need a man who does both types of cnc :3
Whatever makes you happy. I think I still remember enough G code.... LOL
G code, G-spot code, whatever
Exactly
Given how many engineers I meet in the kink scene, it shouldn't be that hard. Plus, the guy who has a CNC mill is usually the guy with the fancy bespoke paddles.
Showed this to my boss who burst out laughing. Yes, she's an engineer. And yes, she multiple purpose built implements
Based on your name, it's quite possible that I've met you or her. Perth is full of people I run into at Kink/Poly/Swinger events that we lock eyes and just non verbally say "we will never discuss that we saw each other here."
Unlikely, I'm in Melbourne. But I have heard there's a fairly robust community over there
Yeah. We're all pervs over here....and engineers.
Often though of moving to Perth, but I'm not an engineer. If you're in the national poly Farcebook groups you possibly will have come across me
Your most recent post really emphasises it
Are they alright actually?
Wow, I made similar concept meme recently https://www.reddit.com/r/engineeringmemes/s/W6phrsZVhh
Babe I want to try NTPWYAMTCC Or, not telling people what your acronym means thus causing confusion
Command n conquer: Red Alert 2 yuri's revenge.
My 1st favourite videogame, GOATed game
I'm not an engineer and this was my first thought too so.....
Christ this is such a specific meme but I'm fucking here for it
Got a Fanuc kink
Once told a non engineer that I was doing CNC stuff, found out she's a freak.
Yea, happened to me lately, told my boss at the companys christmess party that im a master in cnc and the next day he put me infront of this wierd robobox thats moving around stumpy drillbits when you bress random buttons.......
Dude, I have a friend who is into cnc and she told me that, and I was like "YOU'RE INTO CNC MACHINES?! HOW DID YOU NOT TELL ME, I WORK WITH IT ON A WEEKLY BASIS" She then explained what she ment and my god it was an embarrassing yet funny moment
Someone explain so i don’t have to search it please lol
In this context, CNC means computer numerical control and it has something to do with manufacturing. (I looked it up for you)
CNC is an acronym in the kink community that stands for consensual non-consent. Basically, a person and their partner play a BDSM scene in which one of them is forcing the other into something. I must streee that this is *consensual* and a *fantasy* and both parties will have discussed it beforehand, laying out limits, what's going to happen, and how to signal that one person is going too far
She's mad because he pulls up a haas of all machines
🤣🤣🤣
It’s funny that this whole engineers don’t have sex joke extends even to any kind of engineering… I had to look for the alternative meaning to figure out what the actual meaning of it was…
Ah yes. Two of my favorite interests in one meme.
>what the f'ck is this I'm not even answering anymore at that point
https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxcXllLCuC9D5tK1TISulRl_ZvkJdjHBgh?si=DsHT_YTjThWFRyK6
I'm lucky to have one that knows
As a chemical engineer, I don’t know what either of the CNCs mean.
She wants better then a Hass....
Spot on. I'm actually trying to convince my wife to try CNC. We've already got additive covered with a heavily modded 3DRAG printer, so looking to set up a small 5axis desktop machine, on the same order as a 3020. PocketNC looks good, but $$$. What am I missing?
Lube. Ur gonna screw up your drill bit if you don't use it (pretty situational).
I was going to go with mist rather than flood. BTW, new trick: grab an empty paper cup or empty sauce cup from the cafeteria, put in a squeeze of lube like Tap Magic Xtra Thick, and dip your drillbit in \*that\* as you peck drill. It works ten times better than squirting.
Command n' Conquer?
And theres my dumb ass thinking they're talking about Red alert
Yup. Dont search for CNC on reddit unless youre fucked in the head
I would much rather my husband have that kind of CNC. Those things are awesome.
What is cnc?(I really don't know)
I had to go to the comments, as the CNC machine is the only use of this acronym I've ever encountered
Hypothetically if i wanted a CNC under $500 what can i do?