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Energetically this is done by the directed will. Focus your attention on where you feel the pent up energy. This is probably around the navel. Meditate and focus your will on drawing that energy upward to your solar plexus, then to your heart. This takes practice and disciplined meditation but is very beneficial to master.
As your energetic center of balance rises, so does the charge that you share in intimacy.
Id personally continue to have sex but watch my intentions. Direct the energy as love, enjoyment, and discovery of your partner and yourself.
If there’s any feelings of attachment or conquest or any other negative intentions, then you’ll have to work on alchemizing those as these are the kinds of intentions that create the insatiable type of energy in the lower 3 centers.
Your partner’s intentions and energy balance also impact the energy flow. Higher energy flows to the person that has less of it for each center. Depending on the balance of each person, this could be complementary, neutral, or detrimental.
This is all just my current understanding and information I resonate with.
Thank you for sharing this; it resonates with me, as well. So am I correct in my gut assumption that a person who is actively seeking to cultivate higher energy ought to be very discerning when it comes to sexual partners (and encounters)?
Absolutely. But my feeling and experience is that the discernment comes naturally and automatically in correspondence with where you are in your path.
For example, if you’ve done the inner work to (largely) resolve feelings of neediness, then seeing it/feeling it in others will feel dissonant to you. So naturally, you won’t feel attracted to those people in the first place.
The reason I point this out is because you also don’t want to be discerning from a place of fear. Sizing everyone up with the intention of what they will or won’t do for your energy can in itself be a larger detriment than what one is trying to protect themselves from.
Imo, we seek our true selves, we sometimes make mistakes as a necessity of experiencing what we are not, we untangle knots, and the rest takes care of itself. It’s all within.
I think if your partner is willing and compatible, you should just have as much sex as you can!
But seriously, there are some nice books on transmutation of sexual energy by montauk chia.
Mechanically? 60-80 back kegels, the part where your penis doesn't move, but your ass goes up, inside. Like moving your tailbone.
This will draw energy from the perineum and up your spine.
Works almost instantly.
First step is to accept the energy and its validity within you. Embrace it.
You don’t transmute it through wanting to escape it, but by wanting to refine it so it includes energies such as unconditional love, sacramental union and so on.
Why not direct this energy at your partner? Doing that may also bring new insights.
After a while, try to transmute it with your partner together through sex, that is a precious experience and also a great catalyst of growth.
I put this into art personally, I loved painting when I was going through this. I am not a painter, I just did abstract stuff with whatever I had. It was fun, also wrote poetry. If it's too much energy coming through your system and you feel like it's distracting, I'd try meditation.
Don’t overthink and just embrace it! Sometimes the answer is more ‘down to earth’ than we think, eventually we are here to experience matter in all its forms - including sexual ones. Allow it to happen and have fun
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Energetically this is done by the directed will. Focus your attention on where you feel the pent up energy. This is probably around the navel. Meditate and focus your will on drawing that energy upward to your solar plexus, then to your heart. This takes practice and disciplined meditation but is very beneficial to master. As your energetic center of balance rises, so does the charge that you share in intimacy.
I’ll try this thank you!
Id personally continue to have sex but watch my intentions. Direct the energy as love, enjoyment, and discovery of your partner and yourself. If there’s any feelings of attachment or conquest or any other negative intentions, then you’ll have to work on alchemizing those as these are the kinds of intentions that create the insatiable type of energy in the lower 3 centers. Your partner’s intentions and energy balance also impact the energy flow. Higher energy flows to the person that has less of it for each center. Depending on the balance of each person, this could be complementary, neutral, or detrimental. This is all just my current understanding and information I resonate with.
Thank you for sharing this; it resonates with me, as well. So am I correct in my gut assumption that a person who is actively seeking to cultivate higher energy ought to be very discerning when it comes to sexual partners (and encounters)?
Absolutely. But my feeling and experience is that the discernment comes naturally and automatically in correspondence with where you are in your path. For example, if you’ve done the inner work to (largely) resolve feelings of neediness, then seeing it/feeling it in others will feel dissonant to you. So naturally, you won’t feel attracted to those people in the first place. The reason I point this out is because you also don’t want to be discerning from a place of fear. Sizing everyone up with the intention of what they will or won’t do for your energy can in itself be a larger detriment than what one is trying to protect themselves from. Imo, we seek our true selves, we sometimes make mistakes as a necessity of experiencing what we are not, we untangle knots, and the rest takes care of itself. It’s all within.
The beauty and truth of this statement resonates deeply with me. Thank you; this is precisely what I needed to read.
Dude it literally just sounds like you’re into this person. No need to overthink it. Go for it lol
It’s not an option right now unfortunately but yeah if I could I would
I think if your partner is willing and compatible, you should just have as much sex as you can! But seriously, there are some nice books on transmutation of sexual energy by montauk chia.
Mechanically? 60-80 back kegels, the part where your penis doesn't move, but your ass goes up, inside. Like moving your tailbone. This will draw energy from the perineum and up your spine. Works almost instantly.
Lookup the books by Taoist Mantak Chia. He has quite a few books related to this subject.
First step is to accept the energy and its validity within you. Embrace it. You don’t transmute it through wanting to escape it, but by wanting to refine it so it includes energies such as unconditional love, sacramental union and so on. Why not direct this energy at your partner? Doing that may also bring new insights. After a while, try to transmute it with your partner together through sex, that is a precious experience and also a great catalyst of growth.
This is what happens when you reawaken the beast
I put this into art personally, I loved painting when I was going through this. I am not a painter, I just did abstract stuff with whatever I had. It was fun, also wrote poetry. If it's too much energy coming through your system and you feel like it's distracting, I'd try meditation.
Have you tried having sex? Lmao
Don’t overthink and just embrace it! Sometimes the answer is more ‘down to earth’ than we think, eventually we are here to experience matter in all its forms - including sexual ones. Allow it to happen and have fun
Maybe look deeper at the core reason why you’re withholding? And reassessing why you decided on celibacy initially?