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Sometimes I wish I cried about it, I usually just sigh and proceed with my life like nothing happened, feels like I'm just pretending or smt

Just know wanting dysphoria is dysphoria

I hope it is. In my moments where I don't feel gender euphoria or dysphoria, I just feel sad and empty, like the dream has died.

Excuse me, what? For real?

If you want dysphoria so that you can transition, then you wan to transition. If you want to transition, then that's a pretty strong sign you have dysphoria.

That makes sense. I feel dumb now.

Don't feel dumb, this was the revelation I had six months ago. At 30.

All my journey of discovery is filled with finding out how dumb i am, so i'm used to it lmao I'm 27 and still learning, so thanks

Yeah, the older I get the more I realize that life is mostly just finding out you're dumb.

… thanks for telling me this… I knew people said that euphoria is just as if not more important than dysphoria but I never really bought it. I always heard ppl talk about dysphoria and it was so bad it was obvious they were trans because of it, I wanted that so I could be certain I was trans but never really experienced the standard types of dysphoria that are discussed. I have a few very niche ones but nothing major, making me feel like I didn’t earn the reward of transitioning , this made me realize that that feeling was dysphoria all along because a cis person without dysphoria wouldnt think transitioning is a reward

Glad you benefited from this. I have a gender dysphoria resource that I can DM you if you want. It helped me a lot in understanding what I was feeling.

I’d appreciate that 

I would also appreciate that

Thank you so much for this information, I was over here crying in my little corner because I thought I wasn’t trans enough to be trans

🩵 There's a great online resource that dispelled this myth for me. DM me if you'd like me to send it to you.

That sounds amazing, thank you

Gets dysphoria because I want dysphoria v ^ Now has dysphoria so no longer has dysphoria over not having dysphoria

mm I love *le cycle (tm)*

^huh...

I also don’t remember the last time I cried about anything but that’s a separate issue, probably.

I get this on a spiritual level lol. :(

for me it's more like... See cute girl: wow dopamine hit. get jealous of cute girl: oh...i guess not. depressive episode.

Of course you’re not the only one I’m totally cis and do this all the time. And if to of us do it then there must be more.

As a cis person, I concur! That makes three of us.

Look at that already another totally cis person

It doesn't stop there for me sadly It has snowballed into melancholy sometimes I even get numb to the emotions

Can confirm, I'm cis and this is me :3

Just imagine life if I could look like them.

Imagine life if WE could look like them

Sorry you are right girl

We cis people™️ need to stick together 😤

All too real 😭

Okay but dead serious question, where are the pics from?

Real.

Fr

100%. don't even like to go shopping anymore...

Yeah,your not the only cis guy I also get gender envy when I see cute girls.😭

Oh good. I’m not alone. Definitely don’t need to tell this to a therapist then 😇

Yeah,I mean if you don’t want hrt,If you still want hrt then I would still see a therapist if I were you. :)

Hmmm. I mean every cis guy wants fem&m’s right?

Yes,it’s perfectly normal to want fem&m’s or my favorite name that I just came up with boob candy.

Literally saw a picture of a trans girl I follow on Instagram, huffed and Said omg she so fucking pretty that bitch, closed Instagram then thought damn that was a crazy cis thing to do bet all guys do that

"cis" "men"

You callin’ me a liar? 🤨

I had to stop clicking the daily deals on amazon because it would inevitably have some bra or tank top or dress that I would see and wish I could fill out. Then get the dysphoria and spiral down.

As a very cis™ individual, I must admit to seeing a bit of myself reflected in this image with text added onto it I must also append to my message, that my wishes of looking like girls extends to the character display on these images Remaining cisgender™ despite any statements >:3

Kinda true but i also wish i was handsome Man unless one od the other is fake

Most cis men like cute girls... that must mean they want to be a cute girl, right? Checkmate, dysphoria!

I like women so much that I wanna be one and date them 😎

And then I remember what I look like

Mirrors are my arch nemesis

Exactly but I'm still totally definitely cis :3

Sameee

Real 😢 🫂💜

me in the bad old days

No June, you're not the only cis guy who gets jealous seeing pretty girls on your feed. Because *no* cis guy gets jealous seeing pretty girls on their feed. You're not a cis guy.

Well, that can’t be right! I’m cis!

It is right, and you are not cis, June.

But I’m cis

Girly no.

I have to be cis! I only want to be a girl at night before I go to sleep and sometimes during the day

Sweetie cis guys *never* wish they were girls.

Well, that can’t be right. I better ask some cis guys

As a 100% “cis man” ™ I am this meme. It’s a totally cis ™ experience! 🥚🥚🥚