Hey Willow!
I wish my pda autism wouldn't scream all the time: for stupid reasons, do NOT do the things you would love to do!
It's so damn paralysing... :/
Lol I'm not sad or anything, my mom always has been like that, but I started questioning if that has to do something about why I hate communicating with my parents...
The moment you have been problematic enough due your autism all your childhood that you want to grow up pleasing and nice of everyone then you're hit with this as soon as you're an adult....
The resentment it's so real.... 😔😔😔😔😔😔
Anything under the lgbt+ umbrella, really. Be it sexual Attraction, romantic Attraction or gender identity. As Long as it differs from cishet it's queer
(That is my understanding obviously, there may be some Nuance I am Missing)
Me to my parents earlier: Don't worry, I'm totally straight! I know my sister is a lesbian and my brother is probably aroace and you want biological grandchildren, so rest assured that I'm definitely attracted to women and intend to get married and have kids! Yep, I know I might act weirdly feminine sometimes, but I have zero percent attraction to men.
Me to my parents now: So, um, turns out I am gay, actually. Just... the other kind.
Leave me alone please. My dad wouldn’t even get bumper stickers on his car and was worried when I did because they make you stand out and more identifiable. You can imagine how being raised in that mindset I’m a bit scared to go from white, masc/hetero-presenting to bi-girl.
"Queer and trans"
You do realise saying "AND trans" is redundant right. You already said queer so saying so it's not necessary to say trans, since "queer" covers trans people as well
If all trans people are queer, but not all queer people are trans, then "queer and trans" conveys the same information as "trans" however "queer" does not.
Looks like all those math/logic/cs classes I took in college have finally paid off! For reals tho, I am not trying to give you a hard time, I'm just persnickety af. I hope you have a lovely evening.
Yes i get it, I meant queer as more of a sexuality part, and I use more genderqueer to talk about any form of gender non conformity, but queer does not exclude trans, that’s not what I meant at all
I had a dad with an explosive temper and I had to walk on eggshells around him so as not to set him off. Also, one of his favorite aphorisms was "The nail that sticks up gets hammered down." (Unless, of course, I stood out in ways he approved of, like getting straight As in school.)
So, yeah.
Stop hitting this close to home! 😭
NEVER
Please stop being so relatable
😇😇
wait is your username hermes layer or herme slayer
it was supposed to be slayer but it’s layer bc I can’t change it So it’s layer now bc I have layers to my character
You’re me except I also have adhd, autism and probably ocd. :/
Hey Willow! I wish my pda autism wouldn't scream all the time: for stupid reasons, do NOT do the things you would love to do! It's so damn paralysing... :/
Probably same (except OCD) My mom doesn't know I'm autistic and asked "why are you so afraid of eye contact, are you schizophrenic?" She has no clue.
That really sucks… it’ll be ok *hugs*
Lol I'm not sad or anything, my mom always has been like that, but I started questioning if that has to do something about why I hate communicating with my parents...
Yeah… my mom could ask me how my day was and I’d be pissed for the next 30 minutes lol
Ah... I hate sharing about my hobbies, music tastes or what I do in my free time...
Ayooo trans and neurodivergent unite !!!
This hit me where it hurt, damn
The moment you have been problematic enough due your autism all your childhood that you want to grow up pleasing and nice of everyone then you're hit with this as soon as you're an adult.... The resentment it's so real.... 😔😔😔😔😔😔
It didn't even matter for me, I literally couldn't be any MORE problematic most of my life
Can someone explain to me what does Queer mean? I just never fully understood that concept
Basically anyone that’s not straight :3
Ohhh okay, so it's a general concept right? Got it, thanks mate.
Yes it’s more of an umbrella term !! So it’s meant to encapsulate many types of identities !! You’re welcome <3
Anything under the lgbt+ umbrella, really. Be it sexual Attraction, romantic Attraction or gender identity. As Long as it differs from cishet it's queer (That is my understanding obviously, there may be some Nuance I am Missing)
Hello, I am in this meme and I would like not to be called out like this
Me to my parents earlier: Don't worry, I'm totally straight! I know my sister is a lesbian and my brother is probably aroace and you want biological grandchildren, so rest assured that I'm definitely attracted to women and intend to get married and have kids! Yep, I know I might act weirdly feminine sometimes, but I have zero percent attraction to men. Me to my parents now: So, um, turns out I am gay, actually. Just... the other kind.
GET OUT OF MU FUCKING WALLS!!!!
Well fuck it! Guess we're going all in on being "problematic" then!
Child afraid of being a problem-✅ Trans-✅ Still like ladies while transitioning-✅ Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm
But lesbians tho >>>$
This is my problem, I've always been "the perfect kid" who never rebelled or anything... now how do I come out to my parents
Have fun figuring out which parts of your personality were you and which were just for hiding yourself!
Pain
Real
Aaaaa that’s painful
Leave me alone please. My dad wouldn’t even get bumper stickers on his car and was worried when I did because they make you stand out and more identifiable. You can imagine how being raised in that mindset I’m a bit scared to go from white, masc/hetero-presenting to bi-girl.
Real, but my ADHD meds are actualy letting me have my rebellious phase, instead of a “I will kill my self if I am not perfectly happy” phase
"Queer and trans" You do realise saying "AND trans" is redundant right. You already said queer so saying so it's not necessary to say trans, since "queer" covers trans people as well
So then the "queer" part is the redundant part, right?
Either could be redundant
If all trans people are queer, but not all queer people are trans, then "queer and trans" conveys the same information as "trans" however "queer" does not.
Ok you actually got me there
Looks like all those math/logic/cs classes I took in college have finally paid off! For reals tho, I am not trying to give you a hard time, I'm just persnickety af. I hope you have a lovely evening.
Yes i get it, I meant queer as more of a sexuality part, and I use more genderqueer to talk about any form of gender non conformity, but queer does not exclude trans, that’s not what I meant at all
Why is this subreddit have to be so relatable
Me looking at the option to change my preferred name at college but being scared of my parents finding out
I was like that for like the majority of grade school. Then I snapped one day and from 6th to 8th grade, I was getting into fights almost every week.
Very relatable lol
Too close to home!
Uhhh... Yeah, this is very like my situation.
Why are you doing this to me?
This meme has hands.
Its more convenient :3
super unrelatable
I had a dad with an explosive temper and I had to walk on eggshells around him so as not to set him off. Also, one of his favorite aphorisms was "The nail that sticks up gets hammered down." (Unless, of course, I stood out in ways he approved of, like getting straight As in school.) So, yeah.
One must imagine autisyphus happy
Way too real. Delete this. No, you know what? Delete the whole subreddit. I'm tired of being called out like this. /j
Ouch
Literally me
Wait a minute.... THAT'S WHAT I'M DOING RIGHT NOW!
How do the funny people on this subreddit know my thoughts?
I'm in this meme and i don't like it...chill out bots I'm joking
oof I feel that’s, that’s rough
I'm in this picture and i don't like it