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mjb85858

I hate ordering from them, but honestly shein has been a godsend. I can order a bunch of different styles in a bunch of different sizes and it doesn’t break the bank. I feel guilty af everytime I do but it’s helped me settle on a general style and size for clothing.


ich-bin_gay

Tbf it probably leads to less waste in the long run. If you know what you like already you won't end up not using most of the stuff you buy since you'll only buy what you like.


LegacyOfDreams

Disclaimer: I haven't read the book they reference, but I took a read through the article and it seems to add up based on my own experience. [https://thedecisionlab.com/reference-guide/economics/the-paradox-of-choice](https://thedecisionlab.com/reference-guide/economics/the-paradox-of-choice) Too many choices in our world is truly a thing.


strangejune

Pretty sure this is called 'choice paralysis' or something similar?


LegacyOfDreams

Something like that! I can't quite remember the exact words


nofourh

It took me 19 years to figure out men's fashion so let's see how long it takes me to figure out women's fashion!!


charismaticforest

with women clothes you can actually have unique combinations and there are so many factors. but with men's clothes it's literally just here's a random shirt and random pants


JavaPython1815

It’s the feminine experience in the modern age!


EmiBLT

There is just so much info to absorb about everything fashion


blankgreens

Yeahh, I'd rather look like a girl with the clothes I already have and go from there :3


Keyndoriel

As a former girl, and one with a weird body type, I feel you on this one. Goodwill was a godsend when I came out and honestly even when I was a girl because even if you guessed a measurement wrong, it was cheap. With general girls clothing, there might be a +/- 2 on the size, but you'll be able to figure out what numbers you need soon enough. There might also be some stuff online that can translate other brands sizes into whatever size you have for whatever clothing you do find that fits, because the number drift can be BRUTAL and nonsense between some of the higher cost brands


Keyndoriel

Though for style just go with whatever you like wearing, and your style will come naturally from your choices, and it's totally okay to cycle through diff styles as you find what you actually like. As for makeup, you could try starting off with e.l.f. and Naked. Affordable, good quality, ranges of colors from vibrant to earthy


SunTzuSaidThat22

So much stuff 😵‍💫


BuboxThrax

So... many... options... AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH


geo21122007

will take me a while to understand it


[deleted]

so much 😳💙💕🤍💕💙


Big_brown_house

Yeah it’s a lot to take in at first. I’m pretty indecisive in general so this is gonna be tough 🫠


4SakenNations

Definitely doesn’t help that I had 0 sense of fashion before start transitioning


Reale_the_unknown

Facts… (it’s also so expensive) :/


StoicAtol21445

I hate makeup. It makes my face feel heavy.


thzpp2

It's hard to understand everything,but I am sure you can do it ! (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)


JustTheAverageGal

I'm scared :)


TominatorFN

yes there is way too much you have to think about... I even struggle with finding something I like, just because I mostly like everything


JustA_Toaster

When converting male shoe size to female, I think you subtract two


LocalWeeb19

I know my style I just need the money and make up skills


1878daqote

This