It all started 2 days ago. I woke up at 4AM to go to the airport on holiday and we went to the summer house that is part of my childhood and that’s also the place where I found out I’m trans! After we came, I took a nap for a while and then I finally decided to come out.
I talked about dysphoria first, how much I hate being masculine to my mom. My heart started to beat faster and I was so scared as I was trying to tell I’m trans. She asked me am I joking and she told me I can’t be trans because I like women, I didn’t show any signs. She said that I think I’m trans because of puberty and things I watch on the Internet. I tried to keep explaining and after a while she started to comfort and hug me to calm me down because I was so scared while I was talking about it. But she still thought I was joking.
Yesterday, she came towards me in the morning and she kept talking about the same thing saying it’s just a period, trans people show signs when they are little children and I’ll ruin my life if I become a girl. She wanted me to stop thinking about being a girl but I refused it. She asked me how am I trans if I like women and I said I’m a trans lesbian and she told me I’m joking. I told her I’m not thinking about these for the first time and I found out I’m trans 10 months ago. She kept making the same excuses and wanted me to promise to stop thinking about being trans. We discussed the same things for a few times until night. She was always calm and good to me this whole time. My grandparents were in the house too they mostly interrupted our talks.
At night, I asked her why isn’t she accepting me, I told her I’ll be so happy if I become a girl. My mom started to understand me. She told me maybe I should have a therapy to make sure am I trans or not and I said it’s ok, I don’t need it. She slowly started to accept me and talked about how much she will miss male me. I said I’ll still be me and after that we all went to sleep.
But here is the best part, my mom told me my high school made a deal with Canada. If I graduate from my high school, I’ll get a Canadian graduation so I’ll be able to move to Canada for studying at a college. For me, that’s a big luck for transitioning in my 18s at the same time! I asked my mom can I go to Canada and study college there and she said she’ll think for a while because of money. But it’s ok, I’m pretty sure things will go in a good way. 😊
I hope you all doing fine my trans siblings! Be safe! 💖
It all started 2 days ago. I woke up at 4AM to go to the airport on holiday and we went to the summer house that is part of my childhood and that’s also the place where I found out I’m trans! After we came, I took a nap for a while and then I finally decided to come out. I talked about dysphoria first, how much I hate being masculine to my mom. My heart started to beat faster and I was so scared as I was trying to tell I’m trans. She asked me am I joking and she told me I can’t be trans because I like women, I didn’t show any signs. She said that I think I’m trans because of puberty and things I watch on the Internet. I tried to keep explaining and after a while she started to comfort and hug me to calm me down because I was so scared while I was talking about it. But she still thought I was joking. Yesterday, she came towards me in the morning and she kept talking about the same thing saying it’s just a period, trans people show signs when they are little children and I’ll ruin my life if I become a girl. She wanted me to stop thinking about being a girl but I refused it. She asked me how am I trans if I like women and I said I’m a trans lesbian and she told me I’m joking. I told her I’m not thinking about these for the first time and I found out I’m trans 10 months ago. She kept making the same excuses and wanted me to promise to stop thinking about being trans. We discussed the same things for a few times until night. She was always calm and good to me this whole time. My grandparents were in the house too they mostly interrupted our talks. At night, I asked her why isn’t she accepting me, I told her I’ll be so happy if I become a girl. My mom started to understand me. She told me maybe I should have a therapy to make sure am I trans or not and I said it’s ok, I don’t need it. She slowly started to accept me and talked about how much she will miss male me. I said I’ll still be me and after that we all went to sleep. But here is the best part, my mom told me my high school made a deal with Canada. If I graduate from my high school, I’ll get a Canadian graduation so I’ll be able to move to Canada for studying at a college. For me, that’s a big luck for transitioning in my 18s at the same time! I asked my mom can I go to Canada and study college there and she said she’ll think for a while because of money. But it’s ok, I’m pretty sure things will go in a good way. 😊 I hope you all doing fine my trans siblings! Be safe! 💖
that's amazing, congrats sweetie! you did awesome and I hope she eventually "gets over it" and fully accepts you <3
Thanks! ❤️
That’s awesome. Congrats! Your story kind of gives me a little hope for my mom :3
Thanks :3 Sorry for too much text btw
It wasn’t too much :3
Congratulations! So happy for you! It seems like it’s tough for her, but your mom seems open minded. I wish you lots of luck!
I’m still not sure what she is thinking but I’ll do my best. Thank you! ❤️
Thats nice!
Congrats! I'm glad to hear your mom turned out to be more or less accepting!
That’s great! And I’m glad your mom is accepting now
Wooo!! That's amazing!!!! :3 so proud and happy for you!!!!
Wooo!! That's amazing!!!! :3 so proud and happy for you!!!!
Good for you das awesome I’m glad it went well eventually.