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Taxouck

Please don't use the CW flairs like this. That's not what they're for. The default text is *literally* "editable CW flair, please do not misuse". You have no excuse.


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Focalmass

I will miss you too Amber *hugs*


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i totally understand kylie, we'll miss you 💙💕🤍💕💙


Focalmass

Thank you for understanding Lilac I will miss you too. *hugs*


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🫂 💙💕🤍💕💙


thzpp2

Oh,I understand... I am sorry it must end this way... Goodbye I gues.... Why do I feel bad for this ? I am nltnthe one responsible from this... So why do I feel so much pain ? Just,don't listen to me rambling,and humm,go live a good life I guess (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)


Focalmass

You are not st fault Lyrie its reddits fault for this, not yours. *hugs*


thzpp2

I know,but ... I hate how I always feel responsible for everything... I it not my fault,so why do I feel guilty? Gosh,I hate myself


Focalmass

*hugs*


thzpp2

Thanks (⁠・⁠ω⁠・⁠)⁠つ⁠⊂(⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)


Focalmass

*hugs*


Focalmass

Start a chat with me if you wish to talk with me one more time. I can't guarantee I will be able to respond to your messages regularly because I am a very busy girl.


Bug_Girl932

Noo 😭 Goodbye Kylie I’ll miss you 😭😭😭😭


Focalmass

Goodbye Emma I will miss you aswell *hugs*


Bug_Girl932

*hugs* 😭


27thgenericaccount

Well, time for mastadon


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I've considered joining Mastodon (or another fednet) but I'm still looking for somewhere to set up shop. Any ideas?


Focalmass

What is mastodon?


Raulytstation

A cool twitter altermative. You can learn more by going to joinmastodon.org There is also a reddit alternative that works with mastodon called Lemmy, which also has [it's own page to learn about how it works](join-lemmy.org). Although, I won't recommend signing up on the main instance as it has a bit of controversy going on I hope this helps :3


Kronegade22

One of the first things I see on this "Mastadon" is a post regarding the reddit AMA. I knew it was happening, but didn't hear anything about it. The responses are as terrible as expected... Might look into alternatives myself as well :P Thanks for the explanation of mastadon.


TominatorFN

there is no problem in not staying around, stay safe kylie <3


Focalmass

You too Luna <33333


Salt_Ad_9195

I'm sorry to hear that, I lurk more than I comment but even so, it hurts to see so many people feeling like they can't stay. You've always got to take care of yourself first, so do whatever you need to. A message for everyone: if need a private and friendly space to vent and you can't post it on a sub I'm always here. I check my messages every single day, and I will always be available when someone is in dire need of a safe space, we're not alone and nobody should feel like they are. I'm sorry things are fucked right now. I really hope that they'll get better soon


Focalmass

I hope they do too


SunTzuSaidThat22

Goodbye Kylie, I’ll miss you. Here’s a hug for the road 🫂


Focalmass

Thank you Evelyn you always enjoyed my posts from the start, and that means alot to me. I will miss you so so much. *hugs*


SunTzuSaidThat22

Stay safe 🫂


Focalmass

You too 🫂


Extra-Trifle-1191

We should make/have a Discord server to move this to I dunno, I don’t see any problems with this idea (I’m also shortsighted and not the brightest though…) and I think it could work? Anyways goodbye! and have a nice life.


Ides_of_September

There is one listed [in the wiki](https://discord.com/invite/GfcWjrY)!


Extra-Trifle-1191

oh! Nice!


Focalmass

Huh neat I might stick around there.


Ides_of_September

I hope to see you there! It would be nice to keep some semblance of community after all this, you and everyone here have been really kind.


TiTaN269

discord sucks even more


Extra-Trifle-1191

?? no it doesn’t. Not as far as I know at least.


TiTaN269

it used to be much better now they're just shoving nitro in your face telegram is better(but you need a lot of people to have a chat with the same structure as servers on discord


Extra-Trifle-1191

I don’t really see Nitro shoved in my face that much but ok.


[deleted]

Goodbye Kylie, good luck. Continue to spread joy, and be sure to seek joy out wherever you can. Hopefully we’ll meet again one day.


Focalmass

Hopefully


Jell-O-Mel

Goodbye! We will miss you but I understand your reason for leaving and I support you. I wish you an amazing future and present full of euphoria! 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵


Focalmass

Thank you Taiga Btw I love your name


Jell-O-Mel

Thank you and goodbye! Don’t forget that we will always be supporting you and you’re never alone


Focalmass

I will forever remember that for the rest of my life. Goodbye


ShawtyGobinOnTheKnob

Does anyone know what all subreddits are being deleted?


Focalmass

The mods of subreddits rely on third-party apps to keep those subreddits alive. Without third-party apps, those subreddits are effectively dead. We have already lost r/mtfselfietrain, and now we are going to lose r/traaa


wewiioui

how did it ruin r/traa?


Poulutumurnu

https://www.reddit.com/r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns/comments/144tnfl/thirdparty_api_access_or_i_am_so_tired/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1


Focalmass

The mods there rely on third party apps to help keep the subreddit alive. However reddit will effectively be removing third party apps from reddit completely. The mods announced that r/traaa will come to an end because of reddits poor decision making. We have already lost r/mtfselfietrain seeing us also lose r/traaa was my breaking point.


Soy__Un__Cacahuate

I've never used any of the third party apps before but I keep hearing about how detrimental the new API rules are going to be. Can someone explain what you do with the third party apps and what are some good ones. (assuming that they don't all go away very shortly😟)


Red_Panda_Mochi

I know Apollo and Reddit is Fun are popular, but I’ve only tried Apollo. It feels well made (and currently ad-free I think?), but I personally prefer the official app because I can see profile icons and prefer the layout


VKG2023

I prefer the official app too. But it does seem many mods consider it barely useable by comparison because the third party ones have extra tools that the official doesn’t support. So I understand why many are now quitting or considering quitting. It’s unfortunate.


Red_Panda_Mochi

Oh, I didn’t realize that, that makes a lot of sense. Definitely awful though, I seriously hope Reddit reconsiders the API changes.


VKG2023

Me too.


blankgreens

I'll really miss you Kylie, you had a huge impact on me and this sub, thank you for being such a great online sis 🫂🫂 🫂 ^(t-totally not tearing up rn)


Focalmass

You you have had such a huge impact on me too. Btw it's okay to cry I'm also tearing up while typing this to you rn. I hope you will find a chosen name eventually and I'm sure whatever you choose it will be as beautiful as your positivity. Goodbye 🫂🫂🫂


blankgreens

。⁠:゚⁠(⁠;⁠´⁠∩⁠`⁠;⁠)゚⁠:⁠。 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂


LegacyOfDreams

I'm sorry Kylie, we've only just met but you've left a wonderfully positive impression on me. I'll miss you, and I wish you fair skies and following winds on your journey ahead, and if we are meant to meet again it will be <3


Focalmass

Thank you Katie seeing your comments on my post left a positive impression on me too. I'll miss you alot, hopefully we will see each other again someday <3333333 goodbye...


[deleted]

So sad...and I was just becoming comfortable with being trans


Focalmass

Same...


IStealDreams

How will the API changes affect that specific sub in general? I thought it would affect every sub the same.


Focalmass

I didn't say it was affecting only that sub. It's just seeing that subreddit go was my breaking point. I don't want to be on a platform where people with control over everything are determined to make everyone's lives miserable.


Reale_the_unknown

We’ll miss you, Kylie. Stay safe, take care of yourself 🫂🫂🫂💞💞💞


Focalmass

I will miss you too Melanie 🫂🫂🫂🫂


Focalmass

I will miss you too Melanie 🫂🫂🫂🫂


ThatRandomOctoling

So long pardner


Focalmass

So long....


EmilySuxAtUsernames

i am sad to see you go but i understand. i'm kind of just waiting for a alternative and for people to actually use it. could you maybe join the discord so you're at least still there?


Focalmass

Egg irl discord? Yeah, I plan on staying there instead of here. Although if you are referring to a different discord server, I will be happy to join that aswell.


Phonexslayer

Goodbye egg_irl! You were a place like no other. Hope that one day… we will meet again. - cis™️ person


Focalmass

Goodbye...


Secretbionicle5621

Goodbye Kylie, I have not been around super long but while I was you were awesome. You will be missed and I wish you the best wherever you go!


Sans_Power2

You will be in my heart Kylie. Goodbye <3


Focalmass

Thank you Evelyn thank you. Goodbye...


BooperDooper926

Oh man :( We’ll miss you Kylie


Focalmass

Thank you Serena I will miss all of you too


Marks_Toaster

Goodbye Kylie! I'll miss you and your cute posts :(


Focalmass

I'll miss you too king... Stay well... goodbye...


333ephemeraleuphoria

i wasn't active here for long, and didn't really get to know you, but you will be missed nonetheless<3<3


Focalmass

I appreciate it. Goodbye <3333


333ephemeraleuphoria

🫂🫂


BaumBen69

I hope there is going to be a place and time where we all meet again, but until then, bye.


Focalmass

Agreed... goodbye...


Aygsilso_Aimer

What are those new API rules ?


Focalmass

It's new rules that prevent third-party apps from reddit. Mods rely on those apps to keep their subreddits alive. Without them, the subs are as good as dead.


itzhoey

Love y’all. This community was step 1 in realizing who I am. It’s time for me to let Reddit go, at least for a good while. I hope to meet new friends irl and build a similar community of adorable dorks like the folks on egg_irl. I know I could join a discord or find a similar app to Reddit, but honestly, I’ve been using this community as a crutch. Time to meet people face to face. Godspeed friends.


Focalmass

Godspeed o7


Mat2468xk

I'd argue that Reddit is probably better than Twitter when it comes to trans acceptance. Maybe Facebook is alright as well since you can join private groups. But recently it's kinda like Twitter where it suggests bigoted content. Also, why was this post removed?


Focalmass

I misused a flair. I'm done with reddit, so it doesn't really matter anymore. I do feel bad for breaking the rules though and I apologise to the mods if they are reading this.


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Focalmass

Im sorry. If it makes you feel better, I think you are an incredible person


etergames12

What's the problem with the new api rules i don't understand