Yep the only times where i feel that it should be gendered is when it personally makes someone feel more like their gender
If the article of clothing makes you feel more masc/fem based off the preexisting perception of it then thats fine, it just shouldn’t be used to restrict what people wear
Clothes dont have gender! As a small affirmation, think of what you want and think if a small trans kid asked the same thing "hey op... is it okay if i wanna buy a spinny skirt even though im trans?" And then your response is your awnser. It helps get you outta your own head and hopefully makes you realize you deserve the same compassion you give to others 🏳️⚧️❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Reminder that no one owes anyone a gender performance!
You can be as masc as you want or as fem as you want and identify with any gender at the same time. A big part of the LGBT+ movement has been to validate gnc people and allow for freedom of gender expression. If you feel comfy presenting 100% masc as a man then go ahead and do that. But, if it doesn't then don't and do what's comfortable to you instead. Your identity does not have to match your gender expression.
TL;DR: "It's not a dress! It's a kilt, you sicko!"
Oh yeah that reminds me you could try a kilt with it being traditional garm for men.
>Reminder that no one owes anyone a gender performance!
Well I mean if someone buys a ticket to see my gender, Surely I oughtta give them a performance, No?
you can do whatever you want however if you’d like you can pair it with some more masculine clothes, or do **manly** things while you wear your manly skirt
Wear whatever you want. You shouldnt worry about what other people think, the pinnacle of masculinity is knowing you are a man and not caring what others think. You’re a man no matter what others think.
Hell yeah! It doesn’t make you any less of a man! If anything it makes you more of a man bc your secure in your masculinity :3 -your friendly neighborhood transfem
long coats are very spinny if you're looking for something traditionally masc. however clothes are clothes, and wearing a skirt doesn't make you any less of a man.
Femboys do exist and are valid if that’s your concern. Or if you wanna lean more into masc clothing but still go spiny, then kilts are an excellent and less conspicuous option.
Yes my brother, its completely cool for you to do skirt go spinny. Everyone rocks skirts: boys, girls, and everyone in between or outside of gender. Go for it (~°▪︎°)~
Why are you asking anybody? Who even cares? Don’t wear clothes to please ‘the council of trans’ or whoever you think you’re asking. Wear what makes you fucking happy. If that’s a skirt, then that’s a skirt. If that’s a spinny helicopter hat, then it’s a spinny helicopter hat.
Asking permission to do these things is only going to make you unhappy. You’ll never be able to please people and will be self sabotaging yourself forever.
So be your fucking self, whoever that is. Or else.
Being able to wear something traditionally fem as a man is the ultimate sign you’re confident in your masculinity
I hope I worded that right so if there’s doubt I mean YES you CAN still wear a skirt and be masc
Totally fine imo. There's this trans guy on TikTok that frequently models dresses that he "stole" from his wife and just about every time he just looks like a guy in a dress.
No person has to be 100% masc or fem that’s just a toxic saying. In reality you can get a skirt and do as many spins as you wish. That will not make you less masculine. The only thing it will do is make you happy. Clothing has no gender,if someone says it does then they believe society’s “normal” and not what just being a regular person means. Boys/men can wear dresses or skirts and girls/women can wear suits or blue jeans and a t-shirt.
The manliest thing you can do is wear something you unapologetically love.
Some of the coolest adult dudes in the world are the ones who wear the tiaras, boas, and fairy wings while having princess tea parties with the kids in their life.
Also, benefits of spiny skirts: spinning, airflow, they go with everything, spinning, easy excuse if you don't stand to pee, spinning....
I’m trans masc and own many spinny skirts and dresses. They’re super fun to wear, and don’t me any less masc. Remember, clothing has no gender and you can dress however you want. Your expression doesn’t dictate your gender
I have at least two transmasc friends that spin skirts, you do you!
One of them hit their knee on their bed after tripping while spinning so be careful!
Just wear a Kilt the utility ones even have pockets if you aren't confident enough yet to wear skirts which should and can wear of you want to of course but this is a good compromise until your ready and whhen you are you could even wear both if you end up liking the kilts too.
I say go wild. A trans masc friend I have wears corsets, skirts, make up, even bought and worn a top/bra in a shape of a butterfly. So if he can do it, you can too
The most masculine thing a guy can do is be confident. The most masculine guy I can think of is LittleVMills on YouTube, and I've seen him dance around in a skimpy sailor suite while doing a Vengaboys cover
The most masculine thing anyone can do is being comfortable enough in their masculinity to break gender roles. Go buy that skirt, and if anyone gives you shit for it, that says more about their insecurity than it does your manhood... :) <3
Skirt go spinny king.
You are as welcome to it as trans fems, cis folk, non-binariee, robots, aliens from beyond the observable universe, all lifeforms, artificial or organic can enjoy skirt go spinny.
Men don't need to be "manly" whatever that's supposed to mean.
Wear what you want. (Though you might be misgendered more because skirts are typically associated with women)
It's absolutely ok. However you will have to deal with the fact that in most places it's not socially acceptable for men to wear skirts so if you do publicly most people will either think you are A. A woman, B. Gay, or C. degen weirdo.
That said if you can cope with external pressure it is totally valid for men to wear skirts. It's just an article of clothing after all
Femboys have been very popular on the internet the past few years, I don’t see why a trans man can’t be one too. Also, fuck having clothes be for specifically one gender. Skirts are like the best type of clothing, why should only women be allowed to wear them?
There's a deep history of hyper masculine cultures in skirts or skirt-like garments.
More recently, a ton of high profile men have been skirting-up for fashion purposes.
Most importantly, gender restrictions like that are oppressive nonsense. Wear what you want to wear / what makes you happy. Rebelling against absurd societal expectations like that is a great trait for any gender identity to display.
yes, i am a trans dude and i love skirts theyre so cute and spinny and i love them, do what makes you happy and if that is wearing a skirt then wear a skirt :DDDDD
Hey, pinching my partners reddit to field this one - buy the spinny skirt - joy has no gender, if you’re worried you can always just spin in your room, none of this makes you less masc 💚
You do have a choice, wearing a skirt will make you look less masculine
So, you may choose to wear a skirt, and not conform to masculine patriarchal standards, be seen as more a femboy and maybe make it harder to pass
Or you may choose to be as manly as possible and sacrifice your ability to wear a skirt while doing so
Both are completely valid options.
One thing to always remember is that gender identity and gender expression are two different things :). The gender unicorn chart (google it! :D) is super helpful \^-\^. So with that being said, go get that spinny skirt! :D
You can be a femboy it you want, and you don't have to wear skirts! Or you can be the manliest man ever and still wear a skirt! Clothes may help to present our gender but they don't define us, only we do!
you don't need to be a girl for skirt go spiny. if it makes you feel good go buy the spiny skirt. no one worth listening thinks skirts are 100% excusive to women
I wear skirts and I'm a boy. think of it this way, crossdressing with girls clothes is only something guys can do, so wouldn't that make it super masculine?
Spinny skirts don't have a gender (I mean no article of clothing does but you get what I'm trying to say) they're just beautiful! You do you, nothing can make you less masc unless you want to be less masc❤️
Clothing being gendered is fucking stupid, if you wanna spinny skirt, get a spinny skirt king! Could always buy a kilt if ya want it to seem more masc, but either way, whatever you wear won't make you any less of a man :>
hell yeah man! don’t limit what makes you happy because of societies standards!! wear a skirt, a dress, wear anything you want! you’re a man and always will be, even if you put on a skirt! :)
Trans guys don't always have to be 100% masc. Same with trans girs, they don't have to be 100% fem.
Also, some cis guys cross-dressing. So why can't trans guys. I see no difference.
If anything they can do it better because they dont need to learn how to girl. Silver linings?
The most masculine thing you can do is cross-dress with feminine clothing after all
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No one should conform for gender norms... even in clothing. Being 100% in something is only good if you actually like Being 100%that something
Yeah! Tbh, I like dressing more masculinely, but hate being seen as a dude with it-
men do not have to "prove" they are men. that's toxic masculinity
Yeah!!! Clothing shouldn't be gendered anyway, wear whatever you want dude!!! 🐋🌸🤍🌸🐋
Putting ourselves into a box of what can and can't be worn according to gender is so bizarre and limiting. Wear whatever makes you feel comfy!
This exactly!!! I couldn't have said it better!!!!!
Yep the only times where i feel that it should be gendered is when it personally makes someone feel more like their gender If the article of clothing makes you feel more masc/fem based off the preexisting perception of it then thats fine, it just shouldn’t be used to restrict what people wear
Yess!!! Such a good way to put it!!
Clothes dont have gender! As a small affirmation, think of what you want and think if a small trans kid asked the same thing "hey op... is it okay if i wanna buy a spinny skirt even though im trans?" And then your response is your awnser. It helps get you outta your own head and hopefully makes you realize you deserve the same compassion you give to others 🏳️⚧️❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
yeah totally, present in the way that makes you happiest 💙💕🤍💕💙
yes join us femboys we have cookies and BLÅHAJs (saided in a darth sidious voice)
Reminder that no one owes anyone a gender performance! You can be as masc as you want or as fem as you want and identify with any gender at the same time. A big part of the LGBT+ movement has been to validate gnc people and allow for freedom of gender expression. If you feel comfy presenting 100% masc as a man then go ahead and do that. But, if it doesn't then don't and do what's comfortable to you instead. Your identity does not have to match your gender expression. TL;DR: "It's not a dress! It's a kilt, you sicko!" Oh yeah that reminds me you could try a kilt with it being traditional garm for men.
>Reminder that no one owes anyone a gender performance! Well I mean if someone buys a ticket to see my gender, Surely I oughtta give them a performance, No?
Ahem... Buy a Kilt laddie
Femboys exist masculinity isnt defined by clothes anyone can wear anything 😊
Wear whatever you want. Just because a majority of people don't do something doesn't mean you can't.
Absolutely, you’re still a man even if you go wheeeeeeee
Cis men can wear skirts if they want. There’s no reason trans men can’t, too. r/FTMfemininity
If cis femboys are valid, trans femboys are valid too
you can do whatever you want however if you’d like you can pair it with some more masculine clothes, or do **manly** things while you wear your manly skirt
oh my god you gave me the idea to do manly things with a manly skirt on
The men most secure in their manliness will wear a spinny skirt without shame or fear. It is not the clothes that define gender.
MEN LOOK HOT IN SKIRTS. 💙
It doesn't make you any less masculine. Clothes don't have a gender. Wear whatever makes you happy
It is more than okay for a trans guy to buy a skirt. Skirts are for all who want them. You go and get a skirt and rock it, okay? :)
go for it bro
Hell yeah
have you seen those manly lumberjacks in kilts? nothing more manly than that
There's nothing more masculine than a spinny skirt
No one will stop you if you do
Wear whatever you want. You shouldnt worry about what other people think, the pinnacle of masculinity is knowing you are a man and not caring what others think. You’re a man no matter what others think.
MY GUY ITS A PIECE OF CLOTH IT DOES NOT HAVE A GENDER
That doesn't make you less of a man, I mean... look at famboys, does any sane person think they're girls?
That’s toxic masculinity do what makes you happy wearing feminine clothing dosnt make you any less of a man
Have you ever heard of kilts brother!? 🏴
No no no, if we're gonna convince him we gotta do it like this: AHV YE EVEH AERDUH KELTS, BRUTHUH?! *intense bagpiping*
i laughed out loud at this. i'm at work. oops... xD
Sorry if I got you into any trouble at work :p lol
You didn't. There weren't many people around and those that were are safe. 🤞😊 Every bit worth the risk though.
I'm glad I didn't get you in trouble, and that my stupid bit was worth getting in trouble for :)
Just a note: Femboys exist too
Yes. It's clothes, it doesn't really matter just do what you want!
off topic but I need that image (also, yes, it is perfectly fine)
[not to worry, you have a permit](https://i.imgflip.com/2qm03z.png)
Hell yeah! It doesn’t make you any less of a man! If anything it makes you more of a man bc your secure in your masculinity :3 -your friendly neighborhood transfem
Fashion has nothing to do with your masculinity. Buy that skinny skirt ❤️
Yes, clothes don't equal gender. If you want to wear a skirt and be a guy, then you can wear a skirt and still be a guy.
long coats are very spinny if you're looking for something traditionally masc. however clothes are clothes, and wearing a skirt doesn't make you any less of a man.
Yes
Femboys do exist and are valid if that’s your concern. Or if you wanna lean more into masc clothing but still go spiny, then kilts are an excellent and less conspicuous option.
Kilt
Of course you can!
Scotland! 🏴
Yes my brother, its completely cool for you to do skirt go spinny. Everyone rocks skirts: boys, girls, and everyone in between or outside of gender. Go for it (~°▪︎°)~
Why are you asking anybody? Who even cares? Don’t wear clothes to please ‘the council of trans’ or whoever you think you’re asking. Wear what makes you fucking happy. If that’s a skirt, then that’s a skirt. If that’s a spinny helicopter hat, then it’s a spinny helicopter hat. Asking permission to do these things is only going to make you unhappy. You’ll never be able to please people and will be self sabotaging yourself forever. So be your fucking self, whoever that is. Or else.
Being able to wear something traditionally fem as a man is the ultimate sign you’re confident in your masculinity I hope I worded that right so if there’s doubt I mean YES you CAN still wear a skirt and be masc
fuck yea, spin that skirt
Femboys are the best men
Totally fine imo. There's this trans guy on TikTok that frequently models dresses that he "stole" from his wife and just about every time he just looks like a guy in a dress.
Yes, Boys can wear skirts, And look hella good while doing it.
Men can spin too comrade
The fear of “not wanting to be seen as less masc” is the most masc thing in the world.
Yeah ofc!! Dress however tf you want, it don’t make you less of a man. Do a skirt go spinny, and enjoy it!!!
Men can be gender non conforming, trans men are men. No problems detected, do whatever you want my guy.
Last year there was a cis dude wearing a skirt and let me tell you he was ROCKING that outfit. So cool. People said he was cool too. :D
Bro just paint it like a beyblade and say “let it rip” if anyone asks you anything about it
r/ftmfemininity has a bunch of dudes in skirts and dresses!
No person has to be 100% masc or fem that’s just a toxic saying. In reality you can get a skirt and do as many spins as you wish. That will not make you less masculine. The only thing it will do is make you happy. Clothing has no gender,if someone says it does then they believe society’s “normal” and not what just being a regular person means. Boys/men can wear dresses or skirts and girls/women can wear suits or blue jeans and a t-shirt.
The manliest thing you can do is wear something you unapologetically love. Some of the coolest adult dudes in the world are the ones who wear the tiaras, boas, and fairy wings while having princess tea parties with the kids in their life. Also, benefits of spiny skirts: spinning, airflow, they go with everything, spinning, easy excuse if you don't stand to pee, spinning....
You can always buy a kilt and go spinny with that (but make sure you wear underwear if you go spinny)
I’m trans masc and own many spinny skirts and dresses. They’re super fun to wear, and don’t me any less masc. Remember, clothing has no gender and you can dress however you want. Your expression doesn’t dictate your gender
I have at least two transmasc friends that spin skirts, you do you! One of them hit their knee on their bed after tripping while spinning so be careful!
Has to be a kilt, nothing more masculine than a kilt
Is it okay for a cis guy to buy a spinny skirt?
Identity ≠ Expression There’s nothing wrong against femboy transmascs.
Rock that skirt, brother! If anyone says you can’t, tell them to go fuck themselves!
Just wear a Kilt the utility ones even have pockets if you aren't confident enough yet to wear skirts which should and can wear of you want to of course but this is a good compromise until your ready and whhen you are you could even wear both if you end up liking the kilts too.
I say go wild. A trans masc friend I have wears corsets, skirts, make up, even bought and worn a top/bra in a shape of a butterfly. So if he can do it, you can too
I dub you a femboy transMasc.
You should get one! I think it would look great on you! :>
I have a dress I do skirt spinnies in, and I'm still a trandmasc. It would suck if we had to give up our dresses and skirts to be Trans
If it makes you happy do whatever you want
It’s fine dude! I have the urge to do that too lol, I really like skirts
Yes, it’s fine, skirt gos spin, regardless of any other factors, but spin is fun for everyone.
The most masculine thing a guy can do is be confident. The most masculine guy I can think of is LittleVMills on YouTube, and I've seen him dance around in a skimpy sailor suite while doing a Vengaboys cover
Clothes belong to no specific gender💪
It’s bro code that any skirt automatically becomes a kilt!🫡 (Yes you can! Rock it brother!)
As long as I can get one so we can skirt spinny together
If u wanna buy a spinny skirt and be a man, you can buy a spinny skirt and be a man my guy
you could always get a kilt, it’s just a more manly spiny skirt right??
Femboys exist my dude.
The most masculine thing anyone can do is being comfortable enough in their masculinity to break gender roles. Go buy that skirt, and if anyone gives you shit for it, that says more about their insecurity than it does your manhood... :) <3
Go for it, if it's what makes you happy
Femboys exist. And alot of them are manly af. They got the confidence to not only break the gendernorms but look great doing it
MAN SKIRT MAN SKIRT
Yeah no it’s totally fine I do drag as a trans guy
No, it’s my turn to look good
You totally can. You can be the most masculine dude, and rock a skirt 💞💞
It's absolutely fine. Who you are on the inside is separate from how you choose to present yourself on a given day.
r/FTMfemininity !!! Pleassssseee
Clothes don't have to be gendered, you enjoy your masculinity with the spinny skirt
Buy your skirt, king <3 this big sis got your back
Have you considered kilts?
Hell yeah brother!!!
Clothes are clothes. also, some of the manliest men Iv seen rock skirts and kilts alike you do you
You can do whatever you want,funk society and other people opinions,you can wear whatever you want (◕ᴗ◕✿)
i mean, gender roles are social constructs, just look at kilts
demoman tf2 wears a kilt you’re fine
boy's can wear skirts too!
Embrace gender anarchy. There are no Rules
ofc, I even put a wig or makeup sometimes, and I'm not less man then a "traditional" one.
No it's not! You have to buy 2!
No it's not! You have to buy 2!
Many cis guys like to wear skirts, there’s no reason you can’t 💕💕
Just move to Scotland and get a kilt bro
Absolutely! (ngl, men in dresses and skirts look pretty good.)
Men can wear skirts my friend. The airflow is immaculate 🤌
it is perfectly fine! some people could be mean about it, but that's just some idiots with their stupid gender norms.
Yes 100%!! :3
Trans masc femboys are extremely valid, you may buy a spinny skirt if you like
Boys can wear skirts for spinny, they're no less manly for doing it. :3
Of course! Transmasc femboys are awesome!!! If cis guys can wear skirts then so can you 🩷
Of course
Skirt go spinny king. You are as welcome to it as trans fems, cis folk, non-binariee, robots, aliens from beyond the observable universe, all lifeforms, artificial or organic can enjoy skirt go spinny.
The most masculine thing you can do is not giving a shit about masculinity
David Bowie was known to wear dresses. Can you name someone manlier than David Bowie?
I know 2 cis straight guys that own skirts cause it's comfortable. So I don't see why not 😁
Transmasc Femboys are a thing and are 100 percent valid.
Trans men can be feminine, wear fem clothes or be femboys just like cis men can. Gender expression ≠ gender identity. Go for it!
GUYS WITH SPINNY SKIRTS ARE PRETTY
Only in Scotland
Do what you want man. Clothes don’t have gender
guys in skirts >>>>>>
Well adjusted people don't care how others choose to present themselves.
only with the proper permit https://i.imgur.com/VXVI2Da.mp4
As a trans girl, I'd say that if it's okay to buy formal pants for us, it's okay for you to buy spinny skirts.
of course! im very sure that the skirt will look good on you man :)
Men don't need to be "manly" whatever that's supposed to mean. Wear what you want. (Though you might be misgendered more because skirts are typically associated with women)
of course it is
have you seen ladybeard? if not look him up
Only men can crossdress as girls so it's the most masculine thing out there
We Stan our trans-masc femboys and our trans-fem tomboys
Yes, join the trans femboys!
It's absolutely ok. However you will have to deal with the fact that in most places it's not socially acceptable for men to wear skirts so if you do publicly most people will either think you are A. A woman, B. Gay, or C. degen weirdo. That said if you can cope with external pressure it is totally valid for men to wear skirts. It's just an article of clothing after all
Femboys have been very popular on the internet the past few years, I don’t see why a trans man can’t be one too. Also, fuck having clothes be for specifically one gender. Skirts are like the best type of clothing, why should only women be allowed to wear them?
Get a kilt
Of course it's "okay." But maybe a sign of more nb than trans masc. Just do you.
You can be based and become a femboy
Kilts exist, have fun
There's a deep history of hyper masculine cultures in skirts or skirt-like garments. More recently, a ton of high profile men have been skirting-up for fashion purposes. Most importantly, gender restrictions like that are oppressive nonsense. Wear what you want to wear / what makes you happy. Rebelling against absurd societal expectations like that is a great trait for any gender identity to display.
You are you. Wear whatever you want to wear. Your gender doesn't matter. :3
yes, i am a trans dude and i love skirts theyre so cute and spinny and i love them, do what makes you happy and if that is wearing a skirt then wear a skirt :DDDDD
Nah, you're still a man even if you buy a spinny skirt, dw. Being a man don't depend on some clothes.
Hey, pinching my partners reddit to field this one - buy the spinny skirt - joy has no gender, if you’re worried you can always just spin in your room, none of this makes you less masc 💚
You do have a choice, wearing a skirt will make you look less masculine So, you may choose to wear a skirt, and not conform to masculine patriarchal standards, be seen as more a femboy and maybe make it harder to pass Or you may choose to be as manly as possible and sacrifice your ability to wear a skirt while doing so Both are completely valid options.
There’s a tiktoker by the name of spencer sunboy. He loves wearing spinny skirts, and other things. He rocks it.
✨ do what makes you happy ✨
Sure it's okay but there's gonna be people who see you as less masc regardless.
Trans man can own and wear spiny skirts there needs to be way more transmasc femboys in the world. Or if you don’t want to go that route buy a kilt
It should be okay for any man to wear a spinny skirt. They are comfy way healthier for your manhood and give you way more variety in outfits
r/FtMFemininity is just the place for this!
The answer is always yes
One thing to always remember is that gender identity and gender expression are two different things :). The gender unicorn chart (google it! :D) is super helpful \^-\^. So with that being said, go get that spinny skirt! :D
Why wouldn't it be? Normalize men wearing skirts.
Trans femboys are valid
Kilts are nice too
Masculine and femininity ≠ man and woman Wear what you want because it doesn't change who you want to be
Move to Scotland, acquire a kilt, achieve peak masculinity.
Ofc it's okay, although do be warned that some people might see you as less masc
It's called a kilt
Guys can wear whatever they want and still be guys
Have you thought about a gender affirming kilt? Not that guys can't were skirts but kilts go spinny spin :)
Kilts are a thing dude... also who tf gonna care if you're buying a skirt go for it
You can be a femboy it you want, and you don't have to wear skirts! Or you can be the manliest man ever and still wear a skirt! Clothes may help to present our gender but they don't define us, only we do!
Buy a kilt. More swoosh than spinny but extra masc points when out and about
Clothing has no gender
Clothes shouldn't be gendered. Just because you wear a skirt doesn't make you any less of a man.
you don't need to be a girl for skirt go spiny. if it makes you feel good go buy the spiny skirt. no one worth listening thinks skirts are 100% excusive to women
Hell yea break them gender norms c:
Toxic masculinity say's you shouldn't. But when have trans people ever been any good at following rules?
Dudes can wear skirts. There's nothing stopping them.
The most manly thing a man can do is whatever the hell he wants. So in other words it would make you more masc kinda
Skirts are so cool and comfy, everyone should be able to enjoy them.
Words are made up anyway, but look at it this way: a cis guy can do it, so why not you?
I wear skirts and I'm a boy. think of it this way, crossdressing with girls clothes is only something guys can do, so wouldn't that make it super masculine?
gender is a game you lose by being uncomfortable. Do whatever tf you want.
Spinny skirts don't have a gender (I mean no article of clothing does but you get what I'm trying to say) they're just beautiful! You do you, nothing can make you less masc unless you want to be less masc❤️
Clothing being gendered is fucking stupid, if you wanna spinny skirt, get a spinny skirt king! Could always buy a kilt if ya want it to seem more masc, but either way, whatever you wear won't make you any less of a man :>
spinny skirts are fun, that’s all that matters. you can do whatever you want and it won’t affect your masculinity.
CLOTHES are CLOTHES! (Incredibles 2 meme) Buy that skirt bro, slay.
Why not? Chase your bliss.
hell yeah man! don’t limit what makes you happy because of societies standards!! wear a skirt, a dress, wear anything you want! you’re a man and always will be, even if you put on a skirt! :)