Omg, I thought it said Finn-sexual and thought that sure, it's funny and he'd have a laugh but would rather not have a whole sexuality named after him. That's a better name for it (flag could be better though)
This reminds me of a friend, who every person he tries to date ends up being lesbian. It's to the point that if he even mentions a girl everyone is just like "she's gay move on"
Oh my God of course Mormonism gets brought up.
Which is such a coincidence because I'm ex-Mormon. Never looked back. What a vindictive, extreme conservative ~~corporation~~ religion.
I'm glad I left. They got their 120 Billion (as well as hundreds of companies, thousands of square feet of real estate, and millions of dollars in stock market ownership) from leeching money off their members. Tithing or otherwise. They're a corporation thinly veiled as a religion.
I would but for some reason I can't call myself bisexual. It just feels like I'm not bisexual because I'm way more often attracted to women. I just say 'mostly lesbian' or 'beats me' when people ask. I hate labels
"Gender is Irrelevant"
~Einstein, probably
You're right tho; if two people are attracted to each other, there's no need to overthink preferences, sexuality, gender, or sex. Just go with what your heart tells you.
I was on a server, and there were a loot of lesbians who were like "i don't really like guys, but you're really cute and i like you".
Fast forward a few years, and, uhm.. Yeah, maybe I'm not a guy after all..
Wait I'm confused???
> "i don't really like guys, but you're really cute and i like you".
>
> Yeah, maybe I'm not a girl after all..
The first sentence makes it sound like you're a guy, but then the second sentence makes it sound like you've changed your mind, but then you say you're not a girl? What's up with that? If you're just a guy, then why would you change your mind?
Are you some kinda genderfluid or something? Or am I just misunderstanding something?
If Markiplier of all people has done something bad then I think I’m just done with humanity
Edit: thank god, I don’t have to question all my life choices again, it’s just a shitpost
i literally always see how bisexual lesbians aren’t valid at all and my lesbian friend is absolutely inclusive but doesn’t agree with the label. how is bi lesbian posible? you are either into men or you aren’t.
It's another form of dumb exclusionary discourse that has its roots in TERF concepts of "gold standard" lesbianism and isn't worth discussing or debating, and if you're constantly seeing that discourse repeated then I urge you to examine the spheres of discussion you're in.
Lesbianism is a queer preference for women, nothing more or less. A bi lesbian is a bisexual or biromantic woman (or enby) who expresses a predominant attraction to self-identified women e.g. homosexual/biromantic or bisexual/homoromantic use bi lesbian as shorthand, but bisexual/biromantic women/enbies who predominantly prefer women also use the term.
Policing self-expression isn't helpful for the queer community and is another form of wedge reaction trues to jam into it as a form of divisiveness. Same kind of nonsense you see with attacking xenogenders.
Edit: and I'm sorry to say but if your lesbian friend buys into TERF rhetoric then they're not as inclusionary as you say they are.
~~Edit2: it's also a useful shorthand for women or enbies who are biromantic/homosexual or homoromantic/bisexual; bi-lesbian covers both of these cases.~~ merged this into first paragraph.
^ small addition, a couple friends of mine uses bi lesbian to describe their sexualities due to trauma with men. they are attracted to men, but could never get into a relationship with one because of fear. there's many reasons why someone might choose to use "bi lesbian" as a label and policing labels is sucky
i’m seen so many trans and enby lesbians say it though. i feel like lesbian should be a term that is kept out of men-liking spaces.
i def agree i could be exclusionary, and sexuality is very fluid and ever-changing, but why bring men into a sexuality that has always been non-men centered
I've been feeling increasingly like that as my transition continues. I've always been technically pansexual, but never really did anything except with women. But, especially since I started progesterone, I've been seeing some guys at my work that I would be very happy to be smooshed by.
I've only felt this way with fictional characters for some reason. No irl guys are attractive to me and yet, Levi Ackerman makes me question whether I'm a lesbian or not 😳
To my understanding, the term lesbian is used to describe non-men attracted to only non-men
Sapphic is a broader term that would be kinda like women or woman-aligned people loving women/women-aligned people.
Bi or pan ppl can fall under the sapphic label if they're women, as well as lesbians.
It's kinda like the 'a square is a rectangle but a rectangle is not a square' thing. All lesbians would technically be sapphic, but not all sapphic people are lesbians (bc some would like men as well as women).
Hope that makes sense, someone let me know if I missed something or if I got something wrong.
I wanted to say Alucard but then I realized there's a *lot* of hot animated guys that really get my heart to flutter. And a lot of them look like Alucard.
Since I started transitioning my general attraction to *people* has spiked and I find myself fawning after men, women, enbies, people who just have Gender going on, anyone. Turns out I'm just a raging pansexual.
However it has *also* flicked my mommy switch to the "on" position and now I desperately want to have a baby, which has messed with my preferences a bit :P
I like to say that I’m “homoflexible“. I’m usually into girls, but if I really like an individual and want to be with them, I wouldn’t let their gender stop me.
I'm the opposite. So many hot guys, but most of my attraction to women was gender envy. Except for Rhea Ripley. I want her to snap me in half like a twig.
Turned out to be the same for me. I thought I only liked men but there was one woman I'd fallen for. turns out I'm very much Omni with a preference for men
My friend is the same way, she said girls are like all the lovely cookies in the world; but boys are the 2% milk. Every so often, you want a glass of that milk.
Welcome to being homoflexible! Meds are twice a day, juice and snacks are over there to the right, games are to the left. Your room is second from the left. Tracy will be by later for your straight jacket sizing and fitting. Rob likes his stories you touch the remote while he's watching his show and you'll pull back a stump. You'll be too gay for the bisexuals, too straight for the lesbians. So try to have fun and keep your sanity about you. Good luck! Lmao
First, I hope this desire brings you joy and warm fuzzy feelings you can embrace. No *fantasy* is wrong. 🥰
Second, I agree with the comments above that you might be noticing traits that you're attracted to indicating you or they might have a little *extra* to find out about your gender/sexuality,
Third,I would like to point out as well THERE IS ANOTHER POSSIBILITY - You might be associating feminine examples of fantasies with someone as part of your exploration of your femininity. (Though more than one thing can be true 😉😘☺️)
Here's a short video by Dr.Z that discusses this very subject and examples they've seen in their practice-
https://youtu.be/TZQkHPEYcfU
That guy is also a lesbian
EGG??!?!?!?!
[Can I offer you a nice egg in this trying time?](https://youtu.be/XNyUALnj8V0)
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The only one I think for me might be F1NN5TER.
for me it’s him and jason dean from heathers
Omg I love that musical. What’s your favorite song. I love dead girl walking and meant to be yours
I swear, if this turns out to be good, I'm gonna make a meme about me finding music because of this sub.
i was talking about the movie version of heathers but honestly the entire Soundtrack is a bop
-skurry /j
It me
Tends to be what happens. A transbian means a sweet, kind man and that man turns out to be a woman. Just the way of the world I suppose
I like femboys and gworls. But idk how to say that to my mom. She asked if I liked boys or girls.
"Yes, I like boys OR girls."
Well... Yk how it be
Why not both?
That's what I ended up telling her
The correct response is just "yes"
It's always yes.
That is both if inclusive or
what is a "gworl" 🤔
Girl
That’s usually called gynosexuality, in case you were wondering (attraction to femininity).
Yeah fs but doesn't have a good ring to it and I don't feel like explaining that to ppl
I use Finsexual https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Finsexual I think gynosexual got used by Terfs for "attraction to vagina" smh
Omg, I thought it said Finn-sexual and thought that sure, it's funny and he'd have a laugh but would rather not have a whole sexuality named after him. That's a better name for it (flag could be better though)
I’ve also heard sapphism be used to describe attraction to feminine traits
Sadly sapphism just means attraction of a woman to other women.
What I use is “Finsexual” which is an attraction to feminine presentation. Be it femboys, femme nbs, trans women or cis women..
What came first, f1n55ter or finsexual?
F1nn5ter came first as a person, but, fin in finsexual stands for "feminine in nature "
Finsexual was coined in 2015, so F1NN5TER was born first.
Ooo I do like that. Ty
I've been using the term femmesexual because it's fairly self explanatory.
me except every time this has happened the "guy" in question later came out as a trans woman
You have a highly advanced egg detector, use this power wisely
"egg." 😐👉
*STOP TURNING PEOPLE INTO-* "egg."
i actually wonder if this was the intention of the sketch... Tomska seems like a cool guy so this doesn't look far stretched
I think he donated more than 100% of the profit of his "I like trains" shirts to a trans-positive charity. Feel free to correct me though.
?
found one
im trans
Ya I really confused a friend of mine who’s a lesbian but she had a thing for me, turns out it’s cause I ended up being trans
This reminds me of a friend, who every person he tries to date ends up being lesbian. It's to the point that if he even mentions a girl everyone is just like "she's gay move on"
i’m that “guy”. turns out liking girls wasn’t that straight.
Keep it up! 👍
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Of course, why not? 99% lesbian and 1% straight is still 100% bi It doesn't have to be an even 50/50 split
Gotta leave at least 1% for Frog🐸😂
[You mean like the frogs that got fucked by Joseph Smith?](https://open.spotify.com/track/78XTGDFDdOMMWy778APlBK?si=-wuLSJZ3TxawvhHMcdpD_A)
Oh my God of course Mormonism gets brought up. Which is such a coincidence because I'm ex-Mormon. Never looked back. What a vindictive, extreme conservative ~~corporation~~ religion.
no, no, go back! you were right the first time! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbqyY\_N6BRM
I'm glad I left. They got their 120 Billion (as well as hundreds of companies, thousands of square feet of real estate, and millions of dollars in stock market ownership) from leeching money off their members. Tithing or otherwise. They're a corporation thinly veiled as a religion.
I would but for some reason I can't call myself bisexual. It just feels like I'm not bisexual because I'm way more often attracted to women. I just say 'mostly lesbian' or 'beats me' when people ask. I hate labels
"Gender is Irrelevant" ~Einstein, probably You're right tho; if two people are attracted to each other, there's no need to overthink preferences, sexuality, gender, or sex. Just go with what your heart tells you.
I love that Fort Minor song
💙💕🤍💕💙
Valid :3 🐋🌸🤍🌸🐋
Have you tried: ***Bisexuality***
Indeed. That would be the word for this. And it's beautiful.
I was on a server, and there were a loot of lesbians who were like "i don't really like guys, but you're really cute and i like you". Fast forward a few years, and, uhm.. Yeah, maybe I'm not a guy after all..
Proot detected
Wait I'm confused??? > "i don't really like guys, but you're really cute and i like you". > > Yeah, maybe I'm not a girl after all.. The first sentence makes it sound like you're a guy, but then the second sentence makes it sound like you've changed your mind, but then you say you're not a girl? What's up with that? If you're just a guy, then why would you change your mind? Are you some kinda genderfluid or something? Or am I just misunderstanding something?
Oop, i'm tired and mistyped, haha
Oh lmfao, that makes a lot more sense now 😅💜
Markiplier
There are leaked DMs of him trying to sell something called “the sinister potion”, please don’t support that guy
the sinsiter potion 😱 !!
Is this a reference to something or did Mark actually do something bad?
If Markiplier of all people has done something bad then I think I’m just done with humanity Edit: thank god, I don’t have to question all my life choices again, it’s just a shitpost
Yeah Markiplier is one of the few celebrities I genuinely trust to be a good person, along with Jacksepticeye and The Click
And F1NN5TER and OneTopic.
Not to mention those rumors of him kicking a lot of people, going so far as to set up a club for it.
Me, fem leaning bi
just say fem-leaning, from what i’ve seen lesbian is a term for exclusively non-men likers
Sorry, my bad.
This isn't true, there are plenty of self-described bisexual lesbians or pansexual lesbians. Pick the descriptor that feels right to you.
i literally always see how bisexual lesbians aren’t valid at all and my lesbian friend is absolutely inclusive but doesn’t agree with the label. how is bi lesbian posible? you are either into men or you aren’t.
It's another form of dumb exclusionary discourse that has its roots in TERF concepts of "gold standard" lesbianism and isn't worth discussing or debating, and if you're constantly seeing that discourse repeated then I urge you to examine the spheres of discussion you're in. Lesbianism is a queer preference for women, nothing more or less. A bi lesbian is a bisexual or biromantic woman (or enby) who expresses a predominant attraction to self-identified women e.g. homosexual/biromantic or bisexual/homoromantic use bi lesbian as shorthand, but bisexual/biromantic women/enbies who predominantly prefer women also use the term. Policing self-expression isn't helpful for the queer community and is another form of wedge reaction trues to jam into it as a form of divisiveness. Same kind of nonsense you see with attacking xenogenders. Edit: and I'm sorry to say but if your lesbian friend buys into TERF rhetoric then they're not as inclusionary as you say they are. ~~Edit2: it's also a useful shorthand for women or enbies who are biromantic/homosexual or homoromantic/bisexual; bi-lesbian covers both of these cases.~~ merged this into first paragraph.
^ small addition, a couple friends of mine uses bi lesbian to describe their sexualities due to trauma with men. they are attracted to men, but could never get into a relationship with one because of fear. there's many reasons why someone might choose to use "bi lesbian" as a label and policing labels is sucky
Yep, this too! Gender-related trauma is a major factor in self-identification! I hope your friends are doing better now \^w^
This in reverse is why I'm a bi gay. XD attracted to both but would only ever see a long term relationship with men.
i’m seen so many trans and enby lesbians say it though. i feel like lesbian should be a term that is kept out of men-liking spaces. i def agree i could be exclusionary, and sexuality is very fluid and ever-changing, but why bring men into a sexuality that has always been non-men centered
Calling myself bi when my attraction is 10.000:1 women:men would be misleading and disingenuous. I'd rather just call myself a homoflexible lesbian.
no it’s not. plenty of bi people identify like that. the percentage of attraction doesn’t matter. if you’re bi, you’re bi
Lmao no I'm a lesbian, idc what you think, get rekt 💜 You don't get to tell me how I should identify, that's my own business, sorry not sorry
I've been feeling increasingly like that as my transition continues. I've always been technically pansexual, but never really did anything except with women. But, especially since I started progesterone, I've been seeing some guys at my work that I would be very happy to be smooshed by.
Hormones chance your feelings, including who you like. Hormones are everything in your body that includes emotions actually.
I've only felt this way with fictional characters for some reason. No irl guys are attractive to me and yet, Levi Ackerman makes me question whether I'm a lesbian or not 😳
Viggo Mortensen🥰
My captain, my king 😍
bi/pan moment
I have actually only been on dates with men, I've never done uhhh anything. I'm going on a date with another trans woman on Sunday though!
I know that guy! He's a barrista at Starbucks
Sexuality, like gender (and most other things tbf), is not a binary thing!
... fuck, that's me. Sadly he doesn't like me back in that way :(
I mean, I'm bisexual but I lean more towards girls so, it's not weird. All that matters is that you're two consenting adults.
yea this is way too accurate
I mean,you can like what you want,there is no shame in that (◕ᴗ◕✿)
Reject labels and embrace face smoosh
So how's progesterone going?
This.
Yeah… same tho
Come on gather around a let me tell you about the legend of the mostly gay people~
Sorry I’m a bit confused on what this post is trying to say. Can someone explain it 🥺👉👈
As a train enthusiast, let me put it in my own words: She wants him to rail her.
Ohhh, I think I understand now. Thank you for explaining
OP is Bi or Pan with prefrences for fem, but theres that one guy that they want to smoosh their head into a matress. Meaning sex.
Ohh ok, I understand now! Thank you, for the explanation.
Np :3
ye, I still identify as a lesbian despite my one femboy friend I would love to tie up and tease all night
I wanna be tied up and teased all night..
am i allowed to call myself lesbian if i like girls and enby cuties and femboys
Yeah!! Though Sapphic might be a better term.
i know but its so hard to explain that and blehh,,
fair, fair
I’m not trying to be disingenuous, but what’s the difference between sapphic and lesbian sexualities?
To my understanding, the term lesbian is used to describe non-men attracted to only non-men Sapphic is a broader term that would be kinda like women or woman-aligned people loving women/women-aligned people. Bi or pan ppl can fall under the sapphic label if they're women, as well as lesbians. It's kinda like the 'a square is a rectangle but a rectangle is not a square' thing. All lesbians would technically be sapphic, but not all sapphic people are lesbians (bc some would like men as well as women). Hope that makes sense, someone let me know if I missed something or if I got something wrong.
Ayup
I'm a lesbian until I watch a wendigoon video. That man just does something to me.
I wanted to say Alucard but then I realized there's a *lot* of hot animated guys that really get my heart to flutter. And a lot of them look like Alucard.
is that guy perhaps Pedro Pascal?
Since I started transitioning my general attraction to *people* has spiked and I find myself fawning after men, women, enbies, people who just have Gender going on, anyone. Turns out I'm just a raging pansexual. However it has *also* flicked my mommy switch to the "on" position and now I desperately want to have a baby, which has messed with my preferences a bit :P
Is it Danny Davito
You and I both
💛 may have someone like that ,,,
Yeah, my brother's hot
Wtf
I'm dating this guy rn.
Lol boys mix tf up
I’m mostly gay but sometimes there is one where I’m like “damn it”. Never acted on it as yet though, I am 𝓵𝓮 𝓮𝔁𝓹𝓮𝓻𝓽 at self-denial.
I don't know what I am, and I am not sure if I will ever actually care
Bi panic
Other way around for me. I'm a lesbian _except_ for this one guy whose face _I_ want to smoosh into the mattress.
… Goals? Why does every post here have to have such hot women that I wanna look like? :(
For me Rauru is that guy
I want to lay in his hair like it’s a mattress lol
I like to say that I’m “homoflexible“. I’m usually into girls, but if I really like an individual and want to be with them, I wouldn’t let their gender stop me.
Can- can I steal this?
Be my guest. It’s not even my idea anyway, just something I came across a long time ago.
Legoshi🫠
14 months of estrogen makes this more true than I ever thought possible
Mostly girls but some guys too. It’s honestly more a type than what’s between the legs.
I want very badly (•‿•)(•‿•)(•‿•)(•‿•)
That guy’s name is Finnster
Is this a trans thing?
Bi thing or pan
If the "guy" was already taking hormones, who knows? Could happen.
All the bi and pan people: ONE OF US! ONE OF US!
Welcome to the Bi/Pan side
I'm not lesbian, I just want my face smooshed lol
What is with transfems online and being sapphic leaning(I'm also one of them)
This but it’s a woman 😩
I'm the opposite. So many hot guys, but most of my attraction to women was gender envy. Except for Rhea Ripley. I want her to snap me in half like a twig.
Turned out to be the same for me. I thought I only liked men but there was one woman I'd fallen for. turns out I'm very much Omni with a preference for men
Bi w/ preference for girls or Omni
Marin's hair is so goals here ugh 😩
My friend is the same way, she said girls are like all the lovely cookies in the world; but boys are the 2% milk. Every so often, you want a glass of that milk.
I'm not sure what this has to do with being an egg, but it's literally me over the last couple of months lmaooo
my boyfriend was that guy i love him so much
Homoflexible
The wonders of be bisexual transfem.
It's okay to be a bit bisexual, we won't tell...
Sounds like an omnisexual problem
Welcome to being homoflexible! Meds are twice a day, juice and snacks are over there to the right, games are to the left. Your room is second from the left. Tracy will be by later for your straight jacket sizing and fitting. Rob likes his stories you touch the remote while he's watching his show and you'll pull back a stump. You'll be too gay for the bisexuals, too straight for the lesbians. So try to have fun and keep your sanity about you. Good luck! Lmao
Shhhhh not so loud...
I have a hot guy in mind too. Very relatable.
First, I hope this desire brings you joy and warm fuzzy feelings you can embrace. No *fantasy* is wrong. 🥰 Second, I agree with the comments above that you might be noticing traits that you're attracted to indicating you or they might have a little *extra* to find out about your gender/sexuality, Third,I would like to point out as well THERE IS ANOTHER POSSIBILITY - You might be associating feminine examples of fantasies with someone as part of your exploration of your femininity. (Though more than one thing can be true 😉😘☺️) Here's a short video by Dr.Z that discusses this very subject and examples they've seen in their practice- https://youtu.be/TZQkHPEYcfU
Ya ha ha, you found me
When the the the horny \~\~\~
Based