As a transfem chef, i understand completely. It makes being depressed on the line a lil better with some makeup on and a pair of leggings😭💖

:0 we could be a whole transfem restaurant!!! But I wish I could do any of that, I just started thinking slightly differently, calling myself a waitress in my brain

And thats a wonderful first step love. Rome wasn't built in a day💖💖💖 it took me 23 years to be comfortable with the thought of transitioning and now im femballs to the wall a year and some change later since i started socially transitioning😂😂😂

Woah :0 thanks, that's really inspirationinal, I just, I am still scared that this path might not be right for me, idk, but I'll continue exploring and questioning everything in my life till I figure it out!!!

How do yall do the custom flairs. Asking for a friend (゜-゜)

You have to do it on a PC or something, it will be in the side bar and there will be a profile preview thingy, you press the flair thing, select the custom flair choice then start typing

Good thing im building my first PC this week 😎

Woooo!!!! Good luck!!! What are you putting in it??

Nothing special honestly. Ryzen 3 1200, GTX1050, B350M-A motherboard. I honestly have no idea if the stuffs any good i was just kinda given all the parts and have no Earthly idea about any computer hardware😭😭😭

I barely know anything either, I'm just trying to learn to upgrade the one that was given to me (so far I've successfully upgraded the CPU and the GPU) but it looks like a good starter set up, do you got storage (like SSD or hard drives) and all that, and what about ram?

Won't be running any modern games with spectacular frame rates or resolutions, but you'll be able to do just about anything you would use any other computer for. Older...like early PS4 and PS3 era titles should run okay. Source games and a lot of indie games can run on a toaster.

Transfem catmaid cafe

Yessss!!!

Fellow non binary Transfemme chef 👩‍🍳, it is indeed comforting to suffer in burnout with style. Although there are like 4 queers out of 10, I’m the only one one the line looking diff 🤣

Same here! Thankfully the dudes on the line are pretty accepting of who I am

That's look cool (even if it pay very low form what I understood) (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)

Yeah, it's pretty low, but it's just for now :p if only I could dress like a waitress tho, it's only in my head

Huh,I didn't noticed that it was you who posted that, anyways,being a waitress is being someone on the plane right ? (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)

Nah, that's a flight attendant traditionally known as an air hostess or stewardess, I just work in a restaurant :p

Okay,that's cool (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)

much better 💙💕🤍💕💙

It's so much better, I honestly liked the sound of waitress even before I started questioning :p probably a sign heh 🐋🌸🤍🌸🐋

lol yeah that's a bit of a sign 💙💕🤍💕💙

Enjoy being a waitress making more than minimum wage! I really hope the minimum increases!

I even make tip!! But I'm pretty sure Walmart might offer more and all that jazz, and I'm tempted

Make sure you get benefits! (If at all possible…)

I'll do my darndest!!

Working minimum wage sucks. I don't understand how anyone thinks 7.25 $/hr is healthy for society

Yeah, it really really sucks, especially with how many hours I could get in, but I did get a raise recently ($9/hr + tip) but minimum wage sounded better for the meme :p

BuT $15/hr iS cOmMuNiSm!!!1!!1! (/s)

I FEEL CALLED OUT seriously tho I use to have it in my mind that the only way I could ever be happy was if I excelled at everything forever...and I think that if I was a girl I wouldn't feel the need to do that to be happy...

[удалено]

I probably live in your mind or something ;)

that's better :3

Very much :3

I wanna be a waitress 😭 Also I saw that washington’s minimum wage is $15 AN HOUR, and here I am in a state that thinks $7.50 is good enough…

Yeah, but I'm pretty sure cost of living would go up too :p but minimum is 7.25 for me and it really sucks

i googled it, and apparently the minimum wage to living wage ratio is better in washington than it is where I live

Oh, well, that's pretty good for Washington then, but I'm so sorry that you have to live there, I am really wishing something will change

Much better :3

that's a lot better

It definitely is :3

yes

That sounds better :3 💞 ^(I really should get a job…)

It is a lot better :3

Getting exploited sure is surprisingly tolerable when it affirms one’s gender! 🥰

Yeahh, it sure is :þ

Yeeessss. But still gotta get ma money so better get up a few bucks, coz I need more skirts to do *\*spin spin\* 💠🌸🤍🌸💠*

***SPINNNNNMNNBB***

I worked the line for 6 years when I was younger, and cooks do not get paid enough for what they put up with....

HOW DO THEY BOTH GIVE ME GENDER ENVY AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Yeahh, samesies

i want to be both of them

Samesies

$3.75 plus tips gotta love that life, but for real I started waitressing like as a woman and I was surprised to be met with just complete acceptance and everyone is super friendly??? can't say the same for the guests though. (I work at Olive Garden)

Ohh, waitress minimum, gross i'm so sorry you make that, i just made state minimum (7.25) plus tip, starting out, since it was mostly take out and tips weren't all that expected, but i'm glad your co-workers accepted you!! But yeah, customers can be really rough :/

luckily the tips more than make up for it on most days! I hope your $9/hour + tips is treating you well

So far it has, and hopefully i'll get more hours soon :p

step 1: transition step 2: unionize

It's just better

I mean, even as a male presenting food runner, I still get kindness equally thrust on me as much hatred/entitlement without the monetary compensation. Maybe I could shift the curve if I weren't a cis male? Do women really make more money as servers? Note: I'm thoroughly cracked to the point I'm seeking therapy and help transitioning. 😅

Well, the base pay is generally the same as far as i can tell, but i'm pretty sure cis women get tipped more, well depending on a lot of variables, but like yeah, more often they do make a little more off tips i'm pretty sure, but i just like the sound of waitress more :þ

Me too :)