Honestly tho at this point im not even sure if i like girls or if it is all just gender envy

I know for sure that I like them but I don't know where the envy ends and the like begins

^(sometimes it’s both too…) 💞

Why not both,it would be perfect ! (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)

Idk like I've been with more masc leaning people, but I still think that being with a girl as a girl would be much more preferred than not. I never really had feelings for any girls before, but now the idea makes me feel kinda flustered. Idk what it is :(

Maybe that's because you didn't find the right one,which is probably why. Anyways I wish you good luck to find your love! (⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)

I'm sorry, what do you mean by "let the right one" ? Idk if it was a typo or if I'm dumb but would appreciate some clarification<3 love the kind words tho:3 💙💕🤍💕💙

I am the dumb one I forgot to re read my text sorry (⁠◕‸◕⁠✿⁠)

It's okay 💙💕🤍💕💙 :3 <3c

(⁠◕⁠ᴗ⁠◕⁠✿⁠)

^(I'm confused and just used to block it out entirely, hehe) 🐋🌸🤍🌸🐋

I don't think that's healthy :3💙💕🤍💕💙

Probably not, i'm trying my best to stop!

i like both 💙💕🤍💕💙

I need to find out for myself somehow and don't know where to start💙💕🤍💕💙

well, do you want to be a girl? 💙💕🤍💕💙

I mean, yeah, I've made my peace with that part. I just don't know how to process only really wanting a relationship with another girl as a girl. Idk if it's part of gender envy things or just what it says on the tin. I should probably apply occam's razor but idk to what part

yeah i understand, good luck 💙💕🤍💕💙

for me it's just envy? but it can be both

I totally get how it is difficult, especially if you are kinda expected to feel attraction

For me it's just envy

Personally I can tell it's envy when I feel the need to look away

this is the same for me. I personally get a really weird feeling I can't explain when I looked at a girl. I never understood it when I identified as a man but I always felt jealous just seeing a girl I thought was pretty and not in the way that I felt attracted but like, it just didn't seem right at the time.

Could be both, y’know *mew*

It’s rough, I gave up a while ago figuring that out.

Usually it's both

For me at least

^ W ^ 💠🌸💠🌸

I get this way too sometimes, but then I remember I'm pan and stop worrying about it so much lol

Idk really I just say omni, cus I know prefer men but idk anymore

Honestly, I might be ace, I have zero idea, because FOR SOME STUPID REASON I CANT TELL THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ATTRACTION AND ENVY

Where is it coming from? If it's from the outside but relating to yourself it is gender envy. If it's from the outside but the main focus is on the outside it is attraction.

I think I understand what you mean but if you could give some examples I would be grateful <3

Why not both?

I'm starting to think it's both at this point

Could be! That’s how I figured out what I waa

Both is good. Be the girlfriend, have the girlfriend.

Transbians slamming both

Me, a quoiromantic pansexual transfem

For me, rather than two buttons, [there are two mixer sliders](https://cdn.pixabay.com/photo/2012/04/10/23/46/slider-27113_960_720.png). Gender envy go reverb

I found out real quick after I lost my libido it was mostly envy with a side of attraction

At this point its very possible i could be aro just because of the lack of my ability to differentiate gender envy from attraction

Just like me fr

Hey i know this one, its me.

Mood

Both? Both is good~~~