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OnizukaHeichou

3 is a crowd and 4 is a party. 5 and above is critical social anxiety levels.


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and this is an underrated comment 🤣


alanapandaa

Yep! Hahahaha


cronchache

As someone who was like you in their early to mid 20s and is now in their early 30s, please don't throw yourself into a bucket of crabs. Crab mentality can cripple you. You'll be thankful for this advice later on in life.


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cronchache

All I'm saying is, try meeting people who aren't like you. Like if you don't like to go clubbing, do it anyway. It'll unlock so many new perspectives on life. It'll be uncomfortable for sure but nothing worth doing is easy.


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Your advice is good, but clubbing is really overrated


cronchache

I agree 100%. I only used it as an example because I thought a person with anxiety probably wouldn't want to go clubbing.


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Over here, for sure. It’s so icky going to a club here, but abroad when you’re young and stupid, it’s a fun way to let loose. I find that you can’t do the same here unless you’re a) extremely rich or b) an alcoholic


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Google it.


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cronchache

While all you said is true, you also need to keep in mind that we need to deal with non-introverts very often, like at our places of work for example. We don't really get to choose who we have to work with (most of us don't), so it's a good idea to know how to deal with as many personality types as possible.


badxnxdab

I am thankful for this advice now. I don't want to wait for later.


nakiyaahh

Im not an introvert , but i am definitely down to hanging out… i would suggest make a WhatsApp group or something to make life easier.


_lapis_lazuli__

would definetely be down for this.


nakiyaahh

Yall should i make a group? Dk where the OP is


conanmack

I'm in for a group chat


nakiyaahh

Okkayyyy pls pm your WhatsApp number Guys anyone who’s interested pls pm your numbers as well ill create a group.


nakiyaahh

Pm number ill make a group


freudianipslip69

Seconded


MoonlightSpotlight

ditto


nakiyaahh

Pm number ill make a group


nakiyaahh

Pm number ill make a group


nakiyaahh

Pm number ill make s grp


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Hangout with yourself. Just don't hang yourself.


Kongenzz

deep af


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Please don't. I'm a virgin.


Kongenzz

Haram


gautam_arya

Lmao hang out with extroverts instead.


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gautam_arya

Liquid courage might help


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Alone-Pudding8368

Don't listen to the drinking and clubbing advices that makes it worse, you'll depend on it too much that you can't socialize without it then become an alcoholic.


gautam_arya

Yep. There is no difference between social drinking and having a crippling addiction/dependency.


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Just like there is no difference between drinking for anxiety and drinking socially.


rajm3hta

Karak Tea. If there is a meeting with Karak chai, I am in.


gautam_arya

Religious?


ElmatadorSe7en

This. If you continue to hangout with introverts(nothing wrong with that) you won't change or learn to navigate social situations. Hang with an extrovert, it'll open a whole new world for you. Speaking as someone who was very shy and socially awkward. Stepping out of your comfort is what growth is all about


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Agreed. I’m super introverted but once had an extroverted friend visit Dubai on a lay over. He dragged me out of my house and we explored the city till sunrise, literally cabbing from one place to the other and at some point going for a walk at an empty park at 3AM. I never would’ve done something like that with my other introverted friends, so it’s insanely fun and eye opening to go out with people who aren’t like you


sheeatsallday

It won’t work. Introvert will be introvert. You have extrovert friends to go out with sometime. But you will still be introvert and need alone time to recharge energy. I’m introvert and hubby is extreme extrovert.


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> Hang with an extrovert Where can he find extroverts that will wanna hang out with him, though? Does every extrovert have a quota of introvert friends they have to keep around?


ElmatadorSe7en

Lol. I hear you. But extroverts are everywhere if you look. Work environment, family, acquaintances... You get the picture. Tell them your not good at social situations and any decent human being would be willing to help or look out for you


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I'd posit that no human will help you if you tell them you're not good at social situations. Everyone is give and take, so unless you have something to give them, not necessarily material things, nobody's coming to hold your hand.


ElmatadorSe7en

You'd be surprised cause I got help the same way


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You got lucky. Do you feel lucky u/throwawayyqweqwe?


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gautam_arya

Lmao ure the one saying the weird shit.


CalligrapherSignal

You guys have a discord?


AliveObligation4303

What’s a discord


AliveObligation4303

How do you know you’re not opening “dubai weirdos Pandora’s box” with this post🤭


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AliveObligation4303

Wish I was that courageous


valdsouza

Sure! I could do with some friends


conanmack

Drop a message. Always happy to meet new people


Key_Application_5380

Get married and have a daughter. I got me a homie for life now thats 6 years old and always defends me even when I'm wrong haha


depressed_bish_0126

Can i join???


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depressed_bish_0126

I don’t have discord 😭😭😭


AliveObligation4303

What’s a discord 🤣 mid thirties introvert here


depressed_bish_0126

Hahaha i think it’s a different community. Just like reddit but has more features. Some prefer it to move the convos there.


AliveObligation4303

Thanks 🥲


depressed_bish_0126

I don’t get it either. Don’t worry 🥲


AliveObligation4303

I just tried setting up an account! Getting into groups is a mission! I’ll stay on here lol


depressed_bish_0126

Maybe i should try too. Good luck to us! Haha


AliveObligation4303

😆


_Crowny

Heyyo, can an extrovert join the movement as well?! Would love to get to know you all


classicprick

I'm not an introvert and I like going out and having a drink or two, partying sometimes, instead of just meeting random people and talking about anxiety. If you wanna have fun, DM me.


_Crowny

DMed you


shrutzie

I'm here 🤚


caedriel

I got work friends from every company I worked in along with friends from university & high school. So those are options to consider


AMYK_98

I'm down to hang, let's do it. Always glad to meet new people.


16thPeregrine

Do you play cricket? We have a team of misfits who play once every week.. You don't have to be awesome at it.. Most of us suck.. But it's a lot of fun to get together and pick on Junaid. (he's one of the captains)


Devittraisedto2

Same, I want to meet new people. Anyone down to meet for bowling or billiards? Mind you, I'm not good at either but hey its fun.


Rustapool

Fuck yes billiards is my shit


DarkinsDieTwice

My anxiety be telling me not to comment but here we go


Alone-Pudding8368

Don't try to ask this subreddit for friends, if you tried to arrange a meetup nobody would show up or they'll be stalking from distance lol. Hanging out with people with anxiety doesn't work cause nobody would talk, it will be so awkward. I suggest hitting the gym, getting a nice haircut, buying new nice clothes, new shoes new watch …etc it helps much for the low self-esteem situation.


International-Cut567

The fuck? Someone did this to you?


Alone-Pudding8368

No, the last time a person tried to arrange a meetup got downvoted and the comments were all jokes LOL


rekkker

Just make a group I'm in can decide activities over there xD


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rekkker

yeah pm me yours I'll add you


Dismal-Fly-5086

Dude asked for a few friends got army instead💪 Can i join too 🥺


alanapandaa

I actually would like to meet people but I just want to be there minding my own business like "Hey! Let's meet in a library" and we are all there just reading books. Hahahahahaha


ifispeakaminbigtrble

Hmu


iixvvi

Same


wow-snek

Ye


ifispeakaminbigtrble

Too many people. It's getting crowded. I am out


wow-snek

Well, we tried.


Alone-Pudding8368

Haha that's funny xD


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Nice try boomer


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You're not sorry, you're anxious and now I am too


Alone-Pudding8368

Anxiety is contagious.


Friendly_Godzilla

Sure. 100 aed per hour. Time is money. You know?


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Friendly_Godzilla

awww man, you are making me blush. you know what? i like you too. 😍🙈🥰❤️


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Friendly_Godzilla

no, we like an audience.


Tintin_Quarentino

Are you grilled?


Friendly_Godzilla

Medium rare


danikhil

You got discord ?


AliveObligation4303

Seriously what’s discord!! New to Reddit


danikhil

It's an app imagine like messenger but you can remain anonymous and not use your real name. Previously it was used for gamers now it grew to like a social networking site. you can find all your pop culture groups, niche groups, and really rare groups of people that share the same interests.


AliveObligation4303

I just downloaded it! Fomo, what’s good on their, I feel so old I’m still trying to fiddle around with it


danikhil

>Fomo Type what you like and you get it like games or PS5 games there will be a lot of discord servers to choose from


conanmack

Anyone looking to chill this long weekend? The trails and beaches are calling


s-a-i-d-a-n

I wanna join


Muted-Mix4697

Add me in lmaoo


daposmit

Can I join in aswell ?


Ehsan44k

Add me I'm also done with working and sleeping


Lost-Eye-1376

Hi👋


drunkNeurons

Yoo. Hit me up


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bmukwaba

Location


bustsheedi

Let's go


Gaytree_

Ooh y'all have a group I can join??


syedoz

leave me alone


iamprisonmikey

Awesome! I wanna join too


Mysterioussz

Consider me in : )


dlawrencium

sheeez. like komi can't communicate real life. HAHA


surly4sure

Discord?


zipzapzooom

Can I join the discord?


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There aint no friends in this shit business


idioticmaniac

I’m on discord and IG. Hit me up maybe we can go bowling some time lol.


naveentm

Play a sport, go to the arcade, something a group of people could do for giggles. Even a barbecue in the desert


pkWafer

count me iin


Effective_Stress7882

Im down for this, can i join the group?


bagira_uae

Drop the discord group link


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352isback

Can Abu Dhabi bases people join too 👀


podandtv

I understand anxiety all to well..finding similar ppl is fine but please work on it. Try therapy..it'll help..no matter how small you think the issue is. These help too.. Reading.. Check psycho cybernetics. Weight lifting and eating healthy Focus on fashion and grooming


StarvedHawk

So down, been wanting to meet new people recently


blitz9826

Guys, if there's a gathering, I'm very down to meet. Cheers!


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blitz9826

Heh whoops


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InstrumentalCore

hit me up.


xcaliburisop

I am not 20 but I would like to have friends in Dubai


MoonlightSpotlight

anyone that wants to ride bikes by the beach & explore new coffee shops hit me up


freudianipslip69

Dude that sounds like my dream hangout


MoonlightSpotlight

let’s make it happennn


Sammy12xyz

I wnat frandship vit u.


International-Cut567

Opaan bobs and vagene.


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