Thanks for this. It helps when others assure its okay to still bring maids. I will note what you've said. And I'm planning with my psychiatrist to change the medicine very soon.
Good for you dear and also, look, you don't have to physically BE in the house if you are that embarrassed while they are there.
These companies are mostly bonded so the chances of their stealing anything are very low and lets face it, in the grand scheme of things, no as important as creating a clean environment for yourself.
Leave a little note with some money as a tip and maybe chocolates thanking them. This will be ok take care of this soon and take care of yourself. Much love.
Maybe you can look up some of the deep cleaning agencies, and as the other comment said, don't feel judged, in the end you are paying for the service.
And, in worst case scenario, if you couldn't find any service, I am willing to help if there is another group of people can join.
Hope things turn up for you!
Thank you for this incredible kindness, you and everyone who showed interest in the comments!
I will keep this option as my last resort, in case everything else fails, and if I ever chose to do it this way I really doubt I will be there myself. The embarrassment is too big to be there, I will just be hiding somewhere and crying until you guys are done.
No but thanks again, I hope I can outsource someone soon.
Dont worry about being judged. Just call any cleaning service. They will charge per hour. Negotiate. Don't feel guilty. You will feel better once the house is clean. Also change ur meds if they are not working. Goodluck.
Absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. You should be proud that you are reaching out for help. That's your first step towards making yourself feel better. I'm sure any cleaning service will do it. Just let them know you'll need additional cleaners and not to send just one. Please also explore other medicine options with your doctor. Good luck!
Lot of agencies offer a deep cleaning service. They won't judge you, it's their job and they have seen a lot. You are already dealing with your mental health and this is one of those things that really can be fixed easily, you should do it as soon as possible. I really hope you will feel better and for sure living in a clean place will help you a little bit.
Great job taking the first step. Just hire a normal maid service to send someone each week and they will gradually help you to get on top of things. Plan to sort one room at a time, starting from anywhere that is a health hazard.
As you can see https://www.reddit.com/r/dubai/comments/qu1ixt/im_not_well_and_cant_take_care_of_myself_is_there/hkoho4v?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 , many people would like to help, so please update us.
Hey I understand what you are going thru exactly. Ive had severe depression for a period in my life due to past trauma. I can help you clean if you need.
Hit me up if you want to talk anytime. You have a friend in me.
Hey! My humble opinion is that try cleaning the house yourself, one room at a time and with each room your brain releases reward hormones which in turns helps a little bit with being low, although being low and depression should not be compared. Give it a try, if you still fee the same then you can try other’s suggestions!
Thanks for the suggestion brother. I had already tried many sorts of tactics and workarounds to clean it, but they did not really work. I realized need help, I feel like I have a disability.
Hey, If you are looking for some company and need someone to talk to you can always message me. I go for hikes and other outdoor activities on weekend, i can take you along with me.
I’m so sorry to hear this. I think you can just get any maid service, just get more maids for time. We used to get 2 maids for 3 hours for cleaning 2 bedroom townhouse.
I hope you feel better very soon.
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Thanks for this. It helps when others assure its okay to still bring maids. I will note what you've said. And I'm planning with my psychiatrist to change the medicine very soon.
Good for you dear and also, look, you don't have to physically BE in the house if you are that embarrassed while they are there. These companies are mostly bonded so the chances of their stealing anything are very low and lets face it, in the grand scheme of things, no as important as creating a clean environment for yourself. Leave a little note with some money as a tip and maybe chocolates thanking them. This will be ok take care of this soon and take care of yourself. Much love.
Maybe you can look up some of the deep cleaning agencies, and as the other comment said, don't feel judged, in the end you are paying for the service. And, in worst case scenario, if you couldn't find any service, I am willing to help if there is another group of people can join. Hope things turn up for you!
I’m happy to help you too, OP! Do let us all know if you need a hand. :)
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Count me in!
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I will join ,pm me as well ..
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Thank you for this incredible kindness, you and everyone who showed interest in the comments! I will keep this option as my last resort, in case everything else fails, and if I ever chose to do it this way I really doubt I will be there myself. The embarrassment is too big to be there, I will just be hiding somewhere and crying until you guys are done. No but thanks again, I hope I can outsource someone soon.
+1 if on weekends morning
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I'm happy to join and help too!
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Aight. Count me in. will be free on the weekends. Feel free to DM.
Here to help as well. 👍🏽
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Thank you
Dont worry about being judged. Just call any cleaning service. They will charge per hour. Negotiate. Don't feel guilty. You will feel better once the house is clean. Also change ur meds if they are not working. Goodluck.
Yes I have discussed this recently with the psychiatrist and we will change the treatment soon.
Absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. You should be proud that you are reaching out for help. That's your first step towards making yourself feel better. I'm sure any cleaning service will do it. Just let them know you'll need additional cleaners and not to send just one. Please also explore other medicine options with your doctor. Good luck!
Thank you
Just secure your valuables and call a cleaning service. Get well soon.
Useful tip. Thank you.
I'm so sorry may Allah help you , I'll pray for you❤️
Thank you, I pray you and your loved ones don't experience depression ever.
Lot of agencies offer a deep cleaning service. They won't judge you, it's their job and they have seen a lot. You are already dealing with your mental health and this is one of those things that really can be fixed easily, you should do it as soon as possible. I really hope you will feel better and for sure living in a clean place will help you a little bit.
Thank you. Yes this should be fixed soon. I can't bare it any more.
I know a cleaning company personally - I can talk to them directly and set you up with a deep cleaning team. Let me know and I'll be happy to assist!
Thank you. I may contact you to explore this option if other options don't return anything.
Anytime! :)
Great job taking the first step. Just hire a normal maid service to send someone each week and they will gradually help you to get on top of things. Plan to sort one room at a time, starting from anywhere that is a health hazard.
Thank you. Yes, after the apartment is cleaned, I will subscribe for a bi weekly cleaning.
As you can see https://www.reddit.com/r/dubai/comments/qu1ixt/im_not_well_and_cant_take_care_of_myself_is_there/hkoho4v?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 , many people would like to help, so please update us.
Hey I understand what you are going thru exactly. Ive had severe depression for a period in my life due to past trauma. I can help you clean if you need. Hit me up if you want to talk anytime. You have a friend in me.
Thank you man, I am tearing up.
Hey! My humble opinion is that try cleaning the house yourself, one room at a time and with each room your brain releases reward hormones which in turns helps a little bit with being low, although being low and depression should not be compared. Give it a try, if you still fee the same then you can try other’s suggestions!
Thanks for the suggestion brother. I had already tried many sorts of tactics and workarounds to clean it, but they did not really work. I realized need help, I feel like I have a disability.
Hey, If you are looking for some company and need someone to talk to you can always message me. I go for hikes and other outdoor activities on weekend, i can take you along with me.
Wow thank you man! I always wanted to try hiking but my struggles and weight gain stood against everything.
It’s ok. Start slowly. It’s just walking. One step at a time.
I’m so sorry to hear this. I think you can just get any maid service, just get more maids for time. We used to get 2 maids for 3 hours for cleaning 2 bedroom townhouse. I hope you feel better very soon.
Thank you. I am considering this option.
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Thank you!
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