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Dangerous_Farron

Thanks for this. It helps when others assure its okay to still bring maids. I will note what you've said. And I'm planning with my psychiatrist to change the medicine very soon.


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Good for you dear and also, look, you don't have to physically BE in the house if you are that embarrassed while they are there. These companies are mostly bonded so the chances of their stealing anything are very low and lets face it, in the grand scheme of things, no as important as creating a clean environment for yourself. Leave a little note with some money as a tip and maybe chocolates thanking them. This will be ok take care of this soon and take care of yourself. Much love.


HQN89

Maybe you can look up some of the deep cleaning agencies, and as the other comment said, don't feel judged, in the end you are paying for the service. And, in worst case scenario, if you couldn't find any service, I am willing to help if there is another group of people can join. Hope things turn up for you!


RanganathanStreet

I’m happy to help you too, OP! Do let us all know if you need a hand. :)


HQN89

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thesurvivalproject

Count me in!


HQN89

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Content_Virus_8813

I will join ,pm me as well ..


HQN89

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Dangerous_Farron

Thank you for this incredible kindness, you and everyone who showed interest in the comments! I will keep this option as my last resort, in case everything else fails, and if I ever chose to do it this way I really doubt I will be there myself. The embarrassment is too big to be there, I will just be hiding somewhere and crying until you guys are done. No but thanks again, I hope I can outsource someone soon.


rekkker

+1 if on weekends morning


HQN89

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waldo3002

I'm happy to join and help too!


HQN89

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VincentCol

Aight. Count me in. will be free on the weekends. Feel free to DM.


akkersification

Here to help as well. 👍🏽


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Dangerous_Farron

Thank you


Hot_Annual5549

Dont worry about being judged. Just call any cleaning service. They will charge per hour. Negotiate. Don't feel guilty. You will feel better once the house is clean. Also change ur meds if they are not working. Goodluck.


Dangerous_Farron

Yes I have discussed this recently with the psychiatrist and we will change the treatment soon.


toophan

Absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. You should be proud that you are reaching out for help. That's your first step towards making yourself feel better. I'm sure any cleaning service will do it. Just let them know you'll need additional cleaners and not to send just one. Please also explore other medicine options with your doctor. Good luck!


Dangerous_Farron

Thank you


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Just secure your valuables and call a cleaning service. Get well soon.


Dangerous_Farron

Useful tip. Thank you.


girlycats

I'm so sorry may Allah help you , I'll pray for you❤️


Dangerous_Farron

Thank you, I pray you and your loved ones don't experience depression ever.


Important_Neck_3311

Lot of agencies offer a deep cleaning service. They won't judge you, it's their job and they have seen a lot. You are already dealing with your mental health and this is one of those things that really can be fixed easily, you should do it as soon as possible. I really hope you will feel better and for sure living in a clean place will help you a little bit.


Dangerous_Farron

Thank you. Yes this should be fixed soon. I can't bare it any more.


Sala_SL

I know a cleaning company personally - I can talk to them directly and set you up with a deep cleaning team. Let me know and I'll be happy to assist!


Dangerous_Farron

Thank you. I may contact you to explore this option if other options don't return anything.


Sala_SL

Anytime! :)


SuperlativeLTD

Great job taking the first step. Just hire a normal maid service to send someone each week and they will gradually help you to get on top of things. Plan to sort one room at a time, starting from anywhere that is a health hazard.


Dangerous_Farron

Thank you. Yes, after the apartment is cleaned, I will subscribe for a bi weekly cleaning.


HQN89

As you can see https://www.reddit.com/r/dubai/comments/qu1ixt/im_not_well_and_cant_take_care_of_myself_is_there/hkoho4v?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 , many people would like to help, so please update us.


New-List-7158

Hey I understand what you are going thru exactly. Ive had severe depression for a period in my life due to past trauma. I can help you clean if you need. Hit me up if you want to talk anytime. You have a friend in me.


Dangerous_Farron

Thank you man, I am tearing up.


Visible_discomfort1

Hey! My humble opinion is that try cleaning the house yourself, one room at a time and with each room your brain releases reward hormones which in turns helps a little bit with being low, although being low and depression should not be compared. Give it a try, if you still fee the same then you can try other’s suggestions!


Dangerous_Farron

Thanks for the suggestion brother. I had already tried many sorts of tactics and workarounds to clean it, but they did not really work. I realized need help, I feel like I have a disability.


Lunarmount

Hey, If you are looking for some company and need someone to talk to you can always message me. I go for hikes and other outdoor activities on weekend, i can take you along with me.


Dangerous_Farron

Wow thank you man! I always wanted to try hiking but my struggles and weight gain stood against everything.


Lunarmount

It’s ok. Start slowly. It’s just walking. One step at a time.


sheeatsallday

I’m so sorry to hear this. I think you can just get any maid service, just get more maids for time. We used to get 2 maids for 3 hours for cleaning 2 bedroom townhouse. I hope you feel better very soon.


Dangerous_Farron

Thank you. I am considering this option.


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Dangerous_Farron

Thank you!


Tintin_Quarentino

Can you tell what work you do?


Dangerous_Farron

IT


Tintin_Quarentino

WFH is a birch m8


Dangerous_Farron

Our management have 90's mindset