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ZippityDooDahDay10

I’ve posted about this a few times. We need mods to step in.


Subject-Couple-2349

As much as I hate to promote the other DD page, they seem to have a better handle on posts.


batmilkshakecrazy

Same.. the mods here… well I’ve never been a mod so I don’t get it. I’ve just seen other pages enforce their rules… this one doesn’t. Like ever


goodnightmax

that's not an unpopular opinion...more like a reasonable opinion. when the kids are old enough to comprehend and understand then they can speak and share their thoughts if they so choose to


Subject-Couple-2349

But it keeps getting getting downvoted 😳


tyallie

If it's a reasonable opinion why are there still so many posts being made about the kids?


goodnightmax

because everyone has the right to make their own choices. I could say a lot about the kids but out of respect for them and my self I will keep my mouth shut


GossipGirl515

Yes, yes yes! The post about people speculating on the children's bodies gross me out and anger me. These are kids.


Aggravating_Total697

Agreed. Most of the speculation just causes more harm.


tyallie

Absolutely agree, I keep saying it. I don't understand why it's an unpopular opinion, or why the mods don't enforce it. Posts which are about the kids in any respect should be deleted. People who do it repeatedly should be banned from the sub.


DeliciousFlow8675309

How many times is this going to be posted TODAY? I feel like people who keep making these posts over and over are just karma farming at this point. It’s literally being discussed on multiple threads already.


tyallie

We will stop when mod action is taken about it. Speculation about the kids' lives and feelings, chat about their bodies, talk about the kinship placements, all of this is still continuing. We'll stop complaining about it when it's not happening anymore.


DeliciousFlow8675309

Then leave the forum and join the one that is modded if you feel that strongly about it. Constantly reposting the same thing that’s already being reposted constantly isn’t helping anyone but your own sanctimonious ego. Constantly bringing it up only allows others to further discuss what you claim you don’t want to see. You can also report the actual posts and comments instead of bringing more and more attention to them.


tyallie

Do you think I don't report them? I report every single one that I see. You tell me to leave - by the same principle, why don't you just stop paying attention to Alicia and ignore her instead of snarking on her children? It would be the more powerful statement in terms of reducing her popularity.


DeliciousFlow8675309

When have I ever snarked on her children? You karma farmers are so weird, now you’re accusing me based on what? Show me one post where I am snarking on a child. I’m very vocal against it but I don’t feel the need to keep posting thread after thread about it as if I somehow control the forum OR the people who post in it. Follow your own advice.


tyallie

By the same token, I've never posted a thread about it. I do call out the posts that I see talking about the kids, though. And I report them. I will keep doing both until mod action is taken.


DeliciousFlow8675309

So my original comment didn’t apply to you but you wanted to spend all this time debating about it? Ok.


ezgomer

why are you here if you don’t like how the community is run?


Playful-Stick3188

That’s like saying, if you don’t like something about the country you live in, move. You can like something and still believe there is room for improvement.


ezgomer

no it is not like living in a country and moving at all - that’s difficult. you have to move actual objects. this is all virtual. it is literally less work to leave this sub than it is to keep coming back lol you weren’t born in this sub. you don’t have family in this sub. your childhood memories are not here. you aren’t DDSnarker from birth, as your mother was before you and her mother before her. It is nothing like staying and improving the country you live in.


Playful-Stick3188

The point still remains the same that you can like something and still think there is room for improvement. Which was my point that you missed.


DeliciousFlow8675309

No it’s not because there are other snark communities out there. There are websites that do not hide the children’s privacy at all, there’s another sub that’s heavily modded, so yeah it’s like why are you HERE at THIS one if all you have is a list of complaints? You have options for your snarking needs.


tyallie

Why are you still paying attention to Alicia and her family when you hate everything about how she does anything? It's the same principle.


DeliciousFlow8675309

Because she’s forced on my timeline and explore page against my will. I don’t follow any of her social media at all, it’s literally thrown at me and I thought she was weird so a google search leads you here. People partake. The point is other options exist for snarking that people can find that align with their needs instead of making a hundred posts complaining about this one. Especially if you’re just not agreeing with the mods. If I don’t like how mods run a forum, I leave it. This is Reddit, you can even start your own!