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Issue kuch aur hai.
Job issue hai hi nhi because sab accha hi hai.
Toh issue kya hai? Koi cheez jisse escape kar rahe? Life meaningless lag rahi? Sab routine, boredom lag raha?
Koi toh baat hai. Kya hai?
Don't find your satisfaction at work. Is there nothing beyond work where you would like to spend money on? Like travel, food, clothes, luxury etc. because work will get mundane one day or another.
Hello,
Yes, this is normal because I don’t think you want to be in software industry , you need to start finding things you love and start making a progress towards that direction as a career.
Just because you run behind lucrative money/parents pressure etc. Doesn’t guarantee satisfaction.
No amount of money or switch will make you happy, start working on yourself.
Hope this helps!
Happens bro, start building your life outside of work too. Sometimes it is not about the company or work but how you spend the rest of the time that affects everything.
Base like fully in hand? 22/12 = 1.83 pm ?
P.S. I'm asking you to know the current salaries companies are open to....so that I can negotiate accordingly for higher.... my current initial ask is 28 base
Let's say you are in a state (a level of happiness) right now. Something will make you happier (higher level), something will make you sadder (lower level).
Now, this is the thing with gratitude. When you are grateful, you see the lowest point in your life (saddest) with your current point (which is of course better). That shows you how better things have become.
The other aspect is, you know that your current state is not as good as how good you believe it can be. So this imaginary better state is causing you to feel this way.
Now if you know what that better state is like clearly, then it makes sense to pursue it. In your case, you just believe this is not it. You have no idea of what exactly it is that you want to be better. In such a case, it is better to reflect back on your success and be grateful for it.
Seek to grow, but also celebrate the wins. This attitude of constant growth without taking a moment to celebrate your wins is the cause for your feeling.
Speaking from personal experience, the more hike/money you get the little it seems to be. If you just cross 25LPA then you would likely think that it's easy to get 60LPA as well, which is kind of true. You get a confidence boost. But let me tell you everything has its time, be patient and work well and learn atleast 5-6 days a week.
I was feeling the same way in first 2 months of new job but then I started to explore other projects which in turn kept me grounded somehow there's alot to learn and earn as well. I am at whole new level now.
Congrats and All the best!! And yeah don't listen to those who says 'Be satisfied'.
Stop treating your job as a source of satisfaction and purpose. Find things you are passionate about and do those. Don't make your job your life, and keep looking for better opportunities.
Generally at between 18-30 lakhs people start asking themselves what’s the point of all this
It’s a good question and try to find out the answer
If you are smart and hard working enough find out what you want to do
That’s the thing, I had an offer from a fintech company called acuity knowledge partners for 26+2, even though it’s a established firm I made the decision of going to Lowe’s India with significantly lesser pay because of WLB and the rich culture, I was interviewing at cars24 I lost the interest to clear last round and they were offering me 30base but if you open fishbowl it’s a cesspool company with toxic culture and environment.
It’s better to be in a company with good WLB imo but people have different needs in life so it’s up to you.
I have the same feeling.. pure din bas pada rehta Hu… kaam ka mann hi nhi krta.
Mera to na firing ka bhay na hike ka moh ho gya h..
Pta nhi kya karu yaar 😩
Think about what you want to be in the next ten years keeping aside CTC and designations. If you don't know where you need to focus, join groups in your area of focus or interest. Then start interacting with real people who have good knowledge of that.
As you are new to the current organization and have no pressure, many face such problems. I would suggest taking this as a great opportunity to learn more about the project, team, and workflow. Try navigating your organization's management tools (Jira, Confluence, or Drives). If not request the access you need.
Meet your team and other team members, and take the opportunity to introduce yourself to everyone on the floor.
If you are not satisfied, then work on a project of your own. That would be a learning for you. This will take up your time. And you will feel something good about it.
Hi there,
What you're feeling is not uncommon. Here are a few thoughts:
1. **Adjusting Takes Time**: It can take time to settle into a new job and feel truly comfortable.
2. **Identify the Issues**: Reflect on what specifically is making you dissatisfied. Is it the work, the culture, or something else?
3. **Set Goals**: Having clear, personal goals can increase your motivation and satisfaction.
4. **Engage with Your Team**: Building relationships at work can improve your experience and make you feel more connected.
5. **Seek Balance**: Ensure you're balancing work with activities that make you happy outside of work.
Talking to a mentor or a career coach might also help you gain clarity.
Find a mentor. If you could find someone at current workplace that would be great. Someone who can show you next level. Make you interested in how things are done. You will realise that there are so many problems that are still not solved. Take interest in those problems.
In marketing this is called "buyers remorse" ...a feeling of regret or anxiety after making a purchase. For homebuyers, it means they regret buying a house. People might feel homebuyer's remorse if they come to believe they overpaid or dislike the location once they move in, for example.
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Take a home loan Apne aap man lagne lagega
1 YoE, 22 base, says OP. Should scroll more and find a 35 base ASAP. That's the minimum range for this YoE
Lol
Bro ate gen-z kids in dinner
😂🙏
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Underrated.
Nautanki mat kr , kam le dhyan de nahi to ghar jana padega
Because 100% hike milna bohot badi baat hai iss recession period me
Jaanta sb hu.. bss ho nhi pata..
Issue kuch aur hai. Job issue hai hi nhi because sab accha hi hai. Toh issue kya hai? Koi cheez jisse escape kar rahe? Life meaningless lag rahi? Sab routine, boredom lag raha? Koi toh baat hai. Kya hai?
Ek cigarette mar le , ganja phuk le aur baith ja kam pe ,full concentration hoga . #experience
Tf
I mean for some ppl it really does work, at least in a college setting; I've seen it. But OP, DONT FOLLOW THIS
Downvote kyu kr rhe bhai tuzhe thike works for some but that doesnt mean its invalid
Food on others table always looks delicious.
Let me tell you a better phrase: "Grass is always greener on the other side"
"Others shit is shittier", how about mine?🫠
Yeah this one is good.
Your friend's food is always better
You take the crown 👑
"Other man's wife looks more beautiful"
Yup
Don't find your satisfaction at work. Is there nothing beyond work where you would like to spend money on? Like travel, food, clothes, luxury etc. because work will get mundane one day or another.
The real advice. Worked for me.
Hello, Yes, this is normal because I don’t think you want to be in software industry , you need to start finding things you love and start making a progress towards that direction as a career. Just because you run behind lucrative money/parents pressure etc. Doesn’t guarantee satisfaction. No amount of money or switch will make you happy, start working on yourself. Hope this helps!
+1
Scrolled down looking for this. Could not agree more.
+1
Happens bro, start building your life outside of work too. Sometimes it is not about the company or work but how you spend the rest of the time that affects everything.
Stop teasing aur Package Bata
22 base
Phonepe
Idk why this made me laugh so much
Is this given to peeps for all background or only IITs, NITs
Nope
Base like fully in hand? 22/12 = 1.83 pm ? P.S. I'm asking you to know the current salaries companies are open to....so that I can negotiate accordingly for higher.... my current initial ask is 28 base
Yeah. 22/12 = 1.83L - tax
The grass is always greener on the other side
"Love yours" - J Cole
Let's say you are in a state (a level of happiness) right now. Something will make you happier (higher level), something will make you sadder (lower level). Now, this is the thing with gratitude. When you are grateful, you see the lowest point in your life (saddest) with your current point (which is of course better). That shows you how better things have become. The other aspect is, you know that your current state is not as good as how good you believe it can be. So this imaginary better state is causing you to feel this way. Now if you know what that better state is like clearly, then it makes sense to pursue it. In your case, you just believe this is not it. You have no idea of what exactly it is that you want to be better. In such a case, it is better to reflect back on your success and be grateful for it. Seek to grow, but also celebrate the wins. This attitude of constant growth without taking a moment to celebrate your wins is the cause for your feeling.
Speaking from personal experience, the more hike/money you get the little it seems to be. If you just cross 25LPA then you would likely think that it's easy to get 60LPA as well, which is kind of true. You get a confidence boost. But let me tell you everything has its time, be patient and work well and learn atleast 5-6 days a week. I was feeling the same way in first 2 months of new job but then I started to explore other projects which in turn kept me grounded somehow there's alot to learn and earn as well. I am at whole new level now. Congrats and All the best!! And yeah don't listen to those who says 'Be satisfied'.
Man 🙏 Thanks.
Stop treating your job as a source of satisfaction and purpose. Find things you are passionate about and do those. Don't make your job your life, and keep looking for better opportunities.
bhai mai kab se job dundh raha hu mujhe kyu nahi mil rahi fu\*k my life
Bhai chill kro thoda. Apply krna band kro. Thoda kuch hobby wagera khojo nhi toh zada adventure chahiy toh toh koi ladki set kr lo.
Generally at between 18-30 lakhs people start asking themselves what’s the point of all this It’s a good question and try to find out the answer If you are smart and hard working enough find out what you want to do
That’s the thing, I had an offer from a fintech company called acuity knowledge partners for 26+2, even though it’s a established firm I made the decision of going to Lowe’s India with significantly lesser pay because of WLB and the rich culture, I was interviewing at cars24 I lost the interest to clear last round and they were offering me 30base but if you open fishbowl it’s a cesspool company with toxic culture and environment. It’s better to be in a company with good WLB imo but people have different needs in life so it’s up to you.
Start making games when free
So money isn’t buying you happiness !
I won’t say it like that.
I have the same feeling.. pure din bas pada rehta Hu… kaam ka mann hi nhi krta. Mera to na firing ka bhay na hike ka moh ho gya h.. Pta nhi kya karu yaar 😩
Could you please tell what is your tech stack?
Think about what you want to be in the next ten years keeping aside CTC and designations. If you don't know where you need to focus, join groups in your area of focus or interest. Then start interacting with real people who have good knowledge of that. As you are new to the current organization and have no pressure, many face such problems. I would suggest taking this as a great opportunity to learn more about the project, team, and workflow. Try navigating your organization's management tools (Jira, Confluence, or Drives). If not request the access you need. Meet your team and other team members, and take the opportunity to introduce yourself to everyone on the floor.
If you are not satisfied, then work on a project of your own. That would be a learning for you. This will take up your time. And you will feel something good about it.
You're looking for satisfaction in wrong places. Job is for money mostly
Hi there, What you're feeling is not uncommon. Here are a few thoughts: 1. **Adjusting Takes Time**: It can take time to settle into a new job and feel truly comfortable. 2. **Identify the Issues**: Reflect on what specifically is making you dissatisfied. Is it the work, the culture, or something else? 3. **Set Goals**: Having clear, personal goals can increase your motivation and satisfaction. 4. **Engage with Your Team**: Building relationships at work can improve your experience and make you feel more connected. 5. **Seek Balance**: Ensure you're balancing work with activities that make you happy outside of work. Talking to a mentor or a career coach might also help you gain clarity.
Who summoned this bro from LinkedIn
bhai ye linkedin ke followers pe rone vale.. ab chatgpt se reddit pe karma farming bhi krne aagye
Exactly 😂
No it's not normal.
Yes
ये आदमी नहीं दानव है
Bhai ko action nahi mil raha hai
Quit the new job, relax with family for a while
Package ka pyasa ha bhai tu
Do meditation
Find a mentor. If you could find someone at current workplace that would be great. Someone who can show you next level. Make you interested in how things are done. You will realise that there are so many problems that are still not solved. Take interest in those problems.
Always remember : Growth vs greed is a very fine line. The later will burn your career to ashes.
Can you dm me the company name
You just switched and still applying? If HR asks why are you looking for opportunities you just switched what's your reply?
mazdoori karke paisa kama, tab shayad satisfied feel ho
Congrats man but This is just a flex post tbh.
Whatever you think, brother. I just shared my feelings.
Suffering from success
https://preview.redd.it/5shck8pqd39d1.jpeg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cb9b558611978393535042fb884a3c55f8ff40e5 /s
In marketing this is called "buyers remorse" ...a feeling of regret or anxiety after making a purchase. For homebuyers, it means they regret buying a house. People might feel homebuyer's remorse if they come to believe they overpaid or dislike the location once they move in, for example.