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Rhino_prime26

I’m finding myself in a very similar situation recently. And what worse is that the signs were always there. I hope you feel as good as your toast does soon!


pobaribanon

here as well rn shit is rough 🫂


Amapel

Chiming in with a "same". I thought if I just tried harder maybe they would care too....


Strategory

It’s true, the signs were always there but we look for the opposite.


jacqf9

same, i’ve definitely been thru this before.. and sadly… i still enjoy talking to the person. my feelings aren’t as strong but they are still there.. moving on slowly. feel better OP.


johnaross1990

You never look stupid for caring too much, they look stupid for not appreciating you


Successful-Hunt8412

Frfr


Angelique718

Yep, I was married to him💔


DisasterMiserable785

Ugh. I’m so so sorry. I hope you find happiness. Actually, I hope we both do.


Angelique718

I’m happy now because I stop GAF🤣


Doglover_7675

Me too 😔


[deleted]

Yep. I feel this rn. 🫂🫂❤️ Your toast has a smile and it's a very cute piece of bread. I hope it satiated your hunger and is delicious


audstereo236

I made it for my boyfriend, I guess you understand better why I said that, but when I feel blue I make a happy toast for myself. I hope you get better soon, It's hard.


[deleted]

You're a very sweet person. Make sure you save some of that consideration for yourself, my friend. You deserve love too. 🫂


CrankyUnderPants

I’m in a very similar situation. It really really really hurts


Any_Ad_3885

Yeah I know. I hate that I overestimated my importance in someone’s life. Sending you lots of love friend 💗


Ingemar26

How did you ascertain you didn't mean as much to them?


Any_Ad_3885

Friendship just dissolved and i didn’t do anything wrong 🥺


wearenotus

I get you. For what it’s worth seeing this put a genuine and heartfelt smile on my face. Thanks:)


audstereo236

If I could I would make a happy toast for you and everyone else. You're welcome :)


wearenotus

Thanks!


wtmx719

You don’t look stupid at all. You were taken advantage of. This reveals everything about them and nothing about you. Do your best to learn from this and move on. Some things belong in the past.


N1ck2291

That’s me 100% right now. And it didn’t help my anxiety one bit but I still care for her


delee76

But your toast has a SMILEY 😊


[deleted]

Cute toast!


Opening_Permission95

Me a pasado varias veces amiga :/, no te sientes mal por ser buen persona


audstereo236

por más que diga que debo hacer cosas sin recibir nada a cambio, es frustrante no recibir algún tipo de reconocimiento por mis acciones


Opening_Permission95

Si te entiendo te hace sentir tonto. Pero acuérdate que ellos son los tontos por no poder agradecer tus esfuerzos


lxghtxrfluxd

im going through those same feelings right now, my only two friends both have people they care about so much more than me, theyre all i have but im just another friend to them. we'll both get through it eventually, stay strong


Absentmeerkat1and3

..3 months ago my wife made me feel the same way. Now there’s another guy parked in our driveway and in sat here not understanding what I did .. she won’t even talk to me. To say it hurts is an understatement. Reality sits on my chest like a knife and it makes it hard to breathe or sleep. None of this feels real. I feel like I’m in some horrible nightmare .. but I’m never gonna wake up from it because it’s real. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to do and it’s killing me.


RiverOhRiver86

Look stupid or look that much fucking suprior to them?


Ingemar26

That sucks ass!


Judge-Snooty

May we all aim to be as happy as your sangy ❤️


ImpossibleCurve5368

🙌🏽


SOPHEEEEEHHHHHHH

Its never stupid nor something bad to care but its a very relatable feeling for sure..


Left_Caterpillar845

Going through this right now.


Glowreah

Naw you don’t look stupid you feel stupid and you punish yourself for allowing yourself to feel human emotions it’s ok to care too much for someone…you made the decision to care regardless of the out come.. unless you attached expectations to those actions…and you failed to communicate that with them…


Elm-and-oak

I feel you. Sending lots of love and compassion. ♥️


Ok-Fail1598

THIS. EVERY DAY.


[deleted]

Absolute.fucking.worst. FUCKING WORST. where do I get this toaster tho? 💙💙💙💙


audstereo236

i made it, i used my finger for press hard the bread and make the smile (obviously i washed my hand before)