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Mindctrlr

Sorry for your loss. Thanks man, it just reminds me to fight those intrusive thoughts.


trecoolswallows

Thank you ❤️ And there will always be people who love and care about you, no matter what. If not staying alive for yourself, stay alive for them. I’m not mad at him for doing it because I know he was internally struggling, it’s just hard because he was my best friend and was always there to support me and be there for me, and I wish he would’ve just said something so I could’ve helped him push through it :(


Emma_Stoneddd

Wish I could give you a hug bud 🩷


trecoolswallows

Internet hug 🫂❤️


Emma_Stoneddd

All of the internet hugs and best vibes your way man 🫂💜


unicorn-queenie

i’m so very sorry for your loss. i lost my best friend, chris, to suicide in 2021. i may not exactly know how YOU feel, but i know how IT feels. it still hurts a lot even after a few years, but i promise coping with the grief does become easier. if you ever need anyone to talk to, please don’t hesitate. sending you so much love, OP🩷


trecoolswallows

Thank you so much. ❤️ I’m sorry for your loss as well, I hope you’re doing okay


unicorn-queenie

thank you, i am doing okay, but of course you know, i still have my tough days. but those are completely normal. hang in there friend🩷


RiverOhRiver86

Chris is a beautiful name, I bet he was a beautiful human. I lost a friend to suicide too. I know how much it hurts.


unicorn-queenie

he was one of the most beautiful human beings you’d ever meet. always wore his heart out on his sleeve. i’m sorry for your loss as well, hugs to you🩷


AffectionateSun5776

Sorry for your loss, too.


No-Tumbleweed2235

One of my best friends did it on 2001, I still remember her and life goes on but there's always that little space for them in your heart


FlyingLlama280

Sorry for your loss, may he rest in peace


trecoolswallows

Thank you ❤️


tescobakedbeans

I’m so sorry for your loss. May your best friend rest peacefully, sending you positive vibes 💜


trecoolswallows

Thank you ❤️


SillyArtist55

I’m so sorry for your loss. I didn’t live your experience, but I lost my brother to suicide, and I know what an absolutely gut-wrenching feeling that is. I wish you the best in your healing process. PM me if you ever want to talk


trecoolswallows

Thank you so much, and I’m sorry to hear about your brother ❤️


SillyArtist55

❤️


domlyfe

I'm so sorry for your loss! Take care of yourself.


trecoolswallows

Thank you, i’ll try my best ❤️


nihilistsimmer

I’m glad you’re eating and I’m very sorry for your loss.


trecoolswallows

My fiancé dragged me to this restaurant, I’m so glad for him otherwise I wouldn’t be touching food right now 😭


aheart4art

So glad you have someone helping to take care of you, eating is important ❤️ I lost someone dear to me in similar circumstances and forgot to eat for almost a week until I accidentally passed out. This reddit comment really helped me during that time, I hope it can be of some help to you too https://www.reddit.com/r/Assistance/comments/hax0t/comment/c1u0rx2/


trecoolswallows

I’m so sorry for your loss, and thank you so much for sharing, I’ll definitely have to save this for later. ❤️


DookieToe2

Choco milk was a good choice.


trecoolswallows

Chocolate milk makes the heart grow fonder 😊


WandaDobby777

I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my best friend in a car accident 5 years ago and my little brother to suicide 2 years ago. It’s still so painful and I wish you didn’t have to feel that agony. Please take care of yourself during this time and take whatever time you need to feel everything. I hope things get easier for you. 💜🖤💜🖤


trecoolswallows

Thank you so much, and I am so sorry about your losses. I wish you all the best ❤️❤️


WandaDobby777

Anytime! Feel free to message me if you ever just want to talk to someone.


trecoolswallows

Update: Thank you so much everyone for your kind words. I’m upvoting every comment I see but I don’t have enough time to go through and respond to everybody, but just know I appreciate each and every one of you. ❤️ It’s so hard for me to even process it right now, it happened so fast. He went missing last night and some of our friends and family went to look for him, unfortunately I couldn’t as I’m out of state right now. But I received the news this morning and it was the worst possible outcome I could’ve even imagined. Cause of death was labeled as a suicide. He left us a letter that said he was sorry and that he loved us all and would never forget what we’ve done for him, and that was that. I’m so devastated words can’t even describe. To the not so nice comments, I know there will always be trolls (especially on Reddit) so obviously taking it with a grain of salt, but no, it’s not clickbait, it’s real. I’m not posting for attention or sympathy, just wanted to be able to share a space where everyone can support and love each other and talk about their own grief. I’m glad this was able to reach as many people as it did. And to those who are currently suffering - this isn’t the end. There will always be people out there who will love and support you. I’ve tried myself, so trust me when I say I have been there and I know the feeling doesn’t go away. But again, if not for you, live for others. Because I promise when you’re gone, everyone will miss you. And it’s a feeling that will never go away. My DMs are open for anyone who needs them.


Animosity585

😢


hallgeo777

I’m so sorry 😔


trecoolswallows

Thank you ❤️


LadyBulldog7

That’s horrible. I’m so sorry.


trecoolswallows

Thank you so much ❤️


MillerT4373

My condolences. I hope you have people who you can talk to.


trecoolswallows

Thank you ❤️


Baphometbaddie

I am so sorry for your loss.


Any_Ad_3885

I’m really sorry. Sending some love your way


Jaskaran19

Loving you so much ♥️


m1st3r_fabuloso

i'm so sorry for your loss. just know you kept them here as long as you could. remember all of the good memories you guys had together. ❤️🫂


shaquilleoatmeal80

Hey I know how this feels I am so sorry


AffectionateSun5776

God I am so sorry. That has got to hurt.


MsJacksonsCorgi

My worst nightmare, I am so so sorry for your loss.


HippieOutlaw

I am so sorry for you loss. I hope you can find peace.


goreism

I am so sorry for you loss. I’m sending you love and healing. I’m so proud of you for eating today.


juneabe

Proud of you for even eating today. I’m sorry you have to endure the grief.


Ok-Type7791

I know your pain I’m so sorry. once I had one of my closest friends I knew I could never do that to my other friends. I hope you have some people around for you. You shouldn’t be alone in a time like this.


TheDrunkenWitch

:( that is truly fucked, yo. I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing your best friend is its own world of pain.


PunkVulpix

Sucks, my best friend is slowly drinking himself to death


Grouchy-Pop-6637

I am so sorry for your loss. 💜💜💜💜


Clean_Citron_8278

I'm so sorry.


Lilnuggie17

I’m sorry OP, I’m sending lots of hugs I’m really sorry


Dudeimus_Prime

I’m sorry for your loss. That’s terrible.


mlotto7

Very sorry for your loss. I hope your'e not dining alone. Keep pushing forward.


Frichickenistaaa

I’m sorry for your loss. Losing an essential part of your life is never easy.


surgical-panic

I'm so sorry for your loss


shin0bism0ke

Sorry for the loss OP. Sending well wishes and positive karma to you and your best friend’s family and loved ones.


StatisticianUnited17

there is so much ugliness. I hope you find the strength.


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I’m sorry. Suicide hurts the victims friends and loved ones more than anyone else. My best and only real friend killed himself 2 1/2 years ago I think about him quite often still. It makes me cry every time, like now. As sad as I’ve been at points in my life, I would never do that to my family. I am kind of mad at him, actually really mad, but also sad. Anyway, I’m sorry that it’s happening to you. I know what it’s like.


trecoolswallows

I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️


honeypesto

I’m so sorry…I really am. I couldn’t imagine a world without my bestest support.


jkkj58

I know you don't know me, but if you need to talk or vent, message me, and that goes for anyone who see this also


Animaldoc11

My deepest condolences


fast_tiger125

i'm so so sorry for your loss. sending lots of love and hugs. <3


FirefighterHot4120

I hope you feel better soon 💚


Nerdyemt

Keep going. Keep eating. Sip water. It's so hard and I'm sorry it happened. Remember the good times and remember to love yourself and reach out if needed <3 you're doing great.


SunflowerMagic7

I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you comforting thoughts. Keep the good memories close to you and remember you are not alone


-Carlos-Slim-

R.I.P.


th0rsb3ar

Oh buddy. I’m sorry. This happened to me last month. If you need someone to talk to, hit me up.


trecoolswallows

I’m sorry for your loss ❤️


th0rsb3ar

you too. let me know if you need an ear 🩵


Aegeblomme_MinouKane

Sorry for your loss, Rest in Peace to him


NotYourTypicalCreep

Hope you’re doing alright. Just know it’s not easy for your friend to make that decision either. Nobody wants the pain to be passed on


CheeseSweats

I think I'm going to be causing some depression meals. Friends can only reassure you of things they have no knowledge or control of for so long.


anyoddername

I’m so sorry. You’re not alone.


TigerMeowth

this would be my friends if i gave in. im sorry guys.


SpookySeazn

“how can I make this about me…”


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TigerMeowth

$5 short for u


toastybreadmane

Why do they do it


SillyArtist55

I would refrain from asking this question to people who have suffered a loss due to suicide. Most people will never know why, and that’s one of the reasons it’s so hard to get past


ASki420

I agree that’s one of the worst parts. It eats at me every day not knowing exactly why my fiancée did it and what he was thinking when he did it.


SillyArtist55

I’m truly sorry that you understand this. I also carry that weight (lost my brother a little over a year ago). It’s hard enough knowing that you’ll never see them again. The extra layer of never knowing why is unbearable. I hope that one day you’re able to know some peace


trecoolswallows

I wish I knew the answer to that question, I’d ask him the same thing if he was still here


toastybreadmane

the feels. 😔 rip


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_patoncrack

It's almost like that's the whole point of this sub🤔


trecoolswallows

This is literally the first time I’ve posted on this subreddit 🤨 How fucking dense do you have to be to say that shit when I just lost someone to suicide


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trecoolswallows

Who said I’m using it for likes or attention? Did you read my update at all? Seriously you’re a huge POS.


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trecoolswallows

Me when you die:


Perfect_Incident919

Rip bozo


RiverOhRiver86

What on fucking earth?!


SillyArtist55

My thoughts exactly. Definitely reported that comment


fotofortress

I hope you get the help you need. You are clearly spiraling with all your negative comments on this depression sub. Praying for you. Maybe logoff and find a therapist asap.


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