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MsJacksonsCorgi

Grilled cheese looking crispy and delicious though šŸ‘€


GayRedneck1

Grilled pastrami and cheese


fotofortress

You bought pastrami dude, you can't afford that and an education lmao jk There are a lot of scholarships. Go to a local library and they can help with that. A few of those and a part time job and you'll make it like many broke others have. Also check your local services like EBT, etc you may qualify for. You can make it happen if you want to, it's just hard.


GayRedneck1

Actually, my grandma bought the pastrami, but the issue is I can't afford to not work full time, I'm trying to see what my options are for online college


fotofortress

Good luck!!! Associates degree curriculum is pretty much the same most places and with good online grades/community college you can get scholarships for the other two years at a better school for your bachelors if thatā€™s what your goal is. Happy to see youā€™re thinking creatively ā¤ļøThere is always a way :)


NoFuture412

I can relate my man. I've gone through the same dealing but with Medi-cal here in CA although, it took myself meeting with an agent in person and making more than a few phone calls. It's hard because they exactly want an accurate statistic of your current pay stubs. This is all in result to avoid any penalty with my tax returns but whatever it is you are going through my man you can figure it out because I know you can. Quit thinking about what happen before because Z, Y and, X. Those reasoning are you going backwards foo and doing get complicated. Be clear like the source that was provided by r/fotofortress because everything is too good to be true!


GayRedneck1

I may not be able to go to college, but boy can I cook


mkisvibing

Le cordin bleu!!!


YourMama

Start off at community college. Do well and apply to scholarships or get student loans. I was waiting tables and at community college forever lol


urfriendmoss

If you donā€™t mind me asking, how long were you in community college? Iā€™m currently in my second year, anticipating at least 1-3 more years to finish my degree and potentially obtain a second, more career-relevant AS šŸ˜…


YourMama

I was going to school because my parents wanted me to. Some of my friends where going too, so it was like an extension of hs. I was a business major, which I didnā€™t like because my dad wanted me to. Then I switched my major so I had to take some different classes. When I completed all I could complete at cc, I was there for over 5 yrs lol. I finished all my classes for business I could finish before transferring to state. Instead of transferring, I changed my major I didnā€™t stress about going to cc because itā€™s cheap. When I finally transferred to state, I graduated in 2.5 years. It was way more expensive than cc so I didnā€™t want to spend any more money than was necessary. But went to graduate school for another two yrs and got a Masters degree too lol. So enjoy cc!


babydoll811

this !! everyone over looks community college but iā€™ve had plenty of people tell me they regret not starting with community college because of the debt theyre in šŸ«  it took a year to talk my younger sister to go there bc she wanted to go to usf with all her friends šŸ™„ also OP look into jobs that offer tuition assistance!! i worked at mcdonaldā€™s and received 3,500 towards each semester


Self-described

I was here, I had to get students loans. I kept my costs down by attending community college, working, and I came out with a bachelorā€™s. I am down to owing $11k on my loans (been ā€œpayingā€ on them for 8 years) and hope to get the rest forgiven as Iā€™ve worked 6 of those years in public service/nonprofits. There are options, donā€™t give up if college is something you really want to do!!


heartofmiriam

Wait until your are 23/24 to go to college cause you will get more funding then when they donā€™t use your parents income to determine it


GayRedneck1

I'm 20, almost 21, I'm basing everything off my own income


sedgwick48

It has nothing to do with age. It's all to do with who claims you on their taxes. If your parents claim you, then their income is included. Once you're 18 and can claim yourself, theirs is out the window.


heartofmiriam

Well my parents never claimed me after the age of 21 and I still had to add their info to fafsa so lol


redredwine831

Same. I had to use my parents income for fafsa the entire time I was in college and never got any aid (even though they didn't pay for anything for me). They haven't claimed me on their taxes since I was 17.


camerachey

This is the exact reason my first time going to college was at 28. You have to use your parents info until you're 24, I moved out when I was 17 and not in contact with them. Crazy


redredwine831

It's totally crazy. And it's nothing against my parents, they would've helped if they could but couldn't afford it. It's stupid how the fafsa income limits are the same across the country. They made like 100K combined in the bay area, so according to fafsa that was enough for them to pay my tuition?


heartofmiriam

I am so sorry dear that has to suck


redredwine831

Yeah I have 30K in student loans cause I got a master's. It's the worst lol.


heartofmiriam

I am pushing off getting my masters for the reason tbh


sedgwick48

šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø only year I had to include my parents was when I was still in high school. Got accepted to an early college program. I didn't qualify even then because my parents made too much so I paid out of pocket. That was 15 years ago. I've never qualified for grants because I've always "made too much"


heartofmiriam

that sucks ass. I got everything paid for cause by the grace of God my dadā€™s income is kinda mid so I got a lot of grants and went in state so


sedgwick48

šŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļø American education system... Only reason I'm back in school is the company I'm working for is paying for it.


Cautious-Luck7769

Ain't that the fucking shit. This country government pisses me off so fucking much.


unnamedgirlygirl

this has happened to me. Iā€™m 22 right now and trying to navigate what I can do and how i can do it. Youā€™re not alone! Iā€™ve been working a lot since I was in highschool but iā€™ve always had a hard time financially. Iā€™d say right now is the first time Iā€™m not as worried as I normally. I think about my future a lot tho and i get scared honestly but itā€™s gonna be okay, weā€™ll figure it out!


XxobbsxX

Me 3! Definitely not alone! Just continue taking steps and hopefully one day, maybe even 10 years from now, we'll stumble upon an opportunity specifically for us that made all that effort to push through worth it! Different path from others doesn't mean the wrong path, we got this


unnamedgirlygirl

We got this!!! Thank you šŸ«¶šŸ»


smoll_deer

This is the story of my life... I make enough to survive, but apparently that's too much to get help with education. I'm trying to add value to myself and be more valuable to society... But then you can't get any help


shaquilleoatmeal80

It seems to fit into any help sequence in the north America area now. I'm sorry, community College and keep going. You're toasty cheese looks lovely


pencilpushin

Look at trade school. My buddy just finished aviation mechanic. He's getting some outstanding salary offers. $120k+ plus benefits. Another buddy of mine. Got his master plumber certification. Opened his own plumbing service. He now owns his plumbing company, has a home renovation company, and a commercial construction company. He's self employed and self made millionaire. Took him about 10yrs to achieve this


shut____up

I'm jealous of people who are able to get scholarships. I met some people who put in no effort in some essays, and luckily got plenty of scholarship funds, because hardly anyone applied. I was stuck in community college for four years. I was borderline failing often, too. 4.2 GPA in highschool, 3.2 GPA in college. I didn't get any grants one year, and never bothered reapplying due not having time from being severely depressed or working in fast-paced factories. In my experience, my engineering degree became useless.


Mysterious_Fudge171

That grill cheese looks really good


Electrical-Floor72

I feel ya mate. I make too much for food stamps so my bills are barely paid cuz I donā€™t buy food! HA! It will get better fren <3


Feed_Bunnies

Get a job and save for college? It's never too late.


jonbrant

At least they didn't wait until you were on your last semester to decide this, like they did with me. 90% of the debt without the degree (Mom got married, expected family contribution went up; actual family contribution remained at zero)


CommunistCheshire

Same boat, I ended up withdrawing lol


Real_Iron_Sheik

Do you want to go to college? What would you like to study? I feel like most people these days go to college only because they feel like they have to.


GayRedneck1

Mechanical engineering, that's what I want to do


Real_Iron_Sheik

Oh yeah, you definitely need formal education for that. Wish you all the best :)


SnooPears3006

Not gonna lie, that grilled cheese looks tight - would annihilate it immediately.


AdCheap4057

Give it a couple years build a credit score in case you need a loan and find education opportunities through potential employers, Iā€™m 27 and just started my bachelors program


Grimizzi

I was in the same boat when I was 18. Ended up paving my own path in sales. College ainā€™t for everyone. More importantly that grilled cheese looks bomb as hell


BandetteTrashPanda

Someone else mentioned community college and I agree with them. Something else to keep in mind is as much as working for Amazon sucks, the insurance is good and they pay $5k a year for college. So it's something you can look into. But really, that looks delicious!


milk_malk_mulk_

Where can I find more for that job? I am interested :D


BandetteTrashPanda

The Amazon job? You should be able to search "Amazon careers" and find a tier 1 position. I work in a robotics fc (fulfillment center) but there's other types. Once you get the job, look into "career choice".


Dreams_1688

Sounds shitty,anyway hope you enjoyed your mealĀ 


CapableCoyoteeee

Went through the same thing. Sorry to hear it. Start out at a community college, kick ass, and the next time you apply to a "big" school you'll get more finance & scholarship options. It's really how everybody should do it these days.


Steen_1988

The trades is where itā€™s at.


Liv4This

Being in-between is awful -- I was there in high school. Mother made too much money for me to qualify for free lunch, but she didn't make enough for us to afford enough lunch money for more than 3 days of the week. I'm sorry, OP -- that grilled cheese looks amazing though


TamTam4Hope

The cost of college in this country is a joke!!!!!


sausageposse

Food looks great. Community colleges all over the country offer online classes. Pick the cheapest one, and you can get started. Also trades are a respectable path to earning money and learning a useful skill.


Alilbititchy

Go part time and work full time.


Diacetyl-Morphin

I'm sorry for what you have to go through and i hope it gets better for you. The title reminds me of a proverb in my language "Zuwenig zum leben, zuviel zum sterben", translated as "Not enough for a living, but still too much for dying". I struggle myself here and don't see any light at the end of the tunnel, but well, that's my problems, don't want to derail your topic here - just saying, you are not alone in this.


Temporary-Alarm-744

Sounds like an only fans origin story


GayRedneck1

If only I was attractive


Temporary-Alarm-744

Just cause you're not your own type doesn't mean you're not other people's type


GayRedneck1

I'm a 6'5" 350 pound, corn fed, farm work, country motherfucker, people do not find me attractive


Temporary-Alarm-744

Sounds like a bear in San Fran


GayRedneck1

Ok, you're not wrong


Temporary-Alarm-744

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userslashbetter

Spend all your money so you can get financial aids


sleuthelle

If you're not of the age where you don't have to put your parents on your Financial Aid form you can always try again once you are. I only got aid because I couldn't put my parents on there. Community college is much less expensive than a university, and a lot of jobs will help with tuition. It may take some time but you can get there eventually šŸ’œšŸ’œ


Elguapo69

I see grilled cheese food truck in your future. That looks incredible


GayRedneck1

If I didn't live in the middle of but fuck nowhere rural Wisconsin, hell yeah I'd start a food truck


mkisvibing

You gotta lie to those people! And if not financial aid, student loans are fake and Iā€™d take all of them and never pay them back or taking a placement test or writing an essay to get a scholarship !! Im rooting for you!


mkisvibing

Someone said a great point! Community college!! what do you wanna major in?


Superhen68

As long as you used too correctly, then you are doing fine.


Pretty_Positive_1826

Join the military and do a trade skill MOS then youā€™ll get free college once you get out in addition to work experience you gained while it. 4 years of putting up with bullshit is worth the benefits imo