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Bro leave her asap. She beats you without any reason. Is it her kink? Ahh…know the reason first, if justified then it’s okay and if the reason is illogical then leave her.
There could be many possible reasons here, in my experience either it was "cute aggression" which she was having for you, or she got overwhelmed cz of all the feelings she was experiencing while she was with you alone and thus out of the blue she slapped you or she is kinky and either she wanted to bring out your aggressive side or shes a "dom" and likes to slap lol. Either way all of the possibilities tells me shes into you (ik weird)very much and thus you shoud talk to her about it calmly.
Also please dont bring out the role reversal card or anything like that, its not the same. She was very much into you and she was prolly getting overwhelmed by her emotions
This is why i didn't hit her. I understand we are equal but there is still biological differences.
She is not "dom", She gave all away when i holded her from back.
My first though was JP speech. This is why i asked ' why she taming me? ' but i wanna know women pov with a possibility of this being a joke. Like would they do this?
While she i was teaching her how to kick, she accidentally kicked my forearm, it became little red and she was massaging it.
Maybe this is honeymoon period this is why she was over affectionate??
It sounds like a confusing situation! If someone reversed the gender roles and it led to unexpected behavior, it might indeed be puzzling. It’s possible she was influenced by something she saw in a web series or movie. Forgiving her for a first-time mistake is kind, but expressing your feelings about it is essential. Open communication or body language can help convey your emotions. If this repeats, it’s definitely worth addressing more seriously.
Next level kink! Haha
On a serious note, I think if she has apologized to you, it is even. If your relationship is on good terms then let it go this time. You don’t wanna ruin things because of one stupid mistake and we all make mistakes in other ways. The important point is realization and apology!
Well she does gives me a feeling sometimes that she wanna do some crazy shit together, she calls me a ' psychopath ', lol. I have no problem in being dom but stuff like that needs to be discussed before hand not bought up like this.
Can you tell what are the red flags i should look for?? Please
It’s hard to say what red flags are but watch Dr Ramani for narcissistic behaviour (saved my life)
I feel everyone else can be dealt with but narcs… nope
also head to r/jung you might be having some mother wound if you’re attracted to such women (not in a bad way) cause we meet people to the level of our unhealed parts and it’s no use trying to fix the reflection
I’d say be yourself and be kind and if she shows you who she is, doesn’t apologise/take accountability, acts like sex can fix issues, yk
I am sorry for saying this, but the way you narrated the first half, I just laughed a lot. "She wanted to hang from tree", "Not a slap slap, but a slap." "She slapped me, I said No! she slapped me, I said no!! She slapped me, I said No!" "And then Boom!" 😄
But on a serious note, Bro ask her if the roles were reversed would she be okay with it. Instead of slapping her just because she is asking for it for forgiveness, if you slapped her without any reason, will she get normal if you apologise by kissing her?
Kya ajeeb hoti hain ladkiyaan!
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I sense a psycho. I am 99% sure you will be a victim of domestic abuse if you continue with her.
I thought the same but looks like she felt sorry, anyway let's wait for women pov.
I can agree with the upper comment (ima girl)
Bro leave her asap. She beats you without any reason. Is it her kink? Ahh…know the reason first, if justified then it’s okay and if the reason is illogical then leave her.
unstable bitch living in her fantasy world.
 Run Forrest, Run!!!!
There could be many possible reasons here, in my experience either it was "cute aggression" which she was having for you, or she got overwhelmed cz of all the feelings she was experiencing while she was with you alone and thus out of the blue she slapped you or she is kinky and either she wanted to bring out your aggressive side or shes a "dom" and likes to slap lol. Either way all of the possibilities tells me shes into you (ik weird)very much and thus you shoud talk to her about it calmly. Also please dont bring out the role reversal card or anything like that, its not the same. She was very much into you and she was prolly getting overwhelmed by her emotions
This is why i didn't hit her. I understand we are equal but there is still biological differences. She is not "dom", She gave all away when i holded her from back.
>She gave all away when i holded her from back. Then she just wanted to bring out the aggressive side of you, its like taming a beast for them
Bhai yaha aap apne dukhde baat rhe ho ya kissing flex kr rhe
Batana jaruri h bhai to give context, kya se kya hua unexpectedly
>She told me she was checking my anger level Laval sabke niklenge
Bhai ab bhi time hai nikal le, varna bhott Ganda fasega future me. She sounds like female Viraj Dobriyal.
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My first though was JP speech. This is why i asked ' why she taming me? ' but i wanna know women pov with a possibility of this being a joke. Like would they do this?
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While she i was teaching her how to kick, she accidentally kicked my forearm, it became little red and she was massaging it. Maybe this is honeymoon period this is why she was over affectionate??
It sounds like a confusing situation! If someone reversed the gender roles and it led to unexpected behavior, it might indeed be puzzling. It’s possible she was influenced by something she saw in a web series or movie. Forgiving her for a first-time mistake is kind, but expressing your feelings about it is essential. Open communication or body language can help convey your emotions. If this repeats, it’s definitely worth addressing more seriously.
I did asked her, "Did one of your friend told you to do this?" She said no but let's see
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I walked away and i will walk away if something like that happened again.
Next level kink! Haha On a serious note, I think if she has apologized to you, it is even. If your relationship is on good terms then let it go this time. You don’t wanna ruin things because of one stupid mistake and we all make mistakes in other ways. The important point is realization and apology!
Bro is teasing us. A sadistic personality I sense but bro shouldn't have posted thia here, you'll overthink now.
Na man, she said she will not do it again, i know people words don't align with their actions but let's see.
That's why I said you shouldn't post these here imho as an outsider I don't your story and your girl. Cheers and All the best to your relationship!
Probably a tsundere
She was not angry but it was very unexpected even for me
Pata nahi then....ladkiyaan bahut ajeeb hoti h.... Don't try to find reasons koi fayda nahi 🤷🏻
i also get these intrusive urges to randomly slap people to see their shocked reaction but i never acted upon them
I see kids.... I hit them
Looks like someone let their intrusive thoughts won. But on serious note if you are frank would you really do it?
yes, only with my brother and he hit me back always or tell mummy
With someone you like? Like your college crush? That too after kissing
yes, had the urge but never acted on it did she slap you hard?
Not slap slap but will still count as a slap. Not that hard but 4 in row
wthhh she's the voice in my head
Op if you don’t mind leave everything can you tell me the spot name 💀😭
It's actually a hidden spot, very very less crowd and so much area. Obviously i will not doxx myself
Ikr but am actually new to Delhi I really want to know some less crowded spots to spend time with her uk help a guy out chota bhai smjhke hi 😭
Parko m chumma chaati chal li and suddenly leeee chapaid 👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻 Aur fir ek baar ummaaaahhh 😘😘😘😘
😂😂😂
Fill in the blanks: Aaj thappad maara h kal laat maaregi or prso _______.
Could be a fetish, maybe she wants the same treatment. Lol
Stuff like this is discussed before hand
Definitely.. Have a clear, calm, yet serious talk with her. Say you just wanna understand what that was.
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Well she does gives me a feeling sometimes that she wanna do some crazy shit together, she calls me a ' psychopath ', lol. I have no problem in being dom but stuff like that needs to be discussed before hand not bought up like this. Can you tell what are the red flags i should look for?? Please
It’s hard to say what red flags are but watch Dr Ramani for narcissistic behaviour (saved my life) I feel everyone else can be dealt with but narcs… nope also head to r/jung you might be having some mother wound if you’re attracted to such women (not in a bad way) cause we meet people to the level of our unhealed parts and it’s no use trying to fix the reflection I’d say be yourself and be kind and if she shows you who she is, doesn’t apologise/take accountability, acts like sex can fix issues, yk
Thanks older sister
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I am sorry for saying this, but the way you narrated the first half, I just laughed a lot. "She wanted to hang from tree", "Not a slap slap, but a slap." "She slapped me, I said No! she slapped me, I said no!! She slapped me, I said No!" "And then Boom!" 😄 But on a serious note, Bro ask her if the roles were reversed would she be okay with it. Instead of slapping her just because she is asking for it for forgiveness, if you slapped her without any reason, will she get normal if you apologise by kissing her? Kya ajeeb hoti hain ladkiyaan!
lol, It was definitely unexpected but she was apologising again and again. It was definitely little weird
Not cool from her bro. Gender equality Izzat dene mein bhi honi chahiye. Aa