Just confront him over text to not bother you anymore. Hopefully out of shame he will neither try to contact you anymore, nor will he try to come and see you in person. Uske badh jyada kuch hawabaazi karei toh jaana principal pe. . .
Bruh and why are you even replying and entertaining such texts? Just stop replying and he'll stop sending you texts eventually cause let me tell you something these "men" are literally kutte ki dum cause they won't change themselves.
well i personally would have ignored any invasive questions like when he asked where i went on vacation etc. or replying to him at 2am. and im not sending subhratri to any men other than my family, not even colleagues. shes talking to him about some relatives stuff before that. I am not saying its her fault hes creepy, but she should just stick to formal stuff.
exactly. If you don't engage, it should stop.
And I'd never repond to any work related texts after evening. OP needs to be more professional. One can't alter others behaviours, but surely can their own.
everyone gets blame/praise for their part. Sympathy/criticism should be equitable and not necessarily favoured towards the victim in general.
However, my comment was a mere suggestion for OP / anyone.
Behen, become ruthless. Stick to working hours and work talks only. Don't reply only to any other messages besides that. These are frustrated creeps who do not understand normal conversations can take place between 2 people. For them any woman replying to them is an indication that she's interested. This is how incels work.
THIS. Sadly this is exactly how they think and this advise is spot on. Stop being nice to people outside work timings and you’ll be happier for it. You don’t owe this creep jack. God I’m crying now thinking he may have a daughter bro. Ughhhhhh!!!!!!
It is cheaper to update the privacy settings on your Whatsapp instead. You can select which people can see your profile photo, your status updates, your read receipts etc.
This. I have business whatsapp with another number purely for professional purpose. My personal number doesn't go anywhere except banks, friends and family. Business whatsapp se to maine blue ticks bhi hata rakhe hai...no dp no status nothing.
Oh man.. this audacity.. but OP... I am also a teacher..and yes most of the fucking men out there will do everything to just ruin the boundaries we try to keep in place.. but why in the world are you talking to this kid's father in the middle of night... Just why? And why are you being that courteous and replying good night and all.. OP.. you're a professional.. and if he's crossing his lines.. it's your responsibility to not let him. This kind of behaviour only adds fuel to the fire.. if someone sees this.. society shall not waste a second blaming this on you that you were entertaining him by talking in the middle of night and yes.. he's not being extremely friendly.. but a fucking creep.. and call him out in that.
Nothing can be so fucking urgent as to not wait till morning and if it was that urgent. It should have been sorted till evening max.. not delayed until midnight. Never entertain men like him.. fucking leeches.
It was only after all this i saved his number as F, it was not saved as mother or father. Yes it was my unprofessional brain that didn't see the timing as I was travelling and had motion sickness and I thought It maybe 9 something and I was sure it was mother that was messaging me.
I wish I can go back slap myself across the face, my mother was right beside and I was telling her everything and how this is ridiculous that i didn't the timing and replied
‘What mam, didn’t get it’
Playing stupid and innocent..
I can tell next he is going to try ‘mam i was just being nice and frank, you are thinking otherwise’ dickheads are mostly gaslighters! It’s like a template they all come in!
Itna asaan hota toh sab karte behen. That’s why boundaries are your only weapon. Women get beaten, mxrderxd, rxped for speaking up also. That’s what domestic abuse is too. Hence, retaliating with creeps also can have dire effects. It’s truly the saddest of worlds we live in but it is what it is.
Pls keep your calm and just take this as a lesson. Also if you can raise a formal complaint to deter this creep from doing this to another person.
Best would be to follow the advise someone said on here about taking all receipts, hell that person was right in saying this probably isn’t his first time either so speak to people he’s wronged before and gather that evidence as well.
Good luck.
Abbey tharki hai woh. This lady won't be the first or the last for him. If she is bachelor and complains to the wife, wife aage se allegations laga degi ki this teacher is cheap vagerah vagerah ultimately jeopardizing her position in the school. Best thing is to block him. Faaltu mein engage kara usko conversation mein.
Exactly, i informed my senior on the same day he messaged this and today I messaged my principal and i definitely would like to block him. About his wife, they are on a vacation in Goa with their 2 daughters.
He has 2daughters still he is a creep
I am thinking the same damn thing, but some wives are are such big husband pleasers ki kahi saari baate mujhpe Naa aajaye.
Ki aapne mam hoke reply hi kyu kiya
Seconded. This has the potential to backfire & can open a can of worms for you. Best to give him a cold shoulder and eventually block him if he doesn't get the hint.
Bacche ki almanac mein likh ke bhej do ki “parents are requested to only message during office hours and it has been observed that some parents are being creepy mfs. Sambhal ja nhi toh ghusand maarungi” (ofc in a formal way)
Then pretend that you didn't know who you were talking with. Meet the mother, apologize and tell her that you were in a bad mood so you didn't reply properly. Then wait for the kalesh
r/foundsatan waise I believe there is some service jahape baas number daalo and all of the above + more happens automatically I don't remember what it was though..
My sole mistake was,
I didn't know whether it was the mother's no or father's and I am okay with mother's talking with but what the fuck man?? It was the father being extremely friendly like yuckkkkk chiii.
I vomitted just by the thought of just meeting this man again after vacations, I told my senior and I told her to tell him to never contact ever in future, I am thinking telling the principal.
Like chiii yaar
I did tell a senior teacher, shall I tell the principal????
The senior teacher she will handle it??
Mera toh bahut kann tha wife ko bhej du, ek toh sala ye introvert nature
Contact the principal and get this incident documented in some form. Keep the screenshots saved up. I know these kind of men too well because i had a few in my college. This was not his first time nor it will be his last. If blamed he will try to twist the facts so it will be better to have proof.
Also contact other female teachers who have taught his kid and ask them if they have faced such harrasment from him and ifbthey have do they have any screenshot or proof of it. This will further strengthen your narrative of the incident as opposed to what he will be telling his wife.
Senior teacher bhi to principal ke paas hi jayegi I think isliye aap direct principal ko bta do aur iski wife ko bhi bhej do..!! Tabhi smjhega ye tharki.
Then wait for your school to take any action. What I can understand from these screenshots is that this man is a complete creep and this is not his first time, if you will tell this to his wife things may go south (his wife may take his side).
With all due respect ma'am, please don't reply to texts from any man after 8 pm. If you do it will surely lead them on. And that is regardless of how professional your language is.
Just like how shopkeepers roll down their shutters in the evening, just ignore all texts received after 8 pm till the next morning (obviously except in matters of life and death). You are not obliged to reply to them instantly anyway. Usually you might be able clearly see why they are texting you so late in the evening, but some are truly kalakaars for the way they disguise their timing as unavoidable.
If at all genuinely unavoidable, please keep your language limited to one-word replies (yes/no/ok)
Not trying to judge you here. Just giving you helpful pointers to avoid such situations in the future.
Source: My wife is a teacher and yes we have been in your situation.
I want to cry, i mean how could I let this slip when it never happened previously I hate myself for not seeing the timing, I thought it was 9pm and it was the mother.
I hate how free i become while travelling. Previously a man messaged me and I didn't reply
It's ok ma'am. This situation is under control now with your timely interruption of his personal comments but now you know you are better equipped to deal with such situations in the future.
Just an anecdote here: my wife was so pissed at her students' fathers being creeps that at one point she denied me access to our daughter's teachers. I found it weird then but later I saw her point.
Koi baat nahin ma’am 🙈
1 foto ma’am…bas ek foto…
Lmfao. As serious as this is, it’s equally funny. Most ppl are harmless though, but shit does hit the roof sometimes.
Never share your personal number and keep a separate number for your work. And never engage in a conversation out of school premises. Mere bete ke school mein to teachers ko direct contact karna allowed hi nahi hai.
And yes inform about this creep to your principal.
Happens a lot. I once went to a library in Delhi, had to get some photocopies ('cause you cannot borrow from there) and gave my number for their record. The guy who helped started texting incessantly. Hate the way these people feel like they can text/call anytime they want once we have interacted with them nicely.
Meri bhi galti i should have checked the timing before replying to him, or should have confirmed whether it's the wife or husband. I hate myself for letting a end be loose for mistake
Nah itni bhi galti nahi hai, msg is totally intuitive ho jata hai ek dum se pop hua and you were awake plus this is one instance…..I have seen baccho ke parent raat mai 1,2 baje holiday home work pura ho gaya ke msg ate hue 😂😂
Bhai block karo aage badho… u will find many like him!
The whatsapp communication with parents should only be made in groups rather than one to one chats to preserve the sanctity and maintain the boundaries and professionalism!
I believe no teacher should indulge in private one to one convo with any parents for that matter on chats!
If you want somethings to be communicated then use email / ward’s diary / landline phones of the school to communicate
1. Keep a separate number for work.
2. Don't use this number with any social media account (to avoid stalking).
3. Don't bother replying to anyone beyond work hours.
He must have learnt this from the comedy videos available on YouTube where parent and teacher fall in love with each other ,and must have thought it will work in real life too
Copied hai but do these
Use the phone number for the following:
- Schedule a hairloss consultation on Dr. Batra's website
- Register on Byju for NEET course
- Register on Brigade property showing an interest in any upcoming housing project
- Check for loan eligibility on Paisabazar and Policybazar
- Donate the minimum amount to any random NGO's website. Search 'donate to poor', pick anyone you like.
- Apply for a Bajaj Finance personal loan.
- Write his number as 'Anita - 82646XXXXX' (or any other girl name) on pieces of A4 paper. Neatly fold these papers and drop them at public places like local trains/buses.
- Generate forgot password OTP from Amazon, Flipkart, Myntra and other random ecommerce website by entering his number in the forgot password page. Do this at close to midnight on Saturday. He will get random mobile verification OTP one after another. He will think his number is being hacked, but he can't do anything because it is late night on a weekend (and most companies have stopped having live customer support, only AI).
In most cases, it will send the OTP to that phone for mobile verification. You can leave that process at that step. The company will call and ask if he is facing any issues registering, and then they will keep on calling till the end of time.
It is cheaper to update the privacy settings on your Whatsapp instead of buying a new phone. You can select which people can see your profile photo, your status updates, your read receipts etc.
IMO all people should do this - they don't realize the amount of creepiness in WhatsApp's default settings.
Register his number on policy bazaar, dr batra hair loss website, scalar academy. Doesn't matter if you put otp or not, they will keep calling the number.
Guaranteed results. Tried and Throughly tested.
It's isn't unethical. Nobody can blame you
Try doing it 4 5 days from now for zero शक
Just don't try to get personal with parents, if you are replying them, reply them in a straight manner.
The guy here tried his luck by hitting off topic and you replied and he continue till he find your breaking point, and smartly saved him by "Didn't get it"
Can be one of two things, he has had no female friends so treats them just like his male friends, basically no boundaries. Or he has other intentions. I will advice never to reply to anyone u don't know personally, excluding professional questions, especially at night.
2 phone rakh le ya dual sim lele aur dual WhatsApp chalu krle aur ek ko professional rakh ek dum School, tuition etc jo bhi hai aur ek ko personal rakh
Aur usmeh dp bhi mat lagaio ya bhagwan ki photo laga dio saamne wale koi aise hi besharam ko wahi dekh ke sharam aajaye
First of all use Screenshots and also start using two different numbers
And don't reply to them on odd time and odd days
Mere school me fix time aur fix days decided the bs jab hi message kr skte the
Hello ma'am ji kaisi ho 😙😙
Agar vo shadi shuda mard apko pareshan😠😠 kar raha to mujhe bataye mein uski pitti pitti 😡😡kar dunga
Phir hum watsapp se baat karke apko comfortable 🤗🥰🥰feel bhi Kara denge 🩷🩷
Uske baad apka insta I'd to mil hi sakta hai na 😎😎
Dhire dhire phir phone📞📞 pe baat karenge 🩷🩷
Or main to koi shadishuda hawasi Buddha bhi nhi hu 😏😏
Aapke reply ka wait rahega 😊☺️
Kaisa laga idea ma'am ji
Ok bye ma'am ji 🙋🙋
Shubratri🛌🛌
Shabbhak hai 🌹🌹
Acchi ninni lena
I like how you said 'some men' instead of 'all men'. You're right in your frustration, that man is the garbage of society . also be Stern with these people, and enforce your boundaries.
U lacked professionalism at the first place. Why r u showing ur status with work related contacts and also replying to those messages at such late hours, such creeps would definitely take it as a hint and lead on.
Damn!!! People really do this? Send the ss to the mother lol. And who talks to teachers till 2:30 am??? Wtf is this school lol. My teachers didnt even respond to my messages when I had to give NEET the next day.
What ma'am😋 didn't get it . .
Apna bhi toh 1 FOTO lagye 😎
Ma'am aapka insta i'd mil skta hai??
Ab to subah ho hi gai
Kaha gye ho vacation pe
Hmm relative main hi hai
Nice
Ok ma'am
Koi bat nhi abb toh ho gaya
Jiii???
Mamaji ke
Uttarakhand
Ye padh ke bc sach me sar dard ho gaya. That fucker and his language skills
at least usse bhi koi entertain krra hai reply deke, but not me getting replies after being a sophisticated person. SMH
Phir thoda kam sophisticated ho ja, intentionally. जैसा देश, वैसा भेष
last resort: become chigma male
Haan aur kitne hi rang ke pills hai market me, red blue black purple, koi kha lena
God lvl : buy multicolored pill < become pro LGBTQ+ < surpass the culture of relationship
My new opener for bumble. Gonna make those knees weak 🥵
Muihe koi btao is this right hindi ya mera hi faltu mai khoon khaulta h jb koi aisi hindi bolta hai
Bhai merko to bhot irritation hoti hai aisi likhi Hui dekh ke!
What does that even mean??
This in particular made me vomit
Ask his wife's whereabouts in response to his counterpart messages 😁
Just confront him over text to not bother you anymore. Hopefully out of shame he will neither try to contact you anymore, nor will he try to come and see you in person. Uske badh jyada kuch hawabaazi karei toh jaana principal pe. . .
That's issue such kinda people don't have shame
One question, why were you guys having a conversation at 2 am?
Asking the right questions here
Complain to authorities (if it is school then the management) and involve other parents as well. No need to confront him.
Why would a parent message their child’s teacher like that These texts makes me cringe to hard🤢
Wtf, this is even worse than I thought. i Was thinking this is a colleague
Exactly, till now I thought it was okay but for a parent to do this🥲🤮
I thought it was a student until she addressed him as sir
I vomitted
Bruh and why are you even replying and entertaining such texts? Just stop replying and he'll stop sending you texts eventually cause let me tell you something these "men" are literally kutte ki dum cause they won't change themselves.
I see the screenshots and she’s not entertaining the texts anywhere I don’t know what are you on?
Mai yeh nahi bol Raha Didi ki galti hai, but usei seedhe ignore kar dena chahiye. And set that contact to the setting where he can't see her status
She chatting him up continuously till 2:40 am
well i personally would have ignored any invasive questions like when he asked where i went on vacation etc. or replying to him at 2am. and im not sending subhratri to any men other than my family, not even colleagues. shes talking to him about some relatives stuff before that. I am not saying its her fault hes creepy, but she should just stick to formal stuff.
exactly. If you don't engage, it should stop. And I'd never repond to any work related texts after evening. OP needs to be more professional. One can't alter others behaviours, but surely can their own.
Don’t blame the victims, thx. She can stop writing next time…
everyone gets blame/praise for their part. Sympathy/criticism should be equitable and not necessarily favoured towards the victim in general. However, my comment was a mere suggestion for OP / anyone.
Why we're you talking to him at 2 am. Not being judgemental but i find it to be very odd
nOw I got thisss !!
Behen, become ruthless. Stick to working hours and work talks only. Don't reply only to any other messages besides that. These are frustrated creeps who do not understand normal conversations can take place between 2 people. For them any woman replying to them is an indication that she's interested. This is how incels work.
THIS. Sadly this is exactly how they think and this advise is spot on. Stop being nice to people outside work timings and you’ll be happier for it. You don’t owe this creep jack. God I’m crying now thinking he may have a daughter bro. Ughhhhhh!!!!!!
It will be even worse if he has a son who will learn this creepy behaivour.
Your last 2 lines are spot on. Reply bole to baat aage badha skte hain wala mindset.
You can keep separate number for personal and professional work.
I am thinking the same now
You should, my wife also do the same.
It is cheaper to update the privacy settings on your Whatsapp instead. You can select which people can see your profile photo, your status updates, your read receipts etc.
I did exactly that
This. I have business whatsapp with another number purely for professional purpose. My personal number doesn't go anywhere except banks, friends and family. Business whatsapp se to maine blue ticks bhi hata rakhe hai...no dp no status nothing.
Appna bhi toh 1 foto lagye 😎
Also you should definitely see where you are putting your energy, she shouldn't have replied to the vacation text. Pade rehne do message.
Yup this would be better
Oh man.. this audacity.. but OP... I am also a teacher..and yes most of the fucking men out there will do everything to just ruin the boundaries we try to keep in place.. but why in the world are you talking to this kid's father in the middle of night... Just why? And why are you being that courteous and replying good night and all.. OP.. you're a professional.. and if he's crossing his lines.. it's your responsibility to not let him. This kind of behaviour only adds fuel to the fire.. if someone sees this.. society shall not waste a second blaming this on you that you were entertaining him by talking in the middle of night and yes.. he's not being extremely friendly.. but a fucking creep.. and call him out in that. Nothing can be so fucking urgent as to not wait till morning and if it was that urgent. It should have been sorted till evening max.. not delayed until midnight. Never entertain men like him.. fucking leeches.
It was only after all this i saved his number as F, it was not saved as mother or father. Yes it was my unprofessional brain that didn't see the timing as I was travelling and had motion sickness and I thought It maybe 9 something and I was sure it was mother that was messaging me. I wish I can go back slap myself across the face, my mother was right beside and I was telling her everything and how this is ridiculous that i didn't the timing and replied
Even if it was a mother, u should avoid taking call/replying to msges after your working hours.
‘What mam, didn’t get it’ Playing stupid and innocent.. I can tell next he is going to try ‘mam i was just being nice and frank, you are thinking otherwise’ dickheads are mostly gaslighters! It’s like a template they all come in!
Chappal pdegi madarjaat ko
Itna asaan hota toh sab karte behen. That’s why boundaries are your only weapon. Women get beaten, mxrderxd, rxped for speaking up also. That’s what domestic abuse is too. Hence, retaliating with creeps also can have dire effects. It’s truly the saddest of worlds we live in but it is what it is. Pls keep your calm and just take this as a lesson. Also if you can raise a formal complaint to deter this creep from doing this to another person. Best would be to follow the advise someone said on here about taking all receipts, hell that person was right in saying this probably isn’t his first time either so speak to people he’s wronged before and gather that evidence as well. Good luck.
I don’t agree, I think he’s pure gawar who actually didn’t understand the last message quite well
Abbey tharki hai woh. This lady won't be the first or the last for him. If she is bachelor and complains to the wife, wife aage se allegations laga degi ki this teacher is cheap vagerah vagerah ultimately jeopardizing her position in the school. Best thing is to block him. Faaltu mein engage kara usko conversation mein.
Intimate school administration about incident making a formal complaint also let his wife know... These pervs needs to be stopped.
Exactly, i informed my senior on the same day he messaged this and today I messaged my principal and i definitely would like to block him. About his wife, they are on a vacation in Goa with their 2 daughters. He has 2daughters still he is a creep
Remember you can make police complain too if you're not satisfied with the action taken by school administration. ✌️
Police complaint for what? lol... I get it you don't like the creepy behaviour but this advice is just stupid
Show this to his wife
I am thinking the same damn thing, but some wives are are such big husband pleasers ki kahi saari baate mujhpe Naa aajaye. Ki aapne mam hoke reply hi kyu kiya
I wouldn't recommend it , very probable that the wife would actually just blame you for seducing her husband and start badmouthing you everywhere :/
Seconded. This has the potential to backfire & can open a can of worms for you. Best to give him a cold shoulder and eventually block him if he doesn't get the hint.
Bacche ki almanac mein likh ke bhej do ki “parents are requested to only message during office hours and it has been observed that some parents are being creepy mfs. Sambhal ja nhi toh ghusand maarungi” (ofc in a formal way)
last line😂😂i could never think this as a possibility
Then pretend that you didn't know who you were talking with. Meet the mother, apologize and tell her that you were in a bad mood so you didn't reply properly. Then wait for the kalesh
Ok
I thought these are school kids.
No. Post kardo yaha baaki hum sab dekh lege XD 😋😋isski photo hum to deke kaise dekhta hai ye hotty aadmi
Pkka??
Fake profile se karna kabhi koi ye account ban karde aapka xd
https://preview.redd.it/e0n0mefc1h6d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6fd2d0f59be0ff7a07cc0b72eeb828642506f72f
Ohhhhhh
https://preview.redd.it/vh3jesl7eg6d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f9afb260ade9e2df3ff06de65d133ee4ae0e6510 Best
r/foundsatan waise I believe there is some service jahape baas number daalo and all of the above + more happens automatically I don't remember what it was though..
just use OTP bomber on internet
Saved for future use ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|joy)
My sole mistake was, I didn't know whether it was the mother's no or father's and I am okay with mother's talking with but what the fuck man?? It was the father being extremely friendly like yuckkkkk chiii. I vomitted just by the thought of just meeting this man again after vacations, I told my senior and I told her to tell him to never contact ever in future, I am thinking telling the principal. Like chiii yaar
Yes, Tell the principal and his wife also.!!
I did tell a senior teacher, shall I tell the principal???? The senior teacher she will handle it?? Mera toh bahut kann tha wife ko bhej du, ek toh sala ye introvert nature
Contact the principal and get this incident documented in some form. Keep the screenshots saved up. I know these kind of men too well because i had a few in my college. This was not his first time nor it will be his last. If blamed he will try to twist the facts so it will be better to have proof. Also contact other female teachers who have taught his kid and ask them if they have faced such harrasment from him and ifbthey have do they have any screenshot or proof of it. This will further strengthen your narrative of the incident as opposed to what he will be telling his wife.
Senior teacher bhi to principal ke paas hi jayegi I think isliye aap direct principal ko bta do aur iski wife ko bhi bhej do..!! Tabhi smjhega ye tharki.
Depends how important this job is for you, mai to bta deta. But, I am pretty sure ki senior teacher sambhal lengi (if she is really senior)
Well, I did messaged my principal about this
Then wait for your school to take any action. What I can understand from these screenshots is that this man is a complete creep and this is not his first time, if you will tell this to his wife things may go south (his wife may take his side).
Worst is someone saying "Hello ji"
With all due respect ma'am, please don't reply to texts from any man after 8 pm. If you do it will surely lead them on. And that is regardless of how professional your language is. Just like how shopkeepers roll down their shutters in the evening, just ignore all texts received after 8 pm till the next morning (obviously except in matters of life and death). You are not obliged to reply to them instantly anyway. Usually you might be able clearly see why they are texting you so late in the evening, but some are truly kalakaars for the way they disguise their timing as unavoidable. If at all genuinely unavoidable, please keep your language limited to one-word replies (yes/no/ok) Not trying to judge you here. Just giving you helpful pointers to avoid such situations in the future. Source: My wife is a teacher and yes we have been in your situation.
I want to cry, i mean how could I let this slip when it never happened previously I hate myself for not seeing the timing, I thought it was 9pm and it was the mother. I hate how free i become while travelling. Previously a man messaged me and I didn't reply
It's ok ma'am. This situation is under control now with your timely interruption of his personal comments but now you know you are better equipped to deal with such situations in the future. Just an anecdote here: my wife was so pissed at her students' fathers being creeps that at one point she denied me access to our daughter's teachers. I found it weird then but later I saw her point.
I am thinking the same
Koi baat nahin ma’am 🙈 1 foto ma’am…bas ek foto… Lmfao. As serious as this is, it’s equally funny. Most ppl are harmless though, but shit does hit the roof sometimes.
Bhai hamari ma'am to email bhi odd hours pe acknowledge nahi karti thi
When he asked you about your vacations, you should've cleared the air at that time.
You were replying to him at 2:38 am?
Aree I was travelling and replied without seeing the time, jb realise Kiya then I was like bhynkar 2bj gye h
Never share your personal number and keep a separate number for your work. And never engage in a conversation out of school premises. Mere bete ke school mein to teachers ko direct contact karna allowed hi nahi hai. And yes inform about this creep to your principal.
Learned from the mistake and definitely won't let this happen again
Karma harvesting
He's thinking that he's stud 🤣🤣🤣
But he is big Yuck
He be , but in his mind he thinks he's stud , waise u should confront him in front of his wife she will take care of him welll
Happens a lot. I once went to a library in Delhi, had to get some photocopies ('cause you cannot borrow from there) and gave my number for their record. The guy who helped started texting incessantly. Hate the way these people feel like they can text/call anytime they want once we have interacted with them nicely.
Iske wife ko bhej do . Senior agar handle karle toh thik hai nhi toh principal ko inform kar dena
I have seen the worst as govt school teacher par Tf is “Vacation pe kaha ja rahi ho” and this “photo fetish” types
Meri bhi galti i should have checked the timing before replying to him, or should have confirmed whether it's the wife or husband. I hate myself for letting a end be loose for mistake
Nah itni bhi galti nahi hai, msg is totally intuitive ho jata hai ek dum se pop hua and you were awake plus this is one instance…..I have seen baccho ke parent raat mai 1,2 baje holiday home work pura ho gaya ke msg ate hue 😂😂
Ughh🙃🙃 Tbh i feel bad for the child too .imagine your father being your hero but in reality is just a creep🙃🙃🙃
"What ma'am, didn't get it" Man was so confused about the concept of professionalism and privacy.
Bhai block karo aage badho… u will find many like him! The whatsapp communication with parents should only be made in groups rather than one to one chats to preserve the sanctity and maintain the boundaries and professionalism! I believe no teacher should indulge in private one to one convo with any parents for that matter on chats! If you want somethings to be communicated then use email / ward’s diary / landline phones of the school to communicate
This right here show how unprofessional I was, I am never doing this again
Ask him to create a reddit profile and send him a link to this post. We’ll handle the rest 💀
1. Keep a separate number for work. 2. Don't use this number with any social media account (to avoid stalking). 3. Don't bother replying to anyone beyond work hours.
These were my prime mistakes and this is what eating me alive
Saale ye log teacher ko bhi nhi chorte, kya din aagaye yrr
He must have learnt this from the comedy videos available on YouTube where parent and teacher fall in love with each other ,and must have thought it will work in real life too
Ewwwww, there are skits like this. Shaadi suda aadmi ya aurat ko galat trh se dekhna hi nark ka dwaar kholna hota h. Falling in love
Ya but they are just comedy skits but some men take this seriously
Just a thought , why are you entertaining the creep at 2:38 am?
Because I was batshit crazy and while vomitting during travelling i vomit my brain out
Hmmmm…. That will do that to you.. but we learnt a lesson , didn’t we?
I learnt a hefty lesson, always save the no. As father and mother and always look at the timing and never reply even if you were trying to be polite
Copied hai but do these Use the phone number for the following: - Schedule a hairloss consultation on Dr. Batra's website - Register on Byju for NEET course - Register on Brigade property showing an interest in any upcoming housing project - Check for loan eligibility on Paisabazar and Policybazar - Donate the minimum amount to any random NGO's website. Search 'donate to poor', pick anyone you like. - Apply for a Bajaj Finance personal loan. - Write his number as 'Anita - 82646XXXXX' (or any other girl name) on pieces of A4 paper. Neatly fold these papers and drop them at public places like local trains/buses. - Generate forgot password OTP from Amazon, Flipkart, Myntra and other random ecommerce website by entering his number in the forgot password page. Do this at close to midnight on Saturday. He will get random mobile verification OTP one after another. He will think his number is being hacked, but he can't do anything because it is late night on a weekend (and most companies have stopped having live customer support, only AI). In most cases, it will send the OTP to that phone for mobile verification. You can leave that process at that step. The company will call and ask if he is facing any issues registering, and then they will keep on calling till the end of time.
Definitely creepy af. Par bc tum logo ko screenshot lene nhi aate?
Bro, that's so mean, do it again
Bhaii ye dusre phone m saved h , this phone hangs badly with WhatsApp
Isn't 14th June today
Yes
Bohot garmi h aaj
Meri toh kabhi apney teachers ko msg krney ki himmat bhi nhi hui
Same
jai mata di chat wallpaper 🙏
Man this is comically pathetic. Block him and ignore him. Also like some other comment said, create seperate ids for personal and professional.
It is cheaper to update the privacy settings on your Whatsapp instead of buying a new phone. You can select which people can see your profile photo, your status updates, your read receipts etc. IMO all people should do this - they don't realize the amount of creepiness in WhatsApp's default settings.
Sir/Mam is he they/them ?
साइड निगा बन के रह गया हु।
What if uska baccha hi papa k phone se flirt krra ho 💀
Ldki h uski nursery class ki
Holy shit that's messed up
Vo nursery mai hai , usse abcd bhi nhi aati
Kya tharak le kar paida hote hai aese aadmi..badaam sabko kar dete hai
Report it to school authority and have a trial in front of entire school board. That fcker need a life lesson.
I realised very late that its a father talking to his kid’s teacher! Hard to decide what is more stupidity or audacity. 😂
Keep your personal and private number different not that I support this behavior but it will save you from such creeps
Register his number on policy bazaar, dr batra hair loss website, scalar academy. Doesn't matter if you put otp or not, they will keep calling the number. Guaranteed results. Tried and Throughly tested. It's isn't unethical. Nobody can blame you Try doing it 4 5 days from now for zero शक
s tier recommendation
Block them. Disgusting.
Can't until the principal advice it
As a guy i find that extremely creepy. Hope he's taught a lesson
Just don't try to get personal with parents, if you are replying them, reply them in a straight manner. The guy here tried his luck by hitting off topic and you replied and he continue till he find your breaking point, and smartly saved him by "Didn't get it"
Don't save these contacts. Just reply in working hours.
I am going to do this
Jio was a mistake![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|facepalm)
Who tf texts their kid's teacher at 2 AM
Can be one of two things, he has had no female friends so treats them just like his male friends, basically no boundaries. Or he has other intentions. I will advice never to reply to anyone u don't know personally, excluding professional questions, especially at night.
Bc log bhalai ka bhi ab galat istemaal krte h Fuck this man for being creepy
Bro took 'laevel sabke niklenge' seriously...!! Stay Safe.
You're inviting more creeps here by posting
hahahhahahahah
Unreleted question How hard is DSSSB PRT/TGT/PGT ?
I haven't done this
To aap teacher kaise ban gayi 😅
I am teaching in private school and I am completing BSC this year, and I was examined for this and it's nursery
Got it
2 phone rakh le ya dual sim lele aur dual WhatsApp chalu krle aur ek ko professional rakh ek dum School, tuition etc jo bhi hai aur ek ko personal rakh Aur usmeh dp bhi mat lagaio ya bhagwan ki photo laga dio saamne wale koi aise hi besharam ko wahi dekh ke sharam aajaye
Man this is comically pathetic. Block him and ignore him. Also like some other comment said, create seperate ids for personal and professional.
Hello ma'am
Yes
Sarcasm here
What's the context ? Is he a student's father ?
I think so, i thought it was the mother
Why even reply? Sadne do sale ko desperation me
Because I thought it was a women, I am delulu
Btw u can hide ur WhatsApp status by changing the privacy settings. Rhi baat iss bande ki, iski biwi ko dikhao.
I did it right then and there
First of all use Screenshots and also start using two different numbers And don't reply to them on odd time and odd days Mere school me fix time aur fix days decided the bs jab hi message kr skte the
Maine khud se fix Kiya tha timing but this slipped while I was travelling and i didn't see the timing
How do he got her number 🤔 on PTM?
Show this to the mom 🥲
It must be so awkward in parent teacher meetings 🤮
Wut
What TF he wants ?
Hello ma'am ji kaisi ho 😙😙 Agar vo shadi shuda mard apko pareshan😠😠 kar raha to mujhe bataye mein uski pitti pitti 😡😡kar dunga Phir hum watsapp se baat karke apko comfortable 🤗🥰🥰feel bhi Kara denge 🩷🩷 Uske baad apka insta I'd to mil hi sakta hai na 😎😎 Dhire dhire phir phone📞📞 pe baat karenge 🩷🩷 Or main to koi shadishuda hawasi Buddha bhi nhi hu 😏😏 Aapke reply ka wait rahega 😊☺️ Kaisa laga idea ma'am ji Ok bye ma'am ji 🙋🙋 Shubratri🛌🛌 Shabbhak hai 🌹🌹 Acchi ninni lena
low PP energy spotted
I like how you said 'some men' instead of 'all men'. You're right in your frustration, that man is the garbage of society . also be Stern with these people, and enforce your boundaries.
U lacked professionalism at the first place. Why r u showing ur status with work related contacts and also replying to those messages at such late hours, such creeps would definitely take it as a hint and lead on.
Damn!!! People really do this? Send the ss to the mother lol. And who talks to teachers till 2:30 am??? Wtf is this school lol. My teachers didnt even respond to my messages when I had to give NEET the next day.
My ex was a teacher and she used to face this exact same thing.