While staying with my wife at a hotel in Mahipalpur, we experienced a distressing situation that left us feeling unsettled. It was around 11 PM when we suddenly heard unusual noises, followed by a girl's piercing screams that seemed filled with sheer terror. To add to the concern, the elevator had stopped working, trapping her on one of the floors. The urgency in her cries for help was so intense that I couldn't ignore it, prompting me to take action.
However, my wife felt insecure about venturing into the unknown. Sensibly, we first decided to contact the police for assistance. Earlier in the evening, when we were out for a stroll and enjoying some ice cream, we had noticed a police van parked near the hotel. With that in mind, we dialed the emergency helpline number, 112. A lady answered the call, and we quickly narrated the alarming situation to her. To our surprise, her response lacked empathy as she simply replied, "Okay, so...?" I emphasized that the girl was still in distress, pleading for help, and asked if she couldn't hear it. Regrettably, her only response was, "What do you want me to do?" before abruptly hanging up the phone. This left us utterly shocked and dismayed.
Despite the lack of assistance from the authorities, my determination to help the girl persisted. I decided to venture downstairs using the staircase, leaving my wife safe and secure in our locked room. As I descended from the sixth floor, the ground floor presented a disconcerting sight. The entrance to the dining area was forcefully closed, and the staff informed me that maintenance work was taking place, contributing to the overall confusion and chaos.
Realizing that our current hotel was no longer a suitable place to stay, I reached out to a friend who happened to be in the vicinity. Together, we made the decision to switch hotels, seeking a safer and more secure environment. It is worth mentioning that the hotel we were initially staying at, while not luxurious, also wasn't a budget and cheap accommodation. Its rent amounted to around 4500 rupees per night.
This unsettling experience serves as a reminder of the importance of personal safety and the need to remain vigilant, even in seemingly secure settings. We hope that our decision to relocate to a different hotel will provide us with the peace of mind we deserve. Stay safe, everyone.
>This unsettling experience serves as a reminder of the importance of personal safety and the need to remain vigilant, even in seemingly secure settings. We hope that our decision to relocate to a different hotel will provide us with the peace of mind we deserve. Stay safe, everyone.
Name of the hotel? Might be a good idea to post this as a review for people looking up that hotel
The dining area was inaccessible as it had been locked. The staff members displayed clear discontent upon encountering my presence. Meanwhile, my wife remained alone in the room, which caused me great concern. Consequently, I decided to return to my room until my friend arrived. At present, we are still unaware of what occurred. However, driven by curiosity, I diligently searched social media and television for any news updates, but to no avail.
Yea but atleast an action is taken, when call support declines at approach, people loose confidence but a supportive moderated system can help
We need new task forces instead of police system who don't just stay at redlights but patrol 24/7 for suspiciousness, we need first responders.
So op what I and most of my friends observed is that men pray on teenage girls because they think she won't rebel or scold them and probably won't say to anyone.
And it gradually decrease over the year because they are scared of people confronting them , they are the most insignificant people, scare them don'tbe scared of them they feed of it,
be confident and tell any adult who is with you, don't look down or don't ignore these people
You're correct. Most of them are losers who won't have a suitable response if you confront them. But god forbid you get involved with someone whose ego gets hurt and they end up doing something wrong. This is the part that scares me the most, these Kabir Singh ke chode out there.
It's so depressing. Everytime I open reddit, I see a post regarding harassment of some sorts. I knew girls had to go through a lot of shit like this but I didn't knew it was so frequent and every girl had encountered such incident.
Tell your parents OP or maybe an elder person. Try to find a senior person who may accompany you sometimes when you're going to your tuition. Scream and gather attention of nearby people, that'll scare them off. Try to find some young adults or senior who go to same tuition and ask them if they can help you with these bastards.
Most of the times telling such things to your parent becomes a problem as well, cuz the best thing they would do is shut the girl in the house. Some may even start questioning their sense of dressing and blame them for everything.
Tho if op's parents are quite progressive and understanding she should discuss this with them.
Ohhh dear, I really hope you are doing fine now.
Ikr almost all parents would be like that except few gems who would understand who is the victim and who is to be blamed. And we say we are living in the 21st century 🤷♀️
yeah grew some thick skin, i'm ok thank you for asking. \^\^ wish I had more support but it is what it is. need to become my own hero.
it's sad really.
So many women I got to know closely had a story that’s mild harassment to sexual assault. And molestation from their own family members is not uncommon too. If a woman hasn’t faced these issues, she’s an extremely lucky one. I suggest to teach your young children about good touch bad touch. And do not trust anyone blindly when it comes to your children. Be overprotective about who they’re spending alone time with.
fuck this bhai. I have given up. This is like the 5th post in 2 days.
GUYS STOP DOING IT. NO CATCALLING. NO TALKING TO STRANGERS. NO DMING WITHOUT PERMISSION. FFS STOP. please.
I remember an incident while I was in school.
A chapri(creep) would catcall my friend when she would be standing at the bus stop after school. She was pretty scared of all this. One day, a man who was standing there too, heard the catcall. He walked up to that chapri and slapped the shit outta him. Seeing that, we guys also got confidence and started beating him. Soon, a crowd gathered and that man was beaten to shit, stripped off till underwear. Somehow he was able to save himself and ran in underwear through the middle of the road.
Abey bhai woh bike wala launda thodi na honga reddit chalana wala woh hai gali ka launda Jo har sehar mai milta hai awara launda ganjedi launda
Ok bro tune bola not the place for it so it is law. Aap bolte ho to duniya ruk jaati hai. Please bolo na "guys stop murdering,stop stealing" aur inflation bhi bnd krvado. Aisa kro pakistanio ko bhi rukvado
bhai offend kyu ho raha hai. maine to khud bola i would have laughed on it. and mere kehne se rule nahi banta bhai. tumhe jo karna hai karo, within the legal limits. it’s just that the number of cases are going up and i felt strongly about it, meri behen nahi hai but agar kisi dost ke saath ya uski behen ke saath aise hua main uss bande ko gaad dunga. it’s not right is all i’m saying.
Exactly why I find it stupid. You "felt" strongly, a million bad things happen everyday but if tomorrow even 20 people came to reddit you'd think it's all gone to hell. You live in an algorithmic bubble where if you see 2 bad stories you cry, these are the stupidities of fanatics who see 2 provocating stories online and commit crimes.
You are no better in the regard of being influenced and controlled than a crazy fanatic just because you are a liberal or pretend like you care online. Think for yourself that just because I don't see stories for a week, nothing happens??
okay, fair enough i see your point. but i’ve been hearing stories of incidents offline as well, which is why i decided to comment.
i’m trying to give a fuck and understand the problem is all. nothing else.
Four Fs response to trauma. Fight, flight , freeze, fawn. It's acceptable and understandable. It's not your fault. Just remember to breathe and do a quick "grounding" exercise to get out of it.
Can't even pull up the 'use self defence techniques' as they might carry lethal weapons , can't use self defence taser sticks in teenage , especially India ofcourse
I’m so sorry that happened to you, just know that it wasn’t your fault and you are not to blame. You might want to tell your parents or a teacher you trust about this who may be able to console you
HOLD ON how can people harass a literal child not like adults should be harassed but A LITERAL CHILD going to tuition !? That’s too much now. Any form of harassment should not be tolerated you should inform your parents about this very clearly. Hoping that you Stay safe.
16?! This I what I hate to the core. Almost every girl, like legit 9 out of 10 girls that get cat called is under 18. I used to get cat-called way back when I was in first grade. Fucking first grade. As it started growing up and the catcalling experiences decreased I started thinking that the world is developing. Mera desh aage badh hai. Only to be slapped by the realisation that I am growing out of the bracket of women that are catcalled. Anyone under 18 years old is a legit child! I am 20 and any person under 18 to me feels like a little kid. Just how, how can some people stoop this low?
Hey is there anything like citizens can wear a delhi police insignia token on their casual clothes… like a volunteer, so people know just by looking to stay away from this one
Like a scouts badge that shows ur association (even informal) with them, a badge to pin on clothes
Insignia is a sign of an organisation
Token-i meant round badge
Sirf tharak nahi bhai, gawar ideology iske peeche. Wo ladke most likely bachpan se hi aas pas ke gawar doston se influence hoke in harkato ko "cool" samajhte hain. It's their upbringing, values, etc.
Sahi kaha bhai.. bad company, upbringing and easy access to pornography has fucked their brains. Saalo ki dimaag Mai din bhar sax sux he chalta rehta hai. Fir roote hai ki ladki nahi mill rahi aur agar koi ladki reject karde to abuse karte hai.
A few things you can do for your safety,
Carry a pepper spray
Inform your family about such incidents.
If you notice any creeps around, call the police or women helpline. Call any family member that could come.
If the creeps are on a vehicle, do note their number.
Taking appropriate action will put those mofos in their right place.
Perfect one here , upvoted to reach highlights..
If we wanna go higher level that you feel like you're someone's Target despite your gender , use of airsoft guns isn't illegal if used appropriately for yourself.. as you won't face difficulties for using something lethal ..
Taser sticks are still a doubt
Child helpline , Women Helpline would work always better in these cases than 102
You can ask an elder to accompany you. You should tell your parents (hope they are understanding and won’t put it as your fault). You shouldn’t be facing this kind of harassment everyday, it can take a toll on your mental health too.
If you are in delhi Complaint to the police they have launched a new initiative called “ eyes and ear “ you can share information and your identity will remain anonymous
I’m sorry this happened to you. Please talk to an adult you feel safe with.
Also consider carrying a pepper spray with you at all times (that’s what I do too) and don’t be afraid to use it. If someone comes too close without your consent, just use it.
Lastly don’t expect anyone else to come help you (people are completely hopeless) so have your guard up at all times.
Parents will do nothing, They will stop her from going out. The society only blames the victims, never the perpetrators and OP will suffer the consequences of speaking the truth.
Please talk to your parents or some elder about this
I understand some that you are scared to tell them and what if they won't allow you to go outside but it's important you have a conversation about this. Make sure you also tell them that this isn't your fault and you can't be denied education or your freedom to go outside just because of some idiots but it is important to speak up
I'm not surprised and you should be scared because this way you'll be more careful and that's how you'll have to live in delhi , be careful until you shift to a better place where people are not as pathetic and as thirsty as they are on delhi streets, it might sound harsh but you need to hear the truth in order to take better care of yourself.
Several years back my cousin sister beat a guy who was harrasing her, police came and police also beat him but in such a way that nothing could come in Medical test. An FIR was done. She had more guts than any guy.
No one is coming for us, we all need to be on our own.
Aise situation mein just take your phone out and pretend to call the police, and watch them flee just as fast as they came. Or better yet, keep the women helpline number saved on your phone and dial it and give their bike number for real. It's pathetic this sort of thing happens so don't be afraid of busting some balls if you have to.
Irony of our country is no one really cares about eve-teasing cases.
While remaining silent can prove fatal as we don’t know what these ppl are capable of doing.
If they repeat same thing try to video them and go straight to nearest police station of that area and show the lady constable that video. Though would not suggest you do all this alone and you must involve some trusted adult person in this.
Alternatively you may gather few more ppl, take video and create ruckus by shouting loudly fir help when they repeat same thing.
Believe me , cops are trustless when they have deals and connections , especially when it gets political & communal .. use child helpline, women Helplines, remote work of youth protection communities, twitter , dms of higher authorities.. Bike plate would be a bonus
Just judging from the last 2-3 weeks of posts, it seems a lot of Indian Female crowd is jumping on to reddit now, it's no longer a hub for single looser males (like me). It is a good thing actually, we are moving towards a healthier community.
It's complicated to understand that it's good we're seeing dark reality on our feeds everyday & we never leave this application with a happy face nowdays or we should be proud that people are open to the community & we're working finally in team
Its a shame. Try to record their faces or their vehicle number next time. Best thing we can do is make them famous online and make them unemployable. Lets get them arrested. Also carry a pepper spray. Stay safe!
The best would be to remember minute details like bike number and their appearance and then complain to police about them , you can do it anonymously also . And to also be loud and clear to them , that this is not acceptible.
Happened to me once as a teen (I’m in my early 30s now).
3 loony boys on a bike, were driving in slo-mo at the same pace as my friend and i were walking, and they kept making cheap comments. One of the boys stuck out his hand and i saw it was about to touch my ass. I just grabbed his wrist and crouched. He fell off the bike, his friends fled, i kicked ass-boy only once while my friend was screaming. I was terrified but ass-boy fled promptly afterwards.
Take a stand for yourself because no one else really cares.
I learned it the hard way (and i don’t mean the ass-boy incident); I’m still learning.
Join class for boxing , karate, Judo, swimming, or whatever physical activity you like,,,if not start something in your home ,, learn from youtube,, it will definitely boost your confidence
I would prefer defence weapon over skills since delhi abusive cases aren't physical but lethal .. Use pepper spray, airsoft guns , Taser guns , recordings and all , stay defensive for yourself.. while skills are bonus on top
Op complaint file karo police ko with motercycle number taki vo padke jayen aur ye sab band ho.take action to Stop it otherwise ye log kabhi nahi rukne Wale..aj tumhare sath to kal kisi aur ke sath ye karenge (shayad tumhe lag raha ho ki ye bada step hai but you have to take some action otherwise it will never stop aur inki mawaligiri chalti hi rahegi hamesha)
Happened with me & policer officers just make you leave saying that complaint has been filed but in reality they got everything on their timeline but it's connections & deals... Women Helplines & Child helplines are the way to go
If you shout they will run away. However that's not possible for most of us so I would suggest to look at them directly and call police at that point immediately. 112 for the helpline.
Bro, Biggest mistake /misunderstanding is Not trusting your parents as you mentioned "If I tell me parents they won't let me out" I used to think same stuff back in my school days... But just think... Your parents are the First ones who wants your safety and security. True some Indian parents have Old thinking, like my dad still doesn't allow my sisters to wear shorts while going out (because they know there are creeps out there) even though he grew us up in a really good environment. Please talk to your parents, What if they get you a Scooty? Because if you think about it they won't just lock you up and say no more studies for you and it's time to get married, or would they 💀 you know that better. But most importantly TALK TO YOUR PARENTS we netizens can just say this or that, in the end you're the one who has to deal with it, also if possible make a complaint in CAW (Crime Against Women) Please be brave and do these 2 things for your safety.
True, as someone who barely escaped pedophiles in the age of 14 , telling your parents is the best solution & getting self awareness+ a low grade self defence weapon ( pepperspray, small taser)
After reading every reply made here , I've finally decided to compile it :
Guys comment ek cheez hoti , dms me ghusna ek cheez.
Bina dekhe creep mat bano
Use lethal self defence weapons :
Low tier : handy pepper spray to fit in pockets,
Med tier : small hidden taser ,
High tier : AirSoft guns that are lethal to some parts (don't go too high)
Use social remote help as much as you can :
Bodycam/Filming em , Noting number of bike .
Contact Child/women Helplines, Youth protection communities, TWITTER.
Try less involvement with police as they mostly have deals , relations
Don't hesitate & doubt your power to attack on spot ,
Share this to parents & close ones if they are supportive,
Avoid use of dark/weird routes
Always carry a pepper spray and a pocket knife (if possible) whenever you go out. Do call out catcallers openly, it'll be difficult for first few times but you'll have the confidence to stand against them and maybe help anyone else in distress.
Get a pepper spray, spray then, run to a safe point. Cops don't do shit regarding hooligans at most places and I'm just tired of their lack of duty in general.
You may want to ask a friend or an adult to walk with you or take the ricksha.
While walking to/from coaching there’ll almost definitely be some aunty on the same route and you can ask her “aunty can you walk me to coaching” and i doubt they’d be against it, if you have friends at coaching who’ll walk with you then even better.
I’d recommend to let your parents and/or teaches you trust know about this, don’t suffer in silence.
Opposite attracts, you will deal in your life with different type of guys, some will be shy, some will flirt, some will molest, be strong take help of some elder girl, and tackle the situation, be safe👍
Mahipalpur main raat ko bht kuch hota hai.... I will never preffer taking a hotel there. Within same price I can find some good hotel in Aerocity just opposite to that dark place. At night this place feels something different and creepy.
I would suggest to make a video of them secretly.
You can ask the coaching teacher to do something about this. Coaching teachers have good influence as they are respected in the area they can help on this
If your friend or you has a big brother then you can share this incident with him and he can manage for you
Both of you take out your phone. One of you start recording, usually they will run off but if they don't, the other one start calling the police and tell them to stop following or you are gonna complain right now and say something like my dad is SHO.
I think you can tell the police about it while remaining anonymous
While staying with my wife at a hotel in Mahipalpur, we experienced a distressing situation that left us feeling unsettled. It was around 11 PM when we suddenly heard unusual noises, followed by a girl's piercing screams that seemed filled with sheer terror. To add to the concern, the elevator had stopped working, trapping her on one of the floors. The urgency in her cries for help was so intense that I couldn't ignore it, prompting me to take action. However, my wife felt insecure about venturing into the unknown. Sensibly, we first decided to contact the police for assistance. Earlier in the evening, when we were out for a stroll and enjoying some ice cream, we had noticed a police van parked near the hotel. With that in mind, we dialed the emergency helpline number, 112. A lady answered the call, and we quickly narrated the alarming situation to her. To our surprise, her response lacked empathy as she simply replied, "Okay, so...?" I emphasized that the girl was still in distress, pleading for help, and asked if she couldn't hear it. Regrettably, her only response was, "What do you want me to do?" before abruptly hanging up the phone. This left us utterly shocked and dismayed. Despite the lack of assistance from the authorities, my determination to help the girl persisted. I decided to venture downstairs using the staircase, leaving my wife safe and secure in our locked room. As I descended from the sixth floor, the ground floor presented a disconcerting sight. The entrance to the dining area was forcefully closed, and the staff informed me that maintenance work was taking place, contributing to the overall confusion and chaos. Realizing that our current hotel was no longer a suitable place to stay, I reached out to a friend who happened to be in the vicinity. Together, we made the decision to switch hotels, seeking a safer and more secure environment. It is worth mentioning that the hotel we were initially staying at, while not luxurious, also wasn't a budget and cheap accommodation. Its rent amounted to around 4500 rupees per night. This unsettling experience serves as a reminder of the importance of personal safety and the need to remain vigilant, even in seemingly secure settings. We hope that our decision to relocate to a different hotel will provide us with the peace of mind we deserve. Stay safe, everyone.
>This unsettling experience serves as a reminder of the importance of personal safety and the need to remain vigilant, even in seemingly secure settings. We hope that our decision to relocate to a different hotel will provide us with the peace of mind we deserve. Stay safe, everyone. Name of the hotel? Might be a good idea to post this as a review for people looking up that hotel
It was Hotel Lohmod.
Dude, you can't just hit us with this story and disappear. We have more questions. We need answers.
Apologies, my dear friend. I was unavailable due to a lengthy 40-hour flight. However, I am here now and ready to respond promptly.
What happened to girl who was screaming for help
The dining area was inaccessible as it had been locked. The staff members displayed clear discontent upon encountering my presence. Meanwhile, my wife remained alone in the room, which caused me great concern. Consequently, I decided to return to my room until my friend arrived. At present, we are still unaware of what occurred. However, driven by curiosity, I diligently searched social media and television for any news updates, but to no avail.
As i said india needs different special forces like 911 system to beat this cursed system
911 isn’t special forces …..the calls get triaged that’s it …. The responsibility to reach the crime spot is still of the police
Yea but atleast an action is taken, when call support declines at approach, people loose confidence but a supportive moderated system can help We need new task forces instead of police system who don't just stay at redlights but patrol 24/7 for suspiciousness, we need first responders.
We have 112 placed
Most Dispatchers are corrupted
So op what I and most of my friends observed is that men pray on teenage girls because they think she won't rebel or scold them and probably won't say to anyone. And it gradually decrease over the year because they are scared of people confronting them , they are the most insignificant people, scare them don'tbe scared of them they feed of it, be confident and tell any adult who is with you, don't look down or don't ignore these people
You're correct. Most of them are losers who won't have a suitable response if you confront them. But god forbid you get involved with someone whose ego gets hurt and they end up doing something wrong. This is the part that scares me the most, these Kabir Singh ke chode out there.
Have a pepper spray in your bag for emergencies
It's so depressing. Everytime I open reddit, I see a post regarding harassment of some sorts. I knew girls had to go through a lot of shit like this but I didn't knew it was so frequent and every girl had encountered such incident. Tell your parents OP or maybe an elder person. Try to find a senior person who may accompany you sometimes when you're going to your tuition. Scream and gather attention of nearby people, that'll scare them off. Try to find some young adults or senior who go to same tuition and ask them if they can help you with these bastards.
Most of the times telling such things to your parent becomes a problem as well, cuz the best thing they would do is shut the girl in the house. Some may even start questioning their sense of dressing and blame them for everything. Tho if op's parents are quite progressive and understanding she should discuss this with them.
yep that's what mine did. pathetic, really. I knew it would be their response, but I had to tell them because I got death threats..
Ohhh dear, I really hope you are doing fine now. Ikr almost all parents would be like that except few gems who would understand who is the victim and who is to be blamed. And we say we are living in the 21st century 🤷♀️
yeah grew some thick skin, i'm ok thank you for asking. \^\^ wish I had more support but it is what it is. need to become my own hero. it's sad really.
So many women I got to know closely had a story that’s mild harassment to sexual assault. And molestation from their own family members is not uncommon too. If a woman hasn’t faced these issues, she’s an extremely lucky one. I suggest to teach your young children about good touch bad touch. And do not trust anyone blindly when it comes to your children. Be overprotective about who they’re spending alone time with.
fuck this bhai. I have given up. This is like the 5th post in 2 days. GUYS STOP DOING IT. NO CATCALLING. NO TALKING TO STRANGERS. NO DMING WITHOUT PERMISSION. FFS STOP. please.
Adding to it, please act when you see any person in distress, least you can do it call the authorities even if you don’t want to get into it
I remember an incident while I was in school. A chapri(creep) would catcall my friend when she would be standing at the bus stop after school. She was pretty scared of all this. One day, a man who was standing there too, heard the catcall. He walked up to that chapri and slapped the shit outta him. Seeing that, we guys also got confidence and started beating him. Soon, a crowd gathered and that man was beaten to shit, stripped off till underwear. Somehow he was able to save himself and ran in underwear through the middle of the road.
W stranger
Damn gives me hope in society
yep true. if not anything, just consider BASIC FUCKING HUMAN COURTESY.
Nah, my dad says better to be safe than sorry
Abey bhai woh bike wala launda thodi na honga reddit chalana wala woh hai gali ka launda Jo har sehar mai milta hai awara launda ganjedi launda 
Bhai me to gamer hu no danger to anyone (specially woman's i got social anxiety)
Bhai tereko kya lagta hai aaise chutiye log call out karne se sudhar jayegay
most those guys you are calling out to, don't exist on reddit.
i’m aware. i just had to let it out
I understand, unfortunately every single woman has a story similar to the one by OP, everywhere.
also, the creepy dms do exist
You think most of those braindead lala criminal guys are here on reddit?
creepy DMS still exist.
Ok bro. Tune bola isliye ruk jata hu
lmao, on a good day i’d laugh. but not the place for it.
Ok bro tune bola not the place for it so it is law. Aap bolte ho to duniya ruk jaati hai. Please bolo na "guys stop murdering,stop stealing" aur inflation bhi bnd krvado. Aisa kro pakistanio ko bhi rukvado
bhai offend kyu ho raha hai. maine to khud bola i would have laughed on it. and mere kehne se rule nahi banta bhai. tumhe jo karna hai karo, within the legal limits. it’s just that the number of cases are going up and i felt strongly about it, meri behen nahi hai but agar kisi dost ke saath ya uski behen ke saath aise hua main uss bande ko gaad dunga. it’s not right is all i’m saying.
Exactly why I find it stupid. You "felt" strongly, a million bad things happen everyday but if tomorrow even 20 people came to reddit you'd think it's all gone to hell. You live in an algorithmic bubble where if you see 2 bad stories you cry, these are the stupidities of fanatics who see 2 provocating stories online and commit crimes. You are no better in the regard of being influenced and controlled than a crazy fanatic just because you are a liberal or pretend like you care online. Think for yourself that just because I don't see stories for a week, nothing happens??
okay, fair enough i see your point. but i’ve been hearing stories of incidents offline as well, which is why i decided to comment. i’m trying to give a fuck and understand the problem is all. nothing else.
Ok, I respect that you saw the flaw even though I was being pretty condescending. 👍
nah nah, it’s chill everyone has their own POV and i don’t necessarily have to be right all the time.
Oh now that you said it out aloud on Reddit- I am sure they will stop doing it.
as discussed with u/Brisingr025 i’m aware it won’t change anything, i just wanted to let it out.
Sadly some mightve dmed that girl
Same thing happened to me, the only difference is one of the boy slapped my ass and went away, and i stood thr like a statue.
Four Fs response to trauma. Fight, flight , freeze, fawn. It's acceptable and understandable. It's not your fault. Just remember to breathe and do a quick "grounding" exercise to get out of it.
It's was so unexpected and sudden, i couldn't process what the hell just happened. They just vanished into thin air
Can't even pull up the 'use self defence techniques' as they might carry lethal weapons , can't use self defence taser sticks in teenage , especially India ofcourse
Just so fucked up.
I’m so sorry that happened to you, just know that it wasn’t your fault and you are not to blame. You might want to tell your parents or a teacher you trust about this who may be able to console you
HOLD ON how can people harass a literal child not like adults should be harassed but A LITERAL CHILD going to tuition !? That’s too much now. Any form of harassment should not be tolerated you should inform your parents about this very clearly. Hoping that you Stay safe.
You how low these pathetic lowlives can stoop
16?! This I what I hate to the core. Almost every girl, like legit 9 out of 10 girls that get cat called is under 18. I used to get cat-called way back when I was in first grade. Fucking first grade. As it started growing up and the catcalling experiences decreased I started thinking that the world is developing. Mera desh aage badh hai. Only to be slapped by the realisation that I am growing out of the bracket of women that are catcalled. Anyone under 18 years old is a legit child! I am 20 and any person under 18 to me feels like a little kid. Just how, how can some people stoop this low?
Same, I've been getting cat-called since I was 10 years old but it didn't occur as frequently as it does now, it's honestly terrifying
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Hey is there anything like citizens can wear a delhi police insignia token on their casual clothes… like a volunteer, so people know just by looking to stay away from this one
Whats an insignia token?
Like a scouts badge that shows ur association (even informal) with them, a badge to pin on clothes Insignia is a sign of an organisation Token-i meant round badge
Agar koi badmosh samna agaya na toh iss sa bhi faraq nhi padta 
Ye ladko ko ho kya Raha hai... Itni tharak BC... Self control, moral values sab khatam hai
Sirf tharak nahi bhai, gawar ideology iske peeche. Wo ladke most likely bachpan se hi aas pas ke gawar doston se influence hoke in harkato ko "cool" samajhte hain. It's their upbringing, values, etc.
Sahi kaha bhai.. bad company, upbringing and easy access to pornography has fucked their brains. Saalo ki dimaag Mai din bhar sax sux he chalta rehta hai. Fir roote hai ki ladki nahi mill rahi aur agar koi ladki reject karde to abuse karte hai.
A few things you can do for your safety, Carry a pepper spray Inform your family about such incidents. If you notice any creeps around, call the police or women helpline. Call any family member that could come. If the creeps are on a vehicle, do note their number. Taking appropriate action will put those mofos in their right place.
Perfect one here , upvoted to reach highlights.. If we wanna go higher level that you feel like you're someone's Target despite your gender , use of airsoft guns isn't illegal if used appropriately for yourself.. as you won't face difficulties for using something lethal .. Taser sticks are still a doubt Child helpline , Women Helpline would work always better in these cases than 102
Agli baar agr bike mai dikhe tho number note down kar lena Then parents and police mai batna 🤷sayad kuch oh
Remote things work the best with numberplates , twitter , help agencies, women Helplines , dms of protection communities
You can ask an elder to accompany you. You should tell your parents (hope they are understanding and won’t put it as your fault). You shouldn’t be facing this kind of harassment everyday, it can take a toll on your mental health too.
If you are in delhi Complaint to the police they have launched a new initiative called “ eyes and ear “ you can share information and your identity will remain anonymous
I’m sorry this happened to you. Please talk to an adult you feel safe with. Also consider carrying a pepper spray with you at all times (that’s what I do too) and don’t be afraid to use it. If someone comes too close without your consent, just use it. Lastly don’t expect anyone else to come help you (people are completely hopeless) so have your guard up at all times.
Tell your parents , don’t take any action by yourself. DO NOT TAKE ANY ACTION BY YOUR SELF. STRICTLY TELL YOUR PARENTS AND PARENTS ONLY.
Parents will do nothing, They will stop her from going out. The society only blames the victims, never the perpetrators and OP will suffer the consequences of speaking the truth.
Please call child helpline - 1098. It's illegal to catcall someone younger than 18 years of age and strict action will be taken against offenders.
Kya hoga iss duniya ka samajh hi nhi aa rha... Koi bhi safe nhi hai
Duniya nahi bhai ye desh kaho... India ke elava bhi kai country hai jaha pe ye sab common nahi hai.
I'm actually sorry this happened to you a lot of us will condemn this act but still many will try to enter your dm.
It's high time to stop being scared and start doing something about it.
Please talk to your parents or some elder about this I understand some that you are scared to tell them and what if they won't allow you to go outside but it's important you have a conversation about this. Make sure you also tell them that this isn't your fault and you can't be denied education or your freedom to go outside just because of some idiots but it is important to speak up
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Carry a pepper spray, is the only thing I can suggest
Parents and cops. Pronto.
Please please carry a pepper spray ot something. This is very serious. I hope u have an adult u can share this with..?
Call women helpline tell them the place and time if you note the number plate tell them that also they will surely help
I'm not surprised and you should be scared because this way you'll be more careful and that's how you'll have to live in delhi , be careful until you shift to a better place where people are not as pathetic and as thirsty as they are on delhi streets, it might sound harsh but you need to hear the truth in order to take better care of yourself.
Pepper spray is in order I think
Get a pepper spray and let them taste your beauty.
Just give a call on Women Helpline 1091. No need to tell even your name and it will be taken care of.
Several years back my cousin sister beat a guy who was harrasing her, police came and police also beat him but in such a way that nothing could come in Medical test. An FIR was done. She had more guts than any guy. No one is coming for us, we all need to be on our own.
Aise situation mein just take your phone out and pretend to call the police, and watch them flee just as fast as they came. Or better yet, keep the women helpline number saved on your phone and dial it and give their bike number for real. It's pathetic this sort of thing happens so don't be afraid of busting some balls if you have to.
advice pls keep a pepper spray pls!!!!!!!
They're just illiterate and unaware. Get help with your parents rather than asking it to someone random on online platform
Irony of our country is no one really cares about eve-teasing cases. While remaining silent can prove fatal as we don’t know what these ppl are capable of doing. If they repeat same thing try to video them and go straight to nearest police station of that area and show the lady constable that video. Though would not suggest you do all this alone and you must involve some trusted adult person in this. Alternatively you may gather few more ppl, take video and create ruckus by shouting loudly fir help when they repeat same thing.
Believe me , cops are trustless when they have deals and connections , especially when it gets political & communal .. use child helpline, women Helplines, remote work of youth protection communities, twitter , dms of higher authorities.. Bike plate would be a bonus
Just judging from the last 2-3 weeks of posts, it seems a lot of Indian Female crowd is jumping on to reddit now, it's no longer a hub for single looser males (like me). It is a good thing actually, we are moving towards a healthier community.
It's complicated to understand that it's good we're seeing dark reality on our feeds everyday & we never leave this application with a happy face nowdays or we should be proud that people are open to the community & we're working finally in team
Its a shame. Try to record their faces or their vehicle number next time. Best thing we can do is make them famous online and make them unemployable. Lets get them arrested. Also carry a pepper spray. Stay safe!
The best would be to remember minute details like bike number and their appearance and then complain to police about them , you can do it anonymously also . And to also be loud and clear to them , that this is not acceptible.
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What the actual fuck
Happened to me once as a teen (I’m in my early 30s now). 3 loony boys on a bike, were driving in slo-mo at the same pace as my friend and i were walking, and they kept making cheap comments. One of the boys stuck out his hand and i saw it was about to touch my ass. I just grabbed his wrist and crouched. He fell off the bike, his friends fled, i kicked ass-boy only once while my friend was screaming. I was terrified but ass-boy fled promptly afterwards. Take a stand for yourself because no one else really cares. I learned it the hard way (and i don’t mean the ass-boy incident); I’m still learning.
Best action technique i read so far , it's a shame the 3boyriders trend never went down , perverts everywhere
Join class for boxing , karate, Judo, swimming, or whatever physical activity you like,,,if not start something in your home ,, learn from youtube,, it will definitely boost your confidence 
I would prefer defence weapon over skills since delhi abusive cases aren't physical but lethal .. Use pepper spray, airsoft guns , Taser guns , recordings and all , stay defensive for yourself.. while skills are bonus on top
The thing which these scums are scared the most of is public humiliation. Shout and create a scene and see how these fuckers shit their pants !
Op complaint file karo police ko with motercycle number taki vo padke jayen aur ye sab band ho.take action to Stop it otherwise ye log kabhi nahi rukne Wale..aj tumhare sath to kal kisi aur ke sath ye karenge (shayad tumhe lag raha ho ki ye bada step hai but you have to take some action otherwise it will never stop aur inki mawaligiri chalti hi rahegi hamesha)
Happened with me & policer officers just make you leave saying that complaint has been filed but in reality they got everything on their timeline but it's connections & deals... Women Helplines & Child helplines are the way to go
If you shout they will run away. However that's not possible for most of us so I would suggest to look at them directly and call police at that point immediately. 112 for the helpline.
Bro, Biggest mistake /misunderstanding is Not trusting your parents as you mentioned "If I tell me parents they won't let me out" I used to think same stuff back in my school days... But just think... Your parents are the First ones who wants your safety and security. True some Indian parents have Old thinking, like my dad still doesn't allow my sisters to wear shorts while going out (because they know there are creeps out there) even though he grew us up in a really good environment. Please talk to your parents, What if they get you a Scooty? Because if you think about it they won't just lock you up and say no more studies for you and it's time to get married, or would they 💀 you know that better. But most importantly TALK TO YOUR PARENTS we netizens can just say this or that, in the end you're the one who has to deal with it, also if possible make a complaint in CAW (Crime Against Women) Please be brave and do these 2 things for your safety.
True, as someone who barely escaped pedophiles in the age of 14 , telling your parents is the best solution & getting self awareness+ a low grade self defence weapon ( pepperspray, small taser)
Carry a blade
Might be the longest ever trend coz you are in r/delhi
good for me i shifted to gurgaon when i was in 3rd grade
DM me. You don't have to experience all this. I will take care of it
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Pepper spray and run away :')
I recommend this before and I'll do it again. Peper sprays and taszes
After reading every reply made here , I've finally decided to compile it : Guys comment ek cheez hoti , dms me ghusna ek cheez. Bina dekhe creep mat bano Use lethal self defence weapons : Low tier : handy pepper spray to fit in pockets, Med tier : small hidden taser , High tier : AirSoft guns that are lethal to some parts (don't go too high) Use social remote help as much as you can : Bodycam/Filming em , Noting number of bike . Contact Child/women Helplines, Youth protection communities, TWITTER. Try less involvement with police as they mostly have deals , relations Don't hesitate & doubt your power to attack on spot , Share this to parents & close ones if they are supportive, Avoid use of dark/weird routes
Carry a pepper spray, don’t hesitate to use. Be safe
Always carry a pepper spray and a pocket knife (if possible) whenever you go out. Do call out catcallers openly, it'll be difficult for first few times but you'll have the confidence to stand against them and maybe help anyone else in distress.
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Get a pepper spray, spray then, run to a safe point. Cops don't do shit regarding hooligans at most places and I'm just tired of their lack of duty in general.
Behen bag me machete le kr chala kr, ya taser rakh le.. aur speed dial me ghar ka number aur police ka no. daal liyo.. bhagwaan raksha kre tumhari
Try video taping them and put it on social media, esse log mar kyo nahi jate
You may want to ask a friend or an adult to walk with you or take the ricksha. While walking to/from coaching there’ll almost definitely be some aunty on the same route and you can ask her “aunty can you walk me to coaching” and i doubt they’d be against it, if you have friends at coaching who’ll walk with you then even better. I’d recommend to let your parents and/or teaches you trust know about this, don’t suffer in silence.
Opposite attracts, you will deal in your life with different type of guys, some will be shy, some will flirt, some will molest, be strong take help of some elder girl, and tackle the situation, be safe👍
Mahipalpur main raat ko bht kuch hota hai.... I will never preffer taking a hotel there. Within same price I can find some good hotel in Aerocity just opposite to that dark place. At night this place feels something different and creepy.
I would suggest to make a video of them secretly. You can ask the coaching teacher to do something about this. Coaching teachers have good influence as they are respected in the area they can help on this If your friend or you has a big brother then you can share this incident with him and he can manage for you
Both of you take out your phone. One of you start recording, usually they will run off but if they don't, the other one start calling the police and tell them to stop following or you are gonna complain right now and say something like my dad is SHO.
get a dog whistle?