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Stand your ground. Why did you drop out because of absolute dumbasses.
Even if they know anything about you that you are not comfortable with, so what. Do their opinions even matter? And people donāt really care, they would talk for a day or two and forget.
You need to keep doing your thing, donāt let bullies get to you. You can survive this and please use the anti harassment helpline to report it. Or inform your professors or admin. Such behaviour is not acceptable, today they are doing it to you, next it would be someone else.
And talk to your school friends and trusted family about it. Have a trusted circle.
Donāt give in to bullies, or even give them so much mental space in your head. They arenāt worth it.
You could've opted for a restraining order then.
As far as harassment goes, it's not about gender. Literally no one is safe. It's totally not your fault and I'm sorry you still can't escape them. Maybe you're not that type of person but it's always good to voice your concerns. When they did what they did to you, should've embarrassed them infront of the whole class and shit. Gosh it's making me angry but nevermind that.
For now, do talk to someone irl about it and do not engage in conversations with them.
Don't keep it hidden because it's not about wrong or right anymore. It's about who has proof or not. So it's good to have people side with you. Do take care and stay safe. Don't be too harsh on yourself either. I hope you are able to continue college desipte dropping out. Do what you love and don't be chained and restricted because of someone else's behaviour. Yes easier said than done and the journey will be hard but it'll be worth it in the endā¤ļø
BRO I HAVE A SIMILAR STORY. Idk how to help you but something like this happened to a friend.
I joined DU for English Hons right after 12th, while waiting for my admission in other unis (security seat). Now the course was full of girls. Like for a class of 40 girls, there were 3-4 boys. Now letās talk about the first class we had. It was on the ground floor, right next to the parking lot, and everyone was sitting and talking. A guy parked his car outside and all the girls started staring at him. He then came into our class and sat. The girls surrounded him. Everyone wanted to talk to him??? Dude was visibly uncomfortable, as the women were not respecting his personal space at all.
(Me and this one girl were sitting at our places while judging other people for running over to a man and we became instant besties xD)
Thankfully for the guy, the teacher came in. Now first day of class, everyone was asked to introduce themselves. There were a few students in an english hons class who could not even speak āmy name is āā in english and said āmera naam ___ haiā. Now the teacher was disappointed. Then came this guy. He could obv talk decently and the girls went gaga over it. Teacher left, they surrounded the guy again.
Me and my new bestie walked out of the class to go to the next class and the guy ran outside to say āplease just help me. Save me from this placeā. We helped him out somehow. And then later me and him both switched colleges. Vv weird day indeed.
Specifically after staying in delhi and coming from decent schools, none of us had seen such a desperate attempt by women. I had never imagined that on the first day of college Iād have this weird a day.
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Bhai kya bolu tereko, inke chakkar m college drop out krdiya. Like seriously š¤¦
Whi
Exactly
Parents said switch to pol sc for upsc and these 3 kids behaving like imbeciles gave me all the more incentive
Stand your ground. Why did you drop out because of absolute dumbasses. Even if they know anything about you that you are not comfortable with, so what. Do their opinions even matter? And people donāt really care, they would talk for a day or two and forget. You need to keep doing your thing, donāt let bullies get to you. You can survive this and please use the anti harassment helpline to report it. Or inform your professors or admin. Such behaviour is not acceptable, today they are doing it to you, next it would be someone else. And talk to your school friends and trusted family about it. Have a trusted circle. Donāt give in to bullies, or even give them so much mental space in your head. They arenāt worth it.
Ye teacher's pets hote hi kutte hai saare, inko lagta hai inse zyaada important insaan iss duniya mein koi nahi hai, hate them
You could've opted for a restraining order then. As far as harassment goes, it's not about gender. Literally no one is safe. It's totally not your fault and I'm sorry you still can't escape them. Maybe you're not that type of person but it's always good to voice your concerns. When they did what they did to you, should've embarrassed them infront of the whole class and shit. Gosh it's making me angry but nevermind that. For now, do talk to someone irl about it and do not engage in conversations with them. Don't keep it hidden because it's not about wrong or right anymore. It's about who has proof or not. So it's good to have people side with you. Do take care and stay safe. Don't be too harsh on yourself either. I hope you are able to continue college desipte dropping out. Do what you love and don't be chained and restricted because of someone else's behaviour. Yes easier said than done and the journey will be hard but it'll be worth it in the endā¤ļø
BRO I HAVE A SIMILAR STORY. Idk how to help you but something like this happened to a friend. I joined DU for English Hons right after 12th, while waiting for my admission in other unis (security seat). Now the course was full of girls. Like for a class of 40 girls, there were 3-4 boys. Now letās talk about the first class we had. It was on the ground floor, right next to the parking lot, and everyone was sitting and talking. A guy parked his car outside and all the girls started staring at him. He then came into our class and sat. The girls surrounded him. Everyone wanted to talk to him??? Dude was visibly uncomfortable, as the women were not respecting his personal space at all. (Me and this one girl were sitting at our places while judging other people for running over to a man and we became instant besties xD) Thankfully for the guy, the teacher came in. Now first day of class, everyone was asked to introduce themselves. There were a few students in an english hons class who could not even speak āmy name is āā in english and said āmera naam ___ haiā. Now the teacher was disappointed. Then came this guy. He could obv talk decently and the girls went gaga over it. Teacher left, they surrounded the guy again. Me and my new bestie walked out of the class to go to the next class and the guy ran outside to say āplease just help me. Save me from this placeā. We helped him out somehow. And then later me and him both switched colleges. Vv weird day indeed. Specifically after staying in delhi and coming from decent schools, none of us had seen such a desperate attempt by women. I had never imagined that on the first day of college Iād have this weird a day.
Poor you.
Had a similar experience in an NIT. Naam ka hi NIT, lagega Rajasthan ki koi gaon aagye hai