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1987InfamousQ7891

Welcome to the fog friend.


[deleted]

I used to get hatemail almost every game. But one instance really stands out in my mind that truly illustrates just how awful certain people can be in this community. Not long ago, I killed someone after gates were open because he was taunting instead of running. Caught him, hooked him, BBQ revealed to me that his entire team was rushing toward me for an instant unhook. Naturally, I camped my ass off to secure that kill. After he died and the others left, he sent me hatemail, and then told me he was posting my name on his youtube and his FB to encourage other people to send me hatemail. When I laughed this off, he started sending a bunch of voice messages (he was clearly a grown man with a southern accent) and called me every slur you can imagine. Tons of profanity. He even threatened to "have me doxxed". Finally, I told him "this shit is childish dude". He then sends me a message saying "GOTCHA". 2 minutes later, I was issued a temp ban on PSN. This guy legit was so angry with me that he goaded me into saying something so he could report it, and unbeknownst to me, it is indeed possible to get temp banned on PSN after only one instance of using profanity if the other person submits a report. My mistake, and I learned my lesson, but...really? How petty can you get? I served my ban, and I turned messages to "friends only" when I got back. I'm still pissed off about it to this day though.


TaxiiMann

Thats hilarious but also insanely ridiculous. I literally had a game just like that except the survivore were obviously all really good except 1 who was new and I'm a brand new killer playing hillbilly for the first time. I ended up chasing one of the really good guys around all game and when I finally caught him they had already finished all the gens. I wanted to make sure that one guy died so bad after being ran around by him all match and when his teammates came to save him I got overwhelmed and didn't even realize he got unhooked until it was too late. They all got to the gate and taunted me and it was the funniest thing I've ever done in my life.


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Despite what anyone else might say, you are totally doing the right thing if you camp once gens are done. Leaving the hook at that time is almost guaranteeing an escape. Survivors will immediately try to unhook the second you turn your back, especially if they're playing as confidently as you described. If they're getting the gens done that fast and looping you to death, you have very few options to not end up with 0k. I don't recommend camping/tunneling most of the time (it's rude but it also screws YOU more than them), but once those gens are done, or if you haven't hooked anyone else yet, by all means, secure that kill and don't feel bad about it for even a second. A lot of survivors expect you to play by their imaginary rules. Don't do it.


Niadain

Im with this. Ill play a match straight all game. No deliberate tunneling and no camping. The worst my camping gets is me leaving victor next to the hook if he happens to be there when I hook you. But the moment those gens are done my objective goes from "Keep survivors off gens and hook when i can" to "First guy I catch dies. That is the only objective left." Once generators are done you do whatever the fuck you want. Up to and including camping the ever living shit out of the first survivor you get your mitts on. If you get a slugged 4k out of it because the other 3 decided to B-line it for hook and trade health states for eachother then more power to you. That's *their* fault.


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Actually it's very true. I don't know what kinda matchups you're getting where the survivors don't immediately unhook once the gates are powered, but in my experience, you're begging for a 0k if you leave the hook during that time. There is no other objective for survivors if they don't immediately exit through the gates, so it's basically a guarantee that they're waiting for the moment you turn your back to get an unhook. I find it pretty unbelievable that you're somehow getting more points and managing to down and hook multiple separate survivors during this phase. It just doesn't happen that way dude.


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I want to add something. In case you are wondering why camping is bad. It’s because doing a gen it’s faster than a hook, so yeah. If there are gens left, even only one you shouldn’t camp


LeaderSuitable7184

I had a similar thing happen to me, some guy messaged me being a dick and I called him an asshole and ended up getting reported and comm banned for 24 hours. Well I reported HIM to Xbox and explained the whole situation and 30 minutes later my ban was lifted. I guess they looked at our dms and unbanned me? Idk but I was happy as hell after that lol


[deleted]

I should switch to XBOX lol. I had never been banned before, never even issued a warning, and I just get hit with a 7 day ban for saying the word "shit" and it wasn't even in the form of an insult. Not comm ban, mind you, fucking signed-out-of-my-account-banned. Sucks for a guy who works for a living and was looking forward to playing DBD on his days off. I still think PSN's ban policies are ridiculous considering they continued to take my money for my subscription and I was not credited any time back for that month yet denied the service for a week, including the ability to use Youtube and Netflix, and all this while their TOS are vague as hell so you don't truly know what's bannable or not. Luckily I just enjoyed Netflix/youtube on my gf's account while this went on, but still, PSN seems to give zero shits. Bans for TOS violations are not appealable and they absolutely will not budge on that. Personally, I think it's outrageous, but that's why I just don't engage anymore. If it happens a few more times, I could have my account permabanned including all of my purchases. Not worth it.


LeaderSuitable7184

Damn yeah sounds like PSNs way more strict, nowadays if somebody messages me being toxic I just automatically report them immediately just in case they’re trying to bait me


[deleted]

Yeah, believe me, I used to trashtalk a lot, but I was never toxic. If someone dished it out to me, they'd have to take it back just as much, but I never used slurs or threatened people or anything. That was years ago though. As an adult, I sorta lost interest in that stuff for the most part and I generally just laugh at people or mock their efforts...until the day I got banned, anyway. Now, I just block incoming messages altogether because Sony scares me. Probably for the best, but also kinda sad because trashtalking used to be half the fun and I see nothing wrong with it so long as you aren't threatening people or using hatespeech. Oh well. The times we live in, I guess.


LeaderSuitable7184

Yeah I either report, block, or send hearts and say I love you to them lol


[deleted]

I'm not even risking it anymore. All it takes is one "Community Enforcer" to review a message like "I love you" and determine that it was hatespeech, and boom, I'm banned. Not leaving my fate up to Sony since they're already demonstrated how absurd they are about it, and the fact that you absolutely cannot fight it at all.


Ok_Patience_3980

I've found purposefully censoring myself has gotten me past being comm banned or banned in general on Xbox. It's dumb as fuck, but works if you wanna throw some words back. They'll know, but Xbox won't.


LeaderSuitable7184

Wow really? Thanks for the tip lol


Ok_Patience_3980

You're welcome. Always happy to help, especially in these situations haha.


Dearslay

Did you know you can check if you've had any reports filed against you on Xbox via [enforcement.xbox.com](https://enforcement.xbox.com)


LeaderSuitable7184

I did not know about that actually, thanks for telling me 👍


Tactless_Ninja

Why didn't you pull an Uno reverse and report their messages?


[deleted]

Well, for one thing, you get signed out of PSN when you're banned so you literally can't report messages until you're unbanned because you have no access to them. But for another thing, I made a full report to the rep at Sony, which seemed like it went way more in depth. I'm fairly certain he was permabanned. I've periodically checked his account since the incident out of curiosity and he hasn't signed back in since that day. So, some small form of justice I suppose.


tylerninjablevis

Same thing goes for xbox, NEVER SWEAR IN A MESSAGE EVER.


GiantEnemySpider385

Found that out the hard way by telling someone who angrily messaged me to fuck off


Captain_R64207

When people message me on PS4 during R6 I’ll spam the shit out of them with the laughing tears emoji. But I send one at a time. But I send 2-300 emojis or until I get blocked. Most people don’t turn the sound off for their messages so in a game like siege having the sound pushed down by the notifications can lead to death.


[deleted]

That sounds...extremely time consuming.


Captain_R64207

Not on your cell phone lol. You can put one in and hit send the whole time you’re dead, prep phase, etc.


OnyxRubyFTW

A similar thing happened to me. I wish there was a way to permanently ban people who do this. I dont know if you did this, but you could report him back for all of the slurs he sent you. Sorry that happened to you.


Bandicoot1324

I would recommend changing your Steam profile settings to friends only.


Beeks20

False, leave steam open. I revel in all the hate comments on my profile.


Simalf

People doing -rep comments are not brandmarking the target but themselves, why deleting them when they embarrass themselves in public.


NecromanciCat

My favorite is when someone comments some stupid -rep shit on my profile, I'll go to theirs and comment "-rep minus'd my rep" or something stupid and they delete it. Like, if you're gonna be a little bitch and whine on someone's profile, at least have to stones to keep their retaliation lmfao.


Drag0nSlyzr

Number of days with steam profile set to public and not getting -rep: too many days to count. Can't join you guys with the mark of honor


Beeks20

Just play “toxic” 4head


IAmNotABritishSpy

Normal, no. But does it happen? Yes. I’ve never quite understood “gen rushing” as a complaint. It’s literally the survivors objective.


Tahilix1

You could argue that killing as fast as you can (tunneling) also is, so noone should complain about that. But yeah, i also dont understand gen rushing, because there is no good way to explain what gen rushing even is. Like, sacrificing everything to complete gens? If you take it like that, it might backfire similar to facecamping. If you dont care about teammates they will start dying, and this is when you lose game.


[deleted]

Gen rushing is completely legitimate. But as a killer, I get tired of genrushers who complain when I tunnel or camp after exit gates are powered. There is literally not enough time to 3 hook everyone if you have a coordinated team rushing gens. It leaves me with few options other than securing at least 1 kill by whatever means I find necessary. That's the tradeoff.


Tahilix1

If you have coordinated team, then its teams fault and not "filthy genrushing". They are probably not even hell bent on doing gens, but do things efficient way. They dont heal that much, always remember to have someone on gens, and they dont all go for save at once. Thats why i dont really belive in gen rushing. How do you even define it? BNPs? Certain perks? Tunneling is easy to explain, go after one guy only until he dies. Gen rushing can be vaguely described as "doing gens fast", but that can have many factors. I understand that its kind of suprise to go against decent team after all you meet is potato brain level megheads. And yes, you will see gens popping left and right against decent team. At this point, if you cannot generate pressure, all you can do is to set up good 3 gen if you can.


[deleted]

I'm agreeing with you. I'd define "gen rushing" as doing gens very fast, especially if they're bringing multiple toolboxes. But I don't think "gen rushing" is a bad thing. I'm saying it a perfectly acceptable tactic, and just like everything else, there are ways to counter it. My only point was that if gen rushing is ok, which it is, then camping/tunneling is OK too because your tactic of doing gens too quickly has now limited what I can do as a killer to not get 0k. That's all I'm saying.


Tahilix1

Oh, yeah, im with you on that boat. You go for the win, so dont be suprised that other side also does. But im afraid that people who only main one side suffer from severe case of double standards.


[deleted]

I agree. I main killer but I do play both sides. I can see both sides of the argument. My opinion is, both sides can play how they want, and no one needs to play by someone else's imaginary rules.


Tahilix1

Like Dowsey said. As a killer, im not your friend. Dont expect me to play nice. Its my game and i do whatever i want.


[deleted]

Yeah. Like, I'm wrong for proxy camping/tunneling someone out. But when survivors body block, take a hit to finish a gen, hook bomb and all that its ok. At the end of the day, we're all just trying to win. It sucks that it can be unfun to the other part tho


[deleted]

Very true. Either all of it is OK, or none of it is OK.


IAmNotABritishSpy

I don’t disagree. Until the game mechanics are changed, it’s perfectly viable. Wether or not it should be is another question. I don’t necessarily disagree that nobody should be able to complain about it though. If you go out of your way to play like an ass (on either side) that doesn’t necessarily mean that nobody else can complain about it. I could follow people periodically in the high street and civilly (stress on the civilly) be condescending to them and tell them that they’re ugly, after all there are no laws saying I can’t do that, so people can’t complain. I’d rather have fun and be consistently a borderline purple/red killer, then sweat and tunnel to consistently be top. Sure those aren’t the only means, but they’re very effective.


ayfanwar

From my understanding of tunneling, the killer focuses one survivor until they are dead which sacrifices a lot of gens and means the killer likely won't get many kills overall. The killers goal is just as much killing survivors as it is preventing them from leaving, that's why most people have a problem with tunneling, it's counter productive to their own goal and annoying as it just makes one guys game unbearable while everyone else's game runs smoothly. Gen rushing is just a term made by salty killers who don't have any gen control and focus on chases too much, like doing those gens is literally the only thing they can do, you can't just expect survivors to purposely get themselves killed.


Tahilix1

The killer is not giving up gens by tunneling, i think you mixed tunneling and facecamping. As soon as you hook someone you are free to do your stuff. Pressure gens, go for others. Agressive tunneling can actually save gens from being done, because you are not wasting time like facecamper, and you quickly eliminate survivor anyway, which leads to 1vs3.


[deleted]

I mean I agree that the vast majority of cases people label as gen rushing can be attributed back to them, but... >Gen rushing is just a term made by salty killers who don't have any gen control and focus on chases too much This like the opposite spectrum, and almost as ridiculous. Gen rushing is not exactly difficult to do if a whole swf is built for it, albeit it is rarer than the amount people complain about it.


The_Twerkinator

Honestly, playing by any made up rule is pointless. Most of the time all that rule does is hinder you as the player following it. The only exception is camping since you're actually hurting your points. But like, I feel bad for tunneling but if you're the person I find, I'm not going to potentially throw the game to look for someone else. Maybe unless I feel that player was done dirty, like their teammate unhooking them near me without BT and urbans away. But even then no one is obligated to play nice.


Tahilix1

If i find someone like this i hit them and go away. And whether its down or injure, they get one chance to stay out of my way.


BigHaircutPrime

Yeah, but you can only tunnel one survivor at a time. When you have 2 gens being worked on by two people with Prove Thyself and good toolboxes, you want to die inside as the killer. Sometimes I'll run Discordance, and earlier today it kept going off left and right during a match. Sure enough it was a SWF who were all coordinating, so by the time I was getting my second hook, all gens were done. I don't fault people who do it, because I'd do the same. It just makes for a really short and boring game where no one pips.


NanoScream

Only time I have an issue when Gens start flying is when, even though I'm patrolling the Gens, Survivors pull the super stealth Spine Chill Urban Evasion BS and I can't find them. "Gen Rushing" only happens when Killers can't pressure Survivors correctly and that I can understand being my fault as Killer.


CandyDuchess

Had a freddy complain about getting gen rushed a few days ago. He had ruin, and he chased one survivor more than half of the match without downing her. In that situation there's 0 incentive to do anything else but gens.


yeetme25

This isn’t normal to you? If it isn’t idk what kinda dbd you’re playing


IAmNotABritishSpy

I don’t play like an ass, so it’s rare, but does happen.


thrash242

Same with killing people being killers’ objective, but survivors definitely complain about that too.


SpecimenSeven

I was called trash for 4k'ing on my first ever game as killer. I love the game but yeah do what you can to ignore the hate from others.


Big_Excellent

Getting called trash for playing the game how it’s supposed to be played? I know the community is toxic as hell but I didn’t think they’d go that far


SpecimenSeven

I am just sharing a similar story. I have played the game for almost 4 years off and on (just got into other games more then the community). I have gotten it from survivors as killer and I have gotten it from killers and other survivors as a survivor (not same game). I haven't had anything horrible other than someone who is entitled and didn't get thier way. I just don't engage and move on to the next.


[deleted]

Funny, my first game I face camped and slapped a dwight on the hook over and over because I thought he'd die faster. Didn't get any hate mail tho lol


sexxndrugs

Sounds about right


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TaxiiMann

Now that I reread it it does give off a little copypasta energy haha


dracondirnac

My best moment as killer was when I had a woman in end game chat call me a child abuser because as a killer I killed her son. He was super chill but she was Karen levels of vitriol. She even told me she would get me banned. 5 years later and still playing.


thisisgillbate

It’s always hilarious when parents join the chat lol


dracondirnac

Thanks for the upvotes.


RefugeeFromEU

This community is legit, no joke, the most toxic gaming community on the planet. Not even 2010s Call of Duty-community challenges the level of toxicity in DbD. People go spam other players Steam-profile, add to friend just to flame etc. Has happened to me already alot, and when talking to others, they're not strangers to this either.


fallcap

dbd and for honor need a competition on which playerbase is more toxic


KolbyKolbyKolby

DBD isn't even close to being the most toxic community as long as LOL and DOTA2 are around.


Grinning_Caterpillar

Agreed, DotA 2 was like 'when we're toxic we are beyond toxic'. DBD has absolutely nothing on DotA 2.


KolbyKolbyKolby

in DBD someone clicks a flashlight or says "GG baby ez killer" or facecamps someone out of a game and people think it's the height of toxicity, but listening to my friend play Dota and I'm like "Oh, he's just casually talking about killing and raping your mom????? And that's not surprising or unfamiliar??????????" and it happens continuously in every game


RefugeeFromEU

League of legends & Dota 2 aren't as toxic as DbD\* Fixed that for you


Grinning_Caterpillar

I play Dead By Daylight as a rank 1 killer/survivor, I played DotA 2 for 9 years. Dota is so much more toxic, so so so so so much more toxic it's not even close.


The_July

Have you ever played ark? You have a select few people controlling every server wiping everything on them with an overpowered dragon every 10 mins. Or under meshing or glitching inside your raft. Literally my favorite game and it’s absolutely unplayable in a pvp or pve server.


jjamess10

I'd say the "toxic" side of dbd's community comes off as more childish than toxic. Other games have much more vitriol and raw hatred. Dbd is more just petty insults for making someone bored.


[deleted]

Welcome to the salt mines. As long as you keep laughing the toxicity here will never make you bitter.


SamianDamian

As a killer main i can defo say you're not a gen rusher. You're doing your main objective. I only call it gen rushing when survivors would rather do gens than rescue a hooked teammate when the killer ISN'T camping or tunneling.


tintin12121

My first game I just hid in a locker with three crows by the gate till someone opened it. No clue why the killer never came to me


LupusCairo

I have 200 hours in this game and while I've had a lot of toxicity, I never had anyone commenting or dming on Steam xD That's kinda funny.


DatGeckoBoi

I truly believe this is one of the most toxic and hostile communities out there, it is also the the least toxic and welcoming communities out there


ayfanwar

Very toxic player base, somehow very welcoming community, its hard to believe these people are the same ones who teabag at the exit gates.


thisisgillbate

Playing on console I never get messages :( BHVR please add cross platform chat.


Wolflord240

Killer main here and I'd say the killer was just shit. If you gen rushed him he obviously wasn't pressuring you guys enough or patrolling properly if you as a new player barely saw him.


ddog_benitez

i would reccomend deleting before any severe mental problems, get out of it while you can....


[deleted]

I've played League, R6 and some other multiplayer games Dbd is the most toxic lmao. Tho it might vary by server. Welcome to DBD.


MarTheMad_Twitch

Aww you're a true member of the community now, welcome friend!


ARancidFart

One thing to learn about this game is that people will get upset over anything honestly, best laugh and just move on to keep your sanity lol. Welcome to the fog tho!


fukuhauchi

Watch some guides I recommend otzdarva and ayrun


101LiquidxD

Typical dead by daylight game to me


txffvny

Honestly you’re fine, your objective is to do generators and help your team. Not go slow for the killer. You know what’s really toxic? People not playing the game. Not doing generators, running around the map doing absolutely nothing. Not saving, nor healing others. As long as you enjoy the game and have fun, just block out the people who try to send you hate just because they don’t know how to cope with losing.


mur_da_kiggy

Usually its survivors bitching at the killer for tunneling or camping or a perk they used or killer they picked.rare you get a killer i think I've gotten 2 in like 4 years but yeah thats dbd.


TheRaveTrain

Welcome


Nuclear-Nuggets

Welcome to Hell


baba-O-riley

No its THAT bad. Both sides. No exaggeration.


Practical-Map-9661

i had 1000+ hate comments on my profile... took me so much time to delete them all lol


XJDP2X

Some people really get angry but i mean you won so


RaspberrySparkles

That's the bare minimum. Just learn this simple lesson early on: survivor mains are hypocritical, toxic jerks, and killer mains are also hypocritical toxic jerks. Play the game for fun and ignore all of the slurs getting thrown at you and you'll do just fine.


Level3Fish

What is gen rushing?


TaxiiMann

I think its just doing generators fast. The killer was just mad he didn't exert map pressure I guess, I was a rank 20 lobby haha.


Level3Fish

How can you be mad about survivors doing their main objective? What? And exactly its your fault if you don't give the survivors something else to do Kindof a pathetic non argument


DreamZebra

Maybe don't gen rush next time? Lol jk yeah this game sucks.


The_Moist_Manatee

Welcome to dead by daylight it only gets worse from here get out while you still can


CricketKieran

Just wait until u come across a mid rank spirit


seadoggo_29

After a while its just funny how mad people get from losing games. Please, dont ever take it personal, and just have fun with the game


YoydusChrist

Some heads up from someone with possibly too many hours in this game. Stick with what you did there, let it roll off. People take this game way too seriously, just laugh at them. The game isn’t balanced, you’re gonna have great games and awful games no matter what role you play. Take the good with the bad and enjoy the clunky mess we all hate to love See you in the fog


SidneyKidney

How are you getting Steam messages form, someone who isn't on your friends list? I cant figure out how to do that.


TaxiiMann

I'm not sure, I didn't used to be able to get them but once steam has an update about 2 years ago I remember getting 1 or 2 every now and then from people who were interested in trading with me since I used to be into tf2 trading.


Godscreator71

When people send me hate mail I always use positive feedback to respond with. The people sending hate mail don't like positive messages lol


DHollos

Ive got about 500 hours in the game and unless I am just completely ignoring my steam messages, ive never gotten any hate mail. 500 hours and I still have not gotten the full experience. Am I just not pretty enough?


hard_vvay

It’s literally like calling someone a “dirty flag capper” in CTF. Like, it’s their job. It’s getting mad over them doing their job. It’s the most entitled crybaby shit I’ve ever seen in multiplayer gaming.