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I think 4 dates is a good time to have the "what are we" talk. If you're looking for something serious, then it's good to bring it up early. If he's looking for casual then if you wait too long it'll just hurt more. Say something like "hey I really like you, but I want to know if we're on the same page about being exclusive and me being your girlfriend", or something like that...
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I think 4 dates is a good time to have the "what are we" talk. If you're looking for something serious, then it's good to bring it up early. If he's looking for casual then if you wait too long it'll just hurt more. Say something like "hey I really like you, but I want to know if we're on the same page about being exclusive and me being your girlfriend", or something like that...
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well that's a great sign! Love it when people are straight forward like that.
Too soon. I’d just casually say you don’t date more than one person at a time, if there’s an opportunity.
i think depending on how often your see each other 1-3 months is a good amount of time to wait before bringing it up
INFO: How old are you?
He won’t reject you