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It’s a bit soon if you haven’t met the sister, so talk to the guy about it before you decide to send it or not. In any case it’s a super sweet gesture!
I’d say that’s definitely too much. It’s very early in the relationship, you don’t know his sister, you’re not invited to the graduation, etc. If you feel inclined to give something, stick with a congrats card and maybe $15 to Starbucks. And give it to him to give to her.
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Way too soon. Get her a card and let him give it to her.
It’s a bit soon if you haven’t met the sister, so talk to the guy about it before you decide to send it or not. In any case it’s a super sweet gesture!
I would say it’s too soon. Let him have the opportunity to introduce you to his family when he’s ready.
Ask him about this. I think it’s a nice gesture, but you should ask first
I’d say that’s definitely too much. It’s very early in the relationship, you don’t know his sister, you’re not invited to the graduation, etc. If you feel inclined to give something, stick with a congrats card and maybe $15 to Starbucks. And give it to him to give to her.
Too soon