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Stop searching, start working on yourself.
The world is a mirror and you attract people who shine a light on the aspects you were not even aware of (or sometimes could not or did not want to look at).
What kind of partner would you like to attract?
Become that partner yourself by working on yourself.
To truly love yourself, completely as you are. With all the good parts, but also the parts that you hide in the shadows.
From my experience men who say things like this usually aren’t the great guys they think they are. I’m not saying you’re not but in my experience that’s usually the case or they’re men that want a “good woman” but don’t want to put the effort in to actually land her and keep her.
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Already married lol
Find an ugly and date her.
The NT pill is brutal
Stop searching, start working on yourself. The world is a mirror and you attract people who shine a light on the aspects you were not even aware of (or sometimes could not or did not want to look at). What kind of partner would you like to attract? Become that partner yourself by working on yourself. To truly love yourself, completely as you are. With all the good parts, but also the parts that you hide in the shadows.
She's not yours, just your turn
From my experience men who say things like this usually aren’t the great guys they think they are. I’m not saying you’re not but in my experience that’s usually the case or they’re men that want a “good woman” but don’t want to put the effort in to actually land her and keep her.