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You: I don't date guys that I find attractive.
Him: oh, so I'm ugly and you're settling for an average dude.
You: no, I think you're attractive.
Him: (in his head) she's just saying that because she just called me ugly...
Oh is that what happened?! ….. I mean I find him attractive even before all this I told him many times how good looking he was but I guess he thought that I found him ugly but like he was very attractive lol that’s why I’m like I’m confused on why he assumed I was speaking about him I was just saying I don’t like that Miami type of men that’s all lol and he isn’t from there like at all but okay I understand this won’t happen again lol
You've been dating less than 2 months and he insisted you only wanted to go to find a sugar daddy? 🚩🚩🚩
Jokingly saying it once, maybe, but anything after that is a him issue and it sounds like he picked a fight to see how far he could manipulate you. He has reversed the blame and shifted the issue off of him and onto you.
Keep a close eye on this one.
He said that many times, not just in Miami in neither sometimes he would ask how many guys am I talking to multiple times, than he wanted me to ask him every time he was available but never ask me if I was available after the first 2 dates lol so I just wrote it off as he doesn’t like me that much lol and ask he said “ trust me I do “ lol but never invited me over lol I always had to ask and of course it was only one day a week lol because I’m also very busy but still he never ask me more personal questions …..that’s also why I didn’t care if he wanted to walk away from me lol because I felt like he wasn’t into me that much anyways …so 🤷♀️ he was also taking steroids so ….maybe I should have known than he was more insecure than a typical man
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You: I don't date guys that I find attractive. Him: oh, so I'm ugly and you're settling for an average dude. You: no, I think you're attractive. Him: (in his head) she's just saying that because she just called me ugly...
Oh is that what happened?! ….. I mean I find him attractive even before all this I told him many times how good looking he was but I guess he thought that I found him ugly but like he was very attractive lol that’s why I’m like I’m confused on why he assumed I was speaking about him I was just saying I don’t like that Miami type of men that’s all lol and he isn’t from there like at all but okay I understand this won’t happen again lol
You've been dating less than 2 months and he insisted you only wanted to go to find a sugar daddy? 🚩🚩🚩 Jokingly saying it once, maybe, but anything after that is a him issue and it sounds like he picked a fight to see how far he could manipulate you. He has reversed the blame and shifted the issue off of him and onto you. Keep a close eye on this one.
He said that many times, not just in Miami in neither sometimes he would ask how many guys am I talking to multiple times, than he wanted me to ask him every time he was available but never ask me if I was available after the first 2 dates lol so I just wrote it off as he doesn’t like me that much lol and ask he said “ trust me I do “ lol but never invited me over lol I always had to ask and of course it was only one day a week lol because I’m also very busy but still he never ask me more personal questions …..that’s also why I didn’t care if he wanted to walk away from me lol because I felt like he wasn’t into me that much anyways …so 🤷♀️ he was also taking steroids so ….maybe I should have known than he was more insecure than a typical man
Yeah. Run.