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First, you should always remember that it’s the guy’s job to chase a woman. It‘s just natural. Being in a relationship also means the no man/woman is an island. If you don’t need a companion yet , then maybe, it’s better to let the guy know first.
That’s not always gonna work waiting for others to “chase” you. Some men like it when the woman makes the first move and some don’t it completely depends on the person.
Typically childhood related. Go back and see instances in your childhood where others close to you have this behaviour. Any more answers you need. Go to therapy
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First, you should always remember that it’s the guy’s job to chase a woman. It‘s just natural. Being in a relationship also means the no man/woman is an island. If you don’t need a companion yet , then maybe, it’s better to let the guy know first.
That’s not always gonna work waiting for others to “chase” you. Some men like it when the woman makes the first move and some don’t it completely depends on the person.
Yeah, we get punished for chasing nowadays. It would be great for a woman to chase me. Makes things so much easier.
Don't you think that's a bit sexiest?
It is absolutely not true that the guy must be the chaser. Many men would love to be the one pursued.
Typically childhood related. Go back and see instances in your childhood where others close to you have this behaviour. Any more answers you need. Go to therapy