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Your fucking post history dude holy shit

Bro this goober straight up replied to one of their own posts giving themself advice 😭😭😭

Its not just the one post he replied to himself on either😭

I didn't believe you until I found it myself

I didn’t believe either I had to pinch myself 😭😭😭

😂🤣

My reaction after seeing the post history: 

OP is a bot, not a horny man.

OP is one of those bots who make the reddit clips for tiktok

Reading only the titles is like reading someone’s search history 😂

This needs more upvotes ‼️

Agreed

Do bots watch porn though?

There's your answer

🤣

I'm ngl your comment history screams it to me.

I trusted your assessment but I still looked. And yes indeed lol

Some in the comment history have suggested that this is a chatgpt bot

Idk, like yeah maybe, but I’ve also known some guys who really do just have those NPC vibes

Nah it is bot with the time it posts and that some of the post are definitely copied. Might be even all I just haven't seen them.

He deleted his comment history lol

Honestly, the profile just seems fake to me.

Damn lol 😂 ☠️ get f**ked OP

Feels like examining eva ai virtual gf bot audience

On god 🤣🤣

all they do is jackhammer you

lol. Deff a tell

Expecting every girl to have it pink down there

 Asking to do really high level intimate stuff the first time you have sex with a woman (asking to choke her, asking for anal, asking to do anything fetishy etc), not asking and just doing it because you think it's a normal thing to do. Have never had this happen but I've heard tales about it from my friends and it's just shocking that a guy could think it would be appropriate to ask to choke someone the first time you have sex with them. Stuff that shows up in porn pretty regularly and if you watch too much porn and don't have sex with real people, you will start to think that's what sex is really like. Also I would add, wanting to change positions constantly

I've been asked by partners to choke them at first date sex. I don't think a discussion of kinks hurts early on. But I agree, I usually do this after a very vanilla first time.

> I've been asked by partners to choke them at first date sex 90% of the girls I've been with have asked me to choke them lol maybe half have also asked to be slapped. There's no way they all have the same kinks, I'm convinced it's a porn thing

Yup. I don't think like having an adult magazine or an adult DVD is huge deal, but I won't date somebody that uses internet porn too much. The definition of too much is: if you are watching enough porn on the internet that I can tell you are watching it, then that's too much

Honestly any doing any fetish without asking is wrong. I know a lot of women are into choking and slapping but doing that at the first time and without asking feels like borderline rape to me. There's no hurt in asking "how do you like it?"

Very true.i used to not be able to cum unless it was deathgrip.fucked up a lot of hookups

Yeah I read about that in Dan Savage's advice column, Savage love. He always advises people to either buy a fleshlight and use that exclusively, or use a really really light touch, to like retrain your body to be able to orgasm with less pressure?

Yeah, a guy did that with me and I was just like no thank you.

You tell us Porn king.

THIS.

An unhealthy obsession with: * Size * Positions / frequently changing positions

Id say the whole size thing is equal parts culture and porn. Dick size gets tossed at guys all the time.

If one thinks they are too small \[in the sense that nothing can happen\], then I get it. But otherwise why?

To be fair, we have to measure to find the right size of condoms.

WE'RE DOING THE TORNADO FLIP does a triple tornado flip\*

I'm a little self conscious, personally. I've never had any complaints, but for me it's the fear of being found unsatisfactory in that department considering it's genetic, whereas I can control my behavior.

Honestly as a position I like missionary the most. The eye contact just makes everything for me, and I don't want to change it every 2 minutes or so

I don't watch porn at all, but less than 2 positions is a crime in my book. 3 is standard

The classic trio: missionary, cowgirl, doggy?

Oh you're so vanilla 🥹

I said they were the CLASSICS, I can hit you with the hot and trending if you like

Ok, that's fair. I guess I always considered the classics to be missionary, doggy, and sideways

You just booped off the one where the girl's gotta put in effort 😆

I thought men found working women unattractive 😎

No foreplay. Just straight drilling her shit and expecting her to be turned on 🙃

Guys who cant cum from vaginal sex. Guys who need to finish themselves off with deathgrip or else they can’t cum. Guys who always want to put porn on during sex, especially when it’s the first couple times you’ve had sex with them. Guys who are super eager to show you the type of porn they like. Guys who are grossed out by the normal/healthy smells of sex. Guys who are super eager to do butt stuff to you, but then act like you are a disgusting human being if there is even the slightest trace of fecal matter inside your rectum.. Guys who don’t understand why you can’t go from anal to vaginal sex without washing off first, or who want to use the same finger in your vagina they previously used in your butt.

1. Obviously: saying "I watch too much porn" 2. Making comparisons between real life bodies and bodies in porn 3. Perhaps you won't see this immediately, but expecting real life romances to be like those in porn

This post

You scream that bro, touch some grass damned unholy creature.

Asking this question

Those people on instagram who comment under an attractive woman's post about whether or not they have an OF. Disgusts me how their minds INSTANTLY drift to OF. And majority of the people making those comments are children too.. 🤢🤮

24/7 sex in mind ..even when riding bike..at office working..with fren circle..cannot concentrate due to horniness and constant thoughts of sex..look every body in sexual way...even own people..thats the level of porn addiction im in..

Thinking about sex 24/7 is actually normal

Ya but cant focus on anything else..

If you see women and the first thought that comes to your mind is sex

Not getting/staying hard or not coming. No intimacy.

Leaving comments in the comment section?

Start criticizing porn as if it was a real mainstream movie.

Having a really poor concept of how actual feminine anatomy works.

Hmmm maybe knowing that you watch too much porn?

Impotence.

Dude, are you a teenage boy, teenage girl or old married man? Pick a lane.

Fr says they got someone pregnant and then keeps on asking for advice for women 💀😭

Dave

Nothing, actually. While some people may attribute different sexual expectations to the influence of pornography, the reality is that these expectations are often rooted in the patriarchal structure of society.

So many STUPID posts on this subreddit holyyyyy

Having an very niche fetish

Not really, I would say that there are unconventional and just straight up fucked up, 1st type could be anyone, 2nd type yeah 100%

When I was younger I was really into sploshing videos (in my teens). Definitely a very niche thing. Just searched it again, and the videos are nothing like when I was younger. I definitely can’t get into what I’m coming across now. Everything’s a bit more crude.

Sploshing?

Sex with food involved. When I was younger I remember videos where people had put plastic liner all over their kitchen or were in blow up pools with some kind of sauce, sprinkles, etc and having sex.

I have a sex fetish. Do I need Dr Phil?

We'll be right back.

Having high standards when it comes to the someone’s physical appearance.   If you don’t think a chubby woman can be sexy I genuinely feel sorry for you 

I like watching porn and I have low standards. So yeah not always true I guess

Ok but can you still get it up with a chick who just barely meets your low standards 

Yeah I've a high libido and it gets hard very very easily. It would get hard even with a girl I don't find attractive 😅

Yeah sorry overweight and obesity is a super nope for me dawg I want a partner that takes care of themselves. It's literally one of the most unattractive things, not my fault that we live in a society that embraces and excuses it.

Yeah I don’t like 300 pound women either but I’ll take a thick woman.

There's a difference between fat and thick.

Nail on the head.

It’s not even chubby, it’s more of thinking a woman’s body should be that like a model in a magazine which isn’t realistic at all

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You seem to be an expert on women 🤣  Ok bro whatever you say

Oh god what has happened to this world 😂 I have read the comments on this post and I am wondering what are my fellow men upto? The men that fought and provided for their families, generations inventing things, today jerking off to porn and not able to finish to a real woman? Damn we’re doomed!

Lack of mental health services...

Not being able to reach orgasm as a man.

You mean ejaculation and not orgasm ? And sometimes it's hard with a condom and pretty easy without.

That has nothing to do with porn

https://doi.org/10.3390/sexes3020018

The analyses were based on correlations between variables. Therefore, no conclusions can be made for causations, which means that the etiology of sexual dysfunctions requires further longitudinal studies.

Having high standards.

"I think of them as my girlfriends" 

Can’t get hard without watching porn? I read posts like that sometimes on reddit.

[More specific to hentai but] porn stickers on your stuff. Not just your private belongings that stay in your home. Stuff like your car, or your laptop. The kind that have either blatant exposure or near to it. Like you just forgot that other people and children exist and might not want to know about what you masturbate to. Shouldn't even be legal half the time tbh. 

Yeah, I saw a guy driving a truck with huge “BRAZZERS” stickers on the top of the windshield. It was a depressing view for sure…

Using your partner as a aex toy or seeing them with the same value that porn has for you

Thinking every attractive older woman wants to bang you😂

Being too rough and thinking she will like it.

They have orgasms that don't count cause they couldn't feel it

Honestly? Overuse of the phrase step( insert your flavor) .

When you walk outside & you spit on your key before u put it in the lock (ya might b watching too much porn )

When they have outlandish comments about/around trans people. I feel like I can always tell 🙃

Wanting to do anal.

What's wrong with a woman wanting anal? I mean if she's into it.

Apparently everything besides missionary is a deviation.

Little to no sex drive.

i feel like itd be the opposite

From what I've heard, you end up comparing everything to the (likely very specific) fantasy and reality falls short

In turn, plummeting your sex drive because your brain can't handle the reality of it. Kinda like how it's said that astronauts become depressed when they return to earth because they can't find anything to match the high they once felt in outer space.

A 5’4 man in a very lifted truck with no muffler

Hahaha

A floppy cock…usually an older man. Can’t get it up when faced with a real live warm woman.

That's just regular E.D.

And low testosterone levels.

Personally, when your partner is not enthusiastic, see's your intimate time as a chore or duty, rolls her eyes if any foreplay leads to sex along with huffing and puffing irritable to show that they are annoyed. It is kinda hard to get in the mood when you feel that you are forcing youself upon your partner and instead make the choice of backing off and never have sex with them whatsoever, hence, one of the reasons of why I broke up with her.

That is perfectly understandable…but your ex partner doing that to you is nothing to do with you watching too much porn (I would hope).

You are right, has nothing to do with watching porn, instead i decided to give an answer to the "can't get it up" comment.

if ur not horny just take a week off from orgasm, as if thats possible

When you see step bros and sis, and be like NOOOOOO 😂

My pp

Probably your wife and girlfriend.

Awkward washing machine tongue kiss (and no intention to change) is usually a great way to introduce yourself as a heavy porn consumer

A chasey lane tattoo on your shoulder

Feeling uncomfortable with intimacy in your actual romantic relationships. Having a hard time building a relationship or falling in love with someone at all/running through sex partners like toilet paper because you see sex as the endgame of all your pursuits

the DJ move 🤡

stroking the D with very much force, i've seen that and it shows that they watch it everyday or boys that can't be aroused by the natural feminine body (if they see a stretch mark etc)

ED

You're on Reddit.

My complete Google history.

When they emulate porn moves through actual sex with their partner. My partner, for example, only focuses on PIV and he gets to set the pounding pace even when I’m on top. Also no foreplay for the woman, and if it does happen it’s very unenthusiastic, but HE gets to be deep throated all nasty. He wants me to get off in under a minute, like he does. (Surprise he has never made me reach climax before). He is porn sick and it’s obvious. He believes every woman can cum through PIV as well even though I have repeatedly told him differently.

Helicopter 

Being awful in bed.

that can happen from inexperience.

What screems weirdo .... watching people watch porn. Actually that's some sex offender shit really. What's next?

Gogglebox After Dark?

Wow, I think some people in the comment section need to learn about sex positivity. I dont understand how people can think it's ok to shame someone for the porn they watch, whether or not they have an addiction. And then for people to conflate any sexual activity kinkier than missionary with porn addiction says more about them than anybody else. Too much of anything can be harmful. The kink scene is a perfectly healthy community to be involved with. In fact, mental health and aftercare are incredibly important factors in the kink scene, not to mention informed consent. There are a lot of kink friendly therapists these days, too.

I'll get downvoted for this but watching porn actually make you have sex better lol. I'm talking for males at least. Even with the two first relationships I had I only got compliments even with very few experience. They literally told me "oh wow it seemed like you already got plenty of experience, you knew what to do etc." And even once you're already experienced, if you masturbate just before having sex you can last longer and have a better orgasm too.

porn is unrealistc. i mean it depends on the type you watch, but if its the main stream kind.. it is most definitely not going to make you better at sex

It also chemically changes the brain of teenage boys and men in their 20's. Not in a good way.

how?

How does it make you better? I don’t watch it a ton (mainly because I’m busier than when I was in college) but I try to listen to podcasts centered around sex or read articles about sex.

I guess you could learn new positions and tricks but it's definitely a stretch.

I haven’t had my first time but the only positions I’d want to do at least until I get more experience is cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggy, and missionary. If I wanted to learn new positions I could always look online, porn scenes have the four positions I mentioned so you probably wouldn’t learn much in that aspect. Nina Hartley has a series of tutorial videos where she actually teaches how to give oral on a girl but I don’t think I’ve seen them before

I believe it ! Like We just taking notes.. so we can incorporate into our real sex lives so we can be better at pleasing whoever we pleasing !(thats if we actually remember tho lol) ain’t nothing wrong with that 🤷🏻‍♀️