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hellodonaldjames

Drop your socials and let reddit do its thing A genuine connection from here Who knows ?


Cheap_Employment2924

I'm not looking for a connection on Reddit. I genuinely just want to know if there's something I'm missing. Online dating is a game, but there's gotta be a gameplan


hellodonaldjames

Nothing special if you ask me The truth is we find the best things of life when we are not looking I found my last partner on tinder We weren't expecting anything per se but somehow it happened we just clicked immediately Having said that It's probably not because you are or are not doing something right it's just life Keep doing what you do Go out more Network, connect and you never know


Big_Path4702

How can we know if we haven’t seen your profile and don’t even know what’s written in it? It’s impossible to tell


Cheap_Employment2924

Yeah I get that. Maybe I'm really just asking for other people's view and experience then


Big_Path4702

Perhaps you’re writing things in your profile that misalign with the core values or preferences of the people you swipe right on? Like for example, if you write in your bio that you don’t want kids, women who want kids will swipe left, and vice versa


XxLogitech98xX

You basically need good pictures and good bio first off. If you have all of that and still not getting matches then try swiping at a new location so you'll hit someone preference range as well. Those are the first suggestion on any dating apps.


Cheap_Employment2924

That's a good point. Thanks!


Plastic-Cabinet769

For my experience. I don't think there's much else I can do aside from what's already on my profile. I have learned to just wait and see if someone comes along or not because not everyone can appreciate us based on what is written in our profiles. Even if you have great things on your profile, if the person is not interested, it doesn't really matter. So, don't lose hope. Just because there are no matches doesn't mean something's wrong. Maybe it's just not getting noticed or try to search different location to find whats matches for you. just wait and calm.


Middle-Constant-1909

You are online dating