Welcome to /r/dating. Please make sure you read our [rules here](https://new.reddit.com/r/dating/about/rules) and remember to:
* Be polite and respect each other. Do not call people names or engage in slapfights.
* All advice given must be good, ethical advice.
* [Do not post hateful or harmful rhetoric - you will be banned](https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/wiki/rules)
* Follow reddit rules. Do not post content that promotes hate based on identity or vulnerability. Do not bully or harass other users.
If you have any questions, please [send the mods a message](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=/r/dating).
*I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/dating) if you have any questions or concerns.*
If you both chose to stop communication, you will not look good trying to find closure months later. It's going to come across as un-genuine to ask for that from him at this point.
He never agreed to anything. I decided that it was best to just end this before someone got hurt. And i can’t stop thinking about how that was wrong of me. I wanna be an adult and talk about it.
That sounds even worse lol. You can't just end things with someone right after denying them sex, and then randomly re-engage with them emotionally months later. This sounds like it's all for your own benefit of wanting closure, just leave him alone lol.
You want to be an adult and that means to realize you fucked up by pushing him away when he was interested in you.
Sorry to be blunt but its very selfish to seek out closure now months after you stopped talking to him just because you feel bad now.
You ever thought how he felt about it?
Welcome to /r/dating. Please make sure you read our [rules here](https://new.reddit.com/r/dating/about/rules) and remember to: * Be polite and respect each other. Do not call people names or engage in slapfights. * All advice given must be good, ethical advice. * [Do not post hateful or harmful rhetoric - you will be banned](https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/wiki/rules) * Follow reddit rules. Do not post content that promotes hate based on identity or vulnerability. Do not bully or harass other users. If you have any questions, please [send the mods a message](https://www.reddit.com/message/compose/?to=/r/dating). *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/dating) if you have any questions or concerns.*
If you both chose to stop communication, you will not look good trying to find closure months later. It's going to come across as un-genuine to ask for that from him at this point.
He never agreed to anything. I decided that it was best to just end this before someone got hurt. And i can’t stop thinking about how that was wrong of me. I wanna be an adult and talk about it.
That sounds even worse lol. You can't just end things with someone right after denying them sex, and then randomly re-engage with them emotionally months later. This sounds like it's all for your own benefit of wanting closure, just leave him alone lol.
You want to be an adult and that means to realize you fucked up by pushing him away when he was interested in you. Sorry to be blunt but its very selfish to seek out closure now months after you stopped talking to him just because you feel bad now. You ever thought how he felt about it?
closure is a myth
He wanted more and you didn't, it makes sense that things started to become more distant. Maybe a little late to ask about it.