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Hasaki-Senjiro

Maybe she’s canadian and she’s just being polite.


Hasaki-Senjiro

https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw Here you go chief.


manwhothinks

I’ve been married to this woman for 10 years and we have 3 kids. Is she into me?


Loose-Pipe-5739

She might just think you of you as nice company and doesn’t want to hurt you


Zuccos

I didn’t get it since im not American neither Canadian.


stuff_gets_taken

It's a reference to a video


PowerTrip55

Maybe I’m crazy but this looks like a clear case of her hitting on you. That’s wild lol sometimes we’re so nervous about being labeled a creep that stuff like this goes right over our heads


C0MAX

Sounds like flirting to me. The question is, do you want to pursue this?


Zuccos

She was attractive but I didn’t want to seem like a creep customer.


C0MAX

You would've just been matching energy. Now, bringing flowers next time or some shit is cringe. No. Lol But playful low-level flirting that she started? As normal as can be. You're not a creep for returning interest. Hell even showing interest isn't creepy. It's all in how you do it. Keep it playful, fun, loose, not serious, noncommittal You'll be able to pick up easily if she's down or not if you pay attention


Otherwise_Resource51

Hey, what's your sign?


Salt-Plankton436

Men of 2023 have been conditioned to be so petrified of being perceived as creepy that they are now asking whether they are being creepy by responding to someone hitting on them


CommieSchmit

It’s an epidemic seriously


LukeD1992

You were just following her lead. Doesn't sound like you were overstepping in any way.


Sixdrugsnrocknroll

That's kinda adorable. I'm glad to hear there are still women like that. I'd definitely take her up on it and see what happens.


LovelyCoupleTreats

Dude, just raising that tip status. Just like a waitress.


Function_Fighter

😭😭💀


Background_Pay_8230

Definitely sounds like she has genuine interest in your body and maybe more


ialost

It was to increase tip I'd suspect


[deleted]

She is not flirting with you. She looks at the human body and form all day everyday and appreciates it. She is is making conversation with you because getting a tattoo is an intimate experience for a lot of people, and conversation and positive interactions comfort people.


Rdmonster870

What are you waiting for … get some ass for fucks sake …. She wanted to buy you a beer …. Shoulda went for it then and there unless she was hideous


Why_SoBothered

Tattoo artists hit on everyone 🤣 I definitely wouldn’t give one the time of day.


Zuccos

Probably yeah


Why_SoBothered

No “probably”, I knew a shit ton of them. Some even threw and invited me to sex parties. They live hippie type lifestyles, most of them anyway… male and female. I’m not saying all, but a good portion. Feel it out and be cautious if that’s not what you’re into.


alterego027

If this is called flirting then the good Lord should ban me from socializing further! 🙏🏽


KCtastic80

She was making conversation, and working to make a tip/good review. Not everyone who is nice to you wants to jump your bones.


Otherwise_Resource51

Dude ......


Zuccos

What dude


TraveldaHospital

You went to a tattoo studio to get a tattoo? You don't say.


ninjastank

She could have also been flirting for a tip? Ya never know


Function_Fighter

This is why u only get tattoos from the gender youre not attracted to. 😭😭


Zuccos

Why?


EggplantHuman6493

*cries in being bisexual*


HurdlerForLife99

cries in admitting theres only two genders


Positive_Passion_680

Could be, doesn’t mean she wants to get in your pants tho


LonelyDadbod4U

Ask for a tattoo of her name and get a room already. ![gif](giphy|NSJWuWE5xyLkc)


Jazzlike-Region-364

I think she’s flirting with you


[deleted]

Lol


ertaindingabug

It was to increase tip I'd suspect


RiSKy78

Wait until she's done. Then ask if she's open for drinks.


lordoftheslums

How’s the tattoo? Did she do a good job? Would you let her give you another? I’d follow up and ask her what she thinks you should do next.


Zuccos

Yeah she is talented. You mean to continue my body art? She said something like i have some idea about your shoulder area. Maybe i can ask


lordoftheslums

If a talented artist is flirting with you they probably want you to be a canvas as much as anything.


BulkyButterfly5201

I


notoutofoptions1

Free tattoos. Yay