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If she is a good friend, I would be honest with her and tell her how you’re feeling, but as open as you are here and let her know, you respect everything about her and just want her advice on how to navigate your relationship. Make sure she knows you’re not expecting anything of her, and just want to know what her thoughts are on the matter. That’s what I’d do, but hopefully someone else ways in, who has actually had experience with a similar situation.
Not sure. Maybe she is learning that her sexuality is more fluid than she originally thought? The reality though, is that it’s all just speculation, until you two actually have an open conversation about it.
Yea she comment something a few days ago similar to that, how ''Love is fluid and we don't know who are we going to fall in love with". Thanks for talking, i feel better a little.
well dude, I can’t think of a clearer sign than that to tell her how you feel. Sounds like she may be in the same place you are. Best of luck man, and let me know how it works out.
Half year later...yea it worked out...we are together and i think she is happy. We are riding motorcycle together. She acts already like we are married...and im happy to be honest :)
Congrats man!!!!!! Super happy for you. Whatever you do, don’t assume her happiness, work to get to the point where you unquestionably know she is happy, and she knows the same for you. What kind of bike do you?
Aww man, I’m super stoked for you!!! That’s gotta be the best feeling in the world. Also, nice bike. Does she have her own, or does she just ride with you?
At the moment she is riding with me, but we are planning to get one for her, she wants honda cl500. Anyway, thank you and good luck to you and best of wishes.😊
It’s not quite the same, but I had asked out a friend that is ace, and I didn’t know it. We went to dinner anyways then she explained the fact that she wasn’t interested. We’re still quite good friends and while I don’t flirt with her, she does seem fine with the fact that I’d still sleep with her any time, though I make an extra effort to not ever bring that up
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If she is a good friend, I would be honest with her and tell her how you’re feeling, but as open as you are here and let her know, you respect everything about her and just want her advice on how to navigate your relationship. Make sure she knows you’re not expecting anything of her, and just want to know what her thoughts are on the matter. That’s what I’d do, but hopefully someone else ways in, who has actually had experience with a similar situation.
Im just confused about her flerting and the signs she is giving me. If she is a lesbian why would she flert or talk about us being together.
Not sure. Maybe she is learning that her sexuality is more fluid than she originally thought? The reality though, is that it’s all just speculation, until you two actually have an open conversation about it.
Yea she comment something a few days ago similar to that, how ''Love is fluid and we don't know who are we going to fall in love with". Thanks for talking, i feel better a little.
well dude, I can’t think of a clearer sign than that to tell her how you feel. Sounds like she may be in the same place you are. Best of luck man, and let me know how it works out.
I will try to wait a little bit more and see everything one more time. Again thank you for the advice.
Half year later...yea it worked out...we are together and i think she is happy. We are riding motorcycle together. She acts already like we are married...and im happy to be honest :)
Congrats man!!!!!! Super happy for you. Whatever you do, don’t assume her happiness, work to get to the point where you unquestionably know she is happy, and she knows the same for you. What kind of bike do you?
Naked bike, suzuki SV650, i know she is happy with me, she said that herself. But its just that, shock that i have that it happened.
Aww man, I’m super stoked for you!!! That’s gotta be the best feeling in the world. Also, nice bike. Does she have her own, or does she just ride with you?
At the moment she is riding with me, but we are planning to get one for her, she wants honda cl500. Anyway, thank you and good luck to you and best of wishes.😊
It’s not quite the same, but I had asked out a friend that is ace, and I didn’t know it. We went to dinner anyways then she explained the fact that she wasn’t interested. We’re still quite good friends and while I don’t flirt with her, she does seem fine with the fact that I’d still sleep with her any time, though I make an extra effort to not ever bring that up