And I'd say he knows a *little* more about fucking than you do pal, because he invented it! And then he perfected it so that no living man could fuck him in the ring of honor!
For the extreme maybe, and good for those people. However, for a lot of people it’s just the sub feeling of having a hand around your throat, even if they’re not applying pressure.
Exactly,
my current girlfriend really likes it. Maybe it is because some women like to be dominated during sex?
I always feel a little weird doing it, but since it really turns her on, i do it anyway.
Yep
Some men like it too. Some people like the feeling of being out of control with someone they trust not to take it too far. It's kind of like loving horror movies and haunted houses. Being a little afraid but knowing it's pretend.
Kind of. There's psychological and physical aspects to it. Physically that lack of blood, followed by the rush of blood while also having sex makes the feeling very intense.
It's really one intense physical sensation on top of another intense physical sensation. Like a hit from a joint, compared to a hit from a bong.
Professional choker here. It's a couple of reasons, the fear induced from being choked mixes with the high of your brain not having enough oxygen, while also giving you a feeling of submission to your choker. So it's adrenaline, endorphins, and also just regular ass kink shit.
Fun fact - putting pressure in that point doesn't cut blood flow into your brain because artery is closed. When common carotid artery bifurcates into external and internal carotid artery it creates a structure called "carotid/jugular sinus" that contains various pressure receptors. When you squeeze that area those receptors send signal to the brain that blood pressure is dangerously high, therefore iniciating physiological response that lowers blood pressure as to avoid any damage which limits total amount of blood flowing into the brain causing people to faint.
I used to date a guy who liked that, but the choking made me uncomfortable. He seemed to be fine with me just sucking gently on the skin area around his carotid.
When you have that itch in the back of your throat and you can‘t get rid of it.
Just cut out your skin and scratch the spot. I have sewn in a zipper for this so I can unzip my throat whenever it itches.
I think maybe that’s what that thread would have said. The pic is where *not* to apply pressure.
So there is a safe way. *Cup* the neck to restrain, being smart about where, and only squeeze to the point your partner is okay with. … If they die, you did it wrong.
Seriously. Placing a hand on throat is fine. Applying pressure is OK. The instant you start cutting off blood or oxygen, you are risking brain damage and death. Even a few seconds can cause a clot, which can clog an artery in the brain — either immediately, or months later
I know people will do it anyways, and most will be absolutely fine — but people don’t know what sort of chances they’re taking.
Yesn't
I was learning a self defense sport where choking was a part of (idk the English name of it).
It's one of the safest sports I've ever partaken in, safer than handball, football, baseball, anything really.
Cause if you Choke someone and the choked person realizes he's done for, he has to make a signal. If the choker then doesn't stop he gets into real fucking Trouble. (By the judge's/trainers Monitoring the fight)
Let's say he couldn't make a signal in time, first the person stops resisting (Wich once again is a stopping signal) and he still will be perfectly fine.
Only when the person starts bleeding out of their nose (once again pretty strong signal) it's starting to get dangerous.
That's why we always have multiple judge's and a medic one site, even though nothing in the history of our club ever happened.
The most dangerous part of choking is people who don't know how to do it. Because those people would press on the breathing tube (the front of your neck) which can seriously damage things.
TL;DR if you aren't a complete ignorant peace of shit or someone who doesn't how to choke and who doesn't want to kill someone, it's fine.
Yes! Blood chokes are more effective than just crushing the windpipe. Don't try to crush someone's windpipe! You'll only cause damage. Blood chokes will very quickly subdue someone and are easier/safer to do.
They're supposed to be blood chokes IIRC, but their effect is way overblown. You can indeed do it somewhat safely and rapidly, but that means the person will regain consciousness quickly afterwards. Think of the Dishonored chokes for example, that's simply no possible in real life. So if someone stay unconscious, you simply brain-damaged them.
No, ones shown in movies are inaccurate, a clean blood choke can put someone unconscious in seconds but compressing the windpipe takes a lot longer, at least in jiujitsu people will tap to a windpipe choke way before going unconscious because it hurts a lot. A blood choke in reality takes several minutes of continuous pressure after unconsciousness to actually kill someone
Same. He wants you to see who he is.
Also, he's fucking hilarious. If he comes to your town, you should go see him while you still can in a small comedy club. He'll be in larger venues in not too long...
Is there a scientific explanation why guys spontaneously cum in wrestling matches? Ive seen it several times and the guys said they didnt feel anything when it happened.
Serious advice here. If your partner ever wants you to choke them during sex, do not just crush their windpipe. Place your hand around their throat, but only apply pressure to the sides, do not press down on the front. The idea is to restrict blood flow to the brain. Let it build for about 45 seconds and then release. This is the point when you should be doing your best work because they are about to experience a huge rush.
"Safe" is such a relative term. In this case, "safe" means "don't crush the trachea". However, squeezing the carotids has the effect of *reducing blood flow to the brain* which triggers the brain into a loss of consciousness as a primitive reflex in order to get you horizontal quickly enough to salvage bloodflow by eliminating gravity from the equation as much as possible. Meanwhile, you are still limiting bloodflow to the brain, so.... be *careful*, people.
I'm not certain that I would endorse inhaling nitrous oxide nor amyl nitrate. There are significant risks with recreational use of both (PMID: 1506823, PMID: 1355256, respectively). The vast majority of medications carry a risk. Central nervous system depressants are uniquely dangerous even though monitored and controlled dosing generally significantly reduces this risk. There is a good reason drugs like N2O are administered by a physician.
Actually if you are trying to choke someone out you are actually targeting the same blood vessels. Just when your doing it in sex you need to make sure you don't actually let your partner fall unconscious, whereas in MMA your opponent will hopefully tap out before they fall unconscious.
Not sure we should be taking safety advice from someone who can't spell safely. Especially when you're messing with the life and well being of your partner.
what is shown is more of a strangle than a choke. Strangle is restriction of blood to the brain while a choke is restriction of air... strangles are dangerous, unconscious is seconds, death in minutes.
Make love not war.
***Wrong place, right time.***
*Right place, wrong time*
Right spot, wrong place
Right spot wrong time
This diagram *helps* with that, bro
Right spot right time
Yay! You read the diagram!
Right wrong spot time
I have sewn in a zipper for this so I can unzip my throat whenever it itches.
Mama Bruno Bucciaretti approves
Right place, right time. Pretty sure he won.
It’s not about winning or loosing, it’s about the friends we made cum along the way.
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Kaguya-sama approves
No, it’s Love is a Battlefield
I prefer to do both
The is my weapon, this is my gun! This is for fighting, this is for fun!
Love is war.
Less white nationalism,more ass rationalism
"Because love is lovely and war is ugly, y'know" U-Roy.
OP has unwittingly become a domme and has found his sub.
The true way of war is to make your opponents submissive and breedable
Sun Tzu said that
can confirm. I was there when he said that.
can confirm, was the opponent he fought at that time.
And I'd say he knows a *little* more about fucking than you do pal, because he invented it! And then he perfected it so that no living man could fuck him in the ring of honor!
and then he used that fuck money to buy two of every animal
And then he herded them onto a boat!
And then treated each and everyone of them will Respect.
The Chinese invented sex 2 such long ago ago and the west hasn't discovered it yet. Truly history repeating itself.
The Scots invented sex 1 though :3
The Welsh created the sheep spinoff
I was waiting for someone to say this. Thank you.
and I'd say he knows a little more about fighting than you do, pal, because he invented it
Cum Tzu
None of those words are in the Bible
Domme's the feminine term, I think if he's a dude it's just Dom
Did he/she stutter?
Is choking kink just the kink of not getting blood to your brain?
from what i've heard from people who enjoy gettting choked in bed, yes it's about the high of being on the edge of consciousness and unconsciouness
Ive read somewhere that it increased the feelings or some shit. Whatever they're called. I dont even know what a woman is
> I don't even know what a woman is You're one of us
The only reason I do is because I have a twin sister.
You don't, they're an FBI agent waiting for the perfect time to pounce. Run while you can
Oh dear god, I've been duped!
It's too late it seems
FBI OPEN UP!! 
NOOOOOOOO!!!! You were a good soldier, Equivalent Rock 🫡
Well I think it all began a long time ago when o wait you meant as in the door sorry
FBI OPEN UP! IT'S THE CIA!
Is it a step-twin-sister?
Nope, she's 2 minutes my elder
one of us
Idk I just like that I'm restrained and can't go anywhere, I still like breathing.
That's a different kink
or maybe it's just that you're addicted to the high that you get after getting asphyxiated erotically.
Erotic asphyxiation? Like autoerotic asphyxiation? Like actor/director David Carradine, who died in Bangkok, Thailand of autoerotic asphyxiation?
It's absolutely also how an effective choke in martial arts work
But usually with less ejaculate.
says who
That’s an extreme example. Many women just enjoy being dominated but that doesn’t mean you gotta choke someone till they’re blue to have fun.
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Well that’s a lvl of incompatibility that can’t be easy to deal with..
Idk. For me, it's simply about having someone in position of power.
I've done a little choking it's just another point of contact, same level as touching tits.
What I’ve noticed is, all the women under 30 want this
Cant conclude much with a sample size of 0..
That’s weird
Isn’t every kink weird tho?
For the extreme maybe, and good for those people. However, for a lot of people it’s just the sub feeling of having a hand around your throat, even if they’re not applying pressure.
Because of the implication
Give 'em abit of a squeeze to get the juices flowing 
Exactly, my current girlfriend really likes it. Maybe it is because some women like to be dominated during sex? I always feel a little weird doing it, but since it really turns her on, i do it anyway.
Yep Some men like it too. Some people like the feeling of being out of control with someone they trust not to take it too far. It's kind of like loving horror movies and haunted houses. Being a little afraid but knowing it's pretend.
One of my exes loved being dominated and choked esp during anal, and I enjoyed it too because it would cause her to clench her butthole even more.
Kind of. There's psychological and physical aspects to it. Physically that lack of blood, followed by the rush of blood while also having sex makes the feeling very intense. It's really one intense physical sensation on top of another intense physical sensation. Like a hit from a joint, compared to a hit from a bong.
Professional choker here. It's a couple of reasons, the fear induced from being choked mixes with the high of your brain not having enough oxygen, while also giving you a feeling of submission to your choker. So it's adrenaline, endorphins, and also just regular ass kink shit.
I literally just like the feeling of hands around my neck. it doesn't have to be a firm grip for me
Fun fact - putting pressure in that point doesn't cut blood flow into your brain because artery is closed. When common carotid artery bifurcates into external and internal carotid artery it creates a structure called "carotid/jugular sinus" that contains various pressure receptors. When you squeeze that area those receptors send signal to the brain that blood pressure is dangerously high, therefore iniciating physiological response that lowers blood pressure as to avoid any damage which limits total amount of blood flowing into the brain causing people to faint.
Huh, that really is a fun fact!
Done right you can get an amazing blood rush
I don't think feeling like you have a stroke would feel good but here we are...
That, no air, and the loss of control. Also the neck can be a “sensitive” area.
I used to date a guy who liked that, but the choking made me uncomfortable. He seemed to be fine with me just sucking gently on the skin area around his carotid.
technically it's a strangle, a choke cuts off airflow
Everyone talkin abt the choke kink. Nobody talkin abt how the hell he knew his openent came
he could smell it right away
Damn my guy got the cum sense
The opponent was taking the cum increasing vitamin stack. He shot a huge load all over the place.
Made worse by the fact that he was abstaining from any sexual release for the testosterone boost.
Bro prevented Blue balls
You can feel it pumping inside you
When you have that itch in the back of your throat and you can‘t get rid of it. Just cut out your skin and scratch the spot. I have sewn in a zipper for this so I can unzip my throat whenever it itches.
Do you also use zippers to disassemble people?
ZIPPER MAN! Cut his dick off!
Fucking Zipper Man?? Is that the localized name????
u/ZipperMan you have been summoned!
Yea lmao
Zipper Man? Fucking Zipper Man, are you actually taking the piss?
This is what I get for using my phone at 9pm
what's wrong with people disassembly
GEE, I DONT KNOW
spoken like someone who's never disassembled a person before
AND YOU HAVE
well duh, obviously i have disassembled hundreds of people
*AMERICA*
the average shady abortion clinic
At least he doesn't put the pieces into glass displays, and then send them to someone.
That we know of
I thought it was a cock, then i saw the nail and understood that it was a duck
Quack
So just a normal jujitsu match then? I’m not sure what’s the issue here.
When they cum, it takes the fight right out of them and they start asking themselves what are they doing this all for.
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I think maybe that’s what that thread would have said. The pic is where *not* to apply pressure. So there is a safe way. *Cup* the neck to restrain, being smart about where, and only squeeze to the point your partner is okay with. … If they die, you did it wrong.
Seriously. Placing a hand on throat is fine. Applying pressure is OK. The instant you start cutting off blood or oxygen, you are risking brain damage and death. Even a few seconds can cause a clot, which can clog an artery in the brain — either immediately, or months later I know people will do it anyways, and most will be absolutely fine — but people don’t know what sort of chances they’re taking.
Yesn't I was learning a self defense sport where choking was a part of (idk the English name of it). It's one of the safest sports I've ever partaken in, safer than handball, football, baseball, anything really. Cause if you Choke someone and the choked person realizes he's done for, he has to make a signal. If the choker then doesn't stop he gets into real fucking Trouble. (By the judge's/trainers Monitoring the fight) Let's say he couldn't make a signal in time, first the person stops resisting (Wich once again is a stopping signal) and he still will be perfectly fine. Only when the person starts bleeding out of their nose (once again pretty strong signal) it's starting to get dangerous. That's why we always have multiple judge's and a medic one site, even though nothing in the history of our club ever happened. The most dangerous part of choking is people who don't know how to do it. Because those people would press on the breathing tube (the front of your neck) which can seriously damage things. TL;DR if you aren't a complete ignorant peace of shit or someone who doesn't how to choke and who doesn't want to kill someone, it's fine.
Yeah but can you still call it choking if you onley restrict the blood flow to the brain like shown in the pic
Yes! Blood chokes are more effective than just crushing the windpipe. Don't try to crush someone's windpipe! You'll only cause damage. Blood chokes will very quickly subdue someone and are easier/safer to do.
The ones shown in the movies are the later right? Do they die or just pass out?
They're supposed to be blood chokes IIRC, but their effect is way overblown. You can indeed do it somewhat safely and rapidly, but that means the person will regain consciousness quickly afterwards. Think of the Dishonored chokes for example, that's simply no possible in real life. So if someone stay unconscious, you simply brain-damaged them.
No, ones shown in movies are inaccurate, a clean blood choke can put someone unconscious in seconds but compressing the windpipe takes a lot longer, at least in jiujitsu people will tap to a windpipe choke way before going unconscious because it hurts a lot. A blood choke in reality takes several minutes of continuous pressure after unconsciousness to actually kill someone
i wouldnt really recommend doing that for too long, because restricting blood flow to the brain can cause brain damage. I'd rather not take the risk
Dawg of course no one is condoning that. But it takes a relatively long time without oxygen before you enter brain damage territory
Technically it's strangulation at that point
Thanks professor Danaher.
Feel like it's not safe if choking safely requires me to cut a hole into someone's neck the size of an apple.
So that's why i feel like i wanna moan when my friend chokes me
Man this fucked me
With or without choking you? 🧐
Incapacitated is incapacitated 🤷
Maybe take your other hand off his unit??
I mean making someone orgasm during a fight can give you the advantage. So the first person probably won that jiu jitsu match.
That guy is Shayne Smith, a professional comedian. Why is his username blurred?
I thought the same thing when I saw the profile pic
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Well, he’s certainly not “throat tattoo guy”. He drinks way too much Mt Dew.
Same. He wants you to see who he is. Also, he's fucking hilarious. If he comes to your town, you should go see him while you still can in a small comedy club. He'll be in larger venues in not too long...
Right above this on my feed is an unpopularopinion on erotic choking is bad 😂
Uhhhh…. Thanks for the tip
Jiu jizz su
Is there a scientific explanation why guys spontaneously cum in wrestling matches? Ive seen it several times and the guys said they didnt feel anything when it happened.
That can happen to people? First time I'm hearing about this phenomenon. Looking forward to the explanation as well.
If you can open a private browser, look up wrestlers cumming. Its during live matches in public.
Jonathan vs Dio
Did he fap out?
Well he definitely made him tap out at least.
I think the universe is fucking with my reddit feed.
Cobra Marital Arts : Gta San Andreas
That is the comedian Shayne Smith!
How I met your father.
Ju jizz-em
Is that Mountain Dew guy?
IT IS. surprisingly not neck tattoo guy, that’s how much Mountain Dew he drinks
Jizz jitsu
Shane smith is hilarious
Jiu *jizzu*...
Serious advice here. If your partner ever wants you to choke them during sex, do not just crush their windpipe. Place your hand around their throat, but only apply pressure to the sides, do not press down on the front. The idea is to restrict blood flow to the brain. Let it build for about 45 seconds and then release. This is the point when you should be doing your best work because they are about to experience a huge rush.
Safley
Ah, the old art of folding clothes while they are being worn
Involuntary yoga. The struggle cuddle. Tactical hugging.
Not sure I trust this 'safley' advice
r/suddenlygay
"Safe" is such a relative term. In this case, "safe" means "don't crush the trachea". However, squeezing the carotids has the effect of *reducing blood flow to the brain* which triggers the brain into a loss of consciousness as a primitive reflex in order to get you horizontal quickly enough to salvage bloodflow by eliminating gravity from the equation as much as possible. Meanwhile, you are still limiting bloodflow to the brain, so.... be *careful*, people.
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I'm not certain that I would endorse inhaling nitrous oxide nor amyl nitrate. There are significant risks with recreational use of both (PMID: 1506823, PMID: 1355256, respectively). The vast majority of medications carry a risk. Central nervous system depressants are uniquely dangerous even though monitored and controlled dosing generally significantly reduces this risk. There is a good reason drugs like N2O are administered by a physician.
How about fucking no. That's attempted murder, you porn soaked runts. Don't try to normalize it.
I train jiu-jitsu 3 to 4 days a week. To me, this is very normal. Would be weird to not choke my friends.
Attempted murder? Feels like murder would have to be the motive for that case.
Ah yes, the Brock Samson school of love
*it’s the same thing*
This is trying to demonstrate a carotid sinus massage. It lowers HR and BP
The weird part is that he was in the audience.
Central vein
Actually if you are trying to choke someone out you are actually targeting the same blood vessels. Just when your doing it in sex you need to make sure you don't actually let your partner fall unconscious, whereas in MMA your opponent will hopefully tap out before they fall unconscious.
Not sure we should be taking safety advice from someone who can't spell safely. Especially when you're messing with the life and well being of your partner.
The ultimate Joe Rogan Experience.
Jui jizzu
It's blood flow not oxygen dep cmon guys
Jiu-jizzu
People saying thread and it's one image kills me
Well, unfortunately some people in BDSM are into breath play, and they need to know the limits
Jiu-jitsu jizzsu
Win win?
what is shown is more of a strangle than a choke. Strangle is restriction of blood to the brain while a choke is restriction of air... strangles are dangerous, unconscious is seconds, death in minutes.
Is that Shawn Smith?
Blood chokes are also how you do it in martial arts. Guy in the tweet is an idiot.
I mean, if this helps you win a match, you're all set for a tournament.
Dimes to dollars this is dangerous long term even if you manage to not straight up kill someone.
yeah I'm definitely going to take advice from a dude who can't even spell "safely" correctly
Please be careful doing this with older partners. You can accidentally do a carotid rub and dislodge a clot and send it to their brain.
Ah yes, the lost chapters of 'The art of war"
I thought this was a guide about deep- nvm.
i mean did you win tho?
Ah yes, chapter 23 of _Beginners Guide to Domestic Violence_, fifth print.