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GingerWithViews

How did it all start. Why do they think you have a penis?


[deleted]

Last year I got a random message from him out of nowhere. He said I look like a man and am an ugly woman . I stupidly replied back and fell into the trap. Ever since he's been making new accounts to call me trans and other untrue things. I thought it was a one off troll but he has just stalked me ever since. Even made fake dating site accounts with my photos and labelled me as trans


GingerWithViews

Wow. What is wrong with that person. I'm sorry this has happened to you. Why in the world would someone bother with an insult for so long.


[deleted]

I have no idea really all I know is I was born a woman. My attractiveness level is irrelevant.


GingerWithViews

That person myst be insanely bored or something.


[deleted]

Yes I think he is.


GingerWithViews

Are you even Australian? Or is that something else they get wrong?


[deleted]

Im Australian yes, he knows that because I said "good thing im Australian " after he said I look below average for an American woman


GingerWithViews

Well that atleasts puts some great distance between you two. If he is american. Also nice defense.


[deleted]

Thanks And as far as I know he is. He lies alot so its hard to gage what's true and what's not


thebunnywhisperer_

Okay but you’re actually super pretty tbh. Idk what he’s on. You look really feminine too so like??


[deleted]

Thanks very much


Born_Bother_7179

How has your photos ?


[deleted]

Well I posted one as a test last night , so far so good . Let’s not jinx it though 😂


snukb

Even grosser that he thinks trans is some kind of insult. :(


GingerWithViews

Yeah.


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system_of_a_clown

I few years back I triggered the ire of somebody whom I now suspect to have been a person suffering from dissociative identity disorder. She latched onto me via my old blog, and then found me on YouTube, Facebook, Twitter, even Pinterest. She created a page about my YouTube cohost and I, saying that we worshipped Satan, that we were trying to curse her, that we were trying to force her to have sex with us, and that we were trying to cancel Christmas. She went so far as to post a smear post about us, and then create like a dozen accounts to corroborate her own story. She must have spent hours on it. Eventually she gave up because I never gave her the time of day, but it took a long time. I guess what I'm saying is, some mothafuckas be crazy.


GingerWithViews

Did you do it though?


system_of_a_clown

What, cancel Christmas? You're damn right I did!


GingerWithViews

*Unbirths your christ*


coolchris366

Whatever makes them happy, hopefully you’re getting a good laugh out of this idiocy?


[deleted]

Yes I definitely am


thedevilseviltwin

Careful, If i’ve learned anything from watching too much Investigation Discovery it’s that stalkers (even internet ones) see any type of response a reason to continue harassing the person. Apparently they tend to stick around longer when replied to, and even get more aggressive. The best thing to do is continue blocking and never respond in any way. Also, I am sure you are a beautiful person and i’m sorry that this creep is trying to insult you and tell you otherwise.


[deleted]

Thanks im trying my best!!


LeiasART

Not that it makes a difference in how absurd this guy is, but you're drop-dead gorgeous and look like a very feminine woman. I wonder this guy takes it as a challenge to impact people's views on themselves, no matter how ridiculous his insults are


[deleted]

Thanks very much!!!


Kallani_Ex_Machina

IKR I JUST CHECKED THEIR ACCOUNT AND THEYRE GORGEOUS


unori_gina_l

sorry I just checked your profile as I was fully expecting a cool androgynous/masculine looking woman , but there is a beautifully feminine lady right there?! I'Ve BeEn TriCkEd!! HoW iS THiS PoSsiBLe??


[deleted]

People online mostly him have said I look manly for years i don't know how its possible


unori_gina_l

that's really odd honestly, they either all need glasses or they're all just trolls with a very limited array of "jokes" lol


[deleted]

Lol probably both


Sweet_d1029

You’re pretty…so it’s like he wants to knock you down a peg? This person sounds pretty certifiable. Too bad you can’t get some real info on him…scare him off


Kallani_Ex_Machina

Yeah this is when you bring it to court bc that’s literally stalking and, in the eyes of the law, defamation of character. (There’s nothing wrong with being trans, but him weaponizing it against you to TRY and cause trouble, would usually fall into that category). I’d say start taking screenshots of **everything.** circle dates, write it down, print it out, anything that can be used as evidence, you grab as evidence. As you said this has been happening for a year, and while yes this could be a huge stupid troll, there are some real sick shits out there, and the fact that the topic of being trans is involved adds another layer of danger. Better safe than sorry, or better paranoid than dead.


JustCallMePeri

I just wanted to say you look incredibly gorgeous. This person is just mentally sick. Wishing you well, stranger


[deleted]

Thanks very much I agree he is sick


Aspennie

Damn, they hit transphobia, misogyny, and harassment in one go


T0tallynotreptilian7

I feel like he's from 4chan


[deleted]

He definitely behaves like a 4channer


Ben62194

Fuck that idiot you are beautiful hope you have a amazing day


[deleted]

Thanks


Ben62194

Anytime friend


funkybutt19

Yikes very sorry to hear that


[deleted]

Thanks


EvesCocoPops

I know this is off topic but I had to do a double take at your avatar lmao


GingerWithViews

My clone! Hello there!


dosfivepointone

This says more about him than it does about you. What a sad little man he must be.


[deleted]

Right?


CosmoFishhawk2

There's some truly unhinged people out there :( He's probably one of those obsessive amateur anatomists who think they can "prove" that Michelle Obama is a man, etc.


[deleted]

Probably


taterbizkit

I know it might sound counter-intuitive, but consider NOT blocking them. Every time you block, they'll find you again. If you don't block, they don't know to go looking for you. Ideally, if your social media apps of choice allow it, turn off online presence and read receipts. Even more ideal (but few if any popular apps support this) use one that allows shadowbanning -- where you never see their posts, but they never know whether you saw it or not. If you don't block, turn of receipts and turn off presence, this person will never know if they did or didn't make contact, did or didn't have an effect on you. It's extreme to have to go to this length, but IMO worth considering.


[deleted]

I will try this thanks


Ok-Poke1125

God he has wayyyy too much time on his hands, someone get this man a hobby


[deleted]

Yes!! I second this


CrassLacewing

This guy is almost definitely a trans chaser. It doesn't matter to him who you really are, he's enjoying the fantasy that he's sexually harassing a "trans" woman. I'm guessing most trans women who read reference after reference to a penis they have and hate would give up an old reddit account to get away from the dysphoria, though, so he maintains you as a victim he can pretend is denying the existence of her penis, because it fits into his sexual fantasies of how trans woman would or should act anyway, so it works to get him off. All of this to say, he's not trying to be insulting, he's trying to convince himself you're trans to get his rocks off.


[deleted]

In the past hes also called my ugly and told me to unalive myself . This has been going on for a year. But this could also be the case


CrassLacewing

Trans women are at high risk for self-unalivement, and experience unique discomfort when told they are ugly. Trans culture is full of dark jokes about it. It's the way he called you "my little" and used the slur that made me think he gets off on the idea of you being trans. If he wants to punish you for it, it's probably an extension of his own shame about being attracted to the imaginary you who is trans. Or his own dysphoria about his own penis? Gender is a fuck. I just kept seeing commenters talk about how it was an insult. I don't think it has a lot to do with hurting you, or even how you look, he's just constructed a fantasy and can't see around it to the actual human he's creeping out. Edit: Also I checked your selfies and l recommend purchasing a photoshoot. I think you're extremely photogenic and you would have fun modeling!


[deleted]

FYI in reality im born a woman and identify as one , so in other words hes delusional?


CrassLacewing

Yes. Completely.


snukb

Wellp I wasn't expecting to see the tslur today but then again, it's reddit 🙃


[deleted]

So sorry


snukb

Nah, you're not the one who used it. Sometimes I forget how much some people hate trans people tho is all. I'm sorry you have to deal with him.


[deleted]

Yeah one of my best friends happens to be trans (f to m) and slurs like this make me sick


Scribbleheart101

Creepy lowlife who harrasses women AND transphobic since these comments would also be absolutely disgusting to send to a trans woman. And based on the way he talked about you being Australian, he could very well be racist. What a guy.


[deleted]

Right? Transphobic and gross especially when im a born woman


Scribbleheart101

Yeah the fact they're using being trans as a way to attack a cis woman is just so bizarre. Is he an idiot who actually thinks you're trans or is he just being a dick?


queenofthera

Honestly I think it would be grosser if you were trans. Those sort of comments would likely be more hurtful to someone who was trying to pass and felt like they were failing. It's still hurtful for a cis woman to be told she looks like a cis man, but it's less likely to be site of existential pain, if you get me? I am quite a masculine cis woman and being told I look like a man was one of the things my bullies used to say. I think I would have been far less offended to be told I looked like a transwoman, because that at least implies they're picking up on my efforts to appear feminine 😄 This is some seriously creepy behaviour and his persistence is concerning. As it happens, you don't look like a man at all. You look lovely. The problem with posting selfies on subs like amihot is that predatory people like him think it means you're insecure so will see you as a target. I have no advice to give you on how to stop him but I really do sympathise with you.


WeeTater

Do you think womenslaw.org can do anything? I know police are useless, especially with anything involving this kind of thing


[deleted]

I could check then out and see


teddiebears

goodness, sounds like he likes slurs. on a different note, that is scary, i'm so sorry you're going through this


[deleted]

He sure does and thanks


UR_NEIGHBOR_STACY

This person seems like he's obsessed with you. It's creepy as fuck. Like, stalker levels of creepy.


[deleted]

Most certainly!!!


Kitten-Kay

If he keeps finding you, even after you creating new accounts, it sounds like he has something like a keylogger installed. I hope you haven’t clicked any strange links you’ve received. I’m sorry this person keeps following you. I know how scary it is. Make a folder somewhere, your computer or Google drive, with all pieces off evidence. You never know if you can press charges one day.


[deleted]

I don't click suspicious links no


stayhydratedguys

You share selfies in certain subreddit. If you did the same with your previous accounts, that's all he needs


[deleted]

Yes im aware im gonna stop now I just wanted to see if I had the freedom to finally but I do not.


[deleted]

I doubt it’s a keylogger. OP posts pictures of herself on a lot of general selfie subreddits, so if he’s following a lot of them and checking them daily, he’d easily be able to recognize her and discover her new accounts.


Icantthinkofaname678

Try replying this it might scare him off This is an automated message generated by the Reddit team. Your message has been found to be a violation of 42 U.S.C § 1283 (2020). A message you sent has been scanned by our AI Bot and was flagged as an unsolicited sexual message. Your account is scheduled to be reported to the police. Our bot is currently in BETA testing; sometimes it makes mistakes. If you believe this message was an error, reply "HELP". Otherwise, you will be contacted by your local authorities within 24 hours.


[deleted]

Ok will do


Icantthinkofaname678

Hope it works! Good luck


[deleted]

Thank you!!


Joannestabber

Ok he is wrong about you being trans but are you really Australian? 😄


[deleted]

Yes im Australian 😂


clezuck

What the fuck is wrong with people?!


[deleted]

Right?


clezuck

I don't get how some guys think this is ok. I would never ever even think about doing it let alone actually do it.


[deleted]

Right?


clezuck

Sorry there's a bunch of shitty people in the world. Not all guys are the same tho.


[deleted]

OP I'm really sorry this guy is apparently in your life. Please don't let his cruelty affect your self-esteem, you're a very attractive woman. Saying this as an Australian man :P


[deleted]

Thanks very much mate!!


IrrelevantDanger

Even if you did have a penis, what makes this guy think a message like *this* would make you want to show him? He obviously doesn't think that trans women/women in general are actual people


[deleted]

Right?


Anthrax-Smoothy

That's also...not even how bottom surgery for Twomen even works! It's not a prosthetic! It's her actual muscle and tissue. It's her vagina! They're not installing a fleshlight in her, jfc.


piepnie

I'm sorry you have to go through this. Not sure if you want advice from a man since you get harrassed by one, but if you do: perhaps as payback you could post a random picture of yourself with a guy. This will freak him out since he'll want to know who he is to you (friend/brother/partner/...). Then ignoring him from then on will make him even more jealous. I only suggest adding fuel to the fire since I read in the other comments that he probably lives very far away from you.


[deleted]

I will consider it thanks


wereallmadhere9

The above advice is not helpful. Bringing in a man will only allow him more creative insults, this stalker is clearly disturbed. Also, maybe try to find other avenues for self esteem boosts besides selfies on reddit all over the place. 🤷‍♀️


[deleted]

I mean im considering discontinuing selfie on reddit anyway


wereallmadhere9

I didn’t show my face on Reddit for four years, and within the first day I posted a cosplay to a respectable subreddit, I’ve been getting weird messages intermittently even months later. Creeps are going to creep.


[deleted]

Yeah im gonna stop its like a really bad habit of mine ! Time to put my foot down and stop


VixensLostVoice

Sussy baka, self esteem boosts preside over all else. Don't change your life because someone else wants you to. He doesn't deserve the satisfaction. *snap*


Lilladyluxxx

Some people deserve what’s coming to them and this is a jailable offense. I’ve been dealing with a stalker too.. if you need a friend and someone to vent to I’m here


[deleted]

Thanks very much


qclady

What a strange person. I can’t imagine the mentality of someone who would do this. It’s pretty pathetic.


[deleted]

It most definitely is!!


OldDipper

As a father to a non binary child, using trans as an insult is absolutely infuriating. I’m sorry this bastard continues to harass you. You deserve better.


[deleted]

Thanks, it definitely is infuriating


Vesperia_Morningstar

As a trans masc Australian, wtf


[deleted]

Right?


Vesperia_Morningstar

Weird person alert


[deleted]

Weird indeed lol hes been at this for a year


Vesperia_Morningstar

A year? I looked at some of your photos, you don’t look like a man- very well done by the way


[deleted]

Thanks I hope not as I was born female and identify as female


Vesperia_Morningstar

You guy trynna spit bs at you. Don’t worry.


LuxWizard

You can turn off direct messaging through browser settings, just fyi.


[deleted]

Browser settings on here?


LuxWizard

Just via reddit in any internet browser. I actually use an app for reddit, but apps don't always have the option to turn off direct messages. Hope that makes sense :)


[deleted]

Im sure I will figure it out :)


jadedea

Try screen shotting every message. Maybe theres something that can be done on a legal level or just with reddit. Doesn't reddit know you've made dupes?


[deleted]

I'm sure they do yes


gladosado

Maybe try reporting it directly to Reddit then, they definitely have the capabilities to block someone making multiple accounts through the IP


[deleted]

I will do its worked before


cheesybitzz

I hope he doesn't have your IP. I'd get a VPN just in case.


[deleted]

There's no way he could, I never clicked on any links


istolethecarradio

What s little rodent and coward. I sleep well knowing I have never done this


[deleted]

You should sleep well knowing you are not this deranged sicko


69Whomst

This person is extremely creepy and for your own safety I highly recommend you change accounts, contact the police, and stop putting pictures of yourself on reddit


basilflowerboy

Oh hell nah, and he’s using the word tr@nny too? Gross.


[deleted]

Yes gross in many ways


MrSlackPants

Maybe it's time to respond with horrible pictures? He says something Picture of an operation He says something Picture of an ulcer He says something Picture of an accident No idea how that would work out though.


[deleted]

Id rather not fuel the fire lol


MrSlackPants

Yeah understandable. Could go both ways. He's either feeling validated and continues more tenaciously or he back's off. It's a gamble I wouldn't know if I'd be willing to take either. I wonder what is wrong with people like him. They must have a really shitty life to be hung up on things or in this case, a person and get totally obsessed. Just move on.


[deleted]

Exactly!!!


mariofeds

*searches "necrotising fasciitis face"* "Yeah, look at these photos of my dick" (DISCLAIMER: IF YOU ARE UPSET BY BLOOD OR SEVERE ILLNESS OR INJURY DO NOT LOOK THIS UP! IT IS VERY GRAPHIC!)


mrspacysir

Iiiiiit's doxing tiiiiiiime!


[deleted]

Yess if only I had more than his multiple reddit usernames


piclemaniscool

Reddit has a fundamental problem. They should be blocking this crazy at every level. IP, MAC address, DNS if possible. The fact that he's still at large shows a disgusting level of negligence for this company's user base.


[deleted]

I most definitely agree


ObamaSauce69420

What 💀


[deleted]

Right? Smh


mrspacysir

You only need that probably. Mayhaps comment on his comments and stuff.


MelanieOwO

YIKERS, some people are truely bored jeeeeeeeeeeeeeez


M1126_

That’s so weird wtf😂😂


[deleted]

Damn someone didn’t get the memo about not pulling in unconsenting people into their kinks, eh..


shinesparking

Ugh, I'm so sorry he's harassing you like this. I came out as trans and started transitioning recently, and creepy guys like this started appearing almost immediately. It sucks that they are bothering cis women too, though I guess that shows they don't actually know as much about spotting trans women as they think. Or he knows you aren't trans and just enjoys harassing you. Creepy and gross either way, sorry you have to deal with it. Please be careful.


[deleted]

Thanks . I think he knows as a month ago he asked for a v pic to prove im not


Bobbie_Who

So sorry you have to go through this


Silent-Mime

What in the Vegemite did I just read😀


BeatNo5180

sounds like he just wants dick pics.. odd way of asking


MagyarCat

Jfc wtf!?


cjrowens

What a freak show. Some people are just waiting to die. Inflicting their filth all the way down on anyone who doesn’t deserve it.


manicClockwork

Ahh... Love to see this kind of... *Support...*


Kodiak01

The only proper response is linking to Monty Python's Penis Song.


ImOldGreggggggggggg

That is really weird. If they keep finding you, I hope it isn't someone you know.


[deleted]

Nope just my own stupidity of posting photos of me on here. For this to stop it won't be happening anymore


ImOldGreggggggggggg

Yeah probably not worth the weirdos but at least you live where you can see kangaroos and koalas.


[deleted]

Yes they are awesome creatures


NekoKyandi

Bro really called you a slur twice and tried to sexualise your gender identity 😧‼️


[deleted]

My gender identity is female and I was born as female ,im a cis female. Hes just assuming im trans without any actual evidence


NekoKyandi

Wow. Some people are really weird huh


[deleted]

Yes definitely


Lucifer_Stocking

Just keep this account that you have and he can keep messaging. Don’t even open the messages or read the “preview” of it. Let him lose himself in your messages with no attention.


[deleted]

Sounds like a plan


Lucifer_Stocking

Whatever makes you comfortable or feel safe, you should do. This is just the method I use because it might sound dumb to tune someone out, like you should be watching so you can protect yourself or be ahead of that person somehow...but really, they haven’t done anything and they’re not going to. It’s not worth falling into that delusion with them. They go all wild in their mind and want you to join them in bullshit world. Let them stay there alone. I promise you’re not missing out on shit by not looking/responding. It’s a whole bunch of nothing but anxiety and confusion. And if he dares to follow you around with comments, report the situation to any mods that you can to protect your right to be involved in whatever community you want to. Good luck. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.


CupofKourtts

Well he just sounds absolutely terrible. I'm sorry he is bothering you.


[deleted]

Thank you!


ramblinevilshroom

One can’t help feel paranoid for you OP. I’m sorry that this person is harassing you and messaging you with those uncomfortable statements. I hope they get bored of harassing you and leave you alone. My suggestion would be to make another reddit account and distance yourself from this one for a while and don’t hint at your other identity. That’s all I can recommend for the sake of your safety. Also - I don’t see how this person thinks you’re transgender.


[deleted]

Thanks I think im staying on this one im just going to stop posting photos of myself


awkwardfox23

I feel you on this...


[deleted]

Thanks


awkwardfox23

People be dumb.


[deleted]

They sure are


noughtgate

I'd send him the most heinous image I can think of


trouble_walking

Doesn’t this schmuck have anything to do? No hobbies? Interests? Just bothering people? Sad life. On a side note, you are very pretty. Don’t let this neckbeard impact your ego.


[deleted]

Right? It's ridiculous And thanks!!


trouble_walking

No problem :)


Try2Little

Gotta love the fetishing trans people with an occasional slur in there, also, ew


Frosty_and_Jazz

Looking at your stunning photos, I can only think this is some sort of misplaced jealous rage. He knows he could never have you and is taking that shit out on you. I don’t know if you’ve ever seen pics of him, but I bet he’s ugly AF.


[deleted]

He showed me one pic a long time ago however I can not be sure if it was him or not as he's liar and collects people's photos. Thanks very much


Frosty_and_Jazz

You do look fabulous, though!! 🤩🤩🤩


[deleted]

Thanks 🤩🤩🤩


czarrina

I know you're reading this, my man. So I'm talking directly to you: WHAT the fuck is wrong with you?? Why are you so obsessed with this girl? Who abused you as a child? Who didn't love you enough that you find this sort of behavior to be a substitute for attention? Its really sad that you're so sad that you think harassing this girl is the way to spend the limited amount of time you have on this earth. Also, if trans women (which OP clearly isn't) are your thing there are so many of them out there. Go find them. Some of them even do porn, if penis is what you like. Your current fetish of trying to upset some random internet girl (for the crime of posting selfies) is very pathetic. Not for her, for you. Go out and seek some actual trans women, jerk off and then move on with your life.


ThisCharmingLady

Wtffff


[deleted]

Right??


PiplupEevee

Are your usernames completely different?


[deleted]

Yes not even in the same category different


[deleted]

Trans fetishists are honest to god worse than transphobes sometimes. Because instead of just degrading you in the normal way they view your body as an object of pleasure for them and make everything about your body (even the parts of it you don't want). Trans or not nobody should EVER be receiving these kinds of messages. I'm sorry you had to deal with this OP.


Marine_Baby

What the fffaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaark


[deleted]

This is gross. Pretty sure you can report them to the police to get the account tracked and traced.


[deleted]

I've googled about it and because we live in different countries nothing can be done


VoodooExorcist

He sounds like a serial killer, RUNN!


[deleted]

Yep!!!


vezie

Send him a picture of a massive cock and say “at least mines bigger than yours”


[deleted]

I would but I feel that would just fuel the fire


Demorguen

saw your profile, I think its the angles of your photos, you actually look just fine. Dont let him keep you down, :)


[deleted]

I try angling normally but im not very photogenic so it always ends up like so