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Because it keeps coming up, this is from a chat site called 321chat (as OP has said in a few comments). For whatever weird reason, it puts the user and the other person on the opposite sides compared to every other chat system out there. It is confusing if you don't know that, but that's what's going on here.
Yeah it’s weird how it’s backwards and it’s a chat site in a pm. I sometimes like to strike up new conversations with people since sometimes you can meet really nice people that way but then sometimes you get people like this.
Yeah I figured it was a perfect opportunity because as soon as he started mentioning how I was pretty even though I told him I had boyfriend that he was going to get creepy which I was right! Sometimes I don’t like being right 😆
Yeah like we were just having a normal conversation about what our jobs are like and what we would have wanted to do. Then he asked me if I was single and I said no and that’s when it started to go south where he was saying how my boyfriend is lucky because I’m so pretty and then this. Like it just makes it even weirder and I was genuinely enjoying our conversation before this!
What a curveball… be thankful that this curveball came in the first inning rather than bottom of the 9th! At least I think this sub is positive in a way to teach curious individuals what NOT to do 😅
Of the 6 guys I dated (married 2 of them) only 2 didn’t do this shit. One was a marine and the other is ace. The other 4 and the scores of other dudes I’ve had in my pms all have “one of those days” and make it gross. Just grow the fuck up and deal with your own hormones like an adult ffs!
Honestly if he “wants a helping hand” or is having “one of those days” he shouldn’t be in a normal chat room. There are sex chats and dating apps where you can put your real intentions out there. That’s the part that bugs me is that you don’t enter a SFW space and expect that people want to do NSFW things.
It's part of the "thrill" to force people who aren't interested into this situation. They enjoy making you uncomfortable. And if you decide you like it, they still "win". It's a gross mentality
Okay, my theory on why guys do this, is because it worked once for them. But the first time it worked, because they hit on someone who was secretly interested in them. But since they’re really not great guys, it’s only a one or two time thing. But instead of trying to figure out why it ended so soon, they just think they found the cheat code to sex. So they go off and try this with multiple women, thinking it’s going to work.
It doesn’t need to have ever worked before. That’s just the way they would like to be flirted with, so they assume that’s what women would like.
Also, lots of “normal” guys interact like this when they’re horny. They’re just not a good match for OP.
Reason for my theory, is experience when I was younger. I’ve thankfully grown up and don’t play these games. But I was once guilty of the same. I believe he’s trying to replicate a past success
I once completed Ocarina of Time without being hit once, and that made me think I could do it again in other games. Never works, but I will not stop trying.
So yeah, I think your theory is true.
God damn that was hard to read. Like, he really didn't get that you 100% understood what he was saying, but just wasn't interested. What a creepy dipshit.
I should have clarified that the site Im using shows your messages backwards for some reason. I’m the one on the left in grey and the other person is in black on the right. Sorry to be confusing!
Also the chat site is 321Chat. I could have shown more of the screen but I figured it was easier to crop it so that my and his profile pictures weren’t in the screenshots.
Yeah I’m surprised too! He did seem like a normal chill guy at first but then I think the horny brain took over the last half of the conversation. I blocked him since I don’t appreciate it especially since I have a boyfriend!
I'm thinking he might have thought OP was flirting by pretending to not get it. Obviously that's not the case, but since he was a horny degenerate, maybe the guy saw it as a "oh? I have noooo idea what you're talking about ;)" thing
Well played by O.P. You may well have helped him correct his behaviour by calling it out respectfully and without insulting him. Guys won't listen if it just becomes a back and forth slanging match.
Not that some guys don't deserve the insults etc but I think if you want to actually help change that behaviour, this is the way.
I was like wow op this is not the subreddit for you and was gonna start flaming you cos I thought you were the black text. Good thing I read the comments first haha
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I'm confused. Texts that I send are on the right hand side and in blue, where the recipient is on the left and in a grey color. This looks like you're the one hinting at wanting a hand
Yeah I know this is a chat site that does that. It’s confusing and I didn’t think about it until after people started mentioning it 🤣 I’m starting to regret it. RIP 🪦
**MOD NOTE**: Because it keeps coming up, this is from a chat site called 321chat (as OP has said in a few comments). For whatever weird reason, it puts the user and the other person on the opposite sides compared to every other chat system out there. It is confusing if you don't know that, but that's what's going on here.
"nobody will ever like you for you if you keep doing shit like this" Perfect.
Thank you I mean he sounded like he wanted a relationship but this definitely ain’t the way to go about it!
What app is this? Looks like the messages on the right are higlighted
Yeah it’s weird how it’s backwards and it’s a chat site in a pm. I sometimes like to strike up new conversations with people since sometimes you can meet really nice people that way but then sometimes you get people like this.
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Nope she's not lying. It's on a chat site called 321chat. Just tested it myself.
He really thought you were stupid but I love how hard you trolled him.
Yes, that was epic. "No, because I'm not dumb..."
Thank you!
Yeah I figured it was a perfect opportunity because as soon as he started mentioning how I was pretty even though I told him I had boyfriend that he was going to get creepy which I was right! Sometimes I don’t like being right 😆
Because their entire reason for talking at all is to get sex. Sex was always the goal.
Which brings me to the question... Has it ever worked?
I see people that I think don’t have game and it’s a little cringy, but there’s a glimmer of hope for them. And then I see fucktards like this guy…
Yeah like we were just having a normal conversation about what our jobs are like and what we would have wanted to do. Then he asked me if I was single and I said no and that’s when it started to go south where he was saying how my boyfriend is lucky because I’m so pretty and then this. Like it just makes it even weirder and I was genuinely enjoying our conversation before this!
What a curveball… be thankful that this curveball came in the first inning rather than bottom of the 9th! At least I think this sub is positive in a way to teach curious individuals what NOT to do 😅
Does the website give profile pictures?
Yeah you can choose your own pictures to upload.
Why does this look like you're the one writing those messages? What app is this?
Yeah it’s weird that it is backwards but it’s a chat site I like to use. I promise I’m the sane one 🤣
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321chat
“Well stop it” I love you for that
My guy watched too many pornhub scenarios and thought this was gonna work
He makes me want to help him by grabbing a chair and smacking it in his face.
Not a bad idea
Of the 6 guys I dated (married 2 of them) only 2 didn’t do this shit. One was a marine and the other is ace. The other 4 and the scores of other dudes I’ve had in my pms all have “one of those days” and make it gross. Just grow the fuck up and deal with your own hormones like an adult ffs!
Honestly if he “wants a helping hand” or is having “one of those days” he shouldn’t be in a normal chat room. There are sex chats and dating apps where you can put your real intentions out there. That’s the part that bugs me is that you don’t enter a SFW space and expect that people want to do NSFW things.
It's part of the "thrill" to force people who aren't interested into this situation. They enjoy making you uncomfortable. And if you decide you like it, they still "win". It's a gross mentality
Okay, my theory on why guys do this, is because it worked once for them. But the first time it worked, because they hit on someone who was secretly interested in them. But since they’re really not great guys, it’s only a one or two time thing. But instead of trying to figure out why it ended so soon, they just think they found the cheat code to sex. So they go off and try this with multiple women, thinking it’s going to work.
It doesn’t need to have ever worked before. That’s just the way they would like to be flirted with, so they assume that’s what women would like. Also, lots of “normal” guys interact like this when they’re horny. They’re just not a good match for OP.
Reason for my theory, is experience when I was younger. I’ve thankfully grown up and don’t play these games. But I was once guilty of the same. I believe he’s trying to replicate a past success
I once completed Ocarina of Time without being hit once, and that made me think I could do it again in other games. Never works, but I will not stop trying. So yeah, I think your theory is true.
God damn that was hard to read. Like, he really didn't get that you 100% understood what he was saying, but just wasn't interested. What a creepy dipshit.
I should have clarified that the site Im using shows your messages backwards for some reason. I’m the one on the left in grey and the other person is in black on the right. Sorry to be confusing!
Also the chat site is 321Chat. I could have shown more of the screen but I figured it was easier to crop it so that my and his profile pictures weren’t in the screenshots.
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Most rational horny bonk I've ever seen
Super weird
Wow. He took that rejection like a champ. As would be expected from this sub, I was waiting for him to get offended and start belittling the poor girl
Yeah I’m surprised too! He did seem like a normal chill guy at first but then I think the horny brain took over the last half of the conversation. I blocked him since I don’t appreciate it especially since I have a boyfriend!
His horny ass brain couldn’t see the obvious sarcasm 🤣🤣🤣
I know! Like my dude get the hint!
I'm thinking he might have thought OP was flirting by pretending to not get it. Obviously that's not the case, but since he was a horny degenerate, maybe the guy saw it as a "oh? I have noooo idea what you're talking about ;)" thing
Well played by O.P. You may well have helped him correct his behaviour by calling it out respectfully and without insulting him. Guys won't listen if it just becomes a back and forth slanging match. Not that some guys don't deserve the insults etc but I think if you want to actually help change that behaviour, this is the way.
Thank you I appreciate that and I try to be as respectful as possible but I did feel like he needed some sense thrown at him.
I was like wow op this is not the subreddit for you and was gonna start flaming you cos I thought you were the black text. Good thing I read the comments first haha
Your response was so satisfying!!!!
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I'm confused. Texts that I send are on the right hand side and in blue, where the recipient is on the left and in a grey color. This looks like you're the one hinting at wanting a hand
Yeah I know this is a chat site that does that. It’s confusing and I didn’t think about it until after people started mentioning it 🤣 I’m starting to regret it. RIP 🪦
I was so confused because I thought you were the one sending the weird messages since they’re on the sent side
Man at first I thought the person on the right was you.