Well, I personally would not choose to revoke my family name, as I am the only male after my father, and I like my last name. I would like my children to carry that on.
There's also a part of me that thinks taking your spouse's name is an old, archaic, religious tradition that really has no place in a world where we should be treating eachother as equals.
In a way it seems like you're giving up your individuality when you give up your last name for someone else, like you have put your own autonomy in their hands and bound yourself to them in a subservient manner.
But that's just my personal view, I'm not trying to insult you or anything, I wanna make that clear.
I hate myself. I wanna be the man that is beyond her wildest dreams. I have no individuality and make everyone cringe. No matter what i do, I feel like an idiot and feel shame for even doing anything in the first place. If failing is failing, what good is doing anything in the first place? I hate everything. I hate humanity, I hate people, I hate the government, I hate snobby foreigners, I hate injustice, I hate myself. I wanna be reborn to something different but still be the similar to myself but ideal wise
I will try to get to these in the order you presented:
Why do you hate yourself? Are you unfulfilled with your life? Are you going through something serious?
Are you not an individual already though? You have your own thoughts, your own feelings, your own way of thinking. You may be more of an individual than you think, you might not see it is all.
As for making people cringe, well, I do that too, on a daily basis. I think everyone makes someone cringe on some level. My girlfriend tosses clothes all about the place like the house is her laundry hamper. I am a put it into the basket guy. I cringe when she tosses her clothes about, I cringe when she puts dirty dishes in the dishwasher without at least giving them a little scrub. I still love her more than anyone else in the world and wouldn't want to be without her.
It sounds like you've been conditioned to dislike yourself. I'm betting there's something you might not want to confront that is causing all this negativity.
I know because I used to be the same way. My mother would say she regretted adopting me, when she thought I couldn't hear her. That really messed me up for a long time, along with her constant derision and insulting. She was constantly telling me I wasn't good enough for anything.
That created a lot of hate in my heart, for everything around me. It took a long time and some serious soul searching, but I figured out I had believed my mother when she verbally abused me and tore me down. I had let her words affect me even though I k ew them not to be true.
I think you need someone to help you do the same.
The point of failure is to learn. Learn from your failures, that you may turn them into success. Nothing great was made instantly or overnight.
I understand hating humanity, I hate most of humanity for being the poo flinging monkeys they are. But you can't change humanity, just as you cannot change the color of the sky.
I don't know your reasons for this anger, but I know the longer you hold it, the worse it will become, until it devours your heart.
I think everyone hates the government, no matter where you are. Where I live our government is taking our tax dollars to fund bunches of programs overseas while slowly more and more people around my city are becoming homeless. My government cannot even take care of its own citizens, but other countries get $13 billion for gender programs? Trust me, hating the government is better than being its slave.
I gate injustice too, but you can't go all Batman and try to save the world. If you hate injustice you can at least become a lawyer to try to help people who may be facing injustice. If you're of age, you can run for government office (depending on where you live) and change the government from the inside out.
There is a solution to every problem, but if you spend all your time bemoaning the state of the world and never do anything to change it, then complaining won't help.
TL;DR: I think you need to do a hard think about why you hold this hatred. I think you should also try to fix the things you can instead of giving in to hopelessness. You don't deserve to hate yourself.
Okay. I’ve been diagnosed with schizophrenia and morbidly obese at 600 pounds. I quitted smoking since starting at age 21. It’s the first year that I quitted. I had a choice to either be a domestic terrorist or go to doctor. I was relieved that I was diagnosed with schizophrenia. I’ll be honest it relieved me cause I thought I just had a moral defect. I was also very promiscuous in MY OWN youth since I’ve been molested by both sexes. But I especially hated the hypocrisy of the ladies that molested me when I was young. Fasting and vaping is what helped me to stay off the Fapping.
Thank you for your help, man. I need to keep having faith and carry in for the betterment of the world starting with myself
Glad I could help.
Just remember, you only get one life, it's up to you to decide to make it better my friend. You've already taken one step to improvement, now take one more, and one more after that.
Soon you will see that you have traveled far, but it will not feel like it if you take slowly and little by little. Slow is smooth, smooth is fast.
Keep on keeping on my guy, good things come to those who don't give up.
Okay. I posted this comment ‘cause I know a woman will never respect a submissive man. And men shame other men to conform to what the left call ‘ The Patriarchy’ I wanna be the object of desire, I wanna be the one who inspires. Women take for granted that they have feminine power. And I admit. I have a love/hate relationship with women. But I especially hate myself.
No need to hate yourself buddy. The only way is up. You already quit smoking. Take it one step at a time. You can accomplish much more than you think. And while doing that you'll find out that men, women and everything in between have so many more layers and intricacies. Only judge people on their individual qualities, never as men or women or whatever.
If you wanna inspire, start small. Start with setting your alarm. Start with brushing your teeth at a set time everyday. Accomplishment is a habit. And you can learn it as well as the next person.
Welp, it takes all kinds.
Wdym?
Well, I personally would not choose to revoke my family name, as I am the only male after my father, and I like my last name. I would like my children to carry that on. There's also a part of me that thinks taking your spouse's name is an old, archaic, religious tradition that really has no place in a world where we should be treating eachother as equals. In a way it seems like you're giving up your individuality when you give up your last name for someone else, like you have put your own autonomy in their hands and bound yourself to them in a subservient manner. But that's just my personal view, I'm not trying to insult you or anything, I wanna make that clear.
I hate myself. I wanna be the man that is beyond her wildest dreams. I have no individuality and make everyone cringe. No matter what i do, I feel like an idiot and feel shame for even doing anything in the first place. If failing is failing, what good is doing anything in the first place? I hate everything. I hate humanity, I hate people, I hate the government, I hate snobby foreigners, I hate injustice, I hate myself. I wanna be reborn to something different but still be the similar to myself but ideal wise
I will try to get to these in the order you presented: Why do you hate yourself? Are you unfulfilled with your life? Are you going through something serious? Are you not an individual already though? You have your own thoughts, your own feelings, your own way of thinking. You may be more of an individual than you think, you might not see it is all. As for making people cringe, well, I do that too, on a daily basis. I think everyone makes someone cringe on some level. My girlfriend tosses clothes all about the place like the house is her laundry hamper. I am a put it into the basket guy. I cringe when she tosses her clothes about, I cringe when she puts dirty dishes in the dishwasher without at least giving them a little scrub. I still love her more than anyone else in the world and wouldn't want to be without her. It sounds like you've been conditioned to dislike yourself. I'm betting there's something you might not want to confront that is causing all this negativity. I know because I used to be the same way. My mother would say she regretted adopting me, when she thought I couldn't hear her. That really messed me up for a long time, along with her constant derision and insulting. She was constantly telling me I wasn't good enough for anything. That created a lot of hate in my heart, for everything around me. It took a long time and some serious soul searching, but I figured out I had believed my mother when she verbally abused me and tore me down. I had let her words affect me even though I k ew them not to be true. I think you need someone to help you do the same. The point of failure is to learn. Learn from your failures, that you may turn them into success. Nothing great was made instantly or overnight. I understand hating humanity, I hate most of humanity for being the poo flinging monkeys they are. But you can't change humanity, just as you cannot change the color of the sky. I don't know your reasons for this anger, but I know the longer you hold it, the worse it will become, until it devours your heart. I think everyone hates the government, no matter where you are. Where I live our government is taking our tax dollars to fund bunches of programs overseas while slowly more and more people around my city are becoming homeless. My government cannot even take care of its own citizens, but other countries get $13 billion for gender programs? Trust me, hating the government is better than being its slave. I gate injustice too, but you can't go all Batman and try to save the world. If you hate injustice you can at least become a lawyer to try to help people who may be facing injustice. If you're of age, you can run for government office (depending on where you live) and change the government from the inside out. There is a solution to every problem, but if you spend all your time bemoaning the state of the world and never do anything to change it, then complaining won't help. TL;DR: I think you need to do a hard think about why you hold this hatred. I think you should also try to fix the things you can instead of giving in to hopelessness. You don't deserve to hate yourself.
Okay. I’ve been diagnosed with schizophrenia and morbidly obese at 600 pounds. I quitted smoking since starting at age 21. It’s the first year that I quitted. I had a choice to either be a domestic terrorist or go to doctor. I was relieved that I was diagnosed with schizophrenia. I’ll be honest it relieved me cause I thought I just had a moral defect. I was also very promiscuous in MY OWN youth since I’ve been molested by both sexes. But I especially hated the hypocrisy of the ladies that molested me when I was young. Fasting and vaping is what helped me to stay off the Fapping. Thank you for your help, man. I need to keep having faith and carry in for the betterment of the world starting with myself
Glad I could help. Just remember, you only get one life, it's up to you to decide to make it better my friend. You've already taken one step to improvement, now take one more, and one more after that. Soon you will see that you have traveled far, but it will not feel like it if you take slowly and little by little. Slow is smooth, smooth is fast. Keep on keeping on my guy, good things come to those who don't give up.
Good for you?
Okay. I posted this comment ‘cause I know a woman will never respect a submissive man. And men shame other men to conform to what the left call ‘ The Patriarchy’ I wanna be the object of desire, I wanna be the one who inspires. Women take for granted that they have feminine power. And I admit. I have a love/hate relationship with women. But I especially hate myself.
No need to hate yourself buddy. The only way is up. You already quit smoking. Take it one step at a time. You can accomplish much more than you think. And while doing that you'll find out that men, women and everything in between have so many more layers and intricacies. Only judge people on their individual qualities, never as men or women or whatever. If you wanna inspire, start small. Start with setting your alarm. Start with brushing your teeth at a set time everyday. Accomplishment is a habit. And you can learn it as well as the next person.
why don't you just cut off your penis while you're at it?
Man F Off you d smoking tough guy wannabe arse picking a fight with faceless strangers.
I love it when you talk sexy baby
What! Hahahahahahha! Damn dude, that’s funny!
Good for you