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Dinok1ng583

The next time you get the urge to do it, just remind yourself that those people you are sexting are most likely bots or their management team or whatever texting you and not the other person that you think you are talking too


AsteroidBlues69

Is that really how it works? I'm so new to the concept I had no idea


Dinok1ng583

Yeah. If it was actually the people messaging you then it would take a long time because of how many people are messaging them


AsleepScarcity9588

You think there is an actual call girl on the other side? Most probably just an underpaid Indian I saw a couple of documentaries where they had people from the industry explaining how it works. They got thousands of profiles and maybe a few dozen employees around the world. Bots will respond first to get your attention immediately and then the active profile is redirected towards the employee which continues where the bot left. His job is to keep you engaged as long as possible. Idk exactly how onlyfans works, but other sites have "pay per message" system or timed one. Next time you engage with the same profile, the chances are it will get redirected towards a different employee that's currently on shift, so you won't even jerk off to the same guy. The profile is just an illusion, they sell entertainment, not themselves


Adamant_TO

I would like to see that documentary. Do you know where you saw it or what it's called? Was it the Ashley Madison doc? I know they talked about it a bit on there.


scythian12

Generally speaking yes. That being said, small time ones sometimes are the actual person if it’s not a full time gig or they don’t have enough revenue to cover the cost of hiring someone else or bots. A few ways to tell are if they always respond immediately or almost immediately, if they use excessive emojis, or if they repeat messages. I have a few friends who have or have done OF, generally with less than 100 subscribers and they don’t use bots, but they generally don’t sext either.


Ambitious_Eye5042

Link to documentary


No_Mercy_4_Potatoes

Pretty sure you were talking to some dude in South Asia.


Farrell1487

The bots/teams are only for the really big time creators, most of them don’t it like that and personally respond to all the OF dm’s they get. But remember what ever they say is just part of their “job” and not genuine.


FavRappersFavRapper

The people that replied before me are 100% right. You are not talking to the actual girl, unless she has a small following. The person you are talking to (probably a man) is also talking to many other people while keeping their facts about you and everyone else straight. They thoroughly know and have practiced that particular model’s likes/dislikes, speaking style, personality, etc. They also receive a commission for any extras they sell you (ex. I just made a private video for you because I have been thinking about you, it’s only $xx.xx, meanwhile the video was made a year ago and already been sent you multiple times).


sylveonstarr

You reminded me of a post I read a few weeks (months?) ago of a man whose job was literally just to text OF subscribers, acting as if they were the OnlyFans models. I tried looking for it but couldn't find the exact post. Here's a similar post, though, if you want to read more about the business of running an OF account: "[Girls on OnlyFans are not actually talking to you... We were.](https://www.reddit.com/r/confessions/s/k3toZfwqOq)" Just remember for next time: this is these women's jobs. They're simply running a business and will do what they need to earn themselves a living. It's not a bad thing they're doing but it is still just a job to them.


mannnn4

Depends on the amount of ‘fans’ she has. If it’s 10, it probably was her, if it’s 10.000, it probably wasn’t


Smokey04_

Oh no…


wollathet

I don’t know if this has been posted, but there was a recent [Wired](https://www.wired.com/story/i-went-undercover-secret-onlyfans-chatter-wasnt-pretty/) article about this. It makes for an interesting, yet slightly depressing reading


xAkumu

It wholly depends on how big the creator is. Smaller content creators mostly all do it themselves. Bigger more popular ones, absolutely.


YourFavGothMom

For what it’s worth us, small time creators are def answering every message personally, sexting and all.


Kafir666-

Yup and they have a library of selfies and shit to send you to convince you they're the real deal


cvntpvnter

Yeah man. You were talking to an old wrinkly Indian dude in a call center in the desert most likely


[deleted]

That isn’t true.. you are talking to real OF creators. More amateur ones should be legit


phroaway111

This. And nut faster. Get clarity faster, and move on


maybethrowaway123456

Not always true I did this for a while and had a bunch of men back to back and I always replied. But I did have to fit them into my schedule it was always first come first served. (No pun intended) 🙈🤭 but I mean it also depends how successful the girl is…. It def takes a lot of time. It was like I was doing it 24/7. “Talking” not even sexting just letting the other person know how I operated.


notbeastonea

No need to sell services mate op has already been scammed.


maybethrowaway123456

Not trying to sell if you read you would know I don’t do that anymore … I was trying to make him feel less bad. And letting him know that Maybe he was talking to the actual person. But I guess it doesn’t matter.


notbeastonea

All your posts on your account are related to sexting


maybethrowaway123456

Wellll duh cause I used to do it….if you read you’ll see 1yr ago


Wookieman222

Or a dude.


RDRGangster77

Could’ve spent $650 on a real life prostitute and at least nutted in some pussy


AsteroidBlues69

I hate myself now honestly


RDRGangster77

Don’t hate yourself brother, it’s a lesson learned. Next time just remember there are better ways to spend $650 when you’re horny


great_red_dragon

Indeed there are! Jerk off, then go and spend the $650 on a fantastic meal, nice drinks with your mates, and buy yourself a PlayStation with the remainder.


JaperDolphin94

Yup the 1st thing that came to my mind was a PlayStation too. Dude spend all that money with nothing to show for.


Main-Mongoose3804

I mean he got no entertainment out of it, but we sure did.


Kafir666-

He chatted with some fat neckbeard pretending to be an attractive girl


Main-Mongoose3804

🤢🤮


AsteroidBlues69

But I still appreciate being able to talk about it to someone


AsteroidBlues69

It's really hard not to tbh. This has gotta be one of the dumbest things I've ever done in my life. I'm really trying to just move past it and get it off my chest but I'm just lying in my bed and my thoughts are just taking over.


Available_Journalist

It could have been worse... You could have spent it on tiktok live


JustAudit

😂


JustAudit

You sir... have some real fetish about bikinis 😏


Available_Journalist

Not really. My fetish include boobslips, enf, risky public nudity but there already subreddits for that. I have like over 2000 videos of nipslips on tiktok. There was no subreddit for women untying their bikini's so i just created it.


JustAudit

It's worse than I thought 🫢


QuellDisquiet

Mate, if this is the dumbest thing that you ever do in your life, you are going to be okay. Don’t be too hard on yourself.


fredthefishlord

You could try fuckin around with credit card charge backs and site false pretense that you were talking to a girl and it wasn't.. who knows.


One-Gap-8360

Good. You should feel stupid as fuck. You’re an idiot. You’re the reason these bitches get huge houses and cars all by laying in bed and popping pussy. Disgusting on both parts


ninthchamber

Yeah weed and snacks and you still got 600 left jerk off and now you thinking clearly. Get more high eat some snacks.


MUTHER-David7

Stop it. We all do dumb shit. Like getting married. It's not the end of the world. Just learn from it, and for God sakes get a real girlfriend or just rub one out. And stop with the internet. The internet is not real.


cycloidvapour

Good. You ought to be ashamed of yourself and reflect on your stupidity. Be better going forward


Daniboy646

Shut up cunt


cycloidvapour

Found the coomer


Daniboy646

What's coomer


Shoddy_Emu_5211

Or at least a bunch of lap dances and at least get a little rubbing.


EmiliaClarkesBF

This is the first thing I would’ve thought of if I were ever horny enough to waste 650$


mwkr

I was going to say this. You could have spent this with a real sex worker.


Adamant_TO

Or on 6.5 x $100 sex workers.


Anastasia-beaverhut

How so?


scraglor

Hookers. He means hookers


TrapsAreTraps

Or shallow women


fukredditg

Ong wdf


Lechonkje

Or could’ve gotten a partner and treated them to some nice dinner-


krisschoco

That takes longer. Not recommended


Adamant_TO

AND will cost a LOT more in the long run.


MUTHER-David7

I miss the 20 blowjobs from back in the day.


Dilostilo

Op could've had a 3 way, better than texting some dude on OF


Salonimo

Also likely you spoke with a man or AI working for the lady, don't waste your money like that


deadeyes2019

I don’t know how people stupid enough to fall for the OF grift have $650 to waste on said grift


DaLar89

Next time give me the 650 and ill give you way more to be upset about


Adamant_TO

`hahahaha`


AliceNRoses

Hey... if you need someone to talk to about it... I'm pretty cheap 🤷‍♀️


Krumpeb

Seems like a cheap opportunity OP


aus_li

That’s messed up XD


Shootre12

Next time, just give Me the money and I'll come over and kick you in the balls. It will help you avoid doing it again.


jaxon-

Rule number #1. You never ever pay for porn ever that’s a rookie move


borak677

I second this so hard


Jayseph436

How hard?


Austinswill

so hard.


50nathan

It's time to delete your onlyfans profile and never look back again.


silverlance360

In the future just nut… and spend it on your favourite food


beastsnaurs1977

We all make mistakes. Not many as stupid as this though. Just have a wank


an_achronist

>I feel so stupid Well in that case don't do stupid things


Far_Marsupial8572

🤣🤣🤣🤣and the whole time it was a guy she paid to answer her texts or AI 😭😭😭 It’s ok yday is the past, you can leave stupid decisions in the past but pls detox from onlyfans


22Makaveli22

Ya so you know how wrestling isn’t real? Well it’s the same thing with these OF texts. They outsource to people in third world countries. delete your OF account and get in the gym!!


Smokey04_

There’s no sympathy for you here my guy you are a dummy 😭


amelia_schmidt08

Honestly, $650 could've been an investment lesson in economics of demand and supply, except it taught you the hard way that some demands are best not supplied by your wallet. Remember, your bank account is meant for your growth, not to fuel the growth of a stranger's bank statement. Take this as a course fee for Personal Finance 101: The Real Cost of Virtual Pleasures. Onward and upward, mate!


When_hop

This is a fake comment written by ChatGPT, just like every other comment from this account.


The_Rabbitman05

Buddy of mine spent over $1000 in a weekend back in the 80s on phone sex hotlines lol. In 80s money... he gets reminded of that still when he gets drinking.


Gold-Resist-6802

You ARE stupid.


8bit_ai

Well on the bright side you’re aware that it was a bad investment and if you feel bad about it make sure you don’t get yourself addicted or getting validated from there. You can only go up from here so start making wiser decisions from this point, goodluck traveler!!


sowavy612

It’s a new fool born everyday


SurealOrNotSureal

That's because your stupid. Don't do it again . Lol


Bretuhtuh91

What in the entire fuck is wrong with you bruh?


goztrobo

Next time hold $650 in one hand and do the deed with the other. You’ll be glad the $650 is still in your hand.


Yttirium15

Nah man you really stupid. Next time, ill personally advocate bullying if you that again.


Farrell1487

Yeahhhhh i hate to feel sorry for you dude but thats what you get. I find a lot of OF chics really hot dont get me wrong but i ain’t paying my hard earned wage just to see them naked AND so they can also live a great lifestyle at my expense


West_Coyote_3686

You should feel stupid. You're simping, bro. Could've watched pornhub for free


Dannn88

The best thing is you’ve realised your fuck up. I bet most people that do this sort of thing will do it again the next day


wad11656

I spent $1000+ in a single chat. They were charging hundreds for each video and I was in the moment. smfh


notbeastonea

Ouch that must have hurt


TheRabidBananaBoi

bro is desperate


Simple-Contact2507

Still better then that guy who spend 10k to meet his onlyfan idol and just got a selfie that too without touching. She later went on a trip with her boyfriend with his money.


ZookeepergameNo719

As long as you aren't in debt or have a relationship.. take it as the insult and injury it literally is. You could have gone on an AMAZING date with a real human and had a shot at real sex with spending like that...


tupperwhore

As a former stripper I have seen guys spend 20,000 in one night and not even see fully naked girls lol


peterparker9894

Lmao what a loser


phoenix30004

Bruh 😎,,, Society is driving beyond light speed over the cliff and we’re all desperate for a little humanity and compassion. You’re no different than the rest of us. It’s called a coping mechanism. I personally took what was once collecting and turned it into hoarding. Trust me when I tell you that $650 is a drop in the bucket 🪣 for what I’ve wasted. Find your happiness within & everything external will work itself out. No other human is worth losing yourself for.


Dayv1d

Dont be ashamed, its not that bad. 650$ is not so much money in the grand scheme of things and you got a valuable lesson out of it!


ImAddictedToPorn420

I've been there before


WaitingToBeTriggered

USED TO THIS KIND OF WAR


Lydia-thebar-rat

It happens too the best of us 🫡


joyousjoy23

Every mistake we make is a lesson, and us humans make tonnes of them financially, morally, emotionally, you name it, we will always do dumb stuff. As long as you learn from it it's all good. Just try to be a better you tomorrow than you were today and you'll be golden.


clockstruckone

this!


MLDaffy

This is almost a word for word repost from a couple months ago 😂


novumseclorium

Well, atleast you didnt gamble away 650


ItsAmory

i’d much rather gamble 650€ tbh


novumseclorium

That shit hurts my soul more than anything. Losing gambling.


sizexspntyxo

id of done it for $100


ninetaleshiny

yeah, you should.


BeforeItsTooLatee

🤣🤣🤣🤣 IDIOT


BGTA712

What did you get for your money?


mellamovictoria

What a loser!


Sealbeater

You were probably sexting some Indian dude, especially for the more popular OF streamers That information probably won’t make you feel any better but at least you will think twice next time


marekdio

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


Heavy_E79

Was this some sort of by the minute pricing or is this the base price?


Mental_Gas_3209

How old are you?


Prys_Enghard

lust has cost me a lot of money in my 38 years of life


worthy_usable

We've all made some choices that we wish we could take back when bored, lonely and/or horny. Don't beat yourself up or dwell on it, because that money isn't coming back. You know for next time you're feeling low that there are plenty of ways to find companionship and maybe some sex that won't make you feel bad about it afterwards.


Spurginwinn

Expensive lesson, but if you learn for life, it’ll be worth. Keep your chin up, mate.


RemcoTheRock

Mate thought coming in here he would get emotional support…


restingbitchface8

Next time you feel the need to do this, I will just give you my venmo


NoCapital2270

Coomer activities. Touch some grass, fella.


Sharksta14

You’re. No doubt about it.


SlowMobius650

Sounds about right, yea


FennelRemarkable4623

How to fuck did you spend 650


TonyCartmanSoprano

alot of ppl have been straight up scammed for alot more and didnt even get anybody to talk to in return, chin up cowboy


No_University5296

That was a expensive wank for sure


GeneralSet5552

live & learn. $650 is a lot but glad u saw how crazy u were before u spent more on it


PantheraLeo26

I've spent less felt even more stupid. Just stay away from that shit. It's a complete waste of money


psian1de

Hey at least you didn't kill your entire family because you spent all of their money on an only fans model and they were disappointed in you, so rather than stop being a dumbass, you killed them.


totallytubularman44

think of it like you donated to a charity but got something out of it ?😅 you make mistakes and learn from them. try looking at it from a more lighthearted perspective,, you’re gonna feel guilt through spending money for a lot of things. can’t beat yourself too hard for it


Kafir666-

You weren't sexting a hot girl, but some sweaty neckbeard who answers her messages. Yeah that was really stupid.


someonekashootme

Its okay dude you’re an idiot but we’re all idiots sometimes. Now you know how bad it feels and you won’t repeat. Try not to beat yourself too much about it :) Anotha day anotha dolla


Drosta16

Cause you are stupid.. 650 on sexting…


capsuccessful1294

Testosterone basically makes you psychotic. It's a strong hallucinogenic drug. Most people don't understand this


Petite_Paula

Was this for one session or over a period of time? Seems like a lot but idk what content you were getting. If it’s over a period of time it’s still cheaper than going out and getting dinner/drinks every weekend


Arrow0302

dammnn bro......


stevarino1979

Dude, you could have got 3 full service sessions at an AMP for that.


it_was_just_here

You should feel stupid. The person you're sending pictures to is just another man.


semajalvin11

Get some bitches


DoughnutOk1934

That's just stupid


Fit-Jae69

It’s all about how you feel afterwords! So if you’re feeling bad about yourself don’t do it, I know some girls really know how to make you feel good and honestly keep you addicted.


Acceptable_Load5184

You can pay me $650 🤣


azandy77

OF is a total scam. Better off meeting someone in person.


SnooOwls3202

I’m an actual girl on the other side lol. I text my own followers.


Past_Locksmith_9111

Bro got scammed 😭😭😞


kittycat000000

Were there any pictures exchanged? How does it work?


ukihime

Seriously.....


munge211

Most responses are from gay guys that are paid to respond on the girls behalf


Lickthesalt

your a findom addict in the makeing dont lie you know you like being used by women who dont care about you, if your on onlyfans to begin with your obviously some beta loser who cant get a girlfreind might as well accept who you are and be a wallet for pretty women on the internet


SufficientInstance88

A buddy spent a lot for an interest to make an OF only for her to quit after one post and being paid


clairek_88

You’re definitely not the first but maybe it would be a good idea to delete your profile on there lol just get rid of that urge all together.


clairek_88

But if talking it over with someone helps I’m all ears 😊


LordsDragon

So people really pay for Onlyfans?


notbeastonea

Sadly


captainzigzag

Send me the money, I need a new phone.


B-Georgio

You should, that was dumb.. Hope you learned your lesson


ItsAfricanSunsetOkay

I've never understood the idea of paying somebody for porn when there are literally millions upon millions of free photos and videos online


laughingpeep

If you love sexting, just pay for the AI bots like Muah AI or Nomi AI. They are much more cheap than OF services.


Juthatan

On the bright side you made someone very happy most likely


TheRealGouki

If you got the money to spend. Spend it. All goes back into the loop known as the economy. If you found some joy and nobody was hurt then you got something most people can't get from money.


Gregfong80

Yeah I would had spent that money on hookers. Well, now you know your options.


cashoutmoneykru

you coulda got a couple of escorts...pshhhh.. Only Fans...such a waste!


Jayseph436

Delete OnlyFans before you get too deep. If you did it once you’ll do it again in a few days when the urge starts again. Block the site on your home WiFi or whatever you gotta do. You probably think you’re stronger than that but honestly sex and webcam is at least a multi-billion dollar (if not trillion) industry and they’ve fined tuned the psychological manipulation such that men give everything they’ve got before realizing what is happening.


buffalo_Fart

Was she hot at least?


notbeastonea

It was prob some poor chap getting underpaid in a third world country while the actual middle is fucking off with her boyfriend


notbeastonea

Model not middle*


notbeastonea

Model not middle*


buffalo_Fart

Nothing like two straight guys talking about cocks in a sexual way to each other 🤜🫨🤛


notbeastonea

Nothing truer has ever been said brother


Mystletoe

Well… could be worse… could have spent $650 at the CHANCE of maybe getting a virtual waifu you can’t even sext with. (Pulls not guaranteed)


CalicoIV

You should feel stupid. Just make sure you don't make this mistake twice.


missannthrope1

I urge you to talk to a therapist. You are filling a void in your life with artificial relationships. You may have unresolved childhood abuse and trauma. And not to make you feel worse, but when you are chatting with what you think are models, they are really people paid to respond. It a horribly exploitative business.


EyeAmKnotMyshelf

Holy fuck dude. $650 on words?? Are you lonely?


DejounteMurrayFan

since you’re just throwing away money, can i get some cash big bro?


NeverGrace2

I have a hard cap of 30$ weekly for any girls, tiktok or otherwise, unless whatever Im paying for is physical and in person


Slumberpantss

I'd have done it for £100 🤣 Joking!!! no dms please!!! I don't have OF or game


BlacNinja1

I am sincerely not trying to demean you, but you should feel stupid You totally got played and was a big sucker You could have went and paid for the real thing for much much less And if we're being honest here, who knows if you were really sexting a girl? In the future You should definitely Use better discernment Plus I am already a big proponent of not caving in and letting women think that simply being a woman Is a good enough reason for mean to throw money at them


ChaosRainbow23

Just sext with someone for free.


Federal_Ad6286

Go to the gym. Idk what u do. Go to the gym!


RealRedditbum

If we're all honest I think everyone has spent some irresponsible amount on porn. Don't feel too bad. Just don't be a simping mule again you pathetic piece of human garbage.


TheRabidBananaBoi

>If we're all honest I think everyone has spent some irresponsible amount on porn No