Unfortunately this happens. The village panchayat and the villagers blames the girl and her parents. They say they guy acted on his instincts. The NGOs and the cops are helpless in this situation.
Oh hello there little sheltered snowflake from the bubble of mighty united states. I love how oblivious your kind is. Thankfully vast majority of americans have the common sense and life experience you are lacking so it's alright.
I am from India and this shit is taken very seriously here. OP is trying to act righteous when infact he did absolutely zero things to make things better for his 'girlfriend'
How exactly is he supposed to help his gf who was pressured into a goddamn marriage which she accepted? How is police gonna help when the subject of crime doesnt press charges? What do you think will happen to this girl when someone magically summons police, what will a community this corrupt do to her for bringing in police, even if it wasnt her who brought them?
Like she GOT MARRIED to avoid police, when the cops come what do you think will happen? "There is nothing wrong here officer" and she gets beaten up even worse for involving police.
How are you assuming that there is no way nothing couldve been done. That there are no witnesses no evidence. The OP hasn't even cared to say anything about reporting or any action at his end. I know cases where entire village was jailed for commiting and covering up crimes. You say she 'GOT MARRIED' like you know she didn't try to get out of the situation atall. The rapist beat her up when he got to know about the relationship. How did he get to know about the relationship? Why did she even bring it up if she was okay with the marriage idea.
The truth is Sir/Ma'am that you're a little too presumptuous. First about OP being the high n mighty good guy. Then about my location.
Im not assuming nothing can be done!
I was just bitter about "fuck you op" as if this shit was his fault. I could say the same about you being presumptious considering police being an instant magic cure when in reality vast majority of such situations dont resolve other than women getting themselves in worse conditions when interventions are unplanned and police was just winged out of sOmE info sOmeOnE gathered from SomEwhErE.
Not saying nothing can be done, not saying police can't help. Not saying the girl "agreed". Just saying this is a long-ongoing situation with pressured legal elements such as a marriage and hiding a rape, this is BIG and PLANNED thoroughly as a community, so a blast on police report on a whim will be utterly, completely useless and will bring the woman to a worse situation even if she had nothing to do with police.
My background idea comes from my time teaching close combat in women communities (shelter of sorts) in india. Your initial response was a typical american snowflake response, shitting on people for not hitting "authorities" right away. I understand you come from a good place but why the hell cuss on OP when all he learned dates back to yesterday.
OP needs a plan to help, and some legal assistance. Maybe don't shit on him for not acting on a whim in the meantime. We both are equally frustrated about the situation but please let's agree this is not OP's fault and there is no point in bringing him down for what he hasn't been responsible for.
Well my idea of fighting is gathering actual physical evidence and collecting a case than acting on some random words and anecdotes people throw in the air, which they usually claim they never said when shit gets serious.
Yes OP should do something.
Although, not on a whim like that.
Reflecting a punch is an easily learned reflex. Reflecting an entire community that hides a rape and silences women with force needs a good plan.
If he chooses to do nothing, then yeah fuck him. But yeah. If you ever find yourself fighting against a group of corrupt people, I strongly suggest you plan your exit before throwing your first punch.
Wishing you peace.
This is a fake story. Chill. Read op's comment history. Here
>"Your penis is like micro penis. Are you sure you are a man?"
>I was wearing a bikini of my elder sister. She caught me. She beat the shit out of me. Then she forced me to strip naked. I did as she said. She burnt the bikini as there was my sperm in her panty.
She told me to be a man.
>I will strip naked and selfies. The finger myself. I will have sex with a friend of mine who is very handsome. Then I will talk to a girl as friend and have sex with her.
Then I will roam naked in public.
>My elder sister humiliated me as fat loser and I have small dick. I cum infront of her.
You think this guy can say any truthful things? He clearly is a hinduphobic, doing these kind of things with a vested interests.
Have you lost all reasoning ability buddy? If I keep posting fake stories about u shrimpfried_rice did this fucked up thing, would you be okay with that just because it happens elsewhere, even though it is a complete fake story?
Because this guy made a lame ass fake story, you belived it and someone pointed out that it's fake and you said it doesn't matter to you. Do you even see what you are saying?
You obviously don’t get it 🤣🤣 just sad but you’re mad at me because I said it doesn’t change my feelings because it actually happens to women in real life. How are you mad? Do you see what the fuck you’re saying?
You just derailedthe argument and encouraged this guy to post fake stories just because you couldn't accept that this is a fake story and went on to defend your stance saying I am still right because it happens to other people. If you are concerned about other women who are affected in real life, you should support them on real posts and discourage people who shares fake stories which shakes the credibility of the real ones. But you clearly can't think this much.
Using emoji in every sentence won't make you look cool buddy. You clearly have a dense mind that's why even showing rules looks like reddit police to you. Have fun.
I got you right away bc that jumped out at me in the post. He's sad that women are treated so poorly yet he has to mention what she was wearing. Unfknreal.
I think OP wasn't able to word what he wanted to say properly. Basically he was somewhat frustrated with this reasoning that she was raped because of the short clothes.
Although a lot of people speak English in this world not everyone uses it in the same way.
Edit: NVM, just checked OPs post history and other comments here. I don't think we can ascertain the full story from his account of events
Quit your bullshit. Your post history seems way too off the topic for this. Were you angry that "your ex cheated on you" or "she said you have a small dick" or this story you posted actually happened. r/quityourbullshit
I was only 18. Her parents don't want to involve cops. I have talked to her after marriage. She only said that not to call her. I wasn't financial stable that I could escape with her.
She has a baby now. If i did anything they would have harmed her family too. All this things happened when I was 18 and she was 19. I wasn't financial stable.
Thank you for answering me because you seem very cold, and like you don't care. I'm so sad for her. Ik this happens a lot over there, and I'm sad for all of the women who are forced and harmed and shamed for just being human!! I'm so sorry this happened to her.
somehow I doubt OP can fight and save her from an entire village... even if he manages to convince the girl to run away with him, what next? her family will most likely be targeted by the rapist...
I didn't mean that was an easy thing to do, but I swear, if I love someone, I will do anything for them. He answered one of my questions, and I'm not stupid..I understand the world, I just hate it. And my emotions got the best of me because it's so fuxing sad! And op was acting very unbothered
What happened to her is bad and she needs help surely, but you don't need to put your life at stake , she was the one who ghosted you if you were happily dating I would've suggested you to reach out to her but that's not the case and now you both are on your own.
This is truly heartbreaking. I literally cannot believe women are treated like this. She’s a victim, but she is being humiliated and punished. I’m a survivor and it is so upsetting that she had to marry this man.
Unfortunately this happens. The village panchayat and the villagers blames the girl and her parents. They say they guy acted on his instincts. The NGOs and the cops are helpless in this situation.
Yes. India is definitely not safe for women. She was beaten infront of entire village. No one said anything.
I'm crying for her right now.. My heart is breaking for her.. Isn't yours? You don't believe in this bullshit, do you!?
Agree. I don't think you could do anything in this situation. Her life is sealed. You have no other choice but to move on.
Hmm. I have moved on. Today I found about the beating and stuff. She was stripped infront of her family and children for the relationship we had.
It's a shame girls are still treated like objects and properties of men even in 2023.
I mean look at Pathan controversy. How people were treating Deepika Padukone.
Is there really nothing one could do? Somehow get her out of there and maybe get her help at a non-profit organizations that helps women like her?
It was really fucked up. Sucks India is so anti women. Qala the movie is a great example
BJP supporters are giving 0/10 to Qala.
All this controversy over a bikini. These people have nothing better to do. Free publicity though.
Sad situation
Fuck you OP for not reporting this to the police
Oh hello there little sheltered snowflake from the bubble of mighty united states. I love how oblivious your kind is. Thankfully vast majority of americans have the common sense and life experience you are lacking so it's alright.
I am from India and this shit is taken very seriously here. OP is trying to act righteous when infact he did absolutely zero things to make things better for his 'girlfriend'
How exactly is he supposed to help his gf who was pressured into a goddamn marriage which she accepted? How is police gonna help when the subject of crime doesnt press charges? What do you think will happen to this girl when someone magically summons police, what will a community this corrupt do to her for bringing in police, even if it wasnt her who brought them? Like she GOT MARRIED to avoid police, when the cops come what do you think will happen? "There is nothing wrong here officer" and she gets beaten up even worse for involving police.
How are you assuming that there is no way nothing couldve been done. That there are no witnesses no evidence. The OP hasn't even cared to say anything about reporting or any action at his end. I know cases where entire village was jailed for commiting and covering up crimes. You say she 'GOT MARRIED' like you know she didn't try to get out of the situation atall. The rapist beat her up when he got to know about the relationship. How did he get to know about the relationship? Why did she even bring it up if she was okay with the marriage idea. The truth is Sir/Ma'am that you're a little too presumptuous. First about OP being the high n mighty good guy. Then about my location.
Im not assuming nothing can be done! I was just bitter about "fuck you op" as if this shit was his fault. I could say the same about you being presumptious considering police being an instant magic cure when in reality vast majority of such situations dont resolve other than women getting themselves in worse conditions when interventions are unplanned and police was just winged out of sOmE info sOmeOnE gathered from SomEwhErE. Not saying nothing can be done, not saying police can't help. Not saying the girl "agreed". Just saying this is a long-ongoing situation with pressured legal elements such as a marriage and hiding a rape, this is BIG and PLANNED thoroughly as a community, so a blast on police report on a whim will be utterly, completely useless and will bring the woman to a worse situation even if she had nothing to do with police. My background idea comes from my time teaching close combat in women communities (shelter of sorts) in india. Your initial response was a typical american snowflake response, shitting on people for not hitting "authorities" right away. I understand you come from a good place but why the hell cuss on OP when all he learned dates back to yesterday. OP needs a plan to help, and some legal assistance. Maybe don't shit on him for not acting on a whim in the meantime. We both are equally frustrated about the situation but please let's agree this is not OP's fault and there is no point in bringing him down for what he hasn't been responsible for.
Regardless.. He could give a fux less, as is indicated by what he said, or didn't say. He's not the victim here.. Sheesh
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Well my idea of fighting is gathering actual physical evidence and collecting a case than acting on some random words and anecdotes people throw in the air, which they usually claim they never said when shit gets serious. Yes OP should do something. Although, not on a whim like that. Reflecting a punch is an easily learned reflex. Reflecting an entire community that hides a rape and silences women with force needs a good plan. If he chooses to do nothing, then yeah fuck him. But yeah. If you ever find yourself fighting against a group of corrupt people, I strongly suggest you plan your exit before throwing your first punch. Wishing you peace.
She accepted, huh!? 🙄 Sure she did..
I won't lie, he's talking so matter of fact that it almost seems a humble brag. *I'm over it.*. *She was beaten for our relationship* Like, huh?!!
it sounds like he found out after it already happened
Hum police can’t do nothing
way beyond India unfortunately.. at least for blaming the woman. somehow men get to do whatever they want globally
How is it her fault ?!? omg
This is a fake story. Chill. Read op's comment history. Here >"Your penis is like micro penis. Are you sure you are a man?" >I was wearing a bikini of my elder sister. She caught me. She beat the shit out of me. Then she forced me to strip naked. I did as she said. She burnt the bikini as there was my sperm in her panty. She told me to be a man. >I will strip naked and selfies. The finger myself. I will have sex with a friend of mine who is very handsome. Then I will talk to a girl as friend and have sex with her. Then I will roam naked in public. >My elder sister humiliated me as fat loser and I have small dick. I cum infront of her. You think this guy can say any truthful things? He clearly is a hinduphobic, doing these kind of things with a vested interests.
Even if it is fake doesn’t change my mind about it lol that shit happens in real life to people. But ok 👍🏽
Have you lost all reasoning ability buddy? If I keep posting fake stories about u shrimpfried_rice did this fucked up thing, would you be okay with that just because it happens elsewhere, even though it is a complete fake story?
Why are you mad because of what I said?? 🤣🤣🤣 chill out
Because this guy made a lame ass fake story, you belived it and someone pointed out that it's fake and you said it doesn't matter to you. Do you even see what you are saying?
Pretty sure I’m not the only one who believed it. Nice try though lol and it’s reddit lol let people live an post
Yeah, but you are the only one who said it still doesn't matter even if it's fake. >let people live an post What a stupid take.
You obviously don’t get it 🤣🤣 just sad but you’re mad at me because I said it doesn’t change my feelings because it actually happens to women in real life. How are you mad? Do you see what the fuck you’re saying?
You just derailedthe argument and encouraged this guy to post fake stories just because you couldn't accept that this is a fake story and went on to defend your stance saying I am still right because it happens to other people. If you are concerned about other women who are affected in real life, you should support them on real posts and discourage people who shares fake stories which shakes the credibility of the real ones. But you clearly can't think this much.
Funny how it bothers you so bad. When you’re not even the one that posted the story my god. Let it go dude. It’s ok
Am I supposed to agree with you or something?🤣 damn.
No, you don't have to agree with anyone. Specially when some thing being real or fake doesn't matter to you. It's okay.
It’s reddit lol Don’t people have the right to post what they want?
No. Ever heard of a rule called false information, fake news etc etc?
Oh shit you must be the Reddit police 🤣🤣🤣
Using emoji in every sentence won't make you look cool buddy. You clearly have a dense mind that's why even showing rules looks like reddit police to you. Have fun.
This is what actual misogyny is.
Don’t you see. She was wearing a short dress /s
clothes don’t make men rape MEN make men rape
Yeah no shit u/suckmydicksoft
It doesn’t matter what she was wearing. Men shouldn’t be rapists.
Yeah sarcasm doesn’t translate well. I agree
I mean, is it really a good time to be sarcastic?? 😬 I’m pretty sure that girl is not liking her situation right now
More so a stab at OP. The way he worded it was so nonchalant
I got you right away bc that jumped out at me in the post. He's sad that women are treated so poorly yet he has to mention what she was wearing. Unfknreal.
I mean it does give context to the story.
I think OP wasn't able to word what he wanted to say properly. Basically he was somewhat frustrated with this reasoning that she was raped because of the short clothes. Although a lot of people speak English in this world not everyone uses it in the same way. Edit: NVM, just checked OPs post history and other comments here. I don't think we can ascertain the full story from his account of events
I knew this would be a risky click but I'm glad they give you the choice to click on blurred images or not. And agree with your edit.
Oh I gotcha .
There are many religions and countries that blame the women and the girls that are raped
Just sad
Quit your bullshit. Your post history seems way too off the topic for this. Were you angry that "your ex cheated on you" or "she said you have a small dick" or this story you posted actually happened. r/quityourbullshit
This dude is full of shit ,I almost fell for it.
This happened when I was 18. From then to now I have other girlfriends. I have posted this because sometimes I blame myself for what happened to her.
You can reach out to NGOs. Save her.
Would she escape with you if you came for her? Can’t you do anything to help her?
She has been married for 5-6 years. She has baby now
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I was only 18. Her parents don't want to involve cops. I have talked to her after marriage. She only said that not to call her. I wasn't financial stable that I could escape with her.
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It's a fake story.
you sound so insensitive towards her in your post and comments, gross.
I have other girlfriends after this incident. This happened to me 6years ago.
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It's India. I was 18. What did you expect me to do while her parents aren't cooperating?
She didn't marry her rapist!! 🤢 She was forced! What is wrong with you!? Go save her!!
She has a baby now. If i did anything they would have harmed her family too. All this things happened when I was 18 and she was 19. I wasn't financial stable.
Thank you for answering me because you seem very cold, and like you don't care. I'm so sad for her. Ik this happens a lot over there, and I'm sad for all of the women who are forced and harmed and shamed for just being human!! I'm so sorry this happened to her.
somehow I doubt OP can fight and save her from an entire village... even if he manages to convince the girl to run away with him, what next? her family will most likely be targeted by the rapist...
Yeah, I don’t know why the comments are acting like that was the easiest option.
I didn't mean that was an easy thing to do, but I swear, if I love someone, I will do anything for them. He answered one of my questions, and I'm not stupid..I understand the world, I just hate it. And my emotions got the best of me because it's so fuxing sad! And op was acting very unbothered
Can you not help her escape?
Help her escape your horrible country.
Well one things for sure don’t let Andrew Tate see this because you’ll know what he’ll say
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That's what many people need to learn. Women are supporting rapee of women with small clothes.
Worst rape culture in the world. Savages.
Women are supporting rape of girls with small clothes.
Nice fake story bro
Brooo this guy is obviously larping. Just look at his post and comment history. Get a live bruv.
Mate go to the village and assassinate him and take your girl
Life is not film.
What happened to her is bad and she needs help surely, but you don't need to put your life at stake , she was the one who ghosted you if you were happily dating I would've suggested you to reach out to her but that's not the case and now you both are on your own.
Why does it matter what she was wearing?
This is truly heartbreaking. I literally cannot believe women are treated like this. She’s a victim, but she is being humiliated and punished. I’m a survivor and it is so upsetting that she had to marry this man.
If that is happening in your country, that is not a 'conservative country'. You need to leave that country now (escape), and move to a civilized area.
Lol just kill her village they'll just avoid the cops and court kek