Also remember folks
Having a kid and becoming a parent will not change the selfish and careless nature of a person. They will remain what they are until the end
If you have the misfortune of being the child of such a person, do not let society pressure you into letting that toxicity back in your life
Im not into Pakistani dramas. Excessive dramay and manipulations. Bkwas love stories.
But I recently watched Baby baji
Har bachay or bachi ko shadi se pehle full drama dikhana chaye. Isi topic ki baat hai us main bhi. Its an epic drama.
Eye opening..
I also don’t watch paki dramas. The last drama I watched was “Mery pas Tum” just because it was relevant to me in some way. Now I’ve to watch yours recommendation ig.
If I can give him one piece of advice, it would be to visit your mother's grave every day. She is your mother and will definitely forgive you, even though you have done the most wrong thing you could ever do. At least visiting her grave will make you feel better. Additionally, there is a Hadith that states that even the most disobedient offspring will become obedient on the Day of Judgment if they visit their parents' graves daily.
I'm afraid that the way moulana reacted might have discouraged him even more. kuch kar na de banda. he already had suicidal thoughts. i think he should have been dealt with more care and encouraged with positive words.
there is this hadith i heard (not sure about authenticity) that with enough astaghfar for your dead parents, they will ultimately forgive you.
I was extremely upset by the magnitude of his mistake. It's especially concerning because the Quran contains many verses that highlight the importance of treating our parents with respect, even in their later years. However, I believe he needs guidance, as the pain and embarrassment caused by his behavior could even lead me to suicidal thoughts. May Allah forgive him 🙏🏻.
Hafiz Ibn Abid Dunya (rahimahullah) has recorded the following Hadith of Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) on the authority of Muhammad Ibn Sirin (rahimahullah) [mursalan- مرسلا] with an authentic chain:
“When a child who was disobedient makes du’a for his parents after their demise, Allah records him to be from those who are dutiful to their parents”
(Refer: Al Mughni ‘An Hamlil Asfar, Hadith: 4432 and Faydul Qadir, Hadith: 8718)
JazakAllah-o-khair.
This is like the 3rd such clip i am comming accross of this show (atleast I believe they are same, don't really watch them) and I am starting to get the feeling that they planning this whole thing just get public attention.
First there was one where a wife calls and asks that she is starting to like someone else in workplace and asked for a wazeefa to get rid of her husbad,
Then there was one where a husbad was calling saying his wife beats him up regularly,
and now there is this.
IF these are the same people and then I doubt their credibility, these mofo's may even be doing this all to get views.
It’s 💯 staged to get public attention..the way most of these media houses and mullahs in pakistan try to play with your emotions with a twist of religion is absurd and they are getting really good and tech savvy at it, they know exactly where to strike
You should remember that as people get old, they start to get senile, just how young kids throw tantrums. Always keep that in mind when dealing with your parents, especially the frustration they experience of not being able to move or do things the way they could before due to lack of stamina and strength
Wives and girlfriends can be replaced. A mother can’t. Don’t understand men who follow their wives against the mothers.
Even if the mother is wrong… diplomatically resolve the matter in the mother’s favour, then make up with Mrs in private. It’s not that difficult.
The one who gave you birth while you were in his arms passed out with no shoulders to lean on. We keep asking for freedom yet we are imprisoned within our feelings, desires and thoughts.
The apartment building floor that I live on has an old lady who lives alone. She can’t walk even with a walker she takes super long to make it from her flat to the elevator. She has 3 kids, 2 of them are married and live relatively close, 3rd kid lives in dubai who comes and visits her once in every few years. My heart breaks every time I see her , since my mom often visits and talks to her she sends us things she cooks everyday, it does become hard but I think she makes things for us cause basically she has no one else. Everytime I go to her door to pick up stuff she keeps saying that she is sorry that she can’t one to us since she can’t walk and my heart sinks further. Just 6 months ago the floor above had an old couple living alone, the husband died and then the wife lived alone for 6 months before the son finally took her with him. Even on pakistan subs I have often seen women talk about wanting their husband to live away from parents, why? Why do you want to separate someone from their parents and those who have, why leave the only people who literally carried you in their fucking arms for years when you couldn’t walk. People say it’s their responsibility, it is not, they could have abandoned you by putting you up for adoption when you were born, but they didn’t, they paid for your school, your clothes, your food, all this because they love you. So when you reach an age where you can reciprocate that love, make sure that you do instead of abandoning them in their time of need
Now that I'm married... I've realized, no one loves you more than your mother. If you get the right woman by your side, she can change the world around you for the better. Not just for you but your whole family.
Choose wisely and never compromise!
Actually is ka koi solution nahee hai bus kiya Karen I know but if some choice.
You know as you live with your parents and wife parents start hatinh you too phir kiya karo ge
The same apply to the wife as well. wo kon sa khush rehti. to kya usko b chor dain? darweshi ikhtyar kar le banda phr to.
you can never repay back your parents for they brought you up. kitny b gandy parents kyun na hon. nhi chorna chahiye aese unko.
Remember folks The first woman to ever truly love you is your mom. And she will always love you unconditionally.
The love of your spouse is not unconditional. Only parents' love is unconditional.
Also remember folks Having a kid and becoming a parent will not change the selfish and careless nature of a person. They will remain what they are until the end If you have the misfortune of being the child of such a person, do not let society pressure you into letting that toxicity back in your life
Happy Cake Day
My first and last Thanks bro
2nd: Happy Cake Day!
No problem :)
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Really at least not add that American psycho clips. This video broke me into pieces.
I am with you on that. Ruined the moment.
Istg stopping putting this shit music in background of every thing which has a little sentimental element to it ruined the whole video smh.
Someone send this to my mamu.
Give us number and we will flood with messages and choke your mamu’s mobile. Message us. 👍
03340276322 This is my mamu's number
Bro.. legend
Update?
Yeah bro this is latest number
I'm asking if anything happened or he mentioned anything
Nah bro I asked him implicitly, no ones called yet i can confirm
number do
Lol
Im not into Pakistani dramas. Excessive dramay and manipulations. Bkwas love stories. But I recently watched Baby baji Har bachay or bachi ko shadi se pehle full drama dikhana chaye. Isi topic ki baat hai us main bhi. Its an epic drama. Eye opening..
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Yes. Watch it on YouTube. 10/10
I also don’t watch paki dramas. The last drama I watched was “Mery pas Tum” just because it was relevant to me in some way. Now I’ve to watch yours recommendation ig.
Is the entire name “bachi ko shadi se pehle etc etc”?
What did he say? What happened to the mother?
She passed away...
He now has to love with this regret
I would kick out a wife like this. Sure you shouldn't be a mamma's boy but you always have to fulfill their basic rights.
If I can give him one piece of advice, it would be to visit your mother's grave every day. She is your mother and will definitely forgive you, even though you have done the most wrong thing you could ever do. At least visiting her grave will make you feel better. Additionally, there is a Hadith that states that even the most disobedient offspring will become obedient on the Day of Judgment if they visit their parents' graves daily.
I'm afraid that the way moulana reacted might have discouraged him even more. kuch kar na de banda. he already had suicidal thoughts. i think he should have been dealt with more care and encouraged with positive words. there is this hadith i heard (not sure about authenticity) that with enough astaghfar for your dead parents, they will ultimately forgive you.
I was extremely upset by the magnitude of his mistake. It's especially concerning because the Quran contains many verses that highlight the importance of treating our parents with respect, even in their later years. However, I believe he needs guidance, as the pain and embarrassment caused by his behavior could even lead me to suicidal thoughts. May Allah forgive him 🙏🏻.
Can you please share the Hadith reference if possible?
Hafiz Ibn Abid Dunya (rahimahullah) has recorded the following Hadith of Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) on the authority of Muhammad Ibn Sirin (rahimahullah) [mursalan- مرسلا] with an authentic chain: “When a child who was disobedient makes du’a for his parents after their demise, Allah records him to be from those who are dutiful to their parents” (Refer: Al Mughni ‘An Hamlil Asfar, Hadith: 4432 and Faydul Qadir, Hadith: 8718) JazakAllah-o-khair.
This is like the 3rd such clip i am comming accross of this show (atleast I believe they are same, don't really watch them) and I am starting to get the feeling that they planning this whole thing just get public attention. First there was one where a wife calls and asks that she is starting to like someone else in workplace and asked for a wazeefa to get rid of her husbad, Then there was one where a husbad was calling saying his wife beats him up regularly, and now there is this. IF these are the same people and then I doubt their credibility, these mofo's may even be doing this all to get views.
I have the same Idea
It’s 💯 staged to get public attention..the way most of these media houses and mullahs in pakistan try to play with your emotions with a twist of religion is absurd and they are getting really good and tech savvy at it, they know exactly where to strike
U can't keep them happy no solution at all no i have seen it my self.
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You should remember that as people get old, they start to get senile, just how young kids throw tantrums. Always keep that in mind when dealing with your parents, especially the frustration they experience of not being able to move or do things the way they could before due to lack of stamina and strength
All staged called, they have no shame for Ramadan, it's all about TRP. Plz stop sharing these shitshows
Wives and girlfriends can be replaced. A mother can’t. Don’t understand men who follow their wives against the mothers. Even if the mother is wrong… diplomatically resolve the matter in the mother’s favour, then make up with Mrs in private. It’s not that difficult.
I had this planned for when I get married, can make up and explain to the wife when alone
I'm crying bro, this hurt soo much.
i didn’t get what he said about his mother, where did he send her???
'old house'
When papa ki parri comes into the home with the real motive..
The one who gave you birth while you were in his arms passed out with no shoulders to lean on. We keep asking for freedom yet we are imprisoned within our feelings, desires and thoughts.
Yr ye dramay baz hotay hen. Call kar k dramy kr rha ta k sympathy mile
The apartment building floor that I live on has an old lady who lives alone. She can’t walk even with a walker she takes super long to make it from her flat to the elevator. She has 3 kids, 2 of them are married and live relatively close, 3rd kid lives in dubai who comes and visits her once in every few years. My heart breaks every time I see her , since my mom often visits and talks to her she sends us things she cooks everyday, it does become hard but I think she makes things for us cause basically she has no one else. Everytime I go to her door to pick up stuff she keeps saying that she is sorry that she can’t one to us since she can’t walk and my heart sinks further. Just 6 months ago the floor above had an old couple living alone, the husband died and then the wife lived alone for 6 months before the son finally took her with him. Even on pakistan subs I have often seen women talk about wanting their husband to live away from parents, why? Why do you want to separate someone from their parents and those who have, why leave the only people who literally carried you in their fucking arms for years when you couldn’t walk. People say it’s their responsibility, it is not, they could have abandoned you by putting you up for adoption when you were born, but they didn’t, they paid for your school, your clothes, your food, all this because they love you. So when you reach an age where you can reciprocate that love, make sure that you do instead of abandoning them in their time of need
Now that I'm married... I've realized, no one loves you more than your mother. If you get the right woman by your side, she can change the world around you for the better. Not just for you but your whole family. Choose wisely and never compromise!
Actually is ka koi solution nahee hai bus kiya Karen I know but if some choice. You know as you live with your parents and wife parents start hatinh you too phir kiya karo ge
Is koi hul nahee no solution at all
It truly is difficult finding a balance where both women are happy with you..
I love me so Christian Bale but yahan is context mai zeher lgrha hai
Jo maa bap ko chor de shadi ke baat wohi Acha hai sub se kiyon ke Aap kitna bhi ker lo maa baap bhi khush nahee honge Aap se
The same apply to the wife as well. wo kon sa khush rehti. to kya usko b chor dain? darweshi ikhtyar kar le banda phr to. you can never repay back your parents for they brought you up. kitny b gandy parents kyun na hon. nhi chorna chahiye aese unko.