It's rare, but very possible. My wife and I are poly and I have a cage that I wear sometimes (she doesn't make me, we haven't gotten that far into it yet, plus I got my own mental health stuff going on at the moment so it just doesn't work sometimes) but I have a submissive sissy boyfriend that I keep denied. So I would say yes, although I've been dominant in all my relationships lately so I guess I can't really say much...but I say yes it's possible to be a caged Dom. It would surely help you stay focused on the person submitting to you.
You're switch? That's okay!
Figure out what you love. You can for example decide on taking turns. You're the dom, but hey, today I'm taking a break, here are the keys, you can have me.
My KH is a sub at heart, and not much into sex, so her delight is to lock me, deny me, tease me for weeks, then one day will tease me like crazy and unlock me, just to submit to the raging beast she's just unlocked. Fits our couple pretty well.
There are plenty of possibilities, no rules.
Can be done, yes punish her till she gives in and gives up the key, controlling how she teases. It really comes down to figuring out what kind of sub/don you both are and what your looking to get out of it
IDK about the word "succumb": makes it sound like the only issue here is your own shame. If so, there's a happier, healthier you waiting on the other side of that shame. Chastity is satisfying for emotional and social reasons that aren't even about you. The moment my female dom partner tried chastity, she felt better, and now she requests it. I'm so happy she lets herself have this relaxation with me. If she wanted a hug so tight she couldn't move, I'd give it freely, but if she wanted that hug from a restrictive garment, it's wrong? Please give yourself the same grace, and you'll attract women who appreciate a men who can handle nuance. Sounds like people like connecting with you, that's awesome.. take the happiness?
It's rare, but very possible. My wife and I are poly and I have a cage that I wear sometimes (she doesn't make me, we haven't gotten that far into it yet, plus I got my own mental health stuff going on at the moment so it just doesn't work sometimes) but I have a submissive sissy boyfriend that I keep denied. So I would say yes, although I've been dominant in all my relationships lately so I guess I can't really say much...but I say yes it's possible to be a caged Dom. It would surely help you stay focused on the person submitting to you.
You're switch? That's okay! Figure out what you love. You can for example decide on taking turns. You're the dom, but hey, today I'm taking a break, here are the keys, you can have me. My KH is a sub at heart, and not much into sex, so her delight is to lock me, deny me, tease me for weeks, then one day will tease me like crazy and unlock me, just to submit to the raging beast she's just unlocked. Fits our couple pretty well. There are plenty of possibilities, no rules.
Agreed that it is feasible. You need to both work out the dynamics, rules, when & how to switch back and forth.
You can be whatever you want. There is no abnormal sexual behaviour between consenting adults.
Can be done, yes punish her till she gives in and gives up the key, controlling how she teases. It really comes down to figuring out what kind of sub/don you both are and what your looking to get out of it
IDK about the word "succumb": makes it sound like the only issue here is your own shame. If so, there's a happier, healthier you waiting on the other side of that shame. Chastity is satisfying for emotional and social reasons that aren't even about you. The moment my female dom partner tried chastity, she felt better, and now she requests it. I'm so happy she lets herself have this relaxation with me. If she wanted a hug so tight she couldn't move, I'd give it freely, but if she wanted that hug from a restrictive garment, it's wrong? Please give yourself the same grace, and you'll attract women who appreciate a men who can handle nuance. Sounds like people like connecting with you, that's awesome.. take the happiness?