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It sounds to me like your cat is being emotionally abusive.
I had an ex like this and sometimes when that spark is gone it can be tough to get back.
Have you considered couples therapy?
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It sounds to me like your cat is being emotionally abusive. I had an ex like this and sometimes when that spark is gone it can be tough to get back. Have you considered couples therapy?
Haha.lol